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John Thomas "I Started Doing Gay Porn After Testing HIV Positive"

10 years after John Thomas was diagnosed with HIV, the 33-year-old Londoner is having some of the best sex of his life. It just so happens that now it’s in front of a camera… (see John bottom for four guys below)

Entering the adult film world had been something John had toyed with from the age of 21 and throughout his twenties while working as a theatre director, but it wasn’t until he turned 30 that he decided to take the porno plunge.

In the age of PrEP and undetectable = untransmittable (U=U), John’s HIV status never once proved to be a barrier to his adult film aspirations – though he does admit he knows of HIV-positive models who believe they’ve been overlooked because of their status.

“When I applied to Tim Tales, which is the company I started working with, I disclosed my status as part of the application and it wasn’t a barrier to working with them at all,” John explains.

“In my experience, people who are in porn are either positive and on medication, or they’re on PrEP, so the risk of HIV transmission in the gay porn industry is minimised.”

He goes on: “There are still models who don’t want to work with HIV-positive performers. I’m aware of one performer who I would have wanted to work with, but they wouldn’t have wanted to work with me because of my status.

“I tend to think of it more as their loss. I’m not going to carry the burden of somebody else’s ignorance or prejudice.

“And they are by no means the most exciting model I could have worked with – and I’ve worked with a lot of really good people…”

John suggests those who lived through the Aids crisis and have long had it drilled into them that condoms are the only way to protect against HIV are the ones who find recent medical advances such as PrEP and U=U “difficult” to comprehend.

“I still get comments. Some comments and messages I get are coming more from trolls, and others are coming from people whose knowledge or opinion is different,” he admits.

“There was one guy who, when I shared my story, at one point said ‘This guy needs to be stopped, he’s spreading Aids through the porn industry’. It’s obviously not coming from an educated place, but it’s obviously a consequence of talking publicly about sexual health.”

“I feel most powerful after I get my STI results saying you’re all negative. The longer we leave getting tested when we’re sexually active, the more that cloud of doubt can creep over us and can make us feel nervous, anxious and worried” John concludes.

“The longer we leave it, the dark and bigger that cloud gets. When we have that clean bill of health or the treatment that we need, the sun comes out – we feel good, we can approach that boy we like and have sex with the people we want to have sex with.

“Knowledge is power, and it’s empowering being able to take control of your health.”

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by Anonymousreply 60February 6, 2021 7:08 PM

His diagnosis made him more nasty, and the whole world is grateful for that.

by Anonymousreply 1February 4, 2021 3:13 PM

Oh the irony - “Knowledge is power, and it’s empowering being able to take control of your health.”

Almost like not getting HIV in the first place through your reckless behavior.

This sloppy bottom with no career prospects is no one to look up to. And he's also not a martyr - just someone who, by the sound of it, continues to make seriously awful life choices.

by Anonymousreply 2February 4, 2021 3:14 PM

MARY ^

by Anonymousreply 3February 4, 2021 3:15 PM

"He goes on: “There are still models who don’t want to work with HIV-positive performers. I’m aware of one performer who I would have wanted to work with, but they wouldn’t have wanted to work with me because of my status. I tend to think of it more as their loss. I’m not going to carry the burden of somebody else’s ignorance or prejudice."

Smell her. Bravely taking loads, like a true legend.

Sounds like an arrogant twat.

by Anonymousreply 4February 4, 2021 3:19 PM

[quote]"I Started Doing Gay Porn After Testing HIV Positive"

As one does.

by Anonymousreply 5February 4, 2021 3:27 PM

"it's their loss" - honey, no one has ever said that. The delusion is off the charts.

by Anonymousreply 6February 4, 2021 3:33 PM

The only thing I worry about are HIV+ people not taking their meds suddenly and becoming detectable.

by Anonymousreply 7February 4, 2021 3:46 PM

R7 - why would you question someone who is HIV+ and does porn as someone who may not make good choices?

by Anonymousreply 8February 4, 2021 3:48 PM

R4 Self righteous unfuckable MARY

by Anonymousreply 9February 4, 2021 4:34 PM

Gross. Gross guy. Gross virus. Gross thread.

by Anonymousreply 10February 4, 2021 4:48 PM

I saw a pic of him on Twitter and thought he was hot. Then I saw he posts nonstop pics of himself getting fisted up close, and it was an immediate unfollow.

by Anonymousreply 11February 4, 2021 5:10 PM

Oh Fuck! That is absolutely smok’n hot. And yes, his hole was thoroughly destroyed. The sight of all that massive uncut meat mercilessly plowing his hole was truly cinematic gold.

by Anonymousreply 12February 4, 2021 5:53 PM

He should be nominated for a Golden Hole award.

by Anonymousreply 13February 4, 2021 5:56 PM

R11 oh no how cruel of you to unfollow him on Twitter - I’m certain he noticed.

by Anonymousreply 14February 4, 2021 6:27 PM

He acts like getting hired by TimTales was some extraordinary achievement. All they require is a big dick if you're a top, and a willingness to lay there and get pummeled if you're a bottom. 99.9% of them look POZ.

by Anonymousreply 15February 4, 2021 6:28 PM

John is my neighbour.

by Anonymousreply 16February 4, 2021 6:29 PM

[quote] a willingness to lay there and get pummeled if you're a bottom.

But anyone can lay there, it depends on how you look

by Anonymousreply 17February 4, 2021 6:30 PM

So getting a potentially deadly virus is what made him confident enough to do porn? I don't blame negative models for not wanting to work with him if only because he sounds like a true idiot!

by Anonymousreply 18February 4, 2021 6:33 PM

I kind of get it, once he had been diagnosed and it didn't destroy his life then doing porn wouldn't either. I don't think it's a great message but I understand it to a degree.

by Anonymousreply 19February 4, 2021 6:39 PM

R18 girl get a clue. You losers come on here every day with the same outdated medical information. HIV is not deadly if he’s taking medication. It will not affect his lifespan. Sorry I know you want to hang on to the “deadly virus” bullshit because it allows you to be judgmental and to project but the (self evident) facts do not bear out your opinion anymore. I’m sorry but facts are facts - nobody has to listen to your emotions on the subject anymore. You’ll be happier if you move on to something else.

by Anonymousreply 20February 4, 2021 6:40 PM

Let me guess R20 you're one of those who get offended if a guy wants to put on a condom before sticking his cock into you because if they don't fuck you bareback then they're obviously an uneducated bigot.

by Anonymousreply 21February 4, 2021 7:10 PM

What IS that . . . [italic]thing[/italic] . . . in OP’s post?

Qui était cette cunt?

by Anonymousreply 22February 4, 2021 7:26 PM

R21 no - I’m one of those that educates myself on sexual health and how HIV is treated and transmitted, and understands how to use that knowledge to act in a safe way. Let me guess - you’re one of those that gets tested once every two-five years and rationalizes away any encounters that weren’t totally safe with a “he didn’t seem like the type”. You wouldn’t take prep because it’s “so trashy and I don’t want kidney damage haven’t you heard?”.

by Anonymousreply 23February 4, 2021 7:56 PM

No R23 I'm one who always insists on condoms when I stick my cock in someone because I know that what some guy tells me about his health and safety may not be true.

by Anonymousreply 24February 4, 2021 8:10 PM

R24 look at you! condoms don’t always work girl consider prep too. Altho I doubt the occasion comes up often so maybe no need to worry.

by Anonymousreply 25February 4, 2021 8:35 PM

I'm a top R25 Always so I don't even fit the profile most doctors prescribe it for.

by Anonymousreply 26February 4, 2021 8:46 PM

I know a number of guys who went to the extremes once they found out they were poz.

Most of them normalized after some time of crazy behavior.

by Anonymousreply 27February 4, 2021 8:50 PM

He seems so sweet

by Anonymousreply 28February 4, 2021 8:51 PM

He seems to have an ongoing problem with critical decision making. R28

by Anonymousreply 29February 4, 2021 8:53 PM

R26 you really should do some reading. What are you wearing a condom for if not to protect from a HIV infection? Prep protects against HIV infection, and has a lower rate of failure than condoms. So if you’re all about “protecting yourself” then you can do it better. And don’t give me that “but other diseases” bullshit unless you’re wearing a condom for blowjobs (giving and receiving) and a dental dam for rimming (and making partner use one for receiving rimming).

Also if you’re the victim of a sexual assault prep protects you in a way that condom usage never could.

by Anonymousreply 30February 4, 2021 8:58 PM

Prep is more effective than condoms because it actually stops the virus from physically infecting you.

by Anonymousreply 31February 4, 2021 9:19 PM

So as a top and again only a top does being on PrEP really help?

by Anonymousreply 32February 4, 2021 9:29 PM

R32 yes.

by Anonymousreply 33February 4, 2021 9:43 PM
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by Anonymousreply 34February 4, 2021 10:11 PM

Sounds like a complete degenerate piece of trash.

by Anonymousreply 35February 4, 2021 10:11 PM

Is anyone here familiar with the porn industry? How common are these pornstars to be poz since bareback porn is basically the norm these days?

by Anonymousreply 36February 4, 2021 10:20 PM

So he's poz and does what are basically instructional videos for getting infected while doing drugs yeah, this guy sounds like a real inspiration alright.

by Anonymousreply 37February 4, 2021 10:36 PM

R37 did I miss the point where anyone said anything about inspiration? He’s just doing an interview and sharing some information about his line of work in relation to his HIV status. And including some factoids about HIV infection and transmission along the way.

by Anonymousreply 38February 4, 2021 10:42 PM

They're trying to make him sound somehow "inspirational" R38 but that's nothing to aspire to.

by Anonymousreply 39February 5, 2021 5:34 AM

He's a whore, darlins.

by Anonymousreply 40February 5, 2021 6:04 AM

So anyone defending this Piece of Santimonious Shit go have sex with him. FyI He is having unsafe sex prep or not and endangering himself and others He needs help and zero encouragement.

by Anonymousreply 41February 5, 2021 7:43 AM

[quote] I'm a top [R25] Always so I don't even fit the profile most doctors prescribe it for.

If you’re a top and they’re not prescribing it for you—which I think is bullshit; anyone can get on PrEP because you never know when you might decide to bottom, but whatever—then why are you so worried about barebacking? You think you’re going to get other STDs? You can get those from oral sex, too. Even just rubbing genitals together.

by Anonymousreply 42February 5, 2021 7:53 AM

The article from which OP’s quotes are taken is not the one that is linked. The interview is from Attitude magazine, linked below.

I mean, he’s hot as fuck and good for him for following his bliss, I guess. But what irks me is that the focus of this article is HIV Testing Week, and the implication that becoming a porn star following a diagnosis is self-empowering and aspirational. Of all the jobs in the world, I’d imagine that the one where having a HIV diagnosis is not much of a hurdle is that of a porn star.

I look forward to Attitude’s further interviews, with teachers, medical professionals, barristers, social workers. Y’know, people real actual jobs where being HIV+ might be seen as an actual potential impediment.

I’m not holing my breath.

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by Anonymousreply 43February 5, 2021 8:00 AM

Whores arguing with whores about whores.

by Anonymousreply 44February 5, 2021 8:00 AM

HIV and trans are two topics guaranteed to produce delightful exchanges on DL.

by Anonymousreply 45February 5, 2021 8:17 AM

Definitely confused that he says some guys don't want to work with HIV-positive performers. I would have thought a very high percentage of porn performers were HIV+ and they are all on PReP these days anyway so I would have assumed it was no big deal in the industry these days - can see it for other STDs though, as coming down with one would mean you couldn't work for a period of time.

Also, I wonder why there aren't more triple penetration scenes around? I think I've only ever seen two!

by Anonymousreply 46February 5, 2021 8:49 AM

One would hope all hiv negative tops in bareback porn are on PREP. Bottoms like John and other bottoms on Tim Tales are gaping holes. Double penetration with xl cocks and fisting is violent to the hole. Some of you dainty types may never have seen prolapses but they are bright red. One of the reasons HIV spread in gays more than heteros is the guys hole is more easily infected by a cumload than a vagina is. Its also higher rate for ass to cock transmission. Than vagina to cock. Yes it dos happen that HIV+ bottoms can pass HIV to negative tops (torn up blown out bottoms - they bleed or have micro fissures.)

If I were a HIV negative top in porn even on Prep I might not want to hang out all day with my huge dick in one of these power bottom holes. "My loss" as John says. John said it's rare nowadays.

There are still some tops and bottoms in gay porn who don't do bareback. I wouldn't know their names because I don't watch safesex porn very much. I love those blown out holes in fact.

John Thomas was exciting for a year or two but his novelty factor has worn off and he's aging out. I wonder what his back up plan is.

by Anonymousreply 47February 5, 2021 10:03 AM

Something not so hardcore

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by Anonymousreply 48February 5, 2021 10:24 AM

Is Tim of Tim Tales going bareback now?

by Anonymousreply 49February 5, 2021 11:58 AM

[quote] Whores arguing with whores about whores.

That’s a good one, that’s funny

by Anonymousreply 50February 5, 2021 12:31 PM

[quote] Is Tim of Tim Tales going bareback now?

Yes, Tim finally got with the times

by Anonymousreply 51February 5, 2021 12:32 PM

I really don't care what you think is "bullshit" R42 I rarely top because to be perfectly blunt I think it's kinda gross but when I on the rare occasion do top it's only with a condom and as far as those other STDs you mentioned we weren't talking about STDs that are curable.

by Anonymousreply 52February 5, 2021 7:33 PM

Gosh, I haven't seen him since he was on "The Waltons". I had no idea about any of this.

by Anonymousreply 53February 5, 2021 7:54 PM

"Knowledge is power, and it’s empowering being able to take control of your health."

by Anonymousreply 54February 6, 2021 5:02 PM

[QUOTE] R7 The only thing I worry about are HIV+ people not taking their meds suddenly and becoming detectable.

They'd have to purposefully stop taking for quite some time to be able to infect someone else, it'd need to jump from 20-50 copies (undetectable) to about 50,000 which would take several months.

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by Anonymousreply 55February 6, 2021 5:17 PM

Sorry, but watching a bunch of Poz guys swapping loads is creepy, and the guys who talk about becoming so empowered and feeling like they're truly part of the gay community after testing Poz were most likely either bug chasers or didn't care as long as they got those hot loads that seem like a requirement for sex to be good now.

by Anonymousreply 56February 6, 2021 5:48 PM

Let's warmly welcome Miss Gross Generalization based urban legends from 1999, R56, to our thread!

by Anonymousreply 57February 6, 2021 6:46 PM

Sure R57 It's all just an urban legend so let's pretend Blue Bailey never existed, and let's pretend Treasure Island Media and Dark Alley, both of whom built their entire studious on bug chasing videos, never existed.

by Anonymousreply 58February 6, 2021 6:53 PM

Prep is a good thing. I have no idea why DL gets so upset. It's not for everyone, but we have choices and extra safeguards. Just like COVID, the more knowledge and tools we have to prevent/treat viruses, the better. DLers want people to have less options than more. There is only one choice or one way of thinking here, which is prevalent in many threads under many different topics. Do we no longer want choice?

by Anonymousreply 59February 6, 2021 7:01 PM

PrEP is a tremendous advancement in prevention, but the maker of the drug even says it was meant to be used in conjunction with condoms to protect against accidental exposure.

by Anonymousreply 60February 6, 2021 7:08 PM
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