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Are there nude photos/videos of you online?

Are there nude photos or videos of yourself online and did you put them there or did an ex or a trick?

by Anonymousreply 51October 23, 2020 12:34 AM

I don’t think so

by Anonymousreply 1October 20, 2020 11:43 PM

Yes, there’s one nude photo of me online, with an erection. It was posted by a trick with my knowledge because you can’t really see the details of my face so unless you knew me intimately, you wouldn’t know.

by Anonymousreply 2October 21, 2020 12:04 AM

Probably. I sent nudes to so many guys. I’m sure some of them probably posted my business by now.

by Anonymousreply 3October 21, 2020 12:17 AM

Link, R2?

by Anonymousreply 4October 21, 2020 12:24 AM

Probably, but this is common with millennials and younger generations. People are becoming pretty anaesthetized.

If you've ever been on Grindr or another app and sent someone your nudes you have no clue what they have done with them but that doesn't stop most people.

I can't think of a gay person I've been friends with over the past 10 years I haven't seen naked at some point and 90 percent of the time it isn't sexual. It's more likely that person posted their nudes on Twitter, Instagram Close Friends, took photos of themselves at a nude beach and sent them to a group chat, etc.

by Anonymousreply 5October 21, 2020 12:30 AM

Probably but not with my face showing or any identifying characteristics.

by Anonymousreply 6October 21, 2020 12:46 AM

R5, you’re friends with whores. I haven’t seen any of my gay friends naked and have no desire to.

by Anonymousreply 7October 21, 2020 12:51 AM

A co-worker showed me naked pictures of myself at Haulover Beach on a tumblr page a couple of years ago. He said he was surprised at the the size of my bush, he under-estimated, he said. I don't mind the exposure, I just wish the photographer had asked me first; I would have allowed him to do it. I'd just want to know about it.

by Anonymousreply 8October 21, 2020 2:04 AM

This thread is useless without pictures. (And videos.)

by Anonymousreply 9October 21, 2020 2:09 AM

About 5 or 6, yes.

by Anonymousreply 10October 21, 2020 2:12 AM

Sure R3, because your pics were so special.

by Anonymousreply 11October 21, 2020 2:17 AM

Two photos that I know of. One clothed (on some "silver daddy" site) and the other naked and hard but no face showing (on some other "daddy" site). Both posted without my knowledge. A former fuck bud made me aware of them. I was able to get the first one taken down but not the other. It seems to be everywhere.

by Anonymousreply 12October 21, 2020 2:35 AM

I was at a bathhouse one night and this guy was giving me a blowjob. Then he wanted to video it on his phone. I kept telling him NO. He probably was going to put it on pornhub or something. He then gave me an attitude saying- You're lucky I'm here I wouldn't look at you on the street- BITCH. He was a husky , muscular bearish type- Which is not even my type. That would have hurt if he was my type.

by Anonymousreply 13October 21, 2020 2:54 AM

Only architectural ones

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by Anonymousreply 14October 21, 2020 3:00 AM

Yes to photos, not sure about video - some has been taken, I don't know if it's been posted online. Nor do I care to be honest.

by Anonymousreply 15October 21, 2020 10:36 AM

Yes, lots, videos and all. I had a brief porn (non) career about 10 years ago, although most of the videos have vanished, there's one with a cop theme that seems to be very resilient and is still out there.

I don't care really, you don't do porn to hide away and be shy and coy.

by Anonymousreply 16October 21, 2020 10:41 AM

An artistic one, yes.

by Anonymousreply 17October 21, 2020 11:01 AM

I actually was staying in a hotel and thought the glass was tinted and you couldn’t see in. I was masturbating and finished and then felt people looking at me. I looked out the window and a guy was filming me on a phone and a few floors down a woman was watching me.so that may end up somewhere. I felt stupid tbh.

by Anonymousreply 18October 21, 2020 11:14 AM

I used to have a lot of photos online as a I had a very popular profile at Big Muscle. Probably still there.

I saw a couple of those photos on Tumblr before with 100s of Likes so that was nice.

by Anonymousreply 19October 21, 2020 11:49 AM

Absolutely not. Anywhere that I am naked, the rule is, no recording devices of any kind may be used for either private or commercial use.

by Anonymousreply 20October 21, 2020 12:05 PM

I've swapped dick pics with guys but never showed my face. A friend and his ex used to tape themselves having sex with each other and on many occasions, a third(or more)and apparently either his ex or one of their many play buddies posted them online because a few years later he was dating a guy he really liked and then suddenly the guy just seemed to lose interest and when my friend asked him why the guy told him there were multiple sex videos of he and his ex online and apparently it was his(the guy in the videos) "friends" that had alerted the new boyfriend to their existence, needless to say, he was not happy.

by Anonymousreply 21October 21, 2020 6:40 PM

Ummm, no.

by Anonymousreply 22October 21, 2020 6:43 PM

Yes, lots. I was into videoing myself having sex. Also nude and xxx pics I sent around.

by Anonymousreply 23October 22, 2020 12:25 PM

I'd rather not talk about it.

by Anonymousreply 24October 22, 2020 12:29 PM

lots of places, it's half off sale every weekend

by Anonymousreply 25October 22, 2020 12:35 PM

R19 I didn't know BigMuscle.com was still going! What's your profile? I wonder if mine's still on there - honestly can't remember if I deleted it or not.

by Anonymousreply 26October 22, 2020 3:21 PM

R13 - yep, that's happened to me too. A couple of guys who I hooked up with because I was horny got out their phones and started going to town.

I say this was all honesty - they were not really my type and not as attractive as I am.

They got really shitty and aggressive when I told them to stop. It's very fucked up - it's like these secret cam guys - they think it's perfectly fine to do it and get pissed off when caught filming or taking pics of people without their knowledge.

There has to be consent and some guys feel like they are entitled to do whatever they want.

by Anonymousreply 27October 22, 2020 3:28 PM

R19 r26 I forgot as well but I was on bigmuscle.com and the less popular biggaymuscle.

by Anonymousreply 28October 22, 2020 4:35 PM

Christ, I hope not.

by Anonymousreply 29October 22, 2020 4:41 PM

Gawd no.

by Anonymousreply 30October 22, 2020 4:43 PM

Yes somewhere amongst these

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by Anonymousreply 31October 22, 2020 5:36 PM

Yes.

by Anonymousreply 32October 22, 2020 6:00 PM

[quote]I actually was staying in a hotel and thought the glass was tinted and you couldn’t see in.

Are you Jeffrey Toobin?

by Anonymousreply 33October 22, 2020 6:09 PM

Yes, without my consent to both videos (as in both took the video secretly, and posted without my knowledge).

In both cases, I was alerted to their presence by friends who found them while seeking j/o material. Both are popular for a niche community.

by Anonymousreply 34October 22, 2020 6:14 PM

R34, the same thing happened to me. Another guy I was hooking up with alerted me to the fact that someone had uploaded a video of me. It was a vid of me fucking a guy - I had no idea

by Anonymousreply 35October 22, 2020 6:38 PM

R34 Can I see them?

by Anonymousreply 36October 22, 2020 6:40 PM

r34=Peggy Hill

by Anonymousreply 37October 22, 2020 6:46 PM

Yea the pic I sent people on Grindr 90% of the time ended up on tumblr and I was pretty horrified by it even though that's definitely a risk I knew I was engaging in. I only learned about it because a guy wouldn't meet with me because he reverse image searched the picture and thought I just saved it from the tumblr

Not that long after that tumblr banned all adult content and I haven't seen it online since though some people somewhere still have it I'm sure. I am way more strict with what I'm willing to send people now. I'll only send a face pic of me fully clothed. Or body and cock without face.

by Anonymousreply 38October 22, 2020 7:32 PM

Tons! None of it I agreed to. Guys just seem to love to film themselves with me and post it online. It must make for good watching is all I can say.

by Anonymousreply 39October 22, 2020 7:48 PM

Never show dick and face in the same photo and/or video, never use any video chat service because they can all be recorded and if a trick or ex secretly records you and posts it online remember to dig a shoulder-width hole at least eight feet deep and bury their body head first so they'll never be found.

by Anonymousreply 40October 22, 2020 7:51 PM

The thing is I don't get why people on Grindr do it. You think I'm hot and I willingly send you nude pictures of myself and want to have sex and your response is to humiliate me by sharing my nudes far and wide? I don't get it at all. What makes people such assholes?

by Anonymousreply 41October 22, 2020 8:24 PM

Because R41 a lot of gay men are assholes who think with their cocks...or assholes.

by Anonymousreply 42October 22, 2020 8:30 PM

R41, just because a man wants to fuck you, doesn't mean he likes you or cares for you at all

by Anonymousreply 43October 22, 2020 8:46 PM

No, there couldn't be. But I did stumble across a fully nude picture of an old friend of mine on old Tumblr. He was standing in his kitchen with his dick hard and holding one hand to his ear in a "call me" pose. It was a old picture of him when he was maybe ten years younger.

Since then, he became a Unitarian minister, soooo ...

by Anonymousreply 44October 22, 2020 8:52 PM

That would be awkward seeing a nude video or photo of a friend or family member online.

by Anonymousreply 45October 22, 2020 8:54 PM

R43 I guess. I just would need to really hate someone to want to share their nudes. It's not something I would do for literally no reason.

by Anonymousreply 46October 22, 2020 9:07 PM

It's no big deal. It'll be less and less of a deal in the future for the bulk of us.

by Anonymousreply 47October 22, 2020 9:42 PM

Yeah, but unfortunately they always use them as the "before" picture in ads.

by Anonymousreply 48October 23, 2020 12:09 AM

YES! i posted them 😜

by Anonymousreply 49October 23, 2020 12:12 AM

Is there some special search engine for this type of thing? I used to meet with a guy who would videotape our encounters, so I am sure there is of me somewhere out there. I did see copies of what was taken. My face is not visible, but who knows what was taken that I did not see. I am not at all ashamed of them. I would have done more, too. I do wonder if they are on the Internet, however.

by Anonymousreply 50October 23, 2020 12:22 AM

Not one.

by Anonymousreply 51October 23, 2020 12:34 AM
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