Are you a size queen?

Hung4hung UB2

Yes, I must admit, I am.

I've had big and I've had small. Big is better.

66% of my boyfriends have been average. 66% of my fuck buddies have been horse hung.

I'm not rude about it it, not one who has to check out the goods with a quick grab or feel, and if I'm disappointed I make the best of (but probably don't repeat) the experience, but yes bigger bests smaller.

I've known men with smaller dicks who fuck very well, and men with big dicks who have no idea what to do with them, but bigger is on whole definitely better.

Yes! Give me that D. 😩

Probably because of something you feel is lacking within yourself, R4. Someone else's big dick is just fortifying for you, somehow.

So for those of you that say bigger is better, what specifically do you like about it? The visual appeal? Does it fill you up/hit your prostate better? All of the above?

Honestly curious here.

Big dick is sexy to look at. But you wouldn’t want something so big that make your rectum bleed. I would say no on Grindr to the person if he told me he had 7inch dick.

Yes.

Length is more important than width.

The one that fit inside me best was shorter than most, maybe 4". But it was nice and wide, maybe 2" (diameter, not circumference). Hit the spot with no pain, something that I could never say about the larger models.

I had a friend that used to say "There are two types of gay men -- Size Queens and those that lie about it."

I agree with you OP. I love growers and hope they don't grow too big. I don't do relationships and have 2 FWBs that are both huge, one Italian, one Black, and I have difficulty handling both of them.

7” or thereabouts is ideal for me. My bf’s dick is almost 9” and it took some getting used to

Big dicks in porn, average IRL.

No. I love a nice dick obviously, but that's not the priority for me. Granted, ACTUAL micropenis is off-putting, but no. I'm not.

I definitely love average more. if they fuck well i can come hands free. I've never had a great fuck from one larger than 7"

Bottom here and less than 6" is a bit too small, but bigger than 8.5 inches is a bit too much. I'm definitely a Goldicocks. I'm very tight, so it takes a bit to loosen me up. Super hung guys that I've been with generally seem a bit lazy about opening the bottom up to receive their big cocks. I had a fuck buddy who was 9" and it always hurt a bit going in. He didn't do anything to loosen me up. I would always start by sitting on it and easing down. I got used to him and it was fine once it was in, but there was always that moment before penetration where I was a bit apprehensive.

I've been with a few guys who were 9"-10" and it was always a struggle just to get it in. I hooked up with a guy when I was traveling for business who was huge--I mean porn hung. It took many attempts and nearly an hour before he could get all the way in. I was so exhausted by that effort I couldn't even get hard. I never tried with a guy like that again. I had an African-American guy who pursued me for many weeks at the local gay bar who was 11". It was after my porn-hung experience. I said thanks, but no way. The thought of even trying to get such a monster past my sphincter was a dick-wilter for me.

Dick size always seemed a bit more important for one night stands, FWBs and hook ups. For boyfriends and partners, the sex is always better even if they are only around 6" because of the feelings that are there in addition to the sexual attraction. That's usually what makes the best sex, at least for me.

[quote]I'm very tight, so it takes a bit to loosen me up.

I've been married three times. First was average (5" cut, no real thickness). He was the best at relationship. Second was better (6" cut, thicker), but it was the same old song sexually (and he was an asshole and abusive). Third was best (8" uncut, and thick like a corn dog), and moreover, he is a terrific husband.

Cock size is nice, but it's not the barometer for a good relationship. I'm lucky as fuck with what I have right now, but if I could have my first back, I'd be fine, too, because sometimes it's about being a good person and not a huge dick.

And that all said, for fuck buddies and hookups, it's large cocks, only. I'm not going through an hour of prep and cleanup for a baby carrot.

R19

[quote] I agree with you OP. I love growers and hope they don't grow too big. I don't do relationships and have 2 FWBs that are both huge, one Italian, one Black, and I have difficulty handling both of them.

Mmmmm, that sounds amazing. My hole is already starting to twitch. Massive meat rocks.

Definitely prefer it in hookups. But over time have come to realize it’s more to look at - and the psychology. 7 thick is ideal. A real 8 gets too big to be functional. Spent a weekend with a beer can 9 - it was fun and fascinating and I became a little obsessed. But in retrospect it was like seeing the WTC - fascinating and awesome but you’re not going to just stand around all day looking at it.

For whatever ever reason, I've rarely been able to tell what passes for a big dick. Like, what's the right length and and circumference to be considered big?

I judge anything to be "big" if it's big than me. I'm 6 inches with average girth. Every guy I've been with has been bigger than me.

So either I'm very average or I just have good luck in finding partners with nice meat.

R14 Are you dating a horse?

Total size queen here. I prefer 8 or 9 and up. But I will take a 6.5 to a 7, but you have to be bringing something else to the table.

I prefer average size. I want to be able to control my bowels when I’m older. No one needs a blown out hole. Besides, larger hurts more and they’re not aesthetically pleasing to me either.

That is complete nonsense R28. Do you also believe in the Santa Claus and the Tooth Fairy?

I'd say yes when I am looking at porn.

I do like a modestly big cock in person, but 6 inches is fine, it doesn't have to be double digits or anything.

But I cum harder and with more intensity when I'm fucked by a somewhat larger cock. I've had hung guys fuck me and it's glorious. But there's a point where it's too much. Anything over 7, I also have to consider thickness and the angle where it points when hard. I've been able to take a big, thick black cock that was nearly 10 inches very deep because it was ruler straight. Conversely, I've had a hot buddy who had between 6 and 7 and we tried several times to have him fuck me, but his dick is one of those that goes tight against his body the minute he gets hard, and it just could not take play from any other angle.

6 is way more perfect for sucking.

There's two things I can't stand; size queens and guys with small dicks.

R27 has EZ Pass above his hole.

[quote][R27] has EZ Pass above his hole.

Actually it says "Open 24/7"

so, what counts as thick? 5 inches around? 6? 7? Teach me, O Wise Gays!

[quote] I'm a 6c

Is that a shoe size?

I think he meant "6 inches, cut", R35

My ex was somewhat of a unicorn, an Asian with a big dick, even when soft (I've had plenty of Asian guys with good-sized dicks, but most are growers). This presented a problem as he loved to parade around the gym locker room stark naked, showing off, which led to a lot of guys coming on to him, none of which he seemingly refused. Hence, the 'ex' descriptor.

He was outstanding in bed, however.

YES.

[quote] Are you a size queen?

I am more of a queen size than a size queen, oh mattress not waist.

I’ve never been a size queen.

Then I hooked up with a guy who a a thick log of a cock,

And I liked it