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Did you enjoy your first time bottoming?

Or did you hate it?

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by Anonymousreply 32February 5, 2021 2:22 PM

Hated it. Still not a fan.

by Anonymousreply 1February 4, 2021 12:47 PM

Nope. It was incredibly uncomfortable and I kept thinking I was going to poop. Just suffered through it.

by Anonymousreply 2February 4, 2021 12:49 PM

Hated it. Took me a decade to actually get into it again the first time was so uncomfortable.

by Anonymousreply 3February 4, 2021 12:51 PM

It was okay. Tolerable. Not great. And I did not understand why it would be so popular.

But that was in the 70s. And I've since learned!

by Anonymousreply 4February 4, 2021 12:51 PM

I’ve only enjoyed bottoming once. It was hot, angry, dirty sex. Never prior and never after.

by Anonymousreply 5February 4, 2021 12:57 PM

It is an uncomfortable feeling. I would not describe it as enjoyable.

by Anonymousreply 6February 4, 2021 12:59 PM

The first time, it hurt like hell. I didn't try again for another two years. It's still somewhat uncomfortable but nice if you really like the top.

by Anonymousreply 7February 4, 2021 1:03 PM

Is this spam for “MeetGoFuck.com”?

by Anonymousreply 8February 4, 2021 1:05 PM

I was absolutely prepared for my first bottoming experience with a real life penis. I had been practicing for years as a young boy: with carrots, zucchini, umbrella handles, vacuum handles (!). So yes, I very much enjoyed my first time!

by Anonymousreply 9February 4, 2021 1:10 PM

As long as his fist is not too big, then it's hot.

by Anonymousreply 10February 4, 2021 1:11 PM

The first time I got fucked I got a hemorrhoid afterwards, which is still dormant somewhere inside me over a decade later and prevents me from being able to have painless anal. How do I fix it

by Anonymousreply 11February 4, 2021 1:26 PM

I enjoyed it, despite the fact that he only used spit as lube.

by Anonymousreply 12February 4, 2021 1:26 PM

I’ve met guys who need to get fucked. They love it

by Anonymousreply 13February 4, 2021 3:01 PM

Guy in OP's video looks like Evans.

by Anonymousreply 14February 4, 2021 3:06 PM

That's the key r9.

Bottoming is just something you have to learn. If you have tried fucking yourself with objects you will be okay. If not it is going to be a new sensation and most likely uncomfortable.

by Anonymousreply 15February 4, 2021 3:07 PM

Hated the first few times. I was 28 when I first enjoyed it. The guy I was with was in his 60s and took it very slow and gentle. Gave me good advice for bottoming. Became a good friend, too.

by Anonymousreply 16February 4, 2021 3:14 PM

Wish I could remember.

by Anonymousreply 17February 4, 2021 3:20 PM

Yes, but only because I was smashed on ecstasy with someone I adored.

Never really bother with it since, maybe once a year - when the stars are aligned I have a go. Not really my thing, although I appreciate that others love it. It's the feeling of vulnerability I don't like, not the actual act.

by Anonymousreply 18February 4, 2021 4:18 PM

First time I was more proud of myself for doing it, than really focused on pleasure, haha. It didn't hurt, but I don't remember it feeling amazing either. I was about 20, I guess - and I think mostly the thrill/rush was just the novelty of it all, rather than the actual physical situation. Bragged to all my friends the next day - both gay and straight, and to my straight male bestie, lol. Was just glad to get it out of the way. The next few years, I did it on occasion, but just because I felt obligated, if the other guy had bent over for me already. Didn't care for it much for the longest time. In my early thirties, I discovered I actually *prefer* bottoming - though flipping is still an ideal situation. Love giant toys AND giant dicks. Now, when the (rare) situation arises, I even leap at the chance to get DP'ed... Took a while to go from "tolerating" a dick in my ass to "craving" one, but better late than never.

by Anonymousreply 19February 4, 2021 4:31 PM

I’m still a virgin. Most likely I will never get to experience it, or anything with another man.

by Anonymousreply 20February 4, 2021 11:34 PM

I loved it so much I came back again and again and again and...

by Anonymousreply 21February 4, 2021 11:36 PM

Never happened. Recto-colitis and I love nelly bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 22February 4, 2021 11:52 PM

R20 - If you aren't trolling, just hire a hot escort for 2 hours, explain your situation, relax, and have fun.

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by Anonymousreply 23February 5, 2021 12:05 AM

Yeah, took it slow and enjoyed it a lot. I don't think I would keep doing it if I found it uncomfortable or it hurt, don't see the point in that.

by Anonymousreply 24February 5, 2021 12:09 AM

Hated it. No pleasure whatsoever. Glad I never did it more than twice.

by Anonymousreply 25February 5, 2021 12:10 AM

r14 I think he is Spanish/British pornstar David Luca who I thought was such a sexy bottom bitch a few years ago. That was until he started fucking FTMs and now I long longer have any interest in him

by Anonymousreply 26February 5, 2021 12:12 AM

Hated it. Still hate it. Suffered through it. Painful, awkward, uncomfortable, and tedious.

I'm not a top. I Have no deisre to top. But, I am no bottom. I like the idea of enjoying bottoming,. The reality filled me with dread whenever I knew I was going to have to do it.

by Anonymousreply 27February 5, 2021 12:15 AM

First few times I really didnt feel much of anything. It was with a boy a few years older than me who was average sized at best. It was over so quick every time I thought it wasnt a big deal . UNTIL I got fucked by my first grown man,who knew the ropes and I was hooked on it ever after.

by Anonymousreply 28February 5, 2021 12:25 AM

First time bottoming I came hands-free. I thought that was just a myth from porn flicks. I was 19. He was a well hung and experienced "older man" of 26.

by Anonymousreply 29February 5, 2021 1:49 AM

R27 I feel exactly like you! I’m glad there are others who think the same way.

by Anonymousreply 30February 5, 2021 1:31 PM

Threads like this make me happy to be a top who just likes eating ass and fucking it.

by Anonymousreply 31February 5, 2021 2:03 PM

I didn't particularly enjoy it, but I didn't hate it.

I definitely had mixed feelings about it but I absolutely loved sucking dick and I had experimented a bit with fingers and other phallic objects beforehand so it wasn't the first time I ever had something up the butt. I LOVED being rimmed and he was great at that so I did want to be fucked in the moment. He had a big dick but knew I was a virgin so went slow, I didn't find it painful, more generally uncomfortable as others have said, and I couldn't maintain an erection for the duration, and I didn't cum while being fucked.

The next night I topped for the first time and realised that's really where my preference was, although I did grow to enjoy bottoming every once in a while, which is just as well because he was mostly a top before we got together and we ended up in a relationship for a couple of years.

I think it's a shame when someone has a bad first experience and it puts them off it ever again in future. I think it's probably rare to find someone who bottomed and everything was amazing right from the beginning - it takes some time to understand how your body works, how to prepare yourself properly, and which positions work best for you and the guy who is fucking you.

by Anonymousreply 32February 5, 2021 2:22 PM
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