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Effects Of Not Ejaculating For An Extended Period

Anyone here done this? Notice any difference?

I saw a video about a guy who has gone 70 days without looking at porn, having sex, or letting semen out of his ball sack. He said the two main things he noticed were that he has greater social courage / less social anxiety, and he sees the joy in smaller things like going for a walk. He said some other guys said that their hair grows because of I guess the testosterone levels aren’t fluctuating.

I’m going to start today and will go 50 days until January 1st? Anyone want to join the No Cum Challenge? It’s also called NOFAP.

I’ll report my progress.

by Anonymousreply 65February 9, 2021 3:08 AM

Get ready for the Queeny Bottoms, Fraus and Lesbians to attack you as an MRA guy!

by Anonymousreply 1November 11, 2020 3:31 AM

But are you "master of your domain"?

by Anonymousreply 2November 11, 2020 3:32 AM
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by Anonymousreply 3November 11, 2020 3:34 AM

[quote] saw a video about a guy who has gone 70 days without looking at porn, having sex, or letting semen out of his ball sack.

It would be interesting if you linked it.

by Anonymousreply 4November 11, 2020 3:36 AM

I'm guessing OP never heard of blue balls.

by Anonymousreply 5November 11, 2020 3:45 AM

[quote]I’m going to start today and will go 50 days until January 1st? Anyone want to join the No Cum Challenge? It’s also called NOFAP.

It's already No Nut November (not that I'm observing).

by Anonymousreply 6November 11, 2020 3:46 AM

Interesting, Op. Nocturnal emissions are invevitable.

by Anonymousreply 7November 11, 2020 3:49 AM

I went 5 months without shooting a load back in early 2000. I had just moved to New York and was staying with a relative until I could get on my feet. Because I could never really have any time alone, I just had to go without but much to my surprise, it did not bother me too much. Because I was so consumed with things like job hunting and finding a permanent place to live, I just never thought a lot about the fact I wasn't getting my rocks off. Once I found employment and got settled in my own place, however, I definitely made up for it (and have been ever since).

by Anonymousreply 8November 11, 2020 3:49 AM

About 20 years ago I went about five or six months orgasm-free because I was taking Effexor for depression. I would try to rub one out every now and then, but I was basically kaput below the waist. When I did finally cum after my doctor switched me to Wellbutrin, it was pleasurable and painful at the same time—my balls felt like they were cramping up.

by Anonymousreply 9November 11, 2020 3:56 AM

Typical Incel shit. Jerking off will actually lower your anxiety and body pressure, any moron with a 5th grade education knows this. Stimulating your prostate will also help improve your health and prevent cancer.

This Nofap shit is what loser incels engage to because they're sexually frustrated and addicted to porn/sex to deal with their frustrations, so for them quitting masturbation might have a good effect on them.

by Anonymousreply 10November 11, 2020 4:04 AM

Your cum will turn yellow.

by Anonymousreply 11November 11, 2020 4:14 AM

This will end in tears.

by Anonymousreply 12November 11, 2020 5:08 AM

What happens to all thee sperm. Does our get reabsorbed.

by Anonymousreply 13November 11, 2020 6:23 AM

Fuck that.

by Anonymousreply 14November 11, 2020 6:30 AM

r10 to be such a proponent for cumming you sure seem tense

by Anonymousreply 15November 11, 2020 6:38 AM

I haven’t ejaculated in over a year, and I never will again. Prostate cancer. Consolation: I’m still alive.

by Anonymousreply 16November 11, 2020 6:39 AM

Your body will eject your semen one way or another anyway since testicles produce new batch of sperm every 2-3 days. It's useless to go against nature and try to be a science-denier so that you can feel superior to others. It's irrational and unhealthy, just like those extreme diets or extreme exercises.

by Anonymousreply 17November 11, 2020 6:43 AM

I am an eldergay who USED to cum 3 times a day. As I got older the frequency diminished To once a day, then to a few times a week and then to a few times a month. When I was first exploring my sexuality and cock, someone once told me "Use it, or Lose it." I had no idea how true that was. Now I am to the point that I practically need to put a reminder on my calendar, or I never remember to do it..

by Anonymousreply 18November 11, 2020 10:53 PM

How do you watch Chaturbate and not wank at least a little bit even if you don't ejaculate?

by Anonymousreply 19November 11, 2020 11:43 PM

Flash: Incel Apologist Starts DataLounge Thread and Threatens to Give His Life Purpose by Posting His Social/Personal Failure Thrice Daily

by Anonymousreply 20November 11, 2020 11:59 PM

What is the OP's age?

by Anonymousreply 21November 12, 2020 1:02 AM

Epididymitis! I was depressed once and didn't ejaculate for a couple of months. No sex drive. Then I got epididymitis, an infection down there, maybe not related. The antibiotics started to help a little, but I finally jerked off (almost blew a hole in the wall, heh heh) and it cleared up. I felt much better.

by Anonymousreply 22November 12, 2020 1:18 AM

By the way, you do NOT want epididymitis.

by Anonymousreply 23November 12, 2020 1:20 AM

You want to keep stuff moving down there for the sake of your prostate too. This nofap stuff is for guys too naive to realize that monks get each other off all the time.

by Anonymousreply 24November 12, 2020 1:28 AM

R24 Do you have any inside information about friars? (Similar to monks.) I saw a cute and young friar on YouTube. Makes me wonder.

For the record, I've never gone more than a few days without cumming.

by Anonymousreply 25November 12, 2020 1:48 AM

Video of the cute and young friar.

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by Anonymousreply 26November 12, 2020 1:49 AM

No, no firsthand info. Can't remember where I heard about the monastery stuff, but apparently they are busy little bees.

by Anonymousreply 27November 12, 2020 1:56 AM

[quote] I saw a cute and young friar on YouTube. Makes me wonder.

Father Casey Cole. Likes living in community with men.

by Anonymousreply 28November 12, 2020 2:06 AM

For men, masturbation is maintenance.

by Anonymousreply 29November 12, 2020 3:01 AM

Is blue balls a real thing?

by Anonymousreply 30November 12, 2020 3:18 AM

Oh no, OP. I can't go a day without wanking.

by Anonymousreply 31November 12, 2020 3:49 AM

I see God when I cum. Why would I want to wait even a day

by Anonymousreply 32November 12, 2020 4:11 AM

OP is mid-40’s.

This is the video referenced by OP, but the guy really only makes the two points that I stated in OP so I didn’t want everybody to waste 14 minutes of your life watching the video.

There are actually a lot of young guys on YouTube talking about this. Search ‘semen retention.’

After reading your comments, now I’m scared that I’m gonna get prostate cancer. Thanks. Whores.

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by Anonymousreply 33November 12, 2020 4:21 AM

Oops, I lasted about 4 days. I'll start in December.

by Anonymousreply 34November 24, 2020 9:23 PM

The world is filled with ignorant annoying fetishists and fantasists pursing cockamamie voodoo health and spiritual regimens. It used to be just pockets here and there - San Francisco, Ibiza, Nepal, Lake Titicaca....

by Anonymousreply 35November 24, 2020 9:28 PM

Unhealthy and inadvisible, unless you're Gandhi.

by Anonymousreply 36November 24, 2020 9:28 PM

I want to hear more about the monks masturbating each other. Is it like a maintenance thing, or are they actually enjoying it?

by Anonymousreply 37November 24, 2020 9:30 PM

Op keep this to yourself along with your cum

by Anonymousreply 38November 24, 2020 9:31 PM

The only thing I ever notice if I don't masturbate or have sex for a long time is that my orgasms once I have sex again are unusually intense, and my penis is more tender.

by Anonymousreply 39November 24, 2020 9:37 PM

I had epididymitis in my early 20's. Most painful thing I've ever experienced! My balls hurt so bad, I couldn't walk! My docs told me that you can get it from topping bareback. Fecal Bacteria in the rectum can get in your urethra and it can travel to your Prostate, Testicles, and/or Bladder!

But the other way of getting it, can be from a virus. Plus the virus can lay dormant in your balls waiting for your body to have an immune response and then come alive.

I was not sexually active at that time, nor had I ever topped anyone, so the virus was the most likely cause, in my case.

by Anonymousreply 40November 24, 2020 9:39 PM

I recently went two weeks without getting off, and my cum smelled AWFUL afterwards. It must have been rotting in there.

by Anonymousreply 41November 24, 2020 9:40 PM

I tried no fapping for 10 days once and when I eventually masturbated the orgasm was so intense that I realised that I needed to do this everyday.....and still do.

by Anonymousreply 42November 24, 2020 9:56 PM

this chav can probably shoot that much 2x a day.

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by Anonymousreply 43November 24, 2020 10:09 PM

Don't be an idiot OP, jerk off, your prostate will thank you.

by Anonymousreply 44November 24, 2020 10:11 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 45January 31, 2021 10:48 PM

Spurt

by Anonymousreply 46January 31, 2021 10:48 PM

I went 30 days once just for a laugh and when I finally came, not only did it hurt the first few times, but the orgasms weren’t as intense as you would think. And yes it smelled bad as others have said. Oh, and I didn’t have increased superpowers either.

by Anonymousreply 47January 31, 2021 10:55 PM

I gave up masturbating and looking at pictures of naked men for Lent one year. I succeeded and I wasn't much bothered by it. On the Monday after Easter I picked up a Colt magazine. I saw my cock head had expanded to its capacity, became purple, and I thought it was going to blow up just before I came. I was looking at Dave Lash at that moment. Semen shot out of my cock and hit the wall three feet above me.

by Anonymousreply 48January 31, 2021 11:02 PM

Yes this NoFap obsession is incel shit who blame all their girl failures on porn and think they will get superpower if they don't masturbate.

Sure, if you have a porn addiction that is not healthy. But in general ejaculated and releasing sperm is healthy, it is how your body is supposed to work.

If you don't release that semen it will likely end up being released through nocturnal emission anyway. Your body will still get it out.

by Anonymousreply 49January 31, 2021 11:05 PM

That "monk" in R26's video is so brainwashed, good that he is doing good things with some of his time but you don't have to be a monk to do good things and spreading your brainwashed bullshit isn't a good thing it is evil. Telling someone they have to be obedient and denying them sexual gratification isn't a religion it is a crazy cult.

by Anonymousreply 50January 31, 2021 11:10 PM

Back in the 80s, I had a fraternity brother (a good Catholic) who said he had never masturbated. After a shower in the morning, he would walk around the room stark naked for about an hour. Five of us shared the room and I watched him from my bed with a barely open eyelid every morning. He had everything I wanted, a handsome face, a big chest, a long cock and a large, thick bush. I kept wondering if I offered him a blow job, was that considered unwanted stimulation? Later, one night he said he had done it doggy-style with a girl he just met.

I was Catalic confused

by Anonymousreply 51January 31, 2021 11:13 PM

Err,,,, Catholicly confused. And now I am confused posting...

by Anonymousreply 52January 31, 2021 11:15 PM

I’ve gone long periods (by long I mean up to a week lol) because I’m too busy, or was traveling with my young niece, or whatever reason, and it never EVER makes me feel better. It makes my testicles sensitive and sore, and I feel depressed and anxious.

There’s a very strong need for release. It’s not just in humans — most males of the higher life forms do it too. Even killer whales do. Male killer whales treasure certain shorelines that have long, smooth pebbly bottoms. They swim along close to the bottom, with their erections rubbing along the bottom, quickly cumming. One naturalist who was there said she was in the water when this occurred and it was like swimming in egg drop soup.

by Anonymousreply 53January 31, 2021 11:25 PM

R51 Were you still closeted? If so, how was he supposed to know to make a move?

by Anonymousreply 54January 31, 2021 11:32 PM

Gross

by Anonymousreply 55January 31, 2021 11:32 PM

Goals

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by Anonymousreply 56February 8, 2021 1:53 PM

I have absolutely NO idea why anyone would voluntarily put themselves through something like this.

It's physically unhealthy, it's probably emotionally/psychologically unhealthy too. Men should have frequent ejaculations, it is good for your prostate and it feels good, with no negatives - can anyone explain WHY people do this?

I haven't gone without ejaculating for longer than perhaps a week since the first time I ever shot my load - if I were to go much longer than that I would almost certainly have a wet dream and end up having to change the sheets - and I wouldn't even have enjoyed the orgasm. What's the upside!?

by Anonymousreply 57February 8, 2021 2:25 PM

There is no upside R57, it is a mental illness.

by Anonymousreply 58February 8, 2021 3:11 PM

I'm with R57, except that wet dreams would be an upside. (Not for the no-faps though, I realise.) I used to like them a lot: very distinctive intense orgasms, all the more charming for their randomness.

by Anonymousreply 59February 8, 2021 6:23 PM

They are more powerful, aren't they?

by Anonymousreply 60February 8, 2021 9:28 PM

This is just a safe way for straight guys to talk about their dicks with other guys. I had a coworker who always brought up the psychic benefits of not having an orgasm. He was straight, pretty, and an attention suck. No, I didn’t scope out his dick.

by Anonymousreply 61February 8, 2021 9:40 PM

Those 'tips' offered in the video @ R56 - "groom yourself 1-2x a week", "be in the gym 5-6x a week", "drink a gallon of water every day" - you don't need to stop ejaculating to do any of those things. You can, you know, just DO them. Ridiculous.

by Anonymousreply 62February 9, 2021 1:40 AM

Totally age dependent. The “need” to ejaculate regularly depends on your age - at 20, yes at 60, no. The pro and con arguments are internet BS. It isn’t physically helpful to avoid - but it’s also not physically necessary to do. Your body wil l ejaculate if it needs to in nocturnal emission. Stop worrying about it.

by Anonymousreply 63February 9, 2021 2:05 AM

OP the answer is bad mood and prostate cancer. Enjoy your cockamamie esoterica "health and spirituality"

by Anonymousreply 64February 9, 2021 2:05 AM

R26 You know what, I couldn’t watch that video without thinking about all of those Mormonboyz twink videos. He so fit that image to a tee. Yeah, I know, deplorable, but it just kept creeping back in to my head. He drops his rob, takes off his underwear and bends over, exposing the most beautiful.....see my mind just goes straight to the gutter. He is mighty cute though.

by Anonymousreply 65February 9, 2021 3:08 AM
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