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Virgo

My favorite description of Virgo is by Liz Greene, probably my favorite astrologer:

That ubiquitous newspaper portrait of the tidy Virgo soul with a perfectly balanced bank account and an immaculate bathroom no doubt sends you into fits of cynical laughter. Virgos are generally sadly misinterpreted, and understandably you can get pretty irritated about it, especially if you’re the sort of Virgo who is untidy, chaotic and not in the least concerned about whether you arrive at one minute before eight or one minute after.

Discrimination is a Virgo characteristic. So is subtlety of thinking. Black and white perceptions imply a simple universe, and to you the universe is rarely simple. It’s more like a huge, boundless jigsaw puzzle, and it can drive you crazy if you’re missing a piece or if there isn’t a picture on the top of the box showing you how the puzzle should look when it’s finished.

But perfectionism – something of which you are often accused – isn’t the same as discrimination. To be a perfectionist you have to be idealistic, and Virgo is probably the most realistic sign of the zodiac. You harbour no impossible vision of a perfect utopian world, or even a perfect utopian bathroom. You know your strengths and weaknesses, and you don’t indulge in either arrogance or false modesty. You use what comes to hand to create order in your world, and order is at the top of your list of priorities – whether it’s order in the material environment, in the realm of ideas, or in mind and body.

Virgos are the great synthesisers of the zodiac. Both your problems and your gifts spring from this deep urge to bring things together, to connect knowledge and experience to form a comprehensible whole. With Mercury, god of intelligence and communication, ruling this sign, naturally you love acquiring knowledge, especially if it’s useful. And “useful”, like “order”, is another important word for Virgo. If something can’t be used, you’ll discard it with a ruthlessness that can terrify more sentimental signs. Sometimes Virgos throw out romance because it isn’t useful.

You’re capable of being quite cynical, and you know perfectly well that one has to be clever to survive. If you’re going to do something, you’ll do it well, from both pride of craftsmanship and a good marketing sense. Idealistic perfection? Hardly. Yet despite this apparent toughness, the impulse to be of service runs strong in you.

Virgos need to feel needed and useful. There’s not a lot of ambition in this sign, and your tendency to look for more and more pieces to complete the great jigsaw puzzle of life takes away any propensity for the kind of obsessiveness needed to claw your way ambitiously to the top of the heap. You’d make an excellent advisor or counsellor to those silly enough to have grabbed the throne and subjected themselves to all that trouble. Your work is the thing you let people know first about you, not your secret self. With Virgos, not all the goods are visible in the shop window.

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by Anonymousreply 21April 5, 2021 1:05 AM

You don’t like showing your hand until you know where you stand. You’re a student and observer of life rather than a gambler or an entrepreneur. With all that self-containment, naturally the emotional realm can be the trickiest piece of the puzzle. Emotions aren’t orderly, and they make you feel vulnerable. All those rituals you love so much are a means of keeping the “dark forces” of your own powerful feelings at bay. Deep within you there’s a huge reservoir of sensitivity, romanticism and imaginative vision. Show it? Never. Your apparent coolness and insistence on privacy are a way of protecting yourself against an intolerable sensitivity. All that emphasis on practical reality helps you escape the mystic in your own soul.

You can be detached and even brusque in manner, and no one will ever catch you offering your last pennies to a drunk on the street. More likely you’ll deliver a stern lecture about self-help. But this is because you’re too acutely, compassionately aware of the human flotsam of life.

Planning for the future can be an obsession with you, because your realism makes it hard for you to trust in life. Yet when you feel secure, you can be the kindest, most gentle and generous of souls, giving freely of your time and skills. You’re a complex creature, with many masks and disguises. You’ve learned your lessons early. But then, it’s only realistic.

by Anonymousreply 1December 1, 2020 5:29 AM

Who the fuck asked Virgo to show up?

by Anonymousreply 2December 1, 2020 5:32 AM

R2 Bitch, don’t.

by Anonymousreply 3December 1, 2020 5:34 AM

R3 Go straighten up your collectables Virgo.

by Anonymousreply 4December 1, 2020 5:40 AM

Do people really still believe in this crap?

by Anonymousreply 5December 1, 2020 5:40 AM

Virgos doooo

by Anonymousreply 6December 1, 2020 7:50 AM

R5 What’s your sign?

Aries, Taurus, or Scorpio?

by Anonymousreply 7December 1, 2020 9:21 AM

R5 here. R7, I’m September 22 so I guess I am on the cusp of Virgo/Libra. I just don’t put a lot of stock in astrology.

by Anonymousreply 8December 1, 2020 4:45 PM

R8 I used to in my teens and early twenties but not so much now. However, psychological - Jungian - astrology still fascinates me on occasion. I don’t buy into fatalistic astrology.

by Anonymousreply 9December 1, 2020 4:48 PM

This guy—who I don’t know well and I don’t find objectively attractive—who is bizarrely in my current intrusive fantasies has a Virgo Moon (trine Neptune), with a Libra Mars (weakly aspected) and a Leo Sun (opposite Saturn). That means he’s a lousy lay, right?

My Mars is in Capricorn squaring my Moon in the Libran 8th house, and I’m an Aqua, so I can’t have annoying cheesy wet-blanket romantics in my bed lmao

by Anonymousreply 10April 4, 2021 2:27 PM

Grow up, OP.

by Anonymousreply 11April 4, 2021 2:30 PM

[quote]That means he’s a lousy lay, right?

Depends on where the moon is in relation to your moon at the exact present moment, does it not?

You're quite the stalker to have tracked down his time of birth and everything.

by Anonymousreply 12April 4, 2021 2:35 PM

I dated a Virgo. I don't really buy into this shit either but he was anal retentive and, yes, not that great in bed. Also, paranoid to a fault. He would put single strands of hair on his nightstand drawers to see if someone opened them.

by Anonymousreply 13April 4, 2021 2:45 PM

Technically, I'm a Virgo, but I don't believe in Astrology. Plus, I don't fit the Virgo profile at all. Sometimes, at the end of the day, I'll read the daily horoscope in the newspaper, and it never applies to what has happened to me. Never.

by Anonymousreply 14April 4, 2021 2:50 PM

The two Virgos in my life are disorganized slobs.

by Anonymousreply 15April 4, 2021 2:53 PM

Most of the ones I know are dicks. And not in a cool way, either.

by Anonymousreply 16April 4, 2021 2:54 PM

R12 hahaha dw, I’m too lazy and self-absorbed to stalk. Plus I don’t know his exact birthtime/location, and I’m not about to ask or try to find out either! I do have a level of basic respect for a boundary. All I know is his birthday and the city he comes from, because he once told me that (in school), and also because he’s sort of famous and it’s now public information you can Google in one page. I forgot dude even existed until this morning, when I randomly woke up from an unwanted and unprompted sexy dream about him, so🤷‍♀️

So yeah, don’t read anything into it. As an amateur astrologer, I look up many interesting people I meet if I can and if it’s not weird, and not to an exact or obsessive degree (just enough to get the planets/big aspects).

The current general moon in Cap is conjuncting most of my chart but squaring my natal Moon. Forgive the ignorant question, but what does that mean in the context of my question? I’m better at synastry than I am at the rest...

R13 that sounds nuts. I have had two older female Virgo coworkers at seperate jobs, one a manager and the other just a colleague, and both were obsessive about their working routines and about micromanaging everything in the office. They would both notice if one little thing was out of the usual place, or if any other coworker did something that wasn’t protocol. None of my other colleagues were like this. I had to leave both jobs because it drove me insane.

by Anonymousreply 17April 4, 2021 2:56 PM

R8 don't take that cusp shit seriously. You either have a planet in a sign or you don't. It's just more BS that astrologers make up so they can have more pointless books and articles to write.

by Anonymousreply 18April 4, 2021 3:00 PM

Natal Jupiter is in Virgo for me, the only planet there, in a close trine with Mars. I usually do well when I am organised, and when I act subtle and pull strings, but being a beasty Capricorn-type, my instinct generally is to delegate, take the lead, or just charge right in to whatever I’m doing without a plan (and it gets me in hot water). I find planning and scheming and details and chores very boring, except listmaking which soothes me for some reason.

What OP post says about shades of grey and discrimination is true of me, though. I was always that kid asking “why?”, and sympathising with morally-ambiguous people.

by Anonymousreply 19April 4, 2021 3:07 PM

Anyone here a Virgo Moon or Rising? What is that like? My sister has those placements, and I can never figure her out.

by Anonymousreply 20April 4, 2021 6:54 PM

{quote] Do people really still believe in this crap?

No. Both my husband and I are Virgos born on the same day in the same year. We are very, very different than one another in many, many ways.

by Anonymousreply 21April 5, 2021 1:05 AM
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