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Why is there so much trannie and bisexual hate on here?

Why is there so much trannie and bisexual hate on here?

by Anonymousreply 66November 29, 2020 11:27 PM

I can't stand the transphobia here.

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by Anonymousreply 1November 27, 2020 12:39 PM

Trannie hate stems from them overplaying their hand with their activism.

Instead of promoting inclusiveness, they veer toward entitlement and the public get turned off by it.

In Australia, we ended up having a theatre show shut down because the trannies complained they were entitled to be cast above others in a role that wasn't even a trans role. They don't even do their homework.

The theatres had been shut down for months and finally a chance to open and actors gaining employment was twarted by activist trannies.

They cant help themselves.

by Anonymousreply 2November 27, 2020 12:42 PM

I don;t understand why the OP is linking trannies with bisexuals.

by Anonymousreply 3November 27, 2020 12:44 PM

I have never noticed any bisexual hate here. But like R2 says, the transgender community is creating a great deal of drama for the gay and lesbian community. So much trouble to pacify so few. That's why there is anger towards some, not all. The description of the theatrical issue in Australia is disgusting. I live in New York City and I have not had any dealings with obvious transgenders, only some unwanted passes that didn't even involve a conversation, so it is easy to just walk away from that. Whoever decided to add the T on in the community's name didn't realize what would happen when they began to make all these unreasonable demands. I'm glad I'm nearing retirement age and have obtained an "I don't give a fuck" attitude about them. They deserve equal rights, not SPECIAL rights, just as gays and lesbians do. They have turned the world of taking a piss or a shit upside down with their bathroom demands, especially the psychotic bearded uglies who think just because they are wearing a dress, they can use the women's room. Fuck that.

by Anonymousreply 4November 27, 2020 12:49 PM

Are you new R4?? There is plenty of bisexual hate. It might be coming from one or two people, but there's plenty.

by Anonymousreply 5November 27, 2020 1:13 PM

Bisexuals are hot but they are always in danger of paying child support. That makes them unattractive.

by Anonymousreply 6November 27, 2020 1:15 PM

especially the psychotic bearded uglies who think just because they are wearing a dress, they can use the women's room. Fuck that.

I couldn’t agree more R4

OP- because bisexuals still fuck the fish and I don’t want to be with a guy that will then go and fuck fish afterwards and trannies are mentally unstable individuals who demand attention even when they are basically cross dressers claiming to be trannies with the big beards and beer bellies

by Anonymousreply 7November 27, 2020 1:25 PM

R5 Not new, but I've never seen it, or if like you say, it comes from one or two people, just looked right past it. I've notice a lot of negativity towards transgenders which could be why the bisexual bashing isn't as noticeable to me. I've had encounters myself with plenty of bisexual people, those in bad marriages or men on the downlow, and when they've wanted to extend it past a quickie or one nighter declined. I consider it a betrayal if you are in a marriage where there is still sex to stray, and I've never wanted to be "the other man" so to speak, even if the primary spouse was female. That's the only issue I've had with bisexuals. The negativity towards transgenders is a combination of anger and simple not wanting to understand. I'm simply apathetic towards them. It's only based on what I have read in a negative context that has made me not really feel any sympathy towards a good majority of them. I've had several acquaintances who were transgender, very sweet and attentive, but something I could not put my finger on made me reluctant to get too close to them.

by Anonymousreply 8November 27, 2020 1:35 PM

Not all transes are the same.

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by Anonymousreply 9November 27, 2020 1:45 PM

It's an anonymous forum so people are inclined towards posting what they really think.

by Anonymousreply 10November 27, 2020 3:16 PM

Women to men, better men. Men to women, worse women.

by Anonymousreply 11November 27, 2020 3:18 PM

It’s because even if you position yourself as an ally to transgender causes they’ll take it the wrong way or insist your doing it all wrong.

by Anonymousreply 12November 27, 2020 3:28 PM

I haven't thought about bisexuals in a long time. I've been friendly with a number of bisexual women but have never encountered a truly bisexual man. Not once, FWIW.

About a decade ago, I had mutual friends with a female "bisexual activist" who kept lecturing us all about bisexual invisibility and erasure (the equivalent of murder, in her eyes). She would constantly interrupt conversation about lesbian and gay issues to insert "the B word", even when it made little sense. (What, for example, is a "bisexual bar?" Or "bisexual parenting?") I found her insufferable and cut off any/all ties with her. It was a good lesson for me how someone else's agenda could actually impede progress for the larger group, ie, lesbians and gays.

by Anonymousreply 13November 27, 2020 3:47 PM

Because trannies are the enemy of gay men. They want to erase us from history, our communities.

by Anonymousreply 14November 27, 2020 3:49 PM

There are one or two anti-trans posters on DL and they take over every trans-related thread.

I ignore those threads because they’re all the same

by Anonymousreply 15November 27, 2020 3:52 PM

[quote] There is plenty of bisexual hate. It might be coming from one or two people, but there's plenty.

Bisexuals and trannies have nothing to do with one another. You are just adding them on to make trannie hate more inclusive.

by Anonymousreply 16November 27, 2020 3:53 PM

I said years ago that a sizeable number of gays and lesbians were actually undiagnosed transgenders (one trip to a club or pride parade will illustrate that). But because of societal pressures, self-loathing, ignorance, expense... people just got under the Gay umbrella.

Now people have safety in numbers, and are creeping slowly out of the trans closet. More power to them. Let people be who they are. Stronger Together.

As for Datalounge's mostly middle-aged white male population? See: Denial. Anyone who says, "I want him in me deeply. I need his baby batter in mussy oven"... Maybe a good Therapist could help them sort it out?

It's never too late (Caitlyn)!

by Anonymousreply 17November 27, 2020 3:56 PM

Fuck off, Matthew.

by Anonymousreply 18November 27, 2020 3:57 PM

We hate trannies because they took over our community, derailed our civil rights movement, and ultimately used us as a stepping stone to get into the spotlight only to use that opportunity to say that trans people are the most oppressed group, gay men are the least oppressed group, etc etc. The cherry on top is their erasure of gay civil rights history and self-insertion into it, which is starting to make straight people see gay and trans as interchangeable.

Gays hate bisexuals for silly reasons, mostly because we think they're all just closeted gay men/lesbos and find their "I don't see gender, I love whoever regardless of genitalia" kumbaya bullshit annoying when most of them have a clear preference (and sorry to the woke, but having a gender preference DOES make you less of a bisexual).

by Anonymousreply 19November 27, 2020 3:58 PM

OP, why do you hate gay people? Only somebody who hates gay people would come to a gay forum just to accuse gay people of bigotry.

by Anonymousreply 20November 27, 2020 4:02 PM

DL has a lot of old bitter misanthropes

by Anonymousreply 21November 27, 2020 4:03 PM

All nongay sexuality is abnormal. If God wanted men and women to be together, then He would’ve made us the same.

by Anonymousreply 22November 27, 2020 4:16 PM

Boris wants to divide-and-conquer the LGBT community for the same reason he spends the other half of his day denigrating women on DL: he wants to destroy the liberal coalition that stops Donald Trump, Vladimir Putin and other psychopaths from gaining control.

All these groups are traditionally allies who vote together for Democrats. So Boris wants to break them up, naturally.

But make no mistake — there is one, professional Boris with the same writing style and a hundred sock puppet accounts who sits on DL spamming right-wing hate on DL all day, which makes it seem like others agree with him.

We don't.

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by Anonymousreply 23November 27, 2020 7:48 PM

Using that acronym to refer to the gay community IS a form of divide and conquer.

R23 is a Woke Homophobe, a xenophobe, and a concern troll.

by Anonymousreply 24November 28, 2020 1:08 AM

Because the Trans ideology is sexist and homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 25November 28, 2020 3:27 AM

I can't find it now, but there was a tranny on YouTube named Michelle that was the epitome of the trans mindset. A big middle age sissy in a wig and heels and dress twirling around the office. Please someone post it so we have an concrete example.

by Anonymousreply 26November 28, 2020 3:39 AM

People who claim to be bisexual aren't my problem; in fact, they aren't a problem at all. Once you know what you're getting into, you just have to hope they aren't promiscuous. Many gay men enjoy the depths of depravity as far as being gay is concerned, so I don't step on anyone's preferences or peccadilloes as far as sexual (or even emotional) gratification is concerned.

Trannies, however, are mentally-ill and attention-seeking. They have nothing to do with sexual orientation, and everything to do with personal confusion, psychological hurdles, and whatever else they feel is impeding them from just living as a regular human being. The trend of Mengele-ing the fuck out of young people (e.g., Jazz Jennings) to fit into a trend or a passing fancy is one of the most horrific things that modern-day society is experiencing. What other culture would immediately medicate those with mental delusions and persecutions and flights of fancy, but embrace and call "normal" those who claim to have been born in the wrong body? Who allowed this to happen?

I have no interest in trannies apart from a sense of empathy and a hope that they find some peace with their inner turmoil. Again, they have nothing to do with those who claim to be gay or bi. Nothing.

by Anonymousreply 27November 28, 2020 3:39 AM

Because being bi is impossible. Bi equals gay.

by Anonymousreply 28November 28, 2020 3:50 AM

I think most of us find the constant spotlight thirst of today’s tranny exhausting, and let’s face it many of them look and behave ludicrously. But I think for most of us it’s a topic of mild derision, the modern variety I mean.

Then there are bitter, perma-rage lesbians for whom it seems to bring on a perpetual psychotic event. If you want to see which is which, delicately whisper the words “women’s spaces” — it’s like the hot needle in the blood test in the movie “The Thing.”

by Anonymousreply 29November 28, 2020 3:57 AM

Because the population here skews heavily towards eldergays and elder radfems, and both groups have had a lot more time on their hands and even more trauma to work out since the start of the pandemic.

by Anonymousreply 30November 28, 2020 4:02 AM

I don't believe in bisexuals. They should just pick one and stick to it.

by Anonymousreply 31November 28, 2020 4:18 AM

[quote] both groups have had a lot more time on their hands

Where does this e-putdown dwell in the pantheon? Let’s slot it in somewhere above, or below, the likes of “lives in his parents’ basement” and “you mad bro?”

by Anonymousreply 32November 28, 2020 4:40 AM

No matter how seriously they take themselves, to me, trannies will always be a a deluded joke. When they hit 50,they will have an enlarged prostate like most other men.

by Anonymousreply 33November 28, 2020 5:04 AM

Gay men had no problem with trans people until they started taking over our community and silencing us in our own spaces. They brought the hate upon themselves.

The bisexuals are a different story. We hate trans people because of legitimate grievances that are actually important, our beef with bisexuals is more like a turf war sort of thing. It's stupid and almost jokey. The trans issue is serious and has to do with our civil rights being threatened.

by Anonymousreply 34November 28, 2020 5:05 AM

Oh god OP. There's no DL trans hate in the specific sense. Just a very annoyed frustration with their "activists" and their tactics which has led some to hate, and justifiably so. But no one gives a shit if a man feels he was born a female and wants to correct that. Just leave us LGB alone.

by Anonymousreply 35November 28, 2020 5:13 AM

Don't look at me. Most of my exes have been bi, many gay men are just too extra to deal with.

by Anonymousreply 36November 28, 2020 5:19 AM

You might as well refer to "lesbian, gay, bi, and Lutheran" or "lesbian, gay, bi, and redheads." The T have nothing in common with the LGB movement.

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by Anonymousreply 37November 28, 2020 5:26 AM

Troll thread - people who are actually sympathetic to trans people don't call them "trannies"

by Anonymousreply 38November 28, 2020 5:35 AM

Dyke at R11.

by Anonymousreply 39November 28, 2020 6:11 AM

Sex is for reproduction. We need high fertile rate to survive as nation. Immigration is not acceptable. Ask rome.

by Anonymousreply 40November 28, 2020 11:23 AM

"A bisexual is someone who puts their hands down another person's pants and is happy with WHATEVER they find there."

by Anonymousreply 41November 28, 2020 11:57 AM

You are aware that your use of the word "trannie" (more commonly spelled with a "y") would be enough for you to receive death threats on Twitter, OP?

by Anonymousreply 42November 28, 2020 2:04 PM

R14 you sound stupid enough to believe Elvis is still alive.

Your particular brand of stupidity is an embarrassment to gays everywhere.

by Anonymousreply 43November 28, 2020 2:59 PM

Most trannies are sad wannabes. If you really are "trans" you commit and take the chop and get the man-made pussy. Of course, most tranny chasers like the dick. It's a real conundrum. Perhaps the tranny chasers that like the dick are the only true bi-sexuals. They get the sexual mullet - party on top - business down below.

by Anonymousreply 44November 28, 2020 3:02 PM

r42 is probably a Trumpster who sends death threats to Democrats

by Anonymousreply 45November 28, 2020 5:52 PM

Chicks with dicks.

by Anonymousreply 46November 28, 2020 8:56 PM

Dudes with boobs.

by Anonymousreply 47November 29, 2020 9:01 AM

Why is there so much hatred for gay men and lesbians that they want to reboot bad 90s shows just so they can use them to promote our erasure?

by Anonymousreply 48November 29, 2020 10:15 AM

No one hate bisexual. No one hate tranny. What we hate are those mentally unstable attention seekers. Trust me, these people are not trans. And they will happily change their look completely if the trans things is out of fashion.

by Anonymousreply 49November 29, 2020 11:02 AM

This is what we dislike. Not true transgender people.

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by Anonymousreply 50November 29, 2020 11:04 AM

Dear OP,

trolls being trolls and haters being haters. All of their claims against trans were used against gays in the past. That's all you need you know about these bigoted losers, hiding behind the anonymity of DL, too lazy to come up with something new.

by Anonymousreply 51November 29, 2020 11:07 AM

A quick primer:

Most of the anti-trans posters are rightwingers and alt-righties who can often be seen on other threads saying racist, homophobic and antisemitic stuff, complaining about immigrants, praising Brexit and BJ and Trump, linking to The Blaze and shilling for their new blogs and forums since their original forums were shut down.

One of the biggest signs that they're part of a small alt-right group of trolls is the huge number of WWs they receive. They've been abusing the system for years by using sockpuppets in the exact same way the rightwingers do.

They are frequently straight women and will say homophobic things to regulars and have in the past FFed gays to ban them from their own board. Then they complain incessantly about how gays are all "cruel" and "promiscuous." The user Atschmid on Reddit used to post here, maybe still does, but they got redtagged in a 600 Lbs Life thread a long time ago and were outed as one of these anti-trans trolls. This is the kind of thing she says about DL and gays, and most of the anti-trans ladies say the same things.

[quote]Not sure if any of you are aware of really what the gay community is like but they are BRUTAL to one another. Read "datalounge.com" it is a gay forum (don't comment, I warn you; they loathe and despise women). Datalounge makes it clear that the gay community is unqiuely isolated in american culture, is highly promisculous, and youth-focused. They think of any man older than 35 as being too old for a "normal" sex life. They routinely discuss the thousands (literally thousands) of sex partners they have had, and I have a hard time trying to imagine how Grace and Frankie are going to incorporate this rather cruel and judgmental sub-culture into their own little worlds.

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by Anonymousreply 52November 29, 2020 11:25 AM

More from former (maybe) DL anti-trans troll Atschmid, as posted on GenderCritical before the whole subreddit was deleted:

[quote]Over on datalounge, it becomes totally clear that gay men all crave being desired by straight guys. That's what this is. Carried to a ridiculous extreme. ... Tnot really sure what the fascination is but to some extent it is narcissism. The idea that a gay man might find homosexual sex repulsive, but are so enamored of this one gay man, that they stop at nothing to have sex with him. That is the fantasy. Plenty of women have that fantasy too. But with gay men it is complicated by the taboo on homosexuality.

That's who the handful of DL gays who have joined in with these anti-transers are allying themselves with.

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by Anonymousreply 53November 29, 2020 11:30 AM

And yet, R53, the manifestly clear and obvious FF-ing and greying out on this subject on DL is done by the trans supporters.

by Anonymousreply 54November 29, 2020 11:32 AM

R52/r53 thinks gay men have vaginas.

by Anonymousreply 55November 29, 2020 11:34 AM

We do, R55. And any gay man who has a penis and refuses to stick it in my vagina is not just a transphobe but a homophobe as well. Just because I don’t have a cock is no reason to cockblock me, you fucking cisf@gg0t.

by Anonymousreply 56November 29, 2020 11:38 AM

Not true, r54. These organized trolls gray out every thread that doesn't go their way.

by Anonymousreply 57November 29, 2020 11:42 AM

Here's a good one, a comment on Against Men, a community for cataloging all the offenses men have committed since the dawn of time, and a commenter saying all black women are anti trans because of posts on Lipstick Alley, and all gay men are anti trans because of posts over here.

That's another thing the anti trans trolls do, they go to boards dedicated to a certain demographic and spam them with anonymous/sockpuppet posts, then post elsewhere saying "Hey look, the gays agree with us" or "The blacks agree with us" or what have you.

Do a CTRL-F and search for "Datalounge" to find it. It's poorly written but you'll get the gist.

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by Anonymousreply 58November 29, 2020 11:42 AM

Not that long ago, trans threads would disappear routinely because they wouldn't go the way the anti-trans trolls wanted them to, so they'd FF their own thread until it disappeared. They also did it if there was info they didn't want mentioned, like the time they all chatted amongst themselves about how they were straight women who posted on Mumsnet and Kiwifarms all the time. Kind of a mistake considering so many of them were pretending to be lesbians.

They don't get grayed out much anymore, let alone disappear, and in fact half the time someone whines on here about the "censorship" or being grayed out, when I go to look it's not grayed out at all. These trolls don't realize that a thread being grayed out is an issue with their settings, they don't even TRY to figure out how the board works, and they want to whine about being "censored" anyway so sometimes they just pretend.

by Anonymousreply 59November 29, 2020 11:45 AM

Don't feed the trolls, but feel free to post links to legit sources that prove the trolls' lies to be wrong. All the trolls want is getting under your skin so you post some silly rant they can use to mock you or, like Milo Y. used to do, point at you claiming that the Liberals are the real Nazis of today.

by Anonymousreply 60November 29, 2020 11:54 AM

Because I don't want tranny associated with my sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 61November 29, 2020 11:56 AM

R59, not that long ago threads on trans issues on DL would automatically disappear because of the fascist craze that had swept the internet and media, which ruled that there must be no questioning of trans claims and anyone who said something like "transwomen are men" or "lesbians don't have penises" was deemed to be more evil than a Nazi concentration camp guard.

Thankfully that fascist trend has somewhat declined in many instances, although I note that in public discourse in the US any questioning of the gender ideology is still mostly immediately struck down. Thankfully in the UK we're a little able to have some discussion as to whether, for example, it's a good idea to give 12 year olds puberty blockers.

by Anonymousreply 62November 29, 2020 11:56 AM

That Matt Antschler (or whatever the troll's name is) fills up threads, he doesn't like, by posting one comment over and over again until the thread reached its comment limit of 600.

I believe that's why Muriel decided to automatically lock down threads that become too popular too quick.

by Anonymousreply 63November 29, 2020 11:59 AM

I can't remember his real last name r63 (he posted with it for a while) but do remember someone once called him Matt Antschlong, but it sadly didn't take.

by Anonymousreply 64November 29, 2020 12:02 PM

Trans are about denying science and that makes them incredibly dangerous.

by Anonymousreply 65November 29, 2020 2:25 PM

R52 Your comments doesn't have much WW, does it?

by Anonymousreply 66November 29, 2020 11:27 PM
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