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Is anyone here attracted to femboys?

Of course I mean the ones who still look male not the ones who look like women

by Anonymousreply 97May 13, 2022 12:35 AM

Yes. My first bf was fem, but very handsome and he knew how to fuck. Fem guys don't bother me at all.

by Anonymousreply 1January 23, 2021 10:29 AM

Farmboys? Yes, please, and corn-fed. Or corn-holed, preferably.

by Anonymousreply 2January 23, 2021 11:02 AM

Lol, are you following the whole Zilv story?

by Anonymousreply 3January 23, 2021 11:22 AM

If they act fem but look masculine then yes, if they look fem then no. If I wanted to fuck women I would date women. I don't need a bad knock off.

by Anonymousreply 4January 23, 2021 12:32 PM

Why start another thread on this instead of adding to a preexisting thread on the same topic?

by Anonymousreply 5January 23, 2021 1:15 PM

Are you guys saying you prefer femboys, or you would settle for one?

by Anonymousreply 6January 23, 2021 1:49 PM

I am. Not JUST to femboys, I have a wide taste. But really soft, pretty, innocent femboys are really sexy.

Transgirls however gross me out.

by Anonymousreply 7January 23, 2021 2:01 PM

Femboy here. Not girly, but really bubbly, boyish and light voiced. And my family thinks I’m straight. How dare they! My cock is pretty big and I think I’m likely a first rate kisser. Just add a sexy, well rounded guy and I’m alive.

by Anonymousreply 8January 23, 2021 2:05 PM

As long as we're talking about someone with feminine traits but not catty or bitchy: Yes.

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by Anonymousreply 10January 23, 2021 2:19 PM

Yuck. No.

by Anonymousreply 11January 23, 2021 5:20 PM

Was Jim Morrison or River Phoenix Fem? Androgynous maybe? I liked them a lot

by Anonymousreply 12January 24, 2021 12:10 AM

Nope. Not at all.

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by Anonymousreply 14January 17, 2022 2:00 AM

r4 A femboy who acts masculine, is not a femboy. Femboys wear wigs or let their hair grow out, wear makeup and sexy female clothing, etc. They're a recent online phenomenon, very popular on Reddit, but I think you need a degree of bisexuality to appreciate them. A 100% gay man is not going to like femboys, but a man who's 90% gay and 10% straight or 90% straight and 10% gay might.

by Anonymousreply 15January 17, 2022 2:16 AM

Yes, I like them generally, providing they dont overdo the fem thing and end up with tits and everything. But I like guys that are a bit androgynous in general. And no, not bisexual, have had relationships with men exclusively for decades

by Anonymousreply 16January 17, 2022 9:33 PM

Not catty ones

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by Anonymousreply 17January 18, 2022 12:52 AM


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by Anonymousreply 18January 30, 2022 4:01 AM

Yes, quite often, yet I prefer them with body hair, and facial hair, or some stubble. I can really appreciate a soft and pretty bloke, especially the long haired types. If they're mean queens, forget it though. I don't care how pretty they may look if they're ugly on the inside.

by Anonymousreply 19January 30, 2022 6:10 AM

No, OP. Anything fem is a dick wilter.

by Anonymousreply 20January 30, 2022 6:31 AM

Yes. And pretty twinks.

by Anonymousreply 21January 30, 2022 8:08 AM

R12 They both looked like handsome men with long hair. I don't think either were androgynous looking like David Bowie or Prince.

by Anonymousreply 22January 30, 2022 5:48 PM

Having a pretty face, a twink body and long hair is not fem. A lot of young guys have that.

Femboy is a subculture of men who crossdress, wear makeup, grow their hair long and act like women as a fetish. It's what used to be called a "sissy."

by Anonymousreply 23January 30, 2022 5:53 PM

Flamers begone.

by Anonymousreply 24January 30, 2022 5:56 PM

As for effeminate gay guys. If they're hot, smart and generally nice to be around then yeah I'm attracted to them. I like a mild gay voice if it's not over the top. You'll find many of these in literature, the arts and academia.

I can't stand bitchy, sassy gays who worship divas and are shallow. Who think they're better than everyone. I also find over the top muscle bros annoying too. Both are shallow are boring..

by Anonymousreply 25January 30, 2022 5:58 PM

The current femboy hype is for a type of fem male that is largely different that how DL defines femboys. The current femboys is described on Quora: A femboy means feminine guy. So it's when a guy wants to do girly stuff, they will cross dress, or pretend to be a girl. This originated to what I think was anime. There would somtimes be reveals where someone that looks, acts, and have every single that a girl has but is actually a guy. This was just for giggles but soon enough people became obsessed over it, some straight men actually have become openly attracted to femboys and chase them. This can be mistaken as cross dressing but it goes much much deeper, people have found it entertaining to deceive people, because it happens in anime. And being the humans we are we fan get really creative with our hobbies or interests. If you look it up you will see there's tons of manly guys cross dressing, or really girly guys cross dressing along with doing feminine things. Although some femboys identify as gay, many do not. Many identify as fluid, bi, or mostly straight. The gay ones tend to be involved with men who identity as straight.

by Anonymousreply 26January 30, 2022 8:08 PM

[quote] If they act fem but look masculine then yes, if they look fem then no. If I wanted to fuck women I would date women. I don't need a bad knock off.

Same I like guys who look like guys. I don't gay voices or a skinny twink body. But they still need to be tall, have some stubble, big hands, hairy legs and big dicks. I don't consider big eyes and big lips to be a feminine trait as they're attractive on both sexes. I don't mind long hair but it has to be groomed, I mostly like shorter hairstyles.

by Anonymousreply 27January 30, 2022 9:56 PM

*I don't mind gay voices or a skinny twink body.

by Anonymousreply 28January 30, 2022 10:01 PM

From what I see, femboys are just anorexic barely-legal-looking twinks that are completely submissive and whine like girls when you fuck them. And in the boudoir they wear long neon pink tights and maybe some lacy panties. They call their asshole a kitten/pussy. It's a fine line to walk, because if its too crossdressy like makeup, bras, heels or wigs its not the same thing. Also femboys are usually never older than 22.

by Anonymousreply 29January 30, 2022 10:18 PM

Yes, but NO PEARLS.

by Anonymousreply 30January 30, 2022 10:19 PM

R29 They are probably popular with "str8" guys who don't want to admit to bisexuality who also hook up with or watch porn of pre-op trans women.

by Anonymousreply 31January 30, 2022 10:23 PM

R4- There's always some queen on dl saying- If I wanted to fuck women I would date women etc etc

by Anonymousreply 32January 30, 2022 10:24 PM

I like men. Big, hairy men with big genitals.

by Anonymousreply 33January 30, 2022 10:27 PM

Down on the farm!

by Anonymousreply 34January 30, 2022 10:27 PM

R33- Then Beatrice Arthur would have fit the bill.

by Anonymousreply 35January 30, 2022 10:29 PM

Pretty femboys with nice bods are pulling some smoking hot dudes these days who identify as straight, so much so that those straight guys are openly acknowledging attraction to this type of fem boys. This type of fem boy is not the stereotypical catty gay guy. These guys tend to be sweet and submissive. They are the American equivalent of pretty ladyboys. They drive some street Bros wild.

by Anonymousreply 36January 30, 2022 10:37 PM

Pretty paper pretty ribbons of blue

by Anonymousreply 37January 30, 2022 10:41 PM

There’s a lot to unpack with regard to what constitutes a femboy. I don’t mind soft features on a guy. I actually like guys with long hair. I really don’t care how a guy dresses, so long as it is appropriate for the occasion. I draw the line at make up and cross dressing. He wants to wear women’s clothes? No. But traditionally female raiments are made specifically for men now. Buy those.

Soft voice? Who cares? Clean shaven? So, what?

In bed, however, I loathe moaning like a bitch – butch or fem, top or bottom. One summer I dated what most guys would deem a femboy. He was a lot of fun, smart, cute. After a couple months, we finally fucked. He moaned so much, and with a disturbing tenor, I had to stop and ask him not to do that. He did, but then the next time, he did it again. I made up some reason to stop seeing him. Yeah, call me shallow.

Finally, any guy – fem or not – with obvious gay face is not attractive to me at all. What is gay face? YKWYK.

by Anonymousreply 38January 30, 2022 11:01 PM

Yes. Femboys can be very cute and a grenade in bed. And I like taking them out.

by Anonymousreply 39January 30, 2022 11:10 PM

I think DL's definition of gay face is subjective. Usually it's fugly like Lance Bass. Not handsome like Matt Bomer or Rock Hudson.

by Anonymousreply 40January 30, 2022 11:11 PM

Rick Hudson and Bohner don’t have a gay face. A gay face is a face where you immediately know, not hope, that he is gay.

by Anonymousreply 41January 30, 2022 11:24 PM

The queen of femboys -Damian Hurley.

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by Anonymousreply 42January 30, 2022 11:25 PM

I'm a masculine gay guy. I mostly date bi and masculine gays but I did have two boyfriends who were feme but not catty at all, they were sweet and dorky. In bed they were masculine which is something I've talked about here on another thread. I deeply loved one of them. Well.

by Anonymousreply 43January 30, 2022 11:28 PM

Not even a little

by Anonymousreply 44January 30, 2022 11:30 PM

Like KPop boys?

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by Anonymousreply 45January 30, 2022 11:30 PM

If by "attracted" you mean coming together to engage in intimate prayer, then yes.

by Anonymousreply 46January 30, 2022 11:31 PM

R41 Matt Bomer and Rock both have gay face and gay mannerisms. Gay face is a full lips, high cheekbones and big eyes with a big spacing. It's actually considered attractive to both sexes. Montgomery Clift, Farley Granger and Tom Cruise have it too. Faces that are very masculine are John Cena, Arnold Schwarzenegger and Mark Wahlberg which are never mistaken for gay. Most male actors have gay face because it's more expressive and better for film hence the gay speculation.

by Anonymousreply 47January 30, 2022 11:34 PM

[quote] Femboy is a subculture of men who crossdress, wear makeup, grow their hair long and act like women as a fetish. It's what used to be called a "sissy."

If that's what you're talking then I didn't fall in love with fems then. I dated two effeminate guys who dressed like men and occasionally camped out.

by Anonymousreply 48January 30, 2022 11:37 PM

For me, this is a gay face:

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by Anonymousreply 49January 30, 2022 11:40 PM

I could eat them alive.

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by Anonymousreply 50January 30, 2022 11:42 PM

Gay face from scientific research. Smaller chin, slender face, long nose, wide set eyes, bigger lower lip and high eyebrows. Most male actors, models and dancers have gay face. Many paintings of Greek and Roman gods like Apollo and Adonis have it. Even though many gay men associate it with being ugly. It's considered attractive and preferred.

by Anonymousreply 51January 30, 2022 11:55 PM

The fembots were my favorite on The Bionic Woman!

by Anonymousreply 52January 31, 2022 12:15 AM

It's too difficult to figure out the definition for me to answer the question.

by Anonymousreply 53January 31, 2022 12:28 AM

R52 Or the fembots from Austin Powers?

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by Anonymousreply 54January 31, 2022 12:55 AM

Many straight dudes love femboys

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by Anonymousreply 55February 1, 2022 1:20 PM

R55 I can't tell which one is the femboy, other than they say they're straight and gay. They seem very similar.

by Anonymousreply 56February 1, 2022 11:09 PM

No way

by Anonymousreply 57February 1, 2022 11:54 PM

Straight bros for Femboys

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by Anonymousreply 58February 2, 2022 12:17 AM


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by Anonymousreply 59February 11, 2022 12:10 AM

As long as they don’t speak.

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by Anonymousreply 61March 7, 2022 5:12 PM

Yeah, especially if they're submissive and fertile

by Anonymousreply 62March 7, 2022 5:22 PM

You like me! You really like me!

by Anonymousreply 63March 7, 2022 5:24 PM

I don’t see the point of them. I’m gay, I’m attracted to men, not little girls with dicks.

by Anonymousreply 64March 7, 2022 6:07 PM

More nongay dudes are becoming open about their attraction to a certain type of femboy

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by Anonymousreply 65March 16, 2022 9:05 PM

75% of DLers are sex phobic.

by Anonymousreply 66March 16, 2022 9:07 PM

How so?

by Anonymousreply 67March 16, 2022 9:10 PM


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by Anonymousreply 68April 4, 2022 12:02 PM


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by Anonymousreply 69April 4, 2022 12:03 PM

This whole topic is stupid

by Anonymousreply 70April 4, 2022 12:50 PM

They often attract hot masculine dudes like this

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by Anonymousreply 71April 29, 2022 9:15 AM

Most “fem boys” just look like butch dykes or ftms.

by Anonymousreply 72April 29, 2022 9:18 AM

Many don’t

by Anonymousreply 73April 29, 2022 9:23 AM

Straight men attracted to femboys and chasing them?

These straight men will soon end up with a Carl Nassib lookalike.

by Anonymousreply 74April 29, 2022 4:34 PM

R12, re: Jim Morrison, he was certainly not a femboy, though he was beautiful.

There were a couple gay rumors, but nothing really solid.

It's notable that many of his (female) lovers said -- complained, really -- that he preferred to fuck them up the ass. His junkie girlfriend Pamela particularly hated it but he insisted. Make of that what you will.

by Anonymousreply 75April 29, 2022 5:08 PM

Some of the posters on this thread are beyond stupid. How can a straight man be attracted to any boy, fem or butch. A straight guy can admire femboy’s beauty, acknowledge that he is pretty (as I can admire Monica Bellucci) is pretty, but in the end, when you get naked in bed and the feminine clothing is off, a boy is a boy and it takes same sex attracted man to be aroused by him.

I remember reading in Boy George’s biography that he mentioned that many men who had sex with him claimed to be straight and told him they see him as a girl. And George himself said that when he took his clothes off, the last thing he was, was a girl. He was even rather heavily built, buff, wit broad shoulders and make up and dresses were just covering a male body. But self loathing same sex attracted men with repressed homosexuality will say anything to delude theslves. I know that young guys are experimenting and same sex experiences doesn’t make them gay, but a healthy straight guy who is just curious would admit that he wanted to try sex with men and wouldn’t blab some delusional shit about seeing man as women cause he put some mascara and lipstick.

I was experimenting in my youth too, when I was "bisexual" and I had encounters with girls. One was mainly lesbian and very butch. Tall, lean, athletic, narrow hips, mannish face. But when we undressed I was surprised how feminine she was. Breasts, soft feminine skin, curves , delicacy of female body, and, you know... vagina.

So, stop with this nonsense about straight people being attracted to their own sex, because of someone’s styling.

by Anonymousreply 76April 30, 2022 4:47 PM

Do the posters who said that Jim Morrison femboy even know who is he? Or are they really stupid. Because of long curls? Almost every rock musician had long hair back in the day? Even his voice was bariton. Jim Morrison was not even remotely any sort of femboy. Not in his face, not in his body type and certainly not in demeanor. In fact, he was rather masculine guy. Heavy drinker and rather aggressive, "Dionysian madman" as the fellow from Doors John Densmore described him.

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by Anonymousreply 77April 30, 2022 5:15 PM

Looks more like Grisly Addams than femboy.

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by Anonymousreply 78April 30, 2022 5:20 PM

Jim Morrison performing with the Doors for the uneducated young girls on this thread.

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by Anonymousreply 79April 30, 2022 6:36 PM

Not femboys necessarily, but twinks. I like pretty twinks. Sometimes I'm into the androgynous look.

by Anonymousreply 80April 30, 2022 8:40 PM

Femboy in action.

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by Anonymousreply 81April 30, 2022 9:52 PM

Why are y’all talking about someone from the 1960s? This is about today’s definition and sensibility of fem boys.

by Anonymousreply 82April 30, 2022 10:16 PM

A femboy is always a femboy, no matter the historical period, R82.

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by Anonymousreply 83April 30, 2022 10:46 PM

Shut up

by Anonymousreply 84April 30, 2022 10:48 PM

Bon Scott from AC/DC was a hot femboy, too.

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by Anonymousreply 85April 30, 2022 11:00 PM

Gross no

by Anonymousreply 86April 30, 2022 11:01 PM

R76 Learn brevity, dear

by Anonymousreply 87April 30, 2022 11:03 PM

How about Axl?

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by Anonymousreply 88April 30, 2022 11:10 PM

I prefer guys who are neither masculine nor feminine - I like guys who are neutral.

by Anonymousreply 89May 1, 2022 1:09 AM

R66 Yes Nikki, you've more than a few fans here. We're probably mostly tops, but we acknowledge your charms.

by Anonymousreply 90May 1, 2022 1:10 AM

^ meant for R63

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by Anonymousreply 93May 9, 2022 1:33 AM

Yeah. I pretty much only ever dated and fuck pretty boys. I married one.❤

I'm allowed crushes. Look at gorgeous Jay Copeland, this years non-winner of American Idol. (There's a few country singers doncha know. They white) It sure doesn't hurt that Jay sounds like Nat Cole crossed with MJ!!! Those runs, that control, such a pretty vibrato. He's not quite ready - but he's so beautiful. And he's almost there. Sometimes they find a star.

This 23 year old is gorgeous. And his ASS is as fine as his FACE.

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by Anonymousreply 94May 9, 2022 1:56 AM

Yes, absolutely. I want to dominate them and I'm quite demanding of my femboys. I demand good hygiene, French tip pedicures, no facial hair, I'm fine with hairy legs and hole, but I don't care for chest hair...and they better arrive properly cleaned out.

by Anonymousreply 95May 9, 2022 2:08 AM

Would Joe Locke be considered a femboy?

by Anonymousreply 96May 13, 2022 12:30 AM

R95, you are a confused homosexual

by Anonymousreply 97May 13, 2022 12:35 AM
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