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New generations of boys are super fluid

So my nephew is an 18 years old handsome boy and I always expected him to be straight, he had his girlfriends and everything. Well surprise, in Thanksgiving he told me he also fucks fem gays, yeah, and he is not the only one, all his friends (the popular jocks type) are into femboys apparently and they talk about it freely between them, even in front of straight girls.

God it really pissed me off, those guys were the ones that bullied us during HS and now I know that if I were a 16 years old twin they would be flattering and fucking me like a hot chick.

They are all open about this, of course I don’t think my sister knows about this, but he showed me pics, not hot of course, of the guys he is talking too and chats with his group of friends talking about fucking them. They really don’t seem to have a strong preference for either women or femboys, they are just attracted to femininity. So I guess every generation of gays is going to be more and more feminine in order to get straight cock.

What do you think about this?

by Anonymousreply 10505/04/2021

I don't think about it. Not for one second.

by Anonymousreply 111/27/2020

I just need to point this is Cali and we live in a very progressive, upper area. Of course I don’t think this is happening everywhere, at least not yet.

by Anonymousreply 211/27/2020

By femme, your nephew doesn't just mean limp wristed. He means pretty. So... feel better, OP.

by Anonymousreply 311/27/2020

"Cali?" Really?

by Anonymousreply 411/27/2020

R3 I was fucking gorgeous. I still am, but aged and not interested at all in younger guys. They are not interested in me either, because I’m old. I was born the wrong fucking year. We all even the ugly ones, would have enjoyed more this time.

by Anonymousreply 511/27/2020

"Old person laments that things weren't as great when he was young as they are today. Film at 11:00."

by Anonymousreply 611/27/2020

Pretty can always get fucked. Thus, I don't believe your lament, OP.

by Anonymousreply 711/27/2020

R7 I get fucked, I have a relationship and I can get dick whenever I want from him or others, I’m not that old, my sister is much older I was a teen when my nephew was born. But I wish my teen years would have been more open and fun, like all those twink bitches he and his friends are fucking.

At least I’m open about it.

by Anonymousreply 811/27/2020

The Long Gone Queens of Yesteryear would WEEP TEARS OF JOY if they saw how easy it was to see, taste & feel Straight cock nowadays.

by Anonymousreply 911/27/2020

[Quote] But I wish my teen years would have been more open and fun, like all those twink bitches he and his friends are fucking.

If you're having fun NOW, why are you focused on the fun not had back THEN?

by Anonymousreply 1011/27/2020

R10 Because I am gorgeous now, but I was incredible back then. I could be an Instagrammer or something and never work in my life if I were young in this year. And fucking much more than I ever fucked in my life. Am I being stupid? Is this difficult to get or something?

by Anonymousreply 1111/27/2020

Some of you just won’t ever know the feeling of enter to a club and the whole room staring and smiling you. Maybe is what you don’t get.

by Anonymousreply 1211/27/2020

OP, you are bitter AF. Why can't you just be happy for progress?

Are you the type who makes EVERYTHING about you?

by Anonymousreply 1311/27/2020

[Quote] I could be an Instagrammer or something and never work in my life if I were young in this year.

But we don't know what will happend to influencers... Today is their salad days but five years from now? Ten?

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by Anonymousreply 1511/27/2020

Why is your nephew talking to you about having sex with others? Weird.

by Anonymousreply 1611/27/2020

Uncle Bottom makes a Thanksgiving visit to Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 1711/27/2020

I am the cool uncle R16

by Anonymousreply 1811/27/2020

Op, is your nephew named Joel ?

by Anonymousreply 1911/27/2020

Slow clap for R17. The rest of you must be DL noobs. This thread is an EST. Uncle Bottom makes an appearance every Thanksgiving. He's a just a little late this year.

by Anonymousreply 2011/27/2020

Sexy switched on gay guys without boxed mentalities have always been able to score whomever they wanted.

I've know a rare handful who could get any man they wanted. There was even a guy in our town, not handsome at all, but legendary for his ability to score straight cock. His living room used to be full of young straight guys waiting to serviced. I know. My married carpenter with kids told me that he'd been fucked by him at 19. His only ever gay experience. One of the hundreds. Whatever magic it takes to make a connection with a hot young horny stud -- he had it in spades.

by Anonymousreply 2111/27/2020

R19 No.

R20 What?

by Anonymousreply 2211/27/2020

They probably watch gay porn, too.

by Anonymousreply 2311/27/2020

OP seems to have issues

by Anonymousreply 2411/27/2020

Who gives a fuck?!

Why are their choices being broached as a way for gay men to feel accepted and validated?

by Anonymousreply 2511/27/2020

Happy Thanksgiving Uncle Bottom!

by Anonymousreply 2611/27/2020

This one is quite the piece of work. You would think she was getting paid for all the lame stories.

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by Anonymousreply 2811/27/2020

R1 Mr. Roark, we’re alone here...

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by Anonymousreply 2911/27/2020

Well I reckon good onya nephew and all his mates, they done figgered out what it took me too many years to - that fem guys are great in bed. I'm glad those boys is having plenty of fun, both the femboys and the "straight"ones. I never got the chance back then, but I sure am making up for lost time these days rather than sittin an bitchin about it

by Anonymousreply 3011/27/2020

Your nephew talks to you about his sex life?

Uh huh.

by Anonymousreply 3111/27/2020

OP are you also the one who posted that thread stating that only straight men are attractive to you and all gay men were unattractive and repulsive to you?

I think you might be...

by Anonymousreply 3211/27/2020

R30 Who is saying he is straight? He didn’t say that, I didn’t ask either, but it was pretty obvious that for him and his friends straight didn’t mean as it used to, he doesn’t fucking care, he has two bisexual friends and a transexual girl only in his group of friends.

They are just thinking outside the box and not letting labels limit them, that wasn’t a possibility for guys like him 20 or 19 or maybe 5 years ago. And we all would have benefited of that mindset.

by Anonymousreply 3311/27/2020

R32 No I’m not hahaha.

by Anonymousreply 3411/27/2020

Anecdotal evidence is not evidence, you cannot type an entire Generation as super fluid based on your personal experience.

by Anonymousreply 3511/27/2020

[quote]Today is their salad days

What is a salad day?

by Anonymousreply 3611/27/2020

Now ask "What is a Google", R36.

by Anonymousreply 3711/27/2020

Plenty of straight guys were available decades ago, they just didn't brag about it at Thanksgiving.

by Anonymousreply 3811/27/2020

R8, if you were a teen when you're nephew was born and he is 18 today then you are aged anywhere between 31 and 38 at the very maximum, which isn't that old. Being a teen in the 2000s was probably more fun and relaxed than today.

by Anonymousreply 3911/27/2020

Yes, what is a salad?

by Anonymousreply 4011/27/2020

"I am the cool uncle [R16]"

You're sounding more like the creepy uncle tbh, OP.

by Anonymousreply 4111/27/2020

[quote]Plenty of straight guys were available decades ago, they just didn't brag about it at Thanksgiving.

More's the pity.

Would definitely brighten up Thanksgiving table conversation.

by Anonymousreply 4211/27/2020

Your nephew is bi with a preference for femme when it comes to other guys, not "fluid".

by Anonymousreply 4311/27/2020

OP is correct, and I think it's fantastic. However, though OP said he's in California and he doesn't expect it to be happening everywhere, I'm in the middle of the country in a red state bordering the south, and where virtually everyone is a born-again fundamentalist Christian, and my young friends are similar to OP's nephew.

I have friends of all ages, and interact with people from all walks of life in various community and semi-professional theaters. We don't really talk about their sex lives in detail, but it has become clear that a lot of high school and college age boys and men who look and act straight and no one would expect them to be gay have sex with both males and females.

They do it because they're horny and it's fun and they don't have the fear of being called queer and faggot and of being ostracized, the way it used to be. I liken it to the fact in my late teens and early 20s, I had sex a few times with women. It was fun and interesting and I liked the women, but I never for a moment thought I was straight or even really bisexual, in terms of desire. And after the age of about 23, I never did it or wanted to do it with a woman again.

Also, I have seven nephews, all of them born-again fundamentalist Christians, and I feel certain three of them are gay. One is married to a woman and has six children, like he's trying to prove something. Another is about 20, and I know he is tortured about being gay because his family are so homophobic and believe in a hateful god that will send him to hell if he doesn't learn to be straight. The youngest of the gay ones is 14 and is a phenomenal musician, so I have hopes that he'll fall in with people who have a broader world view. And I have an 18-year-old niece who appears to be a lesbian, and who is also a musician.

I wrote all that about my nephews and niece to say OP is not the nephew troll. I've been accused of being the nephew troll for writing about the young people I mentioned above. The real nephew troll ALWAYS puts it into his posts that the kid is asking him questions about sex, and he, the nephew troll, asks DL whether he should take the boy to bed to teach him what gay means. TNT never has posts like OP's in which there's no chance of the nephew and OP having sex together.

by Anonymousreply 4411/27/2020

R43 All of his friends are bi with preference for femmes? Or are they just having fun without overthinking? It’s not like he was making an statement about his sexuality.

by Anonymousreply 4511/27/2020

R8 "whenever I want from him or others" Wait, who do you mean by him?

by Anonymousreply 4611/27/2020

Thanks R44

by Anonymousreply 4711/27/2020

[quote]he also fucks fem gays

It sounds like these guys are reinventing the age-old rule that a guy is okay as long as he's doing the fucking and can cast the fuckee as "fem" whether it's a girl or boy. Nothing enlightened about that. As you say, though, at least some gay boys are getting laid who might not be otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 4811/27/2020

My husband, OMG. Did you really think I was talking about my nephew? What kind of pervs are you guys, for real. R46

by Anonymousreply 4911/27/2020

I really think they feel attracted for femininity. He thought one of them wearing nails (a very nice ones to be honest) is hot. Is not like they are doing that in order to not face their true sexuality, they are totally fine with any kind of sexuality.

World is less macho-focused now, femininity is starting to be appreciated as something good even in some boys, at least for younger generations R48.

by Anonymousreply 5011/27/2020

Op we mustn’t start sentences with “So.”

by Anonymousreply 5111/27/2020

What are you saying, OP? People didn't like your Farah flick back then?

by Anonymousreply 5211/27/2020

R52 What I am saying is that I only fucked with 4 jocks I’m all my HS experience, I could have them all, and more. And more in life.

His friends even likes those awful cash twins or whatever their name are.

by Anonymousreply 5311/27/2020

[quote]One is married to a woman and has six children, like he's trying to prove something.

I'd say he's been quite successful at that.

by Anonymousreply 5411/27/2020


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[quote]What I am saying is that I only fucked with 4 jocks I’m all my HS experience, I could have them all

ONLY four? Greedy, greedy, OP!

by Anonymousreply 5611/27/2020

R55 Do you really think that I want to troll about this? Do you really think there is a person out there having fun trolling in DL?

I am upset, I thought I could be understood here. I thought we were all on the same page. But you know, I understand that not everyone is eager to accept that we were really fucked just for being gay a few years ago and the fact that isn’t happen anymore, and they don’t need to deal with all that bullshit in order to be happy.

Maybe it’s why here in DL you hate trans, some of you can deal with the fact that those hard times that we lived aren’t applying in younger people, and they can dare to do thing we couldn’t even imagine. Get over it, at least I’m expressing my feelings about this.

by Anonymousreply 5711/27/2020

Easily available gay porn made all the difference

by Anonymousreply 5811/27/2020

[quote]I thought I could be understood here.

Well you were wrong then, weren't you?

by Anonymousreply 5911/27/2020

Get back to me when they start going for butch granddads who can show them the pleasures of playing Bottom in MND for a day.

by Anonymousreply 6011/27/2020

Minot, North Dakota, R60?

by Anonymousreply 6111/27/2020

R45, that's not how straight people "have fun".

Do gay men hook up with women for fun, without overthinking things? Not unless they're at least somewhat bi.

by Anonymousreply 6211/27/2020

this excites the DL pedos

by Anonymousreply 6311/27/2020

This is the biggest crock of shit ever and the dumbest garbage I have read here in 20 years.

by Anonymousreply 6411/27/2020

Dunno r64. There was a thread on here about the beauty community on Youtube that definitely gives this one a run for its money.

by Anonymousreply 6511/27/2020

OP is either a liar or a real shallow cunt. Possibly both, but definitely not neither.

by Anonymousreply 6611/27/2020

I call BS on your story simply because no one in California calls it “Cali”, just strangers thinking its what the cool kids call it. Nope, no one from California does. And I’ve lived here all my 38 years.

by Anonymousreply 6711/27/2020

Thank you R6! When we come back from this break, Chad will check in with the weather. Then, Trisha Takanawa interviews an old person who claims things today are nowhere near as great as they were years ago. Plus, Sports!

by Anonymousreply 6811/27/2020

[quote]Sexy switched on gay guys without boxed mentalities

Papa Tooney, we got a looney!

by Anonymousreply 6911/27/2020

TRANSLATION : Op is a pedo who has the hots for his nephew and his friends and is trying to justify his fantasies so he doesnt look like a crazed pervert.

by Anonymousreply 7011/27/2020

I'd love to see a pic of OP in his prime, when he was such a head-turning absolute stunner!!

I actually don't find this all that surprising - I think sexuality is definitely on a spectrum rather than a binary, and as the world in general becomes more accepting and progressive, people who might previously have only had private thoughts or fantasies about dating/sex outside of their primary preference are going to be a lot more open to physically participating. I think it's great.

Personally, I never have had a thing for straight guys and I was never fem even as a twink, although I do remember a club night with some female friends of mine where one of the guys in the group of guys (probably early 20s) was pretty flirty with me and said if he was gay he'd be into me. I said "You don't have to be gay to have a bit of fun" and I reckon he'd have gone for it if he wasn't with his mates!

by Anonymousreply 7111/27/2020

Too bad I can’t enter a time machine.

by Anonymousreply 7211/27/2020

I was having trouble scoring the original post because while it hits all the technical marks perfectly, it lacks a certain playful spirit. But then I saw how many people were drawn in, and the OP's insistent follow-ups. By the time I reached this:

[quote]I am upset, I thought I could be understood here.

I could no longer deny the mastery on display. 10/10

by Anonymousreply 7311/27/2020

[quote]Uncle Bottom makes a Thanksgiving visit to Datalounge.

Uncle Bottom makes a Thanksgiving Fantasy visit to Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 7411/27/2020

OP's nephew has got to be the long lost legend Traylor.

by Anonymousreply 7511/27/2020

This has been going on since the beginning of time. Horny young men will go for any available hole.

by Anonymousreply 7611/27/2020

This never happened! It's all elder-gay fantasy from the "My Nephew" troll.

by Anonymousreply 7711/27/2020

OP, pics of your nephew or this never happened.

by Anonymousreply 7811/27/2020

[quote]New generations of boys are super fluid

Does this mean they cum a lot?

by Anonymousreply 7911/27/2020

Super Fluid 2020 = Horny 1990

by Anonymousreply 8011/27/2020

Self hating fags really will do anything to please the str8s huh, you like dick? Be proud of it. Pussy is nasty and no one can force you upon it. Not the sjws and not trannies.

by Anonymousreply 8111/27/2020

R67 precisely my nephew got me into the “Cali” thing. I really don’t care what you believe. Just pointing you are outdated.

R70 gross and scary, I never liked younger guys. I honestly think you are reflecting. A sane person would never jump to that kind of conclusion.

by Anonymousreply 8211/28/2020

This explains all the rumors that are around about actors and musicians. They publicly claim they are straight but there are lots of rumors of them hooking up with other guys.

by Anonymousreply 8311/28/2020

[quote] What is a salad day?

It is an idiom.

by Anonymousreply 8411/28/2020

[quote]I honestly think you are reflecting.

Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 8511/28/2020

Why is Thanksgiving such a special time for Uncle Bottom and not Christmas or Veteran's Day?

by Anonymousreply 8612/06/2020

Ok, some straight jock types now allow themselves to get their rocks off with gay guys, as there is no longer the fear of of ridicule or ostracism as in the past. But do the gay teens know they are just being used or do they think they are in a "relationship" with the jock who is fucking them?

by Anonymousreply 8701/24/2021

I understood that any of them, neither my nephew or the boys, were looking for an exclusive “old fashioned” relationship.

But my nephew doesn’t want anything serious with anyone. He doesn’t distinct his boys from his girls.

by Anonymousreply 8801/24/2021

I suspect OP that despite what your nephew may tell you, the girls distinct much worse than the boys.

by Anonymousreply 8901/24/2021

R44 = the OP

by Anonymousreply 9001/24/2021

Very youthful boy in his early-mid twenties here. OP, I am of basically the same era as your nephew. We definitely had more relaxed childhoods than the millennial gays of your era. I was homeschooled so I was able to discover who I was. I had online girlfriends from 2008 to 2010, then I figured out I was very gay. We’re of a new generation of sexual acceptance among our acquaintances, I wish more people would’ve had this same experience in the distant past. Or not so distant.

by Anonymousreply 9101/24/2021

This is just the natural result of the decline of traditional inhibitions, like the Christian religion. and taboos. Think classical Greece and Rome which were before the imposition of Christianity.

I wonder how their female peers (would) feel about it.

As an elder gay I just hope that they're aware of the risk of STIs (and doing HPV vacccine, etc.), no matter which gender they're fucking. Not trying to rain on their parade at all and not saying that they're at more risk because it's homosex.

I really came of age in mid-late 80s in San Francisco (I was a transplant) and picked up HPV when I'd barely heard of genital warts. I think it was was at a JO club, where no penetration of any kind was permitted. One of the worse things that ever happened to me in terms of my sexual mobility.

That said, I think what they're doing is hot.

by Anonymousreply 9201/24/2021

[quote] What is a salad day?

Salad is a first or early course at a meal.

by Anonymousreply 9301/24/2021

Hay uncle having a gay nephew should not be surprising.

by Anonymousreply 9401/24/2021

Gay uncle having a gay nephew should not be surprising.

by Anonymousreply 9501/24/2021

This must be an EST. We're told time and time again here (mostly by one poster, but still....) that jocks and "aesthetic bros" are absolutely [italic]repulsed[/italic] by effeminacy, and they *only* go for other bros like themselves!

by Anonymousreply 9601/24/2021

[quote]God it really pissed me off, those guys were the ones that bullied us during HS and now I know that if I were a 16 years old twin they would be flattering and fucking me like a hot chick.

On one hand, I feel like I was born about 10 years too early to just miss this.

On the other hand, the chase and the impossibility is what made the prospect so hot. Being openly pursued would have taken all the fun out of it. I don't want a dude that's into guys, I want one that's into ME.

by Anonymousreply 9701/24/2021

R96, the guys who post that are all over 50 probably.

by Anonymousreply 9801/24/2021

Much of the younger generations don't consider hand jobs or blow jobs sex. Jerking off with a buddy or a group of friends isn't considered gay. It's just getting off in a pleasurable way. Actors and musicians are more liberal in their sexual practices and I agree this may be the source of some rumors.

by Anonymousreply 9901/26/2021

OP is Uncle Bottom, telling tall tales again.

[quote] I just need to point this is Cali and we live in a very progressive, upper area.

Sure, Jan.

[quote] I was fucking gorgeous.

Sure, Jan.

[quote] I get fucked, I have a relationship and I can get dick whenever I want

Sure, Jan.

[quote] Because I am gorgeous now, but I was incredible back then. I could be an Instagrammer or something and never work in my life if I were young in this year.

Sure, Jan.

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by Anonymousreply 10001/26/2021

There's so much delusional, wishful thinking and projection in this thread that's it difficult to stomach.

by Anonymousreply 10101/26/2021

[quote]What is a salad day?

It's Wednesday Rose.

by Anonymousreply 10201/26/2021

I can easily imagine a sensitive little gayling thinking he's in luuuurve and getting his poor little heart broken by some jock who just sees him as a pass-around party bottom.

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