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Has anyone truthfully ever hooked up with a famous person closeted gay man?!

I know this is going to get wild but why not .... share on.

by Anonymousreply 128Last Saturday at 2:52 PM

"famous"? no.

but i did hook up with a guy who won a dove award, contemporary christian music's highest honor!

by Anonymousreply 102/10/2021

I was once taken brutally from behind as Hugh Downs played on the television. His good eye was a beacon. It helped me focus.

by Anonymousreply 202/10/2021

Yeah, John Travolta fucked me in a gas station toilet once. He shouted Xenu when he shot his load.

by Anonymousreply 302/10/2021

My friend’s cousin said his neighbor’s son fucked Andy Cohen in his bad eye when they were younger.

by Anonymousreply 402/10/2021

R4 He has a good eye?

by Anonymousreply 502/10/2021

Telly Savalas ravaged my hole with his lollipop at a PA rest stop back in the mid-70s.

by Anonymousreply 602/10/2021

No, never. Not once.

by Anonymousreply 702/10/2021

You may have never heard of him, sort of a B or C actor. I hooked up with a guy back in my 20's who said he was bi and wanted to be an actor. We both lived in Hollywood, he worked in the Beverly Center in one of the restaurants. He used to cruse for guys in the steam room at the gym in Hollywood, not WeHo. He had a fake name separate from his stage name and real name, tried to pretend he was Italian. (actors still being fake even when off screen) I lost touch, think he got married and had kids.

And his name, Jason Gedrick.

by Anonymousreply 802/10/2021

Hooked up with a guy who played for the GB Packers back in my late teens. I had no idea who he was as I wasn't into football as a young gayling, but found out, later on through another random sexual escapade, who he was. Supposedly he was a pretty well-known sports figure for a few years. In addition to that, one of my good girlfriends also hooked up with one of the GB players only a few years ago as well. So the GB Packers are a bunch of sluts from what I gathered.

by Anonymousreply 902/10/2021


Chad Everett circa 1967

Alan Bates (1969). While he was in NYC for U.S. premie of Women In Love.

Also Frederick Combs, who played Donald in Boys In The Band. Only he was not closeted.

by Anonymousreply 1002/10/2021

Lol at the specific lies/fantasies on here. “Why yes, Chad Allen and Alan Bates at the height of their popularity...”

by Anonymousreply 1102/10/2021

Yes, Alan Bates during the U.S. premiere of Women in Love.

by Anonymousreply 1202/10/2021

Yes, D. H. Lawrence, in the bathroom of the Roxy Theater (NYC) during the premier of *Women in Love*, 1969. He nearly tore out one of my eyes!!

by Anonymousreply 1302/10/2021

A friend was in Orlando on business and took at a CL ad. A cute little redhead answered. They met in the lobby. My friend, who is pop-culture illiterate, asked him what he did for a living. The guy said "I'm an actor." My friend said "Oh! Are you working? I hear it's a tough business." The guy looked a little pissed and said "Yes, I'm working." They went upstairs and fucked. The redhead was an insatiable bottom.

It was Seth Green.

by Anonymousreply 1402/10/2021

R14 Wait, a closet case actor was pissed about NOT being recognized? Sure Jan.

by Anonymousreply 1502/10/2021

In a war between an actors ego and his career, which will win? It's at best 50-50.

by Anonymousreply 1602/10/2021

R11 I get your hesitation to believe any of these, as it is an anonymous message board. And most should be taken with a grain of salt. But it should be noted that when you live in an area that has a lot of actors, runs-in with them, sexual or otherwise, is not uncommon. My cousins lived in Burbank for years and they dated and met up with several well-known people. Granted, it was before any of them hit it big. One of my friends lived near the Guthrie Theater and hooked up with a lot of visiting actors performing in the shows. It's not as if well-known personalities in the media don't have the same urges for dark-room strange like the rest of the plebians.

by Anonymousreply 1702/10/2021

I once saw John Malkovich walking down the street in Pasadena.

Does that count for anything????

by Anonymousreply 1802/10/2021

Yes and not they were both most definitely not in the closet.

by Anonymousreply 1902/10/2021

R18, I was once right across the row of bins from John Lurie in a used record store on Prince St. in NYC. I am *pretty sure* he winked at me. Does that count??

by Anonymousreply 2002/10/2021

Jason Gedtick used to be in a million things - I remember in Murder in the First - that Steven Bochco thing in the 90s with Daniel Bengali and Stanley Tucci.

by Anonymousreply 2102/10/2021

I untruthfully hooked up with Armie Hammer and now he calls me Armie, and I call him Anonymous.

by Anonymousreply 2202/10/2021

I don't think either was in the closet but I hooked up with a Tony winner and a Grammy winner. Both were during my meth tweaking days so I won't name who they were.

by Anonymousreply 2302/10/2021

Does the pope shit in the woods?

by Anonymousreply 2402/10/2021

I had sex with Max von Essen a million years ago. He was closeted THEN.

by Anonymousreply 2502/10/2021

Patrick Vaughn after a play rehearsal

by Anonymousreply 2602/10/2021

Jason Gedrick looks right rough these days.

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by Anonymousreply 2702/10/2021

Yeah, I told my story about 50 Cent on here not that long ago.

by Anonymousreply 2802/10/2021

It's hilarious how some think that actors and other famous or very wealthy people are some sort of mystical beings who would never lower themselves to hobnob with the hoi polloi, much less hook up for sex with them. Let me tell you something about movie and TV stars. When the cameras aren't rolling they are little to no different than any other person. They get horny. They have sexual tastes many would be surprised at. Believe it or not some movie stars go for blue collar working studs and actively seek them out. George Michael was one of the top pop stars at one time, a man who could have bought the most incredible rent boys the world had to offer, but that didn't stop him from cruising public toilets for some dick, now did it?

Just because you've never been in the position to meet up with someone famous for sex or otherwise doesn't mean no one else has either.

by Anonymousreply 2902/10/2021

I once saw Matt Damon look at me from my tv screen. Does that count? I swear he did.

by Anonymousreply 3002/10/2021

A friend of mine said he cruised and hooked up with Grant Goodeve. It was in the mid 90's.

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by Anonymousreply 3302/10/2021

The most famous guy I ever did was once Mr. Oregon Leather, so no.

by Anonymousreply 3402/10/2021

I hooked up with Dack Rambo several times in the late 80's, we lived on the same street in NYC.

by Anonymousreply 3502/10/2021

He was doing both guys and gals and kept it all under wraps, but Carrot Top and I had an encounter in his buffed, eyeliner days.

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by Anonymousreply 3602/10/2021

^ dang these photo rules....

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by Anonymousreply 3702/10/2021

R36/R37, were you able to get through the session without puking?

by Anonymousreply 3802/10/2021

For those posting stories but NOT naming names, that's your right. But please consider:

This is Datalounge, an anonymous gay message board. No one can trace shit back to you.

This is Datalounge. We probably won't believe you anyway.

by Anonymousreply 3902/10/2021

R35 Dack was renowned for his package. Was it all show and no glow once the slacks came off, or was he a behemoth?

by Anonymousreply 4002/10/2021

[quote] Jason Gedrick

Yep! I can totally see it.

by Anonymousreply 4102/10/2021

[quote] It was Seth Green.

Who has been married to a woman since 2010.

Thanks for the confirmation though. Always thought he was really cute.

by Anonymousreply 4202/10/2021

[quote] I had sex with Max von Essen a million years ago. He was closeted THEN.

Isn't the rumor around here is that he has a nice ass but a small dick?

by Anonymousreply 4302/10/2021

I never dealt with Max's dick so I can't comment on its size but his ass is, in fact, glorious.

by Anonymousreply 4402/10/2021

Robert Reed in the mid-1980s.

by Anonymousreply 4502/10/2021

I was at a Sex party in DC at a club and Titus Welliver was there. At the time I could not pin point how he looked familiar then it hit me after it was him. I said to myself this guy is on Movies or TV but who is he. He looked like he was on something too. I didn't see him doing any acts but he was getting ready to he had no shirt on and chaps.

by Anonymousreply 4602/10/2021

Sir Laurence Olivier, Dack Rambo, Oliver Reed, Thomas Cruise, George C. Scott, Alan Bates after the London premiere of Women in Love

by Anonymousreply 4702/10/2021

(R29) Totally agree. There are so many people that don't see celebs as humans with the same needs and desires. Having fucked a couple of them, I can confirm the sex is the same as the average long as he likes crystal meth, cocaine or herion.

by Anonymousreply 4802/20/2021

(R48) soooo who.?

by Anonymousreply 4902/22/2021

I swear I was only Aaron's personal assistant. It's totally normal for PAs to live with their employers, go on vacations together, pose as a couple on red carpets.

by Anonymousreply 5002/22/2021

I just found this on the Reddit over the weekend.

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by Anonymousreply 5102/22/2021

R10 Would you please share details about your 1967 hookup with Chad Everett. I've had a crush on him from watching reruns on Med Center on TBS in the 90s. Any details would be appreciated.

by Anonymousreply 5202/22/2021


Jamie Gollehon on reddit says he has information on Emile Hirsch. He also claims to be a writer. He doesn't understand how to make words ending in y plural, the use of of apostrophes, or the difference between there and their. I don't think so.

by Anonymousreply 5302/22/2021

r51 it's been deleted. What did it say?

by Anonymousreply 5402/22/2021

He claimed he hooked up with Emil Hirsch at the time he was making Into the Wild, who was using a pseudonym - I can't remember exactly something like Chris McCladdis, which may be the name of the character he played - several times over a few years. Claimed he was informing others who may have been "used". Came across like an overwrought victim. Not mistreated or abused, just outing Hirsch. Sounded sketchy.

by Anonymousreply 5502/22/2021

R31- I would not have guessed that Grant Goodeve was a CONNOISSEUR of COCK.

by Anonymousreply 5602/22/2021

R56 He's a Christian who "left Hollywood and embraced his Cristian faith". So....hmm.....

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by Anonymousreply 5702/22/2021

I hooked up with Titus Welliver in the early 90s, he was so sexy He’s just has a guest spot in Beverly Hills 90210 and was ducking everything in sight

by Anonymousreply 5802/22/2021

I had a spontaneous orgasm in my jeans when I first saw Chad Everett shirtless on Medical Center. I was about 13.

I was hoping Grant Goodeve would please pose nude for Playgirl after he was on Eight is Enough. He could reveal his true self without the sappy family around him. I was hoping for a cock with a big mushroom head and a major bush. Teenagers can dream, can't they?

by Anonymousreply 5902/22/2021

I was at an event with David Cassidy and we were hanging out together but nothing happened.

by Anonymousreply 6002/22/2021

Maxwell Caulfield, Titus Welliver, Alan Bates when he was in NY for the premiere of Women in Love, Christoph Reeve, Franco Nero, Jamie Bell and Dolly Wells

by Anonymousreply 6102/22/2021

Paging any guys who fooled around with Hart Bochner...

paging ANY guys... who fooled around with Hart Bochner....

by Anonymousreply 6202/22/2021

R9, when was this? 80s? 90s?

by Anonymousreply 6302/22/2021

A friend of mine got a BJ form Don Ameche in the 70's.

by Anonymousreply 6402/22/2021

Don Ameche? Now there's someone you rarely read about on gay gossip boards

by Anonymousreply 6502/22/2021

r61 we are gonna need some details. Specifically Jamie Bell who I assumed is too boring to be bi or gay.

by Anonymousreply 6602/22/2021

Try as I might, I couldn't get singer Tom Netherton to mess around. I was with him for most of the night but he stuck by that Lawrence Welk morality clause. Great guy, worked with him on a show for the weekend in the mid-'70s. Hung out with him after the show, went to a party together, did my best to get him to come back to my place, but it just wasn't happening. Although I'm sure he was gay. He never married, died of pneumonia in 2018 at age 70.

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by Anonymousreply 6702/22/2021

I believe what many have said. Look at what Quincy Jones said about Richard Pryor, Marlon Brando and Marvin Gay. I had several encounters with celebrities when I lived in New York but, I don't want to name names. One, now dead, was a well known black singer who died at age 72 and was married, masculine and I assume closeted. Another was a TV actor who was the title character in a short-lived TV series and has done other work in television. This was in the late 90s when he was doing a show on Broadway and we hooked up 3 times and he was a great cock sucker. He is now married and has several children now and he is not what I think of as well known and the 3rd was a Tony winner in the early 80s who appeared in a popular teen movie from the 80s.

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by Anonymousreply 6902/22/2021

R68 I just googled " black singer who died at age 72" and got Lou Rawls.

by Anonymousreply 7002/22/2021

I hooked up with Colonel Mustard in the library with a candlestick. We used to joke that indeed Mrs. Peacock was a man.

by Anonymousreply 7102/22/2021

Mel Tillis, Dom Delouise, Louise Lasser.

by Anonymousreply 7202/22/2021

r61 more on Jamie Bell please.

by Anonymousreply 7302/22/2021

Thick bush, shaved balls and hole, versatile.

by Anonymousreply 7402/22/2021

R68 Is the 'Tony winner who was in an 80s teen flick' Brian Backer?

by Anonymousreply 7502/22/2021

Also, R68, is the stage actor in the short lived sitcom Tom Cavanagh?

by Anonymousreply 7602/22/2021

I was persistently cruised all round the Royal Academy in London by a very well known UK broadcaster. He kept grabbing his crotch and licking his lips. Someone recognised him and came over to speak to him, so that was the end of it. He had a face like thunder. I was relieved.

by Anonymousreply 7702/22/2021

R72 Well you said it not me. RU are correct.

by Anonymousreply 7802/22/2021

^That's R70 UR right.

by Anonymousreply 7902/22/2021

R75 Well, yes, he was a Tony winner and in a teen flick UR correct.

by Anonymousreply 8002/22/2021

I’m so glad I’ve never been a “UR” person.

Nor an “RU” person.

by Anonymousreply 8102/22/2021

R76 Yes And I really liked him.

by Anonymousreply 8202/22/2021

[quote] I was persistently cruised all round the Royal Academy in London by a very well known UK broadcaster. He kept grabbing his crotch and licking his lips. Someone recognised him and came over to speak to him, so that was the end of it. He had a face like thunder. I was relieved.

Is he out or closeted?

by Anonymousreply 8302/22/2021

[quote]a very well known UK broadcaster

More clues appreciated!

by Anonymousreply 8402/22/2021

I did when it happened and was roundly told off because Ricky Martin Is NOT gay and Bradley Cooper would NEVER do that.

by Anonymousreply 8502/23/2021

R83, R84, he’s married to a woman. I can’t be more specific because he is too easy to identify. I was surprised at how careless he was in a public place.

by Anonymousreply 8602/23/2021

R86 Terry Wogan?

by Anonymousreply 8702/23/2021

Seriously people - if you hooked up with a famous person we don't care if you had steeling glances at the ivy -

We need - COCK - how big, did they top or bottom. Ass was it nice? DId they kiss, were they good and how did they smell. Also if they havre womanly butts we need to know that too...

Like the Jason Gedrick person - I need all the details. All of htem.

by Anonymousreply 8802/23/2021

R63, no, later than that; it was in the 2001-2002 or 2002/2003 season. The friend I referenced in R9 had her encounter later on, somewhere around 2014 or 2015.

by Anonymousreply 8902/23/2021

I blew Richard Speck!

by Anonymousreply 9002/23/2021

I met a guy who claimed to have slept with Frank Gifford between his marriages, before he married Kathie Lee. He said they slept together at the Bellevue hotel in Philadelphia and that Frank fucked him. He wasn’t bragging, just stating what had happened.

The guy was nice looking bit probably his 60’s. This was 25 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 9102/23/2021

Model Thierry Pepin a few times.

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by Anonymousreply 9202/23/2021

Mister Ed

by Anonymousreply 9302/23/2021

R87, no. Not as famous as that, but well known in his field.

by Anonymousreply 9402/23/2021

Not closeted but famous: Alan Cumming and Thierry Mugler, after he had transitioned to his Manfred persona

by Anonymousreply 9502/23/2021

Did Alan live up to his namesake?

by Anonymousreply 9602/23/2021

It’s hard for young gays to understand, but in the 1970s, 1980s and early 90s, it was quite easy to have sex with someone famous. Go to the bathhouse on a certain night and you could fuck Nureyev. There were many Broadway actors who frequented bathhouses, porn theaters and gay bars. And many of the male fashion designers could be found at Studio 54 or the bathhouses. Back in those days, if you were under 30 and showed even the slightest interest, you could easily get laid, unless you were horribly deformed. Even butt ugly guys occasionally got laid.

by Anonymousreply 9702/23/2021

Mark Patton from A Nightmare on Elm Street 2 in 1988 when I first moved to NYC.

Tom Hulce in 1990.

Pete Townshend in 1994.

by Anonymousreply 9802/23/2021

[quote] Even butt ugly guys occasionally got laid.

Can anyone explain how this term came into use? “Butt ugly”? I really think it’s a mishearing of “bug-ugly”, which I swear was a term decades ago. It’s easy to see how a bug’s face would inspire the term; it’s difficult to imagine how a human butt would.

What’s so awful about butt cheeks? Do straight men and lesbians find women’s butt cheeks ugly? No. Do gay men and straight women find men’s butt cheeks ugly? No. Do parents think their babies’ butt cheeks are ugly, those adorable little cherubs? No. It makes no sense.

I don’t mean to detail the thread, so please accept my apologies for the detour. With any luck, someone will disagree vehemently (“yes, butts ARE ugly! Always! And ‘butt-ugly’ was always the expression!”) and call me autistic.

by Anonymousreply 9902/23/2021

DeRail, not detail. Sorry.

by Anonymousreply 10002/23/2021

I've told this story here several times, always with spittle-flying shrieks of "HE'S NOT GAY!!!! YOU'RE LYING!!!"

But I will tell it again:

In Summer 1995, my husband and I were at J.R.'s in Dallas, one of the most popular gay bars in the city. And it is a GAY bar, not a place for straights to just pop in for a beer.

My husband and I noticed this guy come in and get a beer at the bar. He was looking around at all the men, checking them out.

We were shocked because he looked EXACTLY like Scott Baio! The only thing a little strange was that he had a full mustache, which we'd never seen Scott having on any appearance. My husband and I had both thought he was very hot since the early 80s (long before his MAGA lunacy), so we knew what he looked like.

He caught us looking at him inquisitively and kind of nodded to us, like, "Yep, it's me."

Still, we would never swear it was him. Anyway, two months later, Scott Baio was on TV, whether on some TV-movie or beginning of the new season of 'Diagnosis: Murder,' and there was the mustache we saw him with that night at J.R.'s.

We're both convinced it was him.

No hook up but most likely closeted.

by Anonymousreply 10102/23/2021

In some old DL threads there were people who claimed to have met closeted politicians at J.R's - I forget which ones though

by Anonymousreply 10202/23/2021

R101 OP’s thread title wasn’t difficult to understand

by Anonymousreply 10302/23/2021

Jesus people. Do I have to make a form?

Celeb Name: Celeb Cock size: Celeb Top or Bottom or just a BJ: Body?: Did they have a womanly butt?:


Celeb Name: Michael T Weiss Celeb Cock Size: Decent about 7 inches Celeb Top or Bottom: Bottom with me, Fucked him three times that night, he was tweeking Body?" Sick, hairy and muscular Did they have a womanly butt?: No all man baby.

by Anonymousreply 10402/23/2021

Jason Miller after espressos and he, a Whiskey, at Gramercy after his Broadway debut.

by Anonymousreply 10502/23/2021

My friend Craig had an affair with Robert Conrad for a couple of months in the 1970s. Thought he was sexy but nuts.

by Anonymousreply 10602/23/2021

Jason Miller from the Exorcist, R105?

by Anonymousreply 10702/23/2021

R107 Yeah, but no. I’m just clowning the old woman who said she had Alan Bates during the NYC premiere of Women in Love. Also no Jamie Bell.

by Anonymousreply 10802/23/2021

I believe Tom Cotton was one of them, R102

by Anonymousreply 10902/24/2021

What is J.R.’s?

by Anonymousreply 11002/24/2021

^ Famous queer bar in Dallas. Has a sister bar for womyn called Sue Ellen's.

by Anonymousreply 11102/24/2021

R101 Baio used to frequent gay bars in Denver around the same time. There was a bar just down the street from the State Capitol called The Metro. He would sit at the bar and watch the crowd. Not sure what he was working on, but he was there for about 2 months and I know at least 2 people I trust who swear they hooked up with him. No anal, just oral and usually in the back of a car in the adjacent parking lot.

by Anonymousreply 11202/24/2021

Scott Baio, well I’ll be...

by Anonymousreply 11302/24/2021

Rando's Love Chachi.

by Anonymousreply 11402/24/2021

I hooked up a few times with a British former MEP, who didn't tell me his real name. I kept thinking he looked a bit familiar but couldn't place him. Eventually found out who he was. Stopped seeing him after that.

by Anonymousreply 11502/24/2021

[quote] R86] Terry Wogan?

I know R86 said it wasn't Terry Wogan, but damn, I would have gladly hooked up with Wogan if I had ever had the chance. I found him a very sexy daddy.

by Anonymousreply 11602/25/2021

Everyone's friend of a friend has, according to DL.

by Anonymousreply 11702/25/2021

[quote]I would have gladly hooked up with Wogan if I had ever had the chance. I found him a very sexy daddy.

Just so long as you didn't passionately ruffle his um...'hair.'

by Anonymousreply 11802/25/2021

It’s another “my friend” and he refused to say the name .....but a close friend of mine who lives in LA hooked up with a well known attractive nfl player at the slammer sex club. After telling him you can’t tell me that and not give up anything he did at least give this . He said the player was “a white guy who pretty much everyone knows and is known for being pretty good looking”. He said he was shocked when he saw who it was because this person never even crossed his radar. Maybe someone that lives in LA and goes to the slammer may know?!

by Anonymousreply 119Last Saturday at 2:22 AM

A politician, was a very high-ranking member of the Obama administration. We're still in touch.

by Anonymousreply 120Last Saturday at 2:56 AM

Will Forte Whenever he’d come back to NYC. He’s a very depressed self loathing closeted addict. Haven’t seen him since 2019

by Anonymousreply 121Last Saturday at 5:15 AM

R99, the first recorded use of "butt-ugly" is from 1986. But I think I heard it earlier.

Never heard "bug ugly" so maybe that is a newer cleaned up version of butt ugly.

by Anonymousreply 122Last Saturday at 7:36 AM

R86 - Andrew Neil? Andrew Marr?

by Anonymousreply 123Last Saturday at 8:31 AM

R123, the thought of Andrew Neil cruising a guy, grabbing his crotch and licking his lips is rather revolting.

by Anonymousreply 124Last Saturday at 8:58 AM

R124 The thought of Andrew Neil is rather revolting.

by Anonymousreply 125Last Saturday at 9:35 AM

No hookup but writer/director/Survivor contestant Mike White cruised me once. It was right after Chuck and Buck came out so I was kind of creeped out by the attention but after seeing him on Survivor and Amazing Race he seems like a sweet guy.

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by Anonymousreply 126Last Saturday at 11:44 AM

R105 details, please!

by Anonymousreply 127Last Saturday at 12:04 PM

Please tell me his initials were KP, R120....

by Anonymousreply 128Last Saturday at 2:52 PM
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