The most masculine man you’ve been with

MARY!!! That man is anything but uber masc.

OP you want who you want, there is no shame in that.

I have had so many married men suck my dick it is not even funny.

Yep. I always wanted a man, not a squealing little mean girl with a penis. It still turns me off immediately. Total dickwiilter.

You wouldn't believe me if I told you ...

R4 - Texasboy where are you located

OP I'm surprised he showed the picture of his children. Maybe he was trying to explain his situation to you?

You should probably get back to making fundraising calls, Senatrix.

R7 - Is this you?

The guy in the picture played a gay man on Days of Our Lives.

A country boy I carried on with for a few years in the 2010s.

My mom used to give him shit for his beard during hunting season but he was handsome and a nice guy.

He was bi though --not straight.

Saw him not to long ago at Wal-Mart. Bodies still under there but Miller light has concealing it a bit.

Yeah, because married men with kids go to gay bars all the time....

Hotel bars R11

I'm going to play amateur shrink here OP and tell you that he was a closeted gay man and that by showing you pictures of his kids and confiding in you that he was married and a father, he was trying to establish some sort of connection with you.

Had he merely been experimenting or occasionally bisexual, he would have said thank you and left.

There is the other option, that you kept asking him questions about himself and feeling guilty, he acceded to you demand to see photos of his kids.

It was a 100% gay park ranger / trucker.

I hooked up with a guy who worked on an oil rig.

Richard Simmons

I lost my virginity at an ABS in the West Village in the 80s. There was a guy there who clearly had just come off a construction site. We made out in a booth for a few and then he leaned into my ear, and in a deep, masculine voice with a thick Brooklyn accent, said "Bro - fuck my pussy."

I hooked up with a guy who worked as a cocktail waitress on an oil rig.

Any more make-up, and he'd be a woman.

That guy looks like a ballet dancer.

I love OP's example.

You gurls is FUNNY.

I agree with r19

I prefer them kinda ugly

R9 I don’t think so.

R23 - yes actually he did

Nifty won't publish OP's b/s so she comes here.

[quote]I prefer them kinda ugly

So do WE!!!

My husband is really masculine in a very unaffected way. He grew up in a tough Irish Catholic family on Staten Island - his dad was a cop and his grandad was a police captain. He went to a brutal catholic school where the students routinely got the shit kicked out of them like in the movie Heaven Help Us. He's saw his fair share of fist fights during that time. But though he has a bit of a butch swagger to him, he's really very sensitive. And a truly good man.

I live in NYC. Several years ago, I was hanging out at a bar - a friend was bartending. It was about 11:30. Place never got busy till 1AM. This guy comes in, we talked. He was in town for two days, getting out the miltary. He was a Ranger. We went out to smoke, we kept talking, I bought him a drink, we kept talking. We went to smoke again, we walked around, talked. He was in the closet. We were on some street between 2nd and 3rd Avenues and he asked if he could kiss me. I told him I'd like that. We went back to the bar, stayed a while. He came home with me. We did a lot of fooling around. A lot. It was amazing. He left the next morning. Never saw him again. What a night.

R24 I actually watch DOOL, and have never seen him. Did you mean the guy in R8 ?

A fiftysomething British man who I met years ago. He was very masculine but not in a forced grr woof sort of way. Just relaxed, confident masculinity. Deep voice and thick hair all over his body.

I've been with a few very "masculine" men. Doesn't mean they were FABULOUS. They were quite ordinary, in fact. I think OP wants FABULOUS.

I was driving thru Rock Island Illinois about 25 years ago and stopped for the night and ended up at the night only gay bar in town. I ended up picking up and spending the night with...let me put it this way. If a younger faced Johnny Depp and Mickey Rourke with the body of Henry Cavill and the dick of Puerto Rican and throw some prison time in. Lord it was the hottest sex I’ve had in my life.

His name was Clay Aiken, and he showed me what it meant to be a real man.

The guy in the picture is actor Brant Daugherty. He was at one time on DOOL. He was also on Dancing with the Stars and I think one of the judges tried to out him on that show. He is now married to a woman so who knows?

Brant Daugherty was also a regular on Pretty Little Liars. I wouldn't call him the most masculine looking man ever, but apparently OP was happy.

Unfortunately, the most masculine guy I've ever been with was among the worst when it came to sex. He was a warrant officer in the Army, and I met him online when I was 19. I drove all the way to his apartment on a military base and sex basically consisted of me blowing him and no reciprocation. Lame.

R28 kissed a smoker, that is so fucking gross, like licking out an ashtray.

[quote][R28] kissed a smoker, that is so fucking gross, like licking out an ashtray.

Prisspot R37 hasn't been with a masc. man, that's for sure.

Was in my late 20s when I hooked up with a guy I met at a gay porn theater in Boston, circa 1988. We were getting into jerking each other off when he asked if I wanted to go somewhere else and I said yes. When we got outside, we briefly talked about where to go, and I said I lived just outside the city, but I had roommates, and he said he lived alone in Back Bay, so we went to his place.

A couple of times while he was fucking me he said "You're a man, a real man" or something similar. It's funny when I think about it, because he wasn't effeminate or fey, and, I'd never thought of myself as a "real man", but rather, more along the lines of just being your average Joe in terms of masculinity, and he was being really turned on by my "manliness".

[quote] As a gay man who is only sexually attracted to straight men

🙄

I was hit on by a former Navy Seal. He was an acquaintance of mine. I turned him down because he was too old for me. (He was hot when he was younger, though)

[quote]As a gay man who is only sexually attracted to straight men

And then you post a picture of that queeny looking guy.

Lumberjack - fucked me with a log. Ate all my waffels and left.

A Sweet Peach

OP, I'm just wondering. So you see an attractive, masc behaving guy but if he IDs as gay you won't be attracted to him but if he says he's straight you will be? So gay guys only need to lie to you for you to have the hots for them?

Well, we all have our psychological hangups. Yours isn't the worst in the world I guess.

^ totally agree

It's all nonsense this "I only like str8s" bullshit - OP with his queeny idol is proof of it. Gays like gays and gay looking men. FACT.

R47 I agree. I’m still young enough to be kinda pretty and only gay men or older men I suspect are gay and living a lie hit on me.

Those and older women. It’s fucking odd.

R38 is licking out the worms from the compost and calling them masculine.

^ gurl you is FUNNY.

^i think that alone proves you’ve never been with a masculine man, Mary.

Miss Priss probably think butch guys are crude.

Nah, it's prissy guys who want "butch" guys to dominate them

Tops want twinks

I love these "Maskulinda" trips!

[quote]What struck me about him was his kindness and gentleness when he fucked me in my hotel room. He actually looked in my eyes! (Melt)

Am I the only one who pictures OP with his hair in curlers, breathlessly describing this to imaginary friends (stuffed animals or, perhaps, his Madame Alexander dolls)?

What is it about this quest for "masculine men" that extracts any remaining testosterone from one's own body?

[quote]Miss Priss probably think butch guys are crude.

This is Miss Priss's idea of butch

OP you have a pathetically narrow and self-hating definition of "masculine". The most masculine lover I have had is GAY, Israeli, nuclear engineer, and ex army intelligence.

Why you believe a downlow married bisexual is the epitome of "straight" masculinity (he isn't straight, dumb dumb) must have to do with a rather mediocre IQ, at best, more than some psychological issue.

[quote]He was about 35 and well over 6 feet tall and built. What struck me about him was his kindness and gentleness when he fucked me in my hotel room. He actually looked in my eyes!

OP >

An Israeli army guy. It was adam4adam time. He was a muscled dark features looked like a shaved head Collin Farrell. I showed his picture to my roommate at the time. A Russian model girl who dated smoking Latinos. She laughed because she said I have really good taste in guys, they were guys she would want to fuck with. So I think he picked me up in his car, and we went to Teds Hideaway ( straight dive bar in south beach Miami. ). We had many beers, played pool, good conversation, he was very hot and very masculine- and not in a masculine cosplay kind of way- the natural real thing. We laughed about stuff- he told me he was nervous about our date and had a massive pimple on his cheek his female friend put makeup to cover up it up. He had a crush on Paul walker and he was showing me clips on his iPhone circa 2011 from a fast and furious movie. After the vibe was right we made out in his car and then he took me to a friends condo on ocean. He sucked my dick. To completion. I didn’t use my hand or any assistance. I never come from blow jobs- having such a naturally hot army guy sucking my dick turned me on so much. He swallowed. One of my top experiences to this day. Never saw him again. Best blow job cum I’ve ever had.

*yawn*. These "stories" are so boring. Come on, gays, you can do better.

Where is the dependable "puny cocklet" troll?

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That’s hot r61

So, are there straight people who have some obsession with fucking femmy gay guys to prove something about their straightness? Like the OP (and everyone else here) but opposite day? That shit would be entertaining.

It was some guy I met at a porn theater. I "accidentally" nudged while walking around the private viewing booths in the theater. I went into a booth and left the door ajar. He followed and we engaged in some mutual oral and tongue kissing. He looked very masculine with his military type buzzed hair but his whole demeanor was ultra butch. I ended up going to his house and he fucked the crap out of me. This was the first time I had been fucked on my back with my legs on his shoulders. I didn't even know it could be done that way. The man fucked like a goddam machine. He was just relentless, slamming in me very rapidly. That was also new to me. The guys that had fucked me before had all been tender and slow. This dude was like a piston that couldn't be stopped. I was thrilled that an ultra masculine guy could show an interest in me but little did I know what was in store for me.

Myself

I posted this in another thread here a couple of years ago, but it fits this topic nicely.

As a police training officer, I once was assigned a 25-year-old rookie fresh out of the Academy. Very nice-looking guy, who actually bore a strong resemblance to Kent McCord from [italic]Adam 12.[/italic] Very bright, great sense of humor, newly married, sexually as straight as they come, but gay friendly.

We got to know each other well. I told him early on that I was gay and he couldn't have cared less. He confided to me that he really liked having his ass played with, but that his wife would have nothing to do with that kind of thing, though in the past, he'd had girlfriends who would indulge him with fingers, small dildoes, etc. One day I told him that I'd be happy to buttfuck him if he ever wanted to see what that was like. He laughed it off.

Greg was the very personification of "masculine." He drove a jacked-up pickup truck, he was confident in pretty much everything he did, he could tear down a dune buggy engine and put it back together again in a weekend, he flirted with all the ladies, even if they weren't particularly attractive, and we were both on our department's baseball team.

One day, he asked me if I'd been serious when I offered to buttfuck him. Well…yeah! After much discussion, we decided to do The Deed at his house after wifey went to work. We were on the graveyard shift, so this worked out perfectly. I went to his house, we had a couple of rum & Cokes, I had him lie on his stomach on the bed, and proceeded to show him what 7 inches of cock felt like in his ass. He took it amazingly well, actually enjoying it.

It bothered me that there was nothing else involved—no kissing, fondling, terms of affection, etc.—but I knew what the rules were and abided by them ("no kissy-face or anything, okay? And you can't touch my dick.") But other than that brief admonition, Greg was so confident with his own masculinity that he not only ventured off the Heterosexual Highway for an experiment, but had absolutely no remorse or regret for what he'd done, which, to me, made him even MORE masculine.

We never did anything like that again, even though we remained good friends and working partners. We never referenced what we'd done, but there was really no need to. After a couple of years, Greg outgrew our department and laterally transferred to LAPD. I still miss having him around as a friend.

R66, bull. Your "story" sounds like a bad episode of T.J. Hooker.

i only suk str8 cock tits and ass hole, no matter what it costs.....so god dam gooood

I can only get hard for truly 100% straight men who would never fuck another man.

So I became a mortician and fuck cadavers.

R68 - That’s hot! I bet you’re very skilled! I don’t like to pay for tricks, so I go to a straight bar like Hooters and sit at the bar and try to get a straight guy drunk, and then take him to the truck and suck him off. I’ve been successful more than a few times!

[quote][R66], bull. Your "story" sounds like a bad episode of T.J. Hooker.

Oh, it happened.

She swings her hips

and all the straight men go "ahhh"

Although I am sorely tempted to post the man’s Facebook link I won’t.

We hooked up 8-9 times starting about six months after we graduated high school and it lasted about three years.

We would have hooked up more often but he was working construction and was often in other states.

He was a major jock in school (football, basketball and baseball) about 6 feet tall he was only moderately muscular but very well toned.

He had black hair, brown eyes darker than average Caucasian skin (in the summertime he tanned so dark he looked almost Middle Eastern) and he was very hairy.

By 16 years of age he was hairier than most adult men and he had a thick full mustache and beard our junior year.

He is a local politician and occasionally gets his picture in the newspaper. At 56 he still has a full head of hair.

I don’t know if he was/is bisexual or just extremely heteroflexible and I don’t know if we would still be hooking up now all these years later.

The last time we spoke beyond social pleasantries I invited him to come see me and he said something along the lines of “no, I’m sorry I can’t be doing that anymore”. He may have been scared as that was about one week after Rock Hudson died.

I met a guy; I was lucky to meet him.

I got stuck in my development; dad died when I was super young so I got stuck.

We're making out wildly one time and I tell him okay. I'm ready. Let's do it. (Fuck me). and he gave a chuckle.

he kissed me on the forehead and said, 'baby, I'm not going to fuck you.'

I shouted out oh, thank God (I wasn't ready and he knew it) and we continued to make out.

he had the same kindness OP spoke of. I'll never see him again; thanks Covid; but I have my memories.

[quote]He had black hair, brown eyes darker than average Caucasian skin (in the summertime he tanned so dark he looked almost Middle Eastern) and he was very hairy.

Why is this look such a gay fantasy?

The guy you hooked up with wasn't straight OP.

"As a gay man who is only sexually attracted to straight men (save the psycho-babble Freudian bullshit judgement- not the thread for that)"

I'm just going to laugh at you, hon.

You know why.

It was a cop in New Orleans. He was a member of the horse patrol in the Quarter so it might have been the uniform? Or seeing him riding his horse? Or it might have been gratitude because he saw me leaving the bar I worked in. It was three in the morning and I was on foot and he asked me how far I had to walk home. I told him it was just over by the market so he told me he would give me a lift on his horse. After that I had to confess that I was living in my car. I had been in New Orleans only a month or so and I was still trying to get myself situated. He asked around at his precinct and found someone who had garage apartment in their backyard for rent and he got me in there. He was older than I was. I was only 19 and he was around 45. That might have been part of it, too. An older guy was interested in me and looking out for me. I never met my father so there was some daddy issues that he probably filled without even knowing it. I still think about him especially when people on the internet go on tirades about how terrible the police are.

When I was in my 20s my friends and I knew that the quickest way to attract the most and best quality guys on any of the apps or on Craigslist was to pretend to be straight or bi in your profile or ad.

Just make up some story that you were "curious" about trying out sex and "visiting from out of town" that you were "engaged to be married but want to experiment before you settle down" or similar type lines. And you were always a "low-key jock".

None of us had that vibe where someone would clock you as a homosexual from across the room--probably more "young executive" than "young electrician" but it was enough.

We'd even do threeways where a bottom would service "two hot straight guys"

One of my friends even had a fake wedding ring.

It was amazing how turned on so many gay guys were by this, how they'd say stuff like "I bet I give better head than your girlfriend" or "fuck me with that cock you fuck your girlfriend with!"

But we were all gay.

And laughing afterwards.

Though we did get a lot of hot closeted guys too, the sort who only wanted to be with other "discreet" (aka "closeted") guys, versus you know, actual homos.

Russell Tovey

These are the type of dudes I like

My housemate of a few years ago picked up a 23 year old blond railway ganger with eyes like star sapphires who'd been laying track in the desert. He walked round the house naked, pendulous cock swinging every which way, and talking to me while totally unaware his foreskin was resting on the side of my cereal bowl, etc. A charming way to start the morning! Just a breathtaking beautiful, unspoilt, naturally masculine, totally unaffected, lovely kid. He was just so startlingly crystalline in nature. My housemate had incredible pulling ability and brought an endless stream of lovely down-to-earth guys to the house, but he particularly stuck in my memory. I was always in awe.

It's lads like this that make me roll my eyes when I see the look-at-me preened narcissists people post here as supposed objects of desire. Really? REALLY?! Christ.

[quote]He walked round the house naked, pendulous cock swinging every which way, and talking to me while totally unaware his foreskin was resting on the side of my cereal bowl, etc.

"Totally unaware." Riiiiiiight.

R11, married men with kids do indeed -- or used to, anyway -- go to gay bars on their way home from work.

I can't begin to count how many closeted married men/fathers I have taken home from an out-of-the-way, hole-in-the-wall gay bar between about 5 and 6:30 p.m. That's the time most people get off work in my time zone.

At my two favorite bars -- and I haven't done it for a few years, so I don't know what the scene is now, especially with Covid -- around that time of day there's only a small number of regulars in the bar, like four or five people hanging out and talking to the bartender. I would go in, sit at the other end of the bar, and without fail, some guy would show up, sit a couple of stools away from me, and it was clear he didn't fit in and lived some kind of hetero lifestyle. Sometimes they were blue-collar, more often white collar. Always with a wedding ring. I let them strike up a conversation first and then I offer to take them to my house.

It was actually pretty rare for me need to wait for a second guy to show up because the first one wasn't suitable. They were generally hot men between late 20s and early 40s, and they just wanted a no-strings tumble or blow job on the way home. But they ALWAYS reciprocated with blow jobs and sometimes they wanted me to fuck them, which I was happy to do, because I'm pretty versatile. These were not straight guys who just wanted a hole to stick in before they got home, they were gay or bisexual men who chose to live as a hetero but needed a man for sex and affection and bonding time. Most of them were very sweet and kind, even when they were tigers in bed.