Gay men who have slept with women, did you ever enjoy it?

Please -Spare us the details!

I have slept with one woman (18-19 years ago) and one trans man (much more recently). Both experiences were okay. The trans man was probably slightly more enjoyable because there was more of a male energy there and the clit was obviously much easier to get to.

R2. Well. Here comes breakfast.

do twinks with soft skin, light/weak body hair and small dicks count (as a woman)?

Nope. I fisted a female friends pussy. It was so loose and sloshy. Nasty!

I’ve slept with 15-20 women (was in a fraternity.. and pretty hot in my youth) all from high school to about 31 years old. I enjoyed it maybe twice.. I am gay, and sexually attracted to men (happily married now so fully committed to my husband). As i got older, I didn’t purse the women I had sex with, they all pursued me ( I had a woman rip my shirt off in a parking lot of a bar as I was going in to meet friends and have a drink - I fucked her and she was fun actually)...

Ive had a few sexual encounterss with women.......it was all about experimentation though and denying the truth. I grew up in a society where being gay just wasn't an option, unthinkable almost.

It wasn't until I was 30 that I had my first real sexual experience with a man. The emotions and intensity were on the next level, compared to women.

Oh, and I never came with women!

Once.

No.

Yes in a MMF three-way (they were a married couple)..

We (the wife and I) both blew him. He fucked both of us. Both of us fucked her.

It wasn't horrible or anything, but I can't say I enjoyed fucking her. It was more that I got off from her husband telling me to fuck her. Maybe I'm messed up.

I had three-ways subsequently but I never fucked the wife again. Just wasn't that into it, but they were a fun couple.

Gold star gay man here, but I did have a bizarrely sexual dream about Monica Seles a few weeks ago. I don't know why the fuck I dreamt about having sex with her, of all people. It brought back memories of once waking up in a cold sweat many years ago after a horrible dream in which I had sex with an overweight, middle-aged Tom Hanks. Yuck!

Yes, had a girlfriend when I was 17 years old. We fucked all the time. Like The Love Boat, it was exciting and fun.

Yes, maybe a half dozen women, and several times for most. I enjoyed it, but it was clear in the back of my mind that it wasn't enough. An MMF threesome made that clear, and shortly after it was men, men, men.

what percentage of gay men do you think have actually had sex with women? i always wonder that.

i never have.

It was alright, but the first time I hooked up with a man the difference was very clear.

Guess it's how the gay for pay types feel.

r13 that's worth a DL poll thread—not that Dl is representative of the full gay population.

A decent number in my teens and twenties.

If it was just someone I'd met in a bar or at a party then it was often fun because it was no pressure, we were each getting off and pussy.

But if it was someone I was dating then it always felt a little off, like I should be feeling more passion or something and it was less fun.

Does a hairless twink powerbottom named Timee count as a woman?

agreed R15 - i don't think I can start threads/polls though. You need some special account.

I kind of assume I'm a freak and most gay men have experimented with girls in high school and even college. I was too socially anxious and uncomfortable. Went straight to men in my 20s.

Done R13

Very much so. I know that doesn’t commute for many gay men but it’s true. If I weren’t partnered, I would still be partaking

That's fine r20, but if you would actively seek out sex with women that means you are bisexual not gay.

21 posts till that old argument came up.

Then again it's Christmas Eve so DLer may be off their game somewhat.

It's not an old argument it is simple fact r22.

If someone wants to actively seek out sex with men and women, then by definition they are bisexual.

I had vaginal sex with one woman when I was closeted. I went down on another woman once as well. Vaginal sex was awesome because vaginas are great for fucking, I just wish it wasn't attached to a woman. Cunnilingus was traumatizing; I was "drunk and couldn't get it up" so I stupidly offered that instead. The truth was I was GAY and couldn't get it up for pussy. I came out soon after.

[Quote]Vaginal sex was awesome because vaginas are great for fucking

They are. The simple truth is fucking a vagina feels better than fucking a ass. Which shows how much sex is mental that I still much prefer fucking a dude's ass.

I experimented in threesome or group situations with women. I was so high/drunk and turned on by the hot cock in the room that it didn’t really register. It was just total and utter debauchery. I didn’t hate it, but it’s still not my preference or taste. It’s not nearly as bad as some Marys will have you think it is, though. Unless you are with a woman who has some kind of infection or an unkempt bush, it’s nothing terrible. Just not my thing.

Sorry, but I agree R20 is bisexual, not gay. If he were seemingly happily married to a woman but still entertaining fantasies about men we'd say the same thing.

thank you R19!

r25 how does it feel different if you don't mind me asking?

Hooray, the rabid anti-bi shouter seems to be on Christmas vacation!

Bad poll, OP. It should have asked, "Have you (gay men only) ever had sex (oral, vaginal, or anal) with a woman?" Answer options should be yes or no. Then we don't have to guess the percentage -- we can (somewhat, but better than nothing) extrapolate that result to gay men in general. Nobody can just guess the percentage -- that's what we are trying to ascertain.

OP, you're a millennial, aren't you?

It still feels good, just not in the same way. At least you don't need lube.

This thread again?

Oh yeah. It's great. Just not as great as sleeping with other men.

I tried, but I couldn't get aroused enough to do it. I said I couldn't get it up because my uncle could hear us in the next room, lol.

When I was younger I had a three way with a married couple. I started out eating her pussy and her hubby liked watching me do that. Honestly I didn't mind it. I would eat pussy again. I did try to fuck her but I couldn't keep it up for her. It just wasn't my thing. I gave the hubby head but he could hardly keep an erection. I guess he wasn't down with getting blown by a dude.

I was 22 years old. At that age, I would have happily fucked a watermelon.

Tied 4-5 times between 15 and 20. Could never get it up. That why I’m so amazed a pt gay men who get married and have kids, it’s just physically impossible for me - even in my prime days when my dick got hard easily. 100% gay.

[quote]They are. The simple truth is fucking a vagina feels better than fucking a ass. Which shows how much sex is mental that I still much prefer fucking a dude's ass

That made no sense whatsoever and totally contradict yourself.

Compulsory heterosexuality isn't an issue for most young gay men nowadays as it was for eldergays in their time. I don't know why you keep bringing this subject matter up??

Are you triggered, R40? Do you need a safe space?

WHY do you guys ask this stupid question on a gay site every fucking week??? It's boring and stupid.

"Cunnilingus was traumatizing; I was 'drunk and couldn't get it up' so I stupidly offered that instead."

Just so you understand, cunnilingus is not something done "instead" of fucking, it's part of the normal program. If that makes you sick, you have not business being with a female on any level. Now STFU.

For those that have, did you do missionary or from behind?

Gold Star here and glad of it.

fully committed to my husband

Really, was that necessary to say? The need to tell that says you're lying, try something else bitch.

I still do, on occasion. Full disclosure.

When me and my friends started playing together (hand jobs, oral, one successful anal), We were around 12. Bagging a bird was a trophy. We competed and cheered each other on.

Eventually, some guys stopped playing but some of us continued through college. All the time, some of us were playing both sides of the fence. I especially enjoyed being watched when throwing my stroke game to women than men. I’m sure that means I’m fucked in the head for it.

^^I also think I’m lazy because I prefer sex without an 18 wheeler full of overhead.

R41, No, sweetie. I'm just bored with your right-wing retardation.

One woman. I dated her because the guy I actually had a crush on was obsessed with her, but she wanted to be with me. I was claiming to be bisexual at the time and I used her to prove to myself I was. We had sex several times. I never came although she thought I did. Yes I faked it.

After that relationship I discovered I wasn't bisexual and never looked back. I guess I had to prove to myself, after dating females throughout high school, that I was really gay.

If only we could ask all these women if THEY enjoyed it.

No. I did not enjoy it. It felt unnatural and I don't like to think about it.

Making out, kissing and cunnilingus are fine. But fucking? NO.