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Guy friends or girl friends?

Growing up, did you have more guy friends or more girl friends?

by Anonymousreply 1101/11/2021

I had more girlfriends but a few really good guy friends, too.

by Anonymousreply 101/11/2021

In elementary school I had more girl friends.

In junior high and high school I had more guy friends.

That’s because I was sucking off most of them.

I was like Andy Samberg‘s character in “I love you, man”

by Anonymousreply 201/11/2021

Male until college (most of whom turned out tp be gay), then in college a mix (most of the men straight), then as a working adult separate spheres of gay and lesbian friends and mostly straight professional friends (the longer lasting of whom were women.) Now probably 2/3 straight friends and 1/3 gay friends, but not segregated.

by Anonymousreply 301/11/2021

Regrettably female in my younger years. The more masculine i became , more men.

by Anonymousreply 401/11/2021

It was a mixture of guys and girls from the neighborhood -- I didn't really have friends just from school. I grew up across the street from a park that was the magnet for kids within ten blocks. Total baby boomers so everyone had 4, 5, 6 siblings it seems (there were 8 of us) and they all went to the park. So on any given day, you'd have 25 kids hanging out on swings, playing baseball, pickup volleyball games, etc. There were certainly groups based on age; as one of the younger ones I could never hang out with the older ones, or maybe I was tolerated at times.

It was not some golden youth by any means, but I do recall the parts of being constantly active and relatively carefree with great warmth.

by Anonymousreply 501/11/2021

In and after high school I had four good male friends and five good female friends.

At university I had four good male friends and six good female friends.

This doesn't include boyfriends.

by Anonymousreply 601/11/2021

Guys. Always.

by Anonymousreply 701/11/2021

I had no friends until high school, then that was two guy friends.

by Anonymousreply 801/11/2021

Growing up all my friends were guys. It wasn't til after I came out that I started having some female friends.

by Anonymousreply 901/11/2021

[quote]The more masculine i became

Did your parents send you to masc4masc summer camp?

by Anonymousreply 1001/11/2021

Mostly guys until college. Since college, I have several close friendships with straight women, a few of them are first cousins. My guy friends are mostly straight. And all my closest guy friends are straight.

by Anonymousreply 1101/11/2021
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