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Just watched The Big Chill for the first time

what kind of woman sends her husband to intentionally impregnate her best friend?

by Anonymousreply 229November 13, 2020 4:51 AM

I agree.

There's being open and then there's shock value.

There were other ways he could have provided a -- to use a word I learned from watching Y&R -- 'specimen.'

by Anonymousreply 1November 8, 2020 1:02 AM

You had to be there.

by Anonymousreply 2November 8, 2020 1:26 AM

She cheated on Harold and was trying to even the score?

by Anonymousreply 3November 8, 2020 1:27 AM

I think r3 is right.

I forget the movie but didn't G cheat with the guy who committed suicide?

Still it was controversial at the time and a bit of a plot device. You don't get pregnant on the first try most of the time.

Invetro was already around at the time.

In Hannah and Her Sisters a few years later they ask Tony Roberts to father a baby for Woody and Mia and they say he won't be the dad he'll just have to masterbate into a paper cup.

by Anonymousreply 4November 8, 2020 1:56 AM

Am I the only one who hates that movie with a passion? I found it ludicrous from beginning to end.

by Anonymousreply 5November 8, 2020 1:58 AM

The characters are all very grating and the performances are all a bit affected (except for Meg Tilly. I like her innocence when she says she doesn't know many happy people, how do they act?)

by Anonymousreply 6November 8, 2020 2:01 AM

R6 I agree. There’s not a likable character in the bunch.

by Anonymousreply 7November 8, 2020 2:02 AM

They were all previously sixties hippies. You indeed had to be there.

by Anonymousreply 8November 8, 2020 2:08 AM

R6–I totally disagree, I thought Meg Tilly was the most annoying character in the movie and William Hurt seemed particularly constipated. Jeff Goldblum was great. “Are we the first ones up?”

Kevin Costner played the dead guy. The director decided the flashback scenes didn’t work and his scenes ended up on the cutting room floor.

by Anonymousreply 9November 8, 2020 2:08 AM

Sperm banks were not so common until late 80's. It was not unusual to have a friend or relative provide sperm or a one night stand for someone having difficulty conceiving.

by Anonymousreply 10November 8, 2020 2:10 AM

R5, I hated it too.

by Anonymousreply 11November 8, 2020 2:14 AM

Hannah and Her Sisters was 1986 and they knew about artificial insemination. The Big Chill was only three years prior.

by Anonymousreply 12November 8, 2020 2:15 AM

Wouldn't this have made a great porn film? The videotaping, the 'wild' party in the kitchen, the insemination plot.

by Anonymousreply 13November 8, 2020 2:20 AM

It was regarded as a ripoff of The Return of the Secaucus Seven. Sort of surprised it got a Best Picture nomination.

by Anonymousreply 14November 8, 2020 2:21 AM

Kevin Kline uses an odd accent.

by Anonymousreply 15November 8, 2020 2:22 AM

I love 80s Hurt and his sexy constipated look.

by Anonymousreply 16November 8, 2020 2:25 AM

Sperm banks were around for a couple of decades before The Big Chill.

by Anonymousreply 17November 8, 2020 2:25 AM

William Hurt had an amazing run in the 80s. Starred in 5 Best Picture nominees in 6 years and got an Oscar and 2 other nominations himself. Then it seemed to all go wrong for him.

by Anonymousreply 18November 8, 2020 2:27 AM

I've been cradling my favorite mug so tight lately that I just broke it

by Anonymousreply 19November 8, 2020 2:31 AM

No one has mentioned Glenn's teeny tiny titties yet.

They seemed bigger a few years later in Fatal Attraction.

by Anonymousreply 20November 8, 2020 2:32 AM

Fun fact: I watched this movie on HBO while awaiting pregnancy test results.

Traumatic to say the least.

by Anonymousreply 21November 8, 2020 2:37 AM

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by Anonymousreply 22November 8, 2020 2:38 AM

Not understanding the trama r21 Were you going to have to fuck your best friend's husband if your test came back negative?

by Anonymousreply 23November 8, 2020 2:43 AM

R23, I was wondering if this was back when you had to wait for a rabbit to die.

by Anonymousreply 24November 8, 2020 2:47 AM

Harold's shorty shorts make me giggle.

by Anonymousreply 25November 8, 2020 2:56 AM

[quote]the performances are all a bit affected (except for Meg Tilly I like her innocence when she says she doesn't know many happy people, how do they act?)

You're nuts, R6. That's the most affected line reading in that entire film, and and that's saying a lot.

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by Anonymousreply 26November 8, 2020 3:02 AM

I found this while I was looking for the Tilly soundbite. Very funny.

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by Anonymousreply 27November 8, 2020 3:04 AM

We all know that G killed the rabbit.

by Anonymousreply 28November 8, 2020 3:05 AM

I enjoyed the joke, or, conceit, if you will, of "The Big Chill".

Their comfy, affluent lifestyles are exactly what they want, they admit to selling out their ideals, and the punchline is, they wouldn't have it any other way.

I think Lawrence Kasdan is making fun of his characters and I went along with it.

by Anonymousreply 29November 8, 2020 3:09 AM

[quote]Am I the only one who hates that movie with a passion? I found it ludicrous from beginning to end.

Not just you. I hate this movie. It’s so overrated.

by Anonymousreply 30November 8, 2020 3:13 AM

I love hate watching it every few years.

And as mentioned above, Kline’s accent is odd.

by Anonymousreply 31November 8, 2020 3:16 AM

Silkwood should have got its Oscar nomination for Best Picture.

(and I'm not saying that to start a M/G feud.)

by Anonymousreply 32November 8, 2020 3:18 AM

Zelig > Silkwood

by Anonymousreply 33November 8, 2020 3:20 AM

Then it seemed to all go wrong for him.

He probably shouldn't have beaten up Marlee Matlin.

And you know, the other women he abused.

Or did you forget that?

by Anonymousreply 34November 8, 2020 3:44 AM

I didn't know that r 34. My elementary school didn't teach celebrity beatings.

by Anonymousreply 35November 8, 2020 3:46 AM

Yentl > Zelig + Silkwood + The Big Chill

by Anonymousreply 36November 8, 2020 3:48 AM

They really cast people on the verge of breakthroughs. Kline, Close and Jobeth Williams all had huge films in 1982. I wonder if they were cast after those successes. Even Tilly had Psycho 2 which was at least high profile.

Berenger and Hurt had been around a while.

Place must have been a friend of Kasdan's. She never had a movie career.

Goldblum too was kind of an odd choice.

by Anonymousreply 37November 8, 2020 3:51 AM

My mom was obsessed with this movie. This is boomer movie central. I have tried to watch it and I can't make it through it. I can remember the soundtrack always blasting thought the house.

by Anonymousreply 38November 8, 2020 3:53 AM

The best part of the this film is that the audience sees Kevin Costner in his best role ever...a corpse. He should have done more roles like this.

by Anonymousreply 39November 8, 2020 3:56 AM

Meg Tilly did a youtube video about The Big Chill and who played the dead guy the other day. I haven't watched it yet.

by Anonymousreply 40November 8, 2020 3:57 AM

My favorite line is the one where Hurt says "Wrong! Twenty years ago we knew each other for a brief time!" Basically telling the entire group they are full of shit when they are saying how close they still all are. It's so awesome!

by Anonymousreply 41November 8, 2020 3:58 AM

Yes I like that line too r41. And Tilly's line no matter how she delivered it stuck with me also.

by Anonymousreply 42November 8, 2020 4:00 AM

I really liked that GC trusted her friend so much that she let her husband have sex with her with a view to getting her pregnant. The phone conversation between the friend and GC's daughter showed how close they were and how much the friend wanted a child of her own.

The sex looked pretty dismal however. and Jeff Goldblum eagerly volunteering to do the business was ultra-creepy.

by Anonymousreply 43November 8, 2020 4:08 AM

I lived the whole thing--couples, singles, a group of us from college moved to the big city. struggles. Falling in and out of love with each other and other people the group usually hated. Then the guys got haircuts, the women wanted kids, suddenly nobody was as liberated or liberal as we'd seemed. And I do feel nostalgia for the drinking, smoking pot, hanging out, having dreams, and being innocent in some way. I watch The Big Chill in tribute to that, although it is highly unrealistic to the people we were. The Secaucus Seven is more true to life and so a much better movie, and so more painful to watch.

by Anonymousreply 44November 8, 2020 4:34 AM

r44, ok, boomer

by Anonymousreply 45November 8, 2020 4:36 AM

I will check out Secaucus Seven. Never heard about it. I dislike movie that are fawning in their portrayal of nostalgia like The Big Chill.

by Anonymousreply 46November 8, 2020 4:40 AM

Glenn was the only one to get a nomination. Who do you think deserved one?

by Anonymousreply 47November 8, 2020 4:42 AM

None of them, R47.

by Anonymousreply 48November 8, 2020 4:44 AM

The Right Stuff was expected to get lots of acting nominations too but only got one for Sam Sheppard.

by Anonymousreply 49November 8, 2020 4:47 AM

Glenn got the nom for the shower scene where she was naked crying. I heard her say as much in an interview years later. Maybe Baba Wawa? Not sure...but she said every actress craves a scene like that to reveal something unknown about the character.

by Anonymousreply 50November 8, 2020 4:47 AM

[quote]Of all the insufferable characters in this film, Karen (JoBeth Williams) is the leader of the pack. After marrying a wealthy, conservative Ad Schnook from Detroit, she gave up her dreams of being a writer so that she could raise children. And now, well, she’s regretting that decision. However, instead of actually going out and doing something, she tries to glom onto Sam’s celebrity by trading on the one thing she has left. And no, it’s not her brains. She’s a despicable individual, and I’m pretty sure that Larry Kasdan felt the same way about Karen.

God, I fucking HATED Karen. Hated her.

I hated how she lusted after Berenger’s character and her adenoidal voice and her fucking gauchos.

by Anonymousreply 51November 8, 2020 4:49 AM

Plus Glenn had just loss the year before for The World According to Garp for which many people thought she should have won instead of Jessica Lange in Tootsie. She was on the Academy radar more than the rest of the cast.

by Anonymousreply 52November 8, 2020 4:50 AM

[quote]Not sure...but she said every actress craves a scene like that to reveal something unknown about the character.

What, R50? That she had seal nose tittys?

by Anonymousreply 53November 8, 2020 4:51 AM

Goldblum's character was a writer for People and he said he didn't write anything that couldn't be read longer than the time you'd need to take an average crap.

So magazine articles were short back in the early 1980s.

Now, there are barely any magazines.

by Anonymousreply 54November 8, 2020 4:57 AM

No Oscar (yet again) for poor G. This was her 2nd nomination. She lost to lil' Linda Hunt (who played a man in The Year of Living Dangerously). LMAO!

by Anonymousreply 55November 8, 2020 5:01 AM

I am a Linda Hunt stan!! And that movie with the deplorable Mel Gibson when he was HAF...I am shamed by my lust of him in this film...shamed!!

by Anonymousreply 56November 8, 2020 5:04 AM

I love that Jeff Goldblum line. And think of it often. I am a writer...haha...

by Anonymousreply 57November 8, 2020 5:05 AM

Linda Hunt would be cancelled nowadays for that performance. Wikipedia says she wore yellow makeup and altered her eyes for the audition (and the film too.)

by Anonymousreply 58November 8, 2020 5:06 AM

I think Karen is definitely supposed to be the obnoxious one.

Also, I think Boomers ARE in love with themselves and their counterculture schtick. I only realized that in the last year or so and yes, I am R44. Even in Secaucus Seven it is obvious that the characters are jerking themselves off to "the glorious past."

Every generation has its clay feet.

by Anonymousreply 59November 8, 2020 5:06 AM

I remember that this film (in 1983) sparked a renewed interest in '60s Motown songs, particularly "I Heard It Through the Grapevine" by soon-to-be-dead Marvin Gaye.

by Anonymousreply 60November 8, 2020 5:09 AM

"I didn't know that r 34. My elementary school didn't teach celebrity beatings."

Among many other subjects I'm sure.

by Anonymousreply 61November 8, 2020 5:12 AM

R58 I didn't know that about the yellow makeup but wasn't Billy half Australian? I don't see that any ethnic makeup would be necessary.

by Anonymousreply 62November 8, 2020 5:16 AM

Big Chill didn't impress us gay people because we already knew our "liberal" hetero friends in college were phonies who were not nearly as liberal as they thought. And not just on gay issues. Sure, they 'd give to the homeless, but to actually interact with them or help them, they weren't going to do that.

by Anonymousreply 63November 8, 2020 5:30 AM

They were all certifiable.

by Anonymousreply 64November 8, 2020 2:31 PM

Lawrence Kasdan must have spent all his time at the University of Michigan in the film editing room in the Frieze Building. He certainly never met any SDS type Ann Arbor political activists. They never lost their ideals, they never were into football (yecch!) and they would NEVER move down south.

by Anonymousreply 65November 8, 2020 3:15 PM

Jeff Goldblum's character, however, is a tiny bit like Owen Gleiberman, who went to U-M at the same time I did. But that was a long time after Kasdan went there and I doubt he had him in mind.

by Anonymousreply 66November 8, 2020 3:16 PM

Overrated.

by Anonymousreply 67November 8, 2020 3:49 PM

R22, very good

by Anonymousreply 68November 8, 2020 4:00 PM

An old colleague of mine was SDS at U of M. Helped burn down an ROTC building at another school. Still had his ideals at the time of Big Chill and afterward.

The characters are two dimensional and the acting is pretty flat. I think that without the soundtrack it would have been a flop. Hurt has the only performance I liked. I think he mostly was himself. I think he was the pal of Kasdan here--he was in other Kasdan films.

Secaucus Seven is a much different film--made on a shoestring budget, no one claimed to be an actual radical in the past and the characters are three dimensional.

by Anonymousreply 69November 8, 2020 5:11 PM

Republicans say William Ayres is still trying to burn the country down.

by Anonymousreply 70November 8, 2020 5:17 PM

Actually, R69, the title Secaucus 7 refers to when they were arrested for being radicals. Like the Chicago Seven.

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by Anonymousreply 71November 8, 2020 5:27 PM

Never heard of it.

by Anonymousreply 72November 8, 2020 5:30 PM

No, they were arrested in Secaucus going to a big anti-war rally. In those days, you didn't have to be very radical to do that. It was fun.

by Anonymousreply 73November 8, 2020 5:34 PM

Yeah, but R69 didn't say that. I'm not shilling for that movie, but let's be accurate. They were activists and that meant risking their student status, getting concussed or worse. But obviously now they're more into volleyball.

by Anonymousreply 74November 8, 2020 5:41 PM

This movie is why people hate Boomers.

by Anonymousreply 75November 8, 2020 5:46 PM

Yay, let's turn this into an "I hate Boomers" thread. I'll go first--they're old and soon to be dead.

by Anonymousreply 76November 8, 2020 5:56 PM

I think I wore out three copies of the cassette soundtrack.

I Heard It Through the Grapevine

My Girl

Good Lovin'

The Tracks of My Tears

Joy to the World (Jeremiah was a Bullfrog)

Ain't Too Proud to Beg

(You Make Me Feel Like) A Natural Woman

I Second That Emotion

A Whiter Shade of Pale

Tell Him

by Anonymousreply 77November 8, 2020 6:29 PM

It’s been years since I’ve seen the Secaucus Seven, but I thought they were arrested for running over a deer. I think I need to rewatch this one. I do remember the last line of the movie, which I’ve quoted a few times over the years.

by Anonymousreply 78November 8, 2020 7:54 PM

Both John Sayles and his wife are in it. I really like him, but S7 is a little navel-gazing?? I like Amigo and Men With Guns.

Why aren't more North Americans making films about now, reality, our society? Someone like German Christian Petzold (who I found out about on DL) is making films that critique/examine life in Germany not some galaxy far away or the Marvel universe.

by Anonymousreply 79November 8, 2020 7:58 PM

When I worked in a Midwestern video (VHS) rental store long, long ago, I was always like WTF does Secaucus mean? Never watched the film but "intelligent" customers (educated film buffs) always rented the film! Also, as an aside, our movies rented at $3 per night. Can you imagine? That was 30 years ago.

by Anonymousreply 80November 8, 2020 9:27 PM

At the time young gay ones, it was a different type of film with an awesome soundtrack that spoke to people of a certain age. Although not the best film ever made, I think it has its moments. The film is also 40 years old.

SO FUCK OFF

by Anonymousreply 81November 8, 2020 9:48 PM

Entitled white cunt Boomers masturbating to themselves.

by Anonymousreply 82November 8, 2020 9:52 PM

Glenn tries but fails to convince one that she’s an actress

by Anonymousreply 83November 8, 2020 10:05 PM

That M shit has never, ever been funny. Like not even once.

by Anonymousreply 84November 8, 2020 10:51 PM

I specifically can't stand Kevin Kline in anything, EVER. So that much of the cast definitely is annoying. I like Meg Tilly in it, however.

by Anonymousreply 85November 8, 2020 11:05 PM

R85, FU. I won an Oscar. I was in a gay-friendly/empowering film in 1997. I was in M's (DL fave) Sophie's Choice. So GFY.

by Anonymousreply 86November 9, 2020 12:00 AM

r80, Secaucus, New Jersey.

by Anonymousreply 87November 9, 2020 12:10 AM

R87, I know that *now*. Silly.

by Anonymousreply 88November 9, 2020 12:22 AM

Was the Kevin Kline character supposed to be the Nike inventor? He seemed to have a lot of money.

by Anonymousreply 89November 9, 2020 12:30 AM

R86 1. You didn't deserve it. Phoenix & Guinness both gave better performances. 2. That movie is a disgrace, & the only good parts of it, are the scenes with Debbie Reynolds & Joan Cusack. A man comes out as gay because he exhibits stereotypical traits, & not necessarily because he's attracted to other men? So empowering. 3. Your histrionics ruined "Sophie's Choice".

by Anonymousreply 90November 9, 2020 12:35 AM

Why did the guy kill himself?

by Anonymousreply 91November 9, 2020 12:36 AM

That was never clear. Perhaps ennui?

by Anonymousreply 92November 9, 2020 12:38 AM

Kevin Costner was the (dead) guy!

by Anonymousreply 93November 9, 2020 12:38 AM

He's still a little on the stiff side.

by Anonymousreply 94November 9, 2020 2:13 AM

Tom Berenger was always so hot but in this movie the mustache ruined it. (I guess he was supposed to be Tom Selleck?)

by Anonymousreply 95November 9, 2020 2:14 AM

My parents and their friends would recreate "Big Chill" style weekends or that's what they called it.

by Anonymousreply 96November 9, 2020 2:24 AM

Did this film inspire Marvin Gaye's (brief) comeback?

by Anonymousreply 97November 9, 2020 2:28 AM

Boomers suck.

by Anonymousreply 98November 9, 2020 2:45 AM

The good news is that Gex X and Millenials are set to inherit a lot of money from the boomer generation.

by Anonymousreply 99November 9, 2020 5:15 AM

THEY'RE NOT DYING GODAMMIT!

by Anonymousreply 100November 9, 2020 5:18 AM

Didn’t Kasdan’s “Grand Canyon” steal from John Sayles’ “City of Hope” too?

by Anonymousreply 101November 9, 2020 5:28 AM

It's a great film. What so many of you don't seem to understand is that IT IS A FILM. It's not supposed to be reality, morons. I've known many people from that generation and they nailed it with style.

by Anonymousreply 102November 9, 2020 5:49 AM

[quote] Did this film inspire Marvin Gaye's (brief) comeback?

no, dear. He had already come back the year before on his own with Sexual Healing.

by Anonymousreply 103November 9, 2020 6:02 AM

I blame this movie for starting the trend of characters, dancing, singing (or lipsynching) and all around frolicking to oldies in movies.

The fucking worst.

by Anonymousreply 104November 9, 2020 6:03 AM

Glenn.

by Anonymousreply 105November 9, 2020 6:54 AM

If anyone should have been nominated from the cast, it was Mary Kay Place.

by Anonymousreply 106November 9, 2020 7:19 AM

Actually, the movie made many people feel inadequate because their lives were nothing like that. They didn't travel in a pack, they didn't become wildly successful, they didn't sell out but worked as social workers or public school teachers or whatever. It's like SATC and Girls in that it's supposed to define an era but doesn't. it did sort of kick off the genre of reunion movies in which everyone is outwardly successful but inwardly miserable and the real agenda is to rekindle old flames.

William Hurt was felled by the Body Heat curse in which the three principals--Hurt, Mickey Rourke and Kathleen Turner all became hideous looking well before their time. Only Richard Crenna was exempt and he didn't become ugly just dead. Director Kasdan went on to showcase Kevin Kline as the annoying ham that he is and Kevin Costner fas a laconic cowboy. Then he ran out of both Kevins and gas, making the truly execrable Grand Canyon and French Kiss and realizing his days were better spent as a script doctor.

by Anonymousreply 107November 9, 2020 7:46 AM

I love Body Heat but I've always found Kasdan overrated.

by Anonymousreply 108November 9, 2020 8:03 AM

Body Heat is a perfect. film. The cast, script, direction, the score, and filled with stunning noir imagery..

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by Anonymousreply 109November 9, 2020 8:24 AM

[quote] Why did the guy kill himself?

Alex refused a "Rutledge Fellowship" during his college days, although he was a "brilliant physics student". I think we're to conclude Rutledge was an arms manufacturer.

The screenplay gives Chloe ( Meg Tilly) a very brief, yet key line that reveals that Alex, too, just like the rest of them, moved on from being a pseudo revolutionary activist when she says "he (Alex) thought maybe he should have accepted that Rutledge Fellowship".

Aha. All of his surviving friends built-up in their own minds that Alex never would have, like they did, sell-out, but, as Chloe reveals, he would have, too.

I think the screenplay leaves ambiguous why Alex killed himself, but as the character of Nick says, "we never know why somebody does something. I don't know why I chose these socks this morning."

I agree with every criticism of "The Big Chill" but I love it anyway. I think as I posted up thread, Kasdan isn't looking at these characters wanting them to be liked. I think he's deliberately making them shallow, upper middle class, affluent navel gazers and he's poking fun at them and himself.

If viewed in a certain way, one can perceive Kasdan's POV as conservative, although he'd probably dispute that and I'm certainly not declaring that. but still.

by Anonymousreply 110November 9, 2020 11:50 AM

Forgot to add, I posted at r29.

by Anonymousreply 111November 9, 2020 11:55 AM

R110: I have a simpler explanation: Kasdan is a hack. His best film was "Body Heat" which was basically a genre film---you can screw-up something like this (a neo-noir) but there are enough conventions that you have guard rails and the audience doesn't mind them, esp. if you have a good cast. He stumbled when he tried to take on big ideas like Big Chill and Grand Canyon. Judging from his interviews and his defensiveness around stealing the plot of "Secaucus Seven", I doubt that he has the depth you attribute to him. He's simply someone who had a hit with a good film and was given money to make not very good films, enough of which hit to give him a career. Sayles often has overreached but never on scale like Kasdan and he's always had interesting, often underrated actors in his films rather than mediocrities like Costner.

by Anonymousreply 112November 9, 2020 12:26 PM

r112, this is r110.

I've never watched "The Return of the Secaucus Seven", but I'll see if I can find it and do so. I live in Wisconsin so there will be plenty of cold, snowy Saturday afternoons and it sounds perfect for that.

I'm not white. That's neither here nor there for the overall purpose of this thread.

For me, however, "The Big Chill", as well as all Christopher Guest films are contained in my own self-created genre I wordily call, "Comedic Films White People Make that Make Fun of White People."

I know that Lawrence Kasdan and Christopher Guest didn't deliberately set -out to have that effect, but that's the lens I see them through.

by Anonymousreply 113November 9, 2020 12:45 PM

Christopher Guest sortof did consciously given the kinds of people he and settings he sent-up. Kasdan lacks a certain subtlety to even try something like that.

Sayles actually is interested in cultural interaction and occasionally succeeded as in "Passion Fish" which is everything that something cringeworthy like "Driving Miss Daisy" is not.

by Anonymousreply 114November 9, 2020 12:48 PM

I Love You to Death (1990)

by Anonymousreply 115November 9, 2020 12:48 PM

Just derail the thread for one more post, that self-created category also includes the ver dated, yet still hilarious to me, "Down and Out in Beverly Hills" by Paul Mazersky.

by Anonymousreply 116November 9, 2020 12:49 PM

It's a Jukebox Angst Drama.

No wonder Boomers are so hated now.

by Anonymousreply 117November 9, 2020 12:55 PM

[quote]I blame this movie for starting the trend of characters, dancing, singing (or lipsynching) and all around frolicking to oldies in movies

At lest they didn’t sing into hairbrushes like in that farkakte scene in Stepmom with CUNT Susan Sarandon, R104.

by Anonymousreply 118November 9, 2020 1:24 PM

Kasdan is a straight?

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by Anonymousreply 119November 9, 2020 2:23 PM

The Big Chill was the inspiration for THIRTYSOMETHING that tv show about insufferable baby boomer yuppie types.

by Anonymousreply 120November 9, 2020 3:35 PM

I watched it once. I tend to overthink things, and there were a few things about this movie that had my head spinning. One was why Alex died. I think that the biggest clue was when Meg was talking to Nick and told him that she and Alex fought just before he died. She told him that he was wasting his life. Alex was brilliant, but he held on to the principles that the rest of them threw out the window to make money. As a result he was the least successful of the group, money wise.

Next, Glenn Close offering up her husband to screw the best friend and give her a baby. Kevin Kline's character was obviously still having problems with that (seen in a conversation he had with Nick). Was this her way of saying that since she slept with Alex, and now her husband would sleep with Meg, they were even and she could stop being guilty? Plus the child that Kevin Kline's character was bathing when Glenn Close came in to tell him Alex committed suicide was about five years old. Was that Alex's child?

Next, JoBeth Williams character. It seemed like her main purpose to be there was to bang Sam. She told him that she and her husband were done, got him to fuck her, then the next day was like "If Richard and I make it to Cali, can you get us in the studio". I was like WTF. Sam had issues on who he could trust, and one of his oldest and best friends fucked him over like that?

Nick was an interesting character. To me, he was the next Alex. He had a lot of issues. I could easily see him taking his own life at some point. But to hook him up with Chloe, who had said before that Nick reminded her a lot of Alex? I'm sorry, but that doesn't seem like a Happily Ever After to me. Chloe was so in love with Alex that she fell for Nick less than a week after finding Alex dead.

Honestly, none of these people are likeable. That's the deal killer for me. Michael was the funniest character, but he spent most of the movie trying to nail Chloe when he had a significant other at home.

by Anonymousreply 121November 9, 2020 4:16 PM

Thirtysomething could get annoying but it is closer to Secaucus Seven than Big Chill. Thee characters were well developed and they had some actually very good story arcs--Michael losing his father, the cancer arc with Nancy.

by Anonymousreply 122November 9, 2020 4:38 PM

R110 I don’t agree that Kansan is poking fun at the characters and himself especially given that he made the over-earnest Oscar-bait dreck Grand Canyon.

by Anonymousreply 123November 9, 2020 7:15 PM

My guess is they cut Costner's scenes because he was about a decade younger than the rest of the group he was supposed to have been in college with and looked it.

by Anonymousreply 124November 9, 2020 7:58 PM

My least favorite scene in this film is when all the baby boomer/Yuppie types are making supper in the kitchen, all while dancing to Motown music.

Motown music? When there's not a BLACK face among the cast.

by Anonymousreply 125November 9, 2020 10:40 PM

If The Big Chill were made today, the all-white cast would be very problematic. White people in today's movies and tv shows usually have a multicultural circle of close friends.

by Anonymousreply 126November 9, 2020 11:03 PM

One must remember that these YUPPY BABY BOOMERS went to college in the late 1960's there were practically NO blacks attending elite universities at that time so how could they have BLACK friends.

by Anonymousreply 127November 9, 2020 11:09 PM

r127, are you for real? there were plenty of black people at universities in the late 60's. I don't remember hearing any of these characters mentioned having attended Yale or Harvard or anything.

by Anonymousreply 128November 9, 2020 11:54 PM

I think the characters in The Big Chill went to Michigan.

by Anonymousreply 129November 9, 2020 11:58 PM

R129, correct.

by Anonymousreply 130November 10, 2020 12:00 AM

R125, FU. Everyone loves Motown music. Stop stirring up the racial shit.

by Anonymousreply 131November 10, 2020 12:10 AM

I HATE that jungle music from that crime ridden city.

by Anonymousreply 132November 10, 2020 12:13 AM

I've always loved this movie. The soundtrack CD is one of the first CD's I ever bought, along with Eagles Greatest Hits and a few others I can't remember right now, but still own, bitches!

by Anonymousreply 133November 10, 2020 12:15 AM

R133 = Taylor Dayne (waiting for a comeback)

by Anonymousreply 134November 10, 2020 12:18 AM

The funniest scene is when they watch the opening credits to Sam's terrible cop show, J.T. LANCER, (a great riff on Magnum P.I.). A perfect expression of the feeling that they have sold out their 60's ideals for 80's materialism. The characters reactions are hilarious.

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by Anonymousreply 135November 10, 2020 12:19 AM

G in R135's photo...wow...tragic.

by Anonymousreply 136November 10, 2020 12:22 AM

You did have to be there as it doesn’t hold up well. Think of it as a movie where you get together with your dear college chums and find most to be Trump supporters. Sorry, we are trying to forget that.

by Anonymousreply 137November 10, 2020 12:23 AM

The film is about the realization that we are not necessarily the people we think are, or thought we would be. That's why Alex killed himself.

by Anonymousreply 138November 10, 2020 12:31 AM

Sam's (Tom Berenger) famous "actor" character is the shallowest.

He says "That's cashmere! Give me that!" when Kline's character grabs it to to use it to hit and chase bats away. His phony agony of not knowing and wanting to know why Alex killed himself is called by out by Nick who is, as r121 points out, besides Chloe, the most interesting character.

Speaking of r121, I didn't see Karen as fucking over Sam. I saw Karen and Sam fucking and then her saying to him the next morning "If Richard and I make it to California maybe you can get Richard and the boys in to see one of the studios" and he says something like "Yeah, sure", and the her replying "Good. Richard would like that." is her awkwardly realizing that their having sex had "put up a wall in their relationship", just as Close's and Alex having sex did.

Remember, Sam is bored with domesticity and tells Karen that's why he left his wife.

by Anonymousreply 139November 10, 2020 12:39 AM

As you may be able to tell, when I was younger I went through a "watch a movie repeatedly phase" and "The Big Chill" was one of them, although it's kinda funny because it's been several years since I last sat down and watched it beginning to end.

by Anonymousreply 140November 10, 2020 12:43 AM

Who gives a fuck, Della?

by Anonymousreply 141November 10, 2020 12:44 AM

I, for one, like Della.

by Anonymousreply 142November 10, 2020 12:48 AM

You're sweet, r142. Smoooches, Doll.

by Anonymousreply 143November 10, 2020 12:50 AM

R142, are you saying that most DLers do NOT like the insufferable Della?

by Anonymousreply 144November 10, 2020 12:56 AM

She's a fat hag who's seen too much Will and Grace. Tiresome cunt.

by Anonymousreply 145November 10, 2020 12:57 AM

[quote]Della

Attention WHORE CUNT

by Anonymousreply 146November 10, 2020 1:01 AM

Welcome to the Dollhouse, I mean Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 147November 10, 2020 1:02 AM

It's a terrible dull ponderous movie full of kind of attractive people. My mother always says it's the movie about Glenn Close's Ass and a bit moustache.

The jogging, the insemination, the weeping in the shower. It's kind of an 80s horror movie. Meg Tilly remains unscathed, because her character is conceived as a soothsaying radiant moron. So she doesn't say or do much. She's fantastic in Agnes of God. Because of this same quality. I'm not sure if she's acting. But she is radiant.

Jobeth, Kevin Kline's shoelaces, William Hurt's drone and Glenn's ASS act their ass off in this film.

It was before my time. I've seen it TWICE.

by Anonymousreply 148November 10, 2020 1:18 AM

William Hurt was pretty cute back then. Aged fast, though.

by Anonymousreply 149November 10, 2020 1:19 AM

For those who don't like the scene where they clean up after dinner and dance to The Temptations, I can say that back in the day my old roomies and I would smoke a joint and clean our college rental house to The B-52's. It happens.

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by Anonymousreply 150November 10, 2020 1:22 AM

There's one line I quote occasionally:

"You're so analytical. Sometimes you have to let art flow over you."

It's from when Sam finds Nick watching some late-night movie.

by Anonymousreply 151November 10, 2020 1:23 AM

This thread is fascinating. It's interesting to hear what appealed to the young boomers. How old are they supposed to be? Late 30's?

by Anonymousreply 152November 10, 2020 3:51 AM

Costner's scenes were all flashbacks to when they were in college I believe. He is younger than the others as stated above.

Found this on Tilly's youtube page:

Going to watch it now.

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by Anonymousreply 153November 10, 2020 4:05 AM

Thirtysomething was insufferable. No one gets us! We are smarter and more self aware and socially conscious than any other generation ever in history! It's so hard being woke in 1985! We are really special! Adulting is hard!

by Anonymousreply 154November 10, 2020 4:29 AM

Meg Tilly is so embarrassingly Meg Tilly-like that I just kind of love her. But her YouTube page puts me to sleep. zzzzz. I'm bored by her house, her scrubbed face, her fresh old lady way. Drinking tea is not a concept. Isn't she the DL definition of Mug Cradling? Girl needs a hot shot or some tequila.

William Hurt is super sexy to me in all his well known films. I'm at least 30 years younger than he is. Dude is kind of my type. A dyspeptic guy with a comforting demeanor and a damaged personality beneath. He must be a Virgo. I love them. I can heal them. Like Meg.

by Anonymousreply 155November 10, 2020 4:32 AM

Meg is cute but a little eccentric. She couldn't do Flashdance because her husband wouldn't let her??

I'm surprised that almost 40 years later we have never seen the Kevin Costner scenes.

by Anonymousreply 156November 10, 2020 5:24 AM

For some reason that was a recurring theme with Boomers, OP. It was supposed to be selfless and beautiful or some such nonsense. It's always creeped me out when any movie or TV show decided to use the "loaning out your husband to knock up a friend" plot.

by Anonymousreply 157November 10, 2020 5:27 AM

[quote]Still had his ideals at the time of Big Chill and afterward.

A lot of Boomers did, but the filmmaker Boomers were mostly sell-outs and navel-gazers who wanted to explore (i.e. justify) why they flirted with radicalism and change and then decided to become Yuppies instead.

by Anonymousreply 158November 10, 2020 5:38 AM

I remember that was in Hilary and Jackie r157. It was creepy.

by Anonymousreply 159November 10, 2020 6:01 AM

As stinky as this cinematic suppository may be, it still isn’t as bad as Beyoncé’s film, Obsessed. I watched that shit a couple of days ago and I’m still angry with myself for watching the whole thing.

by Anonymousreply 160November 10, 2020 6:06 AM

[quote]Thirtysomething was insufferable. No one gets us! We are smarter and more self aware and socially conscious than any other generation ever in history! It's so hard being woke in 1985! We are really special! Adulting is hard!

It wasn't "woke" at all. It was pre-woke.

by Anonymousreply 161November 10, 2020 6:08 AM

OMG r153 she is so cute!

by Anonymousreply 162November 10, 2020 7:17 AM

I'm 64, and when it came out in 1983, I loved it and thought it was sophisticated and insightful.

Now I think it's embarrassing, like all stuff that doesn't age well.

by Anonymousreply 163November 10, 2020 12:51 PM

William Hurt at this age reminds me of Armie Hammer.

by Anonymousreply 164November 10, 2020 12:56 PM

R23 has never taken a pregnancy test or had to contemplate carrying an unwanted pregnancy.

by Anonymousreply 165November 10, 2020 12:58 PM

William. Hurt. Reads. His lines. Exactly the same way. In every. Scene.

by Anonymousreply 166November 10, 2020 12:58 PM

It got enormous attention at the time.

People loved hearing the 60s music again. It was the music that really won people over. I found the music annoying. It's not like it was set in the 60s.

by Anonymousreply 167November 10, 2020 12:59 PM

R165=unwelcome whore frau cunt.

by Anonymousreply 168November 10, 2020 12:59 PM

Like the film, the music certainly helps it to be remembered. Best line in the whole thing:

" Ya' know, they'd never get a crowd like this at MY funeral."

" Sure they would, I'd come, and I'd bring a date."

These friends/former friends were sitting shiva for Alex, and it eventually dawned on them that they were doing it for what became of their idealism, and what their lives had become, much to their dismay: "Oh, what are you saying? We were good then, but we're shit now?" Kasden tried to wrap it all up pretty by the end, but the cracks they saw in each other, and in themselves as well, would always be there.

by Anonymousreply 169November 10, 2020 1:36 PM

Hurt was a much better actor than Hammer. He clearly had some fun with the role, unlike all the others except maybe Goldblum.

Tilly has always seemed one anxiety attack short of a straight jacket in most of her roles. She had a fairly horrible childhood, with a pedophile stepdad, which she has replayed in several novels that she's written.

There was nothing sophisticated about this cookie cutter film when it came out in '83.

by Anonymousreply 170November 10, 2020 6:09 PM

This film and the Motown 25 special kicked off the 1960s nostalgia boom of the 1980s (in the same way that American Graffiti and Happy Days did for the 1950s a decade earlier).

by Anonymousreply 171November 10, 2020 8:13 PM

I was teaching back then. It wasn't just nostalgia--there was an uptick in interest in 60s music by college age people.

by Anonymousreply 172November 10, 2020 9:23 PM

How do William's other '80s films hold up today? Children of a Lesser God, Broadcast News, Eyewitness, Altered States, Kiss of the Spider Woman, The Accidental Tourist, etc. I saw 'em all back then...but not since.

by Anonymousreply 173November 11, 2020 1:29 AM

The Accidental Tourist is my favorite WH performance and my favorite Kasdan film.

by Anonymousreply 174November 11, 2020 1:40 AM

Hurt makes a great modern mad scientist in Altered States. Peak form as an actor and so damn handsome and often naked throughout!

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by Anonymousreply 175November 11, 2020 2:21 AM

DL fave Drew Barrymore's (now talk show host) first film was Altered States!

by Anonymousreply 176November 11, 2020 2:40 AM

DL fave Drew Barrymore's (now talk show host) first film was Altered States!

by Anonymousreply 177November 11, 2020 2:40 AM

Hurt's mother was married to Henry Luce III (accused pedophile, fan of orgies) who was later married to batshit crazy and world class narcissist (but talented writer) Leila Hadley

by Anonymousreply 178November 11, 2020 3:07 AM

From Altered States to rehab in only 6 years.

by Anonymousreply 179November 11, 2020 3:08 AM

He was beautiful.

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by Anonymousreply 180November 11, 2020 3:12 AM

R3180- I NEVER found William Hurt beautiful nor do I think he was a good actor. He was especially bad in Gorky Park.

by Anonymousreply 181November 11, 2020 3:30 AM

I wouldn't want to watch it again. The most non-cringe character was the Jeff Goldblum character. It was realistic that he would fall in love with the Meg Tilly woman-child character and that she would be 100% not interested in him.

"Self-congratulatory" is the word that comes to mind.

by Anonymousreply 182November 11, 2020 3:51 AM

One of William Hurt's ex-girlfriends claimed they were common-law married because they lived together for 4 weeks in South Carolina, while Hurt was filming the Big Chill. Hence, she was entitled to half in the "divorce." I think Hurt was already married (to someone else) at the time, so, a very novel theory.

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by Anonymousreply 183November 11, 2020 4:06 AM

Love! Valour! Compassion! completely ripped off the opening scene of this film where everyone is packing. They did exactly the same thing.

by Anonymousreply 184November 11, 2020 4:08 AM

William's '90s films include Lost in Space, The Doctor, and Second Best.

by Anonymousreply 185November 11, 2020 4:20 AM

[quote]Broadcast News

I watched this last year. I thought the themes in love and work held up. The commentary on media was prescient, though less so than Network, and of course McLuhan. Remember falling in love with Joan Cusack, Holly Hunter, and Albert Brooks. William Hurt, not so much.

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by Anonymousreply 186November 11, 2020 4:40 AM

R186 Agree. I rewatched Broadcast News recently and it does hold up.

by Anonymousreply 187November 11, 2020 10:44 AM

Holly Hunter is just grating. Hurt and Albert Brooks hold things up. Joan Cusack is the saving grace of so many moviews.

by Anonymousreply 188November 11, 2020 12:27 PM

R188- Especially in Working Girl- Hold awl cawls Ms. Mcgill? I can get you anything Mr. Traina? Cawfee, tea , me?!

by Anonymousreply 189November 11, 2020 3:01 PM

I love Broadcast News. I love Holly in it. Yes, she's a bit annoying but that was deliberate.

The writing is brilliant.

by Anonymousreply 190November 11, 2020 3:36 PM

Holly Hunter is always annoying. I have a colleague who sounds just like her and is dumb as a fence post. Needless to say I can't stand her. At least Hunter does not appear to be stupid.

by Anonymousreply 191November 11, 2020 4:56 PM

Holy Hunter is a legendary cunt. One female Canadian interviewer (can't remember which...there's only about 3 of any note) said HH could barely be bothered to make eye contact during an interview. This is the kind of dish I live for. And solidified why she irritates me nearly as badly as Our Supreme Cuntess, Julia Roberts.

by Anonymousreply 192November 11, 2020 8:29 PM

I adore Holly Hunter, always have.

by Anonymousreply 193November 11, 2020 8:46 PM

College activists/radicals hated football. Football games were violent & marching bands were militaristic & jocks supported the war. Radicals believed colleges’ money should be spend on merit scholarships, not sports. And for you yunguns, college football (and professional football) was nearly all white in those days.

by Anonymousreply 194November 11, 2020 9:02 PM

I loved Holly in Broadcast News and would have given her the Oscar over Cher. I haven’t had the same reaction to her since. Her Oscar for The Piano should have gone to Angela Bassett.

BN was also the last film in which William Hurt looked remotely hot.

by Anonymousreply 195November 11, 2020 10:16 PM

Angela Bassett definitely should've won the Oscar for playing Tina Turner. I think today, she would have.

by Anonymousreply 196November 11, 2020 10:44 PM

I'll never understand why Angela Bassett looked like a body builder in that Tina Turner movie.

Tina was never so ripped. Odd choice on Bassett's part.

It is surprising though that "the first ever" narrative that swept Halle Berry to the podium didn't work for Bassett.

by Anonymousreply 197November 11, 2020 11:45 PM

Yeah, the bodybuild look for Bassett/Tina was really distracting. I hated how the press made such a big deal about Bassett's transformation when it made Tina look like the Hulk I still don't get it. Tina was never overly muscular. Definitely fit and in great shape but not a gym queen.

Holly Hunter has always hated interviews and comes across as a bit cold in them. I will chalk it up to shyness or nerves.

by Anonymousreply 198November 12, 2020 12:11 AM

Broadcast News (and the Oscar nom) should have been MINE, damn it!

by Anonymousreply 199November 12, 2020 12:38 AM

Anyone know who this could be?

I heard James L. Brooks speak at a screening of Broadcast News. He said once Winger got pregnant he auditioned every actress around. He settled on one but wasn't totally happy with the choice.

He then saw Hunter and hired her .

I wonder who the second actress was.

by Anonymousreply 200November 12, 2020 12:42 AM

Kathleen Turner said in an interview that she turned down the role that Jobeth Williams played.. That's one of the reasons she had such a great run in the eighties. She knew how to pick roles.

by Anonymousreply 201November 12, 2020 12:51 AM

Kathleen Turner was much too young to have been in the same age range as the other actors.

by Anonymousreply 202November 12, 2020 12:53 AM

Kathleen is two years younger than Jeff Goldblum, R202.

by Anonymousreply 203November 12, 2020 4:00 AM

Goldblum looked older. Turner was too young to have been convincing as being in her late 30s, which is the age these characters were supposed to be.

by Anonymousreply 204November 12, 2020 4:48 AM

Kathleen did “The Man With Two Brains” that year. She was great in it and it’s one of the most underrated performances of her career, IMO.

by Anonymousreply 205November 12, 2020 4:48 AM

Kathleen Turner remains my favourite actress of the '80s. Every role she played in the '80s was different from each other.

It's a shame she wasn't able to sustain that success into the '90s.

by Anonymousreply 206November 12, 2020 5:11 AM

Don’t get me started.

by Anonymousreply 207November 12, 2020 5:13 AM

Turner was maybe 5 years younger than most of the cast---no one would have noticed the difference and she was a far better actress than Jobeth Williams, although there probably would be a long line of people for whom the same could be said.

by Anonymousreply 208November 12, 2020 12:53 PM

Baby Hillbilly look!

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by Anonymousreply 209November 12, 2020 4:50 PM

I think JoBeth is a good actress (fantastic in Poltergeist) but Turner is definitely a far superior actress. She would have been good in this film but presumably she turned it down for Romancing the Stone and/or Crimes of Passion which were much more worthy of her talents.

by Anonymousreply 210November 12, 2020 5:01 PM

Kathleen was a star, baby. No ensemble roles for her.

by Anonymousreply 211November 12, 2020 5:04 PM

Turner was too young, and looked it. She was still in her twenties.

by Anonymousreply 212November 12, 2020 5:07 PM

V.I. Warshawski (1991ish) killed Kathleen's film career. Pity.

by Anonymousreply 213November 12, 2020 5:49 PM

JoBeth Williams got a career out of this and [italic]Poltergeist[/italic]. She fucked it up by raising her "ask" to something ridiculous. She works regularly, she just doesn't star in big movies any longer.

by Anonymousreply 214November 12, 2020 5:55 PM

Nah, JoBeth proved she couldn't open a movie on her own when her first starring vehicle, American Dreamer, flopped at the box office. She was not the typical leading lady and was a "mom" type pretty much out of the gate, so she took what she could get.

by Anonymousreply 215November 12, 2020 8:02 PM

Glenn's hair @ r209 is a poor imitation of la Streisand's poodle perm of the same era. And her ass also can't hold a candle to Streisand's...for the record.

by Anonymousreply 216November 12, 2020 8:14 PM

My ass (and hair) on and for the record.

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by Anonymousreply 217November 12, 2020 9:05 PM

For years I thought JoBeth Williams and Veronica Hamel were the same person.

by Anonymousreply 218November 12, 2020 9:51 PM

[quote] For years I thought JoBeth Williams and Veronica Hamel were the same person.

In that you had no interest in fucking either of them, Danny?

by Anonymousreply 219November 12, 2020 10:04 PM

Veronica Hamel had more of a glamor thing going. JoBeth always seemed like a suburban mom--Barbara Billingsley only less interesting.

by Anonymousreply 220November 13, 2020 1:14 AM

JoBeth has transitioned into Karen!

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by Anonymousreply 221November 13, 2020 1:19 AM

Better than transitioning into Kathleen!

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by Anonymousreply 222November 13, 2020 1:21 AM

Jobeth also appeared in Kramer vs Kramer as Kramer's girlfriend. She appears naked. WHO CARES though. We're GAY.

by Anonymousreply 223November 13, 2020 1:21 AM

I would have been so offended if I were Mary Kay Place and my hot, slutty friend Tom Berenger suddenly grew a conscience and refused to fuck me.

by Anonymousreply 224November 13, 2020 1:31 AM

This film did not win any 1983 Oscars. I mean, it was no Terms of Endearment or The Right Stuff. Meh.

by Anonymousreply 225November 13, 2020 1:35 AM

I hated The Big Chill the first ten or twenty times I watched it. Then some 20-30 years later, I caught it again and really enjoyed it.

The tensions, while sometimes far-fetched, simmered throughout the film until the very end. The actors were superbly cast, which is why so many people have visceral feeling about the characters. I even like Jeff Goldblum in it, and I loathe him.

A poorly made film is forgotten. The Big Chill engenders strong opinions these almost forty years later. It is a very good movie.

by Anonymousreply 226November 13, 2020 1:42 AM

R226, why in the world would you watch a film you hated ten or twenty times?

by Anonymousreply 227November 13, 2020 1:50 AM

Who watches a film 20 times when it's first released? Wow. GET. A. LIFE.

by Anonymousreply 228November 13, 2020 1:55 AM

It was on cable alot, fools.

by Anonymousreply 229November 13, 2020 4:51 AM
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