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How hairy do you prefer your sex partners?

Yes you!

by Anonymousreply 10821 hours ago

I answered 'somewhat hairy' although my current FB is a middle eastern guy with a very hairy chest and ass and he's hot as fuck. It really depends on the guy.

by Anonymousreply 110/10/2020

My ideal is really hairy but with a specific hairy pattern.

A few years back, I finally had sex with my ideal man physically. My god, was he gorgeous. The sex was mind blowing. I still think of him all the time

by Anonymousreply 210/10/2020

It really does depend on the guy. I usually love hairy guys but I’ve been with many sexy hairless ones

by Anonymousreply 310/10/2020

I like hair on head, chest, pits, forearms, bush and legs. Don’t like it on faces, shoulders, backs, balls or asses.

by Anonymousreply 410/10/2020

I only like hair on the top of the head. I don't like facial hair or pretty much anywhere else.

by Anonymousreply 510/10/2020

Love men who are really hairy. Not a fan of back hair, but I like it just about everywhere else—armpits, chest, adomen, balls, ass. It's always been a turn-on for me.

by Anonymousreply 610/10/2020

Man with many hairs is ok. But if you bring donkey, please make it shaved donkey.

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by Anonymousreply 710/10/2020

It really depends on the guy. Some guys look great more smooth while some look terrible covered in hair. It depends.

by Anonymousreply 810/10/2020

This hairy.

(Incidentally this is my favorite Redditor currently. I think he’s tremendous. And he’s clearly into his own pubes and their musk. And he’s evidently versatile. WOOF.)

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by Anonymousreply 910/10/2020

OP, you should have given options for "It varies" and "Don't care."

by Anonymousreply 1010/10/2020

Not into facial hair, or on back, buns or untrimmed pubes. Shave your balls and hole guys! Hair is fine elsewhere but prefer very little.

by Anonymousreply 1110/10/2020

I actually love back and shoulder hair

by Anonymousreply 1210/10/2020

R11, it’s tough to shave hole hair

by Anonymousreply 1310/10/2020

Love all sorts of hair—facial, chest, balls, ass, back

But oddly, I really like bald men

by Anonymousreply 1410/10/2020

Body hair is totally gross. I like my men completely shaved.

by Anonymousreply 1510/10/2020

Just in case you're not able to see R9's guy due to Reddit's restrictions:

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by Anonymousreply 1610/10/2020

I want to know how the straight men and lesbians on this site answered.

by Anonymousreply 1710/10/2020

A guy who shaves his hole is an immediate turn off. The most unsexy thing I can think of.

by Anonymousreply 1810/10/2020

There are no straight men on DL, honey.

by Anonymousreply 1910/10/2020

Hairy chest and ass makes me rock hard.

by Anonymousreply 2010/11/2020

Shaving hole is ridiculous. Perennial 5 o'clock shadow - feels like you're licking a prickly pear cactus. Also, what is with all the gay boys afraid of natural 70s-style bush? Nothing wilts my dick faster than some queen with a shaved crotch (trimmed is bad enough, but SHAVED?!) looking all pre-pubescent. Creepy AF. Being Barbie-smooth is for dolls, not manly mens.

by Anonymousreply 2110/11/2020

A look I find hot -- a smooth man with full beard.

by Anonymousreply 2210/11/2020

That patch of lower back hair. Turn on or turn off ?

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by Anonymousreply 2310/11/2020

Definitely a "Monkey Man" look, r23

by Anonymousreply 2410/11/2020

What’s monkey man ?

by Anonymousreply 2510/11/2020

Atavistic trait held over from humans' close association with other primates.

by Anonymousreply 2610/11/2020

The hairier the more primitive

by Anonymousreply 2710/11/2020

Use a hair removal cream around your hole.

by Anonymousreply 2810/11/2020

Too hairy ?

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by Anonymousreply 2910/11/2020

I prefer guys with little to no hair, but it isnt a must, if a guy is skinny I can deal with some hair OK. Big and hairy though, just no, bears are not attractive for me

by Anonymousreply 3010/11/2020

Hairy guys have BO

by Anonymousreply 3110/11/2020

I’m just wild about hairy...

by Anonymousreply 3210/11/2020

nothing is fine, but really hairy and the guy is comfortable with it I like a lot

by Anonymousreply 3310/11/2020

Tony Bay is an example of my ideal man. Very hairy, and in all the right places. I find it irresistibly sexy.

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by Anonymousreply 3510/11/2020

[quote] Hairy chest and ass makes me rock hard.

For me it’s legs. Exceptionally hairy legs are my weakness.

by Anonymousreply 3610/11/2020

Natural. He could be completely hairless as long as it isn't because he's Nairing every last inch of his body every morning.

by Anonymousreply 3710/11/2020

The only places I don't like hair is upper arms, shoulders and back I like dark hair on pale white skin.

by Anonymousreply 3810/11/2020

The hairier the better in my book. As for the little patch of lower back hair, I've always wondered why that doesn't have a name. Maybe we could name it.

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by Anonymousreply 4010/11/2020

If you have hair, it can be removed (temporarily or permanently.) If you don't have hair, it's not that easy to get it added.

by Anonymousreply 4110/11/2020

R29, so hot, especially on bald guys

by Anonymousreply 4210/11/2020

I live back and shoulder hair— something very primal

by Anonymousreply 4310/11/2020

I like a muscular good looking man with a hairy chest, hairy underarms, hairy forearms and legs, and a treasure trail that leads to a large and dense pubic patch with hairy balls.

Give me a Playgirl model from the 70s or 80s any day.

by Anonymousreply 4410/11/2020

What if you trim or remove your body hair with the assumption sex partners like it, but then they're disappointed when you give them the big reveal. Will you grow it out to pursue a relationship with someone who loves body hair?

by Anonymousreply 4510/11/2020

I don't remember people being this picky about specific features before dating / hookup apps. Now, any physical trait a person seeks (or fetishizes) can just be ticked in a search form or selected from a drop-down. All others without the perfect combination of race, muscles, dick size, body hair and many other details are filtered out or ignored.

by Anonymousreply 4610/11/2020

You’ve got to love who you are, not who you feel you need to be

by Anonymousreply 4710/11/2020

I am often in Cairo and stunned at how an entire group can be so hairy. It is great that I am hairless being it is considered exotic there.

by Anonymousreply 4810/11/2020

Covered in hair. Hairy shoulders are my weakness.

by Anonymousreply 4910/11/2020

Wow, every pot has a lid, as they say. ^^

by Anonymousreply 5010/11/2020

R45, I hooked up with a guy who eventually would become my bf of three years. As I first kissed him and we started taking our clothes off, I held him close and felt some light hair on his back. He recoiled a bit and said sheepishly, “Fuck, I meant to wax that!l”

I told him I loved hair everywhere. He relaxed almost immediately and the sex was electric.

As we started to date, I asked him to stop waxing and grow out his body hair. He chest hair grew out into a wonderful thick nest. He grew his shoulder and ass hair.

I can’t believe he was waxing that gorgeous mane.

Of all the men I’ve dated over the years, he was my ideal type.

by Anonymousreply 5110/11/2020

Why do people even have body hair, seems completely unnecessary.

by Anonymousreply 5210/11/2020

This will do nicely...

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by Anonymousreply 5310/11/2020

hairy pubes are a must

by Anonymousreply 5410/11/2020

If a man shaves for you, it means he really really cares

by Anonymousreply 5510/11/2020

Smooth trumps hairy, if in doubt.

by Anonymousreply 5610/11/2020

Without actual visual examples, the poll is kind of useless - one person's 'Hairy' is someone else's 'Somewhat' which is someone else's 'Really'.

That said, I went for hairy. I like a beard, a hairy chest/stomach, trimmed/groomed pubes and smooth balls, and hairy legs with a mostly smooth ass and a hairless hole. Not a fan of hairy shoulders/back or hairy holes.

by Anonymousreply 5710/12/2020

R57, that list leave only 5 people you can fuck

by Anonymousreply 5810/12/2020

I’m always amazed when I see guys with really hairy arms and legs but no hair on their chest

by Anonymousreply 5910/12/2020

More so than a Ken doll, but less so than Madonna.

by Anonymousreply 6010/12/2020

I love hairy guys but they seem to be in the minority and in big demand

by Anonymousreply 6110/12/2020

That's what you tell yourself, eh Sasquatch? r61

by Anonymousreply 6210/12/2020

sexy rob

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by Anonymousreply 6310/12/2020

R58 that's more than enough, I've only got one dick after all.

by Anonymousreply 6410/12/2020

Tbh, it depends on the guy, and if I like you with your clothes on, then what you look like underneath really doesn't matter- that includes hairy backs, small cocks, that one guy with a third nipple... I'm lucky that my brain is wired that way, and it's led to some really great times with all types of great men.

However, nothing is hotter than sliding your hand down the front of some trick's pants and finding a nice full bush. Woof.

by Anonymousreply 6510/12/2020

This hairy guy is very sexy

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by Anonymousreply 6610/12/2020

Ben Dodge

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by Anonymousreply 6710/12/2020

R63, I don’t WTF he’s doing in that video, but I love his chest hair pattern. Irish, Italian, and German guys can have that look. Irish-Italian mixes are my fav

by Anonymousreply 6810/12/2020

R66, gives me a hardon

by Anonymousreply 6910/12/2020

R67, years ago, there used to be a website that sold videos of very hairy men. I forgot it’s name but I would jerk off to the website which have short clips of the videos

by Anonymousreply 7010/12/2020

There are so many hair patterns that men can get on their bodies. Interestingly, I’m only attracted to certain patterns.

If you have some hair between your two chest muscles, it’s not a turn on. If you have lots of stomach hair but no chest hair, no dice. If you only have some on your chest, nothing.

I love both chest muscles matted fully but not unruly. Don’t like it going up the neck.

Oddly, although l love chest hair, I once met a handsome guy with thick chest hair. The sex was amazing but oddly I found he had too much chest hair.

by Anonymousreply 7110/12/2020

I used to have a very straight roommate with gorgeous chest hair. He bedded so many women.

When I asked him how he attracted them, he said he always kept the top two buttons of his shirts undone so everyone could see his chest hair. “Lots of chicks dig chest hair.”

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by Anonymousreply 7310/12/2020

Once I was at a bar and a guy kept hitting on me. I wasn’t in the mood to hookup so kind of ignored him.

He then straight out asked me what kind of men I like. I told him I liked someone who was a great kisser. He then said, “try this.” He leaned in and we kissed. Yes, he was a great kisser.

Then he asked me what else I liked. I mentioned I liked guys with hairy chests. He unbuttoned his shit and showed me how hairy he was.

I went home with him.

by Anonymousreply 7410/12/2020

R73, wow. What a stud

by Anonymousreply 7510/12/2020

[quote] I forgot it’s name

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 7610/12/2020

Face, legs, arms, chest, hands, feet, nothing on shoulders, back or ass or at least around asshole. Standard issue pubes that aren't out of control. Pref with trimmed but not shaven pits so he doesn't reek.

by Anonymousreply 7710/12/2020

And zero hair on biceps/upper arms but forearms are ok and expected to have hair

by Anonymousreply 7810/12/2020

I used to shave my hole but then it just got to be a pain. I noticed guys stopped eating my hole once I stopped shaving it.

I guess I should start shaving it again

by Anonymousreply 7910/12/2020

Ooh, love tricep hair. Reminds me of hot construction workers

by Anonymousreply 8010/12/2020

r79, I just convinced my FB NOT to shave his hole so I could eat him out. Don't do it!

by Anonymousreply 8110/12/2020

The football coach in high school had a gorgeous hairy chest. He alway had a sexy 5 o’clock shadow.

I would jerk off thinking about him all the time

by Anonymousreply 8210/12/2020

I'm jerking off now

by Anonymousreply 8310/13/2020

VERY hairy. They Must have a good thick dark bush, the wider it spreads the better. Yummmm.

by Anonymousreply 8410/13/2020

I like hairy bodies but not hairy bushes I hate getting hair stuck between my teeth

by Anonymousreply 8510/13/2020

It is great for dentil hygiene

by Anonymousreply 8610/13/2020

Is that a lentil dish?

by Anonymousreply 8710/13/2020

Foad hairy

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by Anonymousreply 8910/13/2020

Natural Asian Hairless Muscle with Puckered Pink Hole. Yum.

by Anonymousreply 9010/13/2020

That's the number 17, r90. It comes with egg roll and hot and sour soup. For two.

by Anonymousreply 9110/13/2020

Nothing better than looking up and seeing a hairy chested man pumping away in your ass.


Extra point if he has facial hair and is a good kisser

by Anonymousreply 9210/13/2020

sexy times

by Anonymousreply 93Last Wednesday at 4:56 AM

R73 is a little too hairy for my tastes, but he's so fucking hot I would overlook it and if it was going to be a long term thing I'd encourage him to groom a little more.

I dated one guy who I had to ask to grow out his chest hair because he was a bodybuilder used to shaving it, and he became so much hotter with the hair. I've never actually had to ask anyone if they wouldn't mind trimming a bit.

by Anonymousreply 94Last Friday at 8:06 AM

I think this poll shows that men need to stop shaving all of their body hair once and for all.

However - there's a happy medium. Really hairy backs and necks are a turnoff - I know there's not much you can do about it, but it's not for me.

by Anonymousreply 95Last Friday at 8:14 AM

[quote] [R73] is a little too hairy for my tastes, but he's so fucking hot I would overlook it and if it was going to be a long term thing I'd encourage him to groom a little more.

Are you kidding?? Why mess with perfection?

by Anonymousreply 96Last Friday at 8:19 AM

R96 not too much of a trim - just very light, I'm just not a fan of when it is so long/thick it forms those little curls like that, and I'd like to make sure he had a smooth neck, back and shoulders - but he's very close to perfect.

by Anonymousreply 97Last Friday at 8:21 AM

R97 - you honestly don’t deserve him.

by Anonymousreply 98Last Friday at 8:35 AM

Like he'd have a chance anyway :-)

by Anonymousreply 99Last Friday at 8:43 AM

Well I don’t have a chance either R99 but I’d buy him the goddamn crackers to eat in my morherfucking bed if I did. ;-)

by Anonymousreply 100Last Friday at 9:16 AM

Who is the pic at R73?

by Anonymousreply 101Last Friday at 12:52 PM

My future ex-husband, r101.

by Anonymousreply 102Last Friday at 1:45 PM

I’ll fight you for him!

by Anonymousreply 103Last Friday at 2:06 PM

Hated 80’s and 90’s porn with the hairless porn stars.

Porn got so much better in the naughts when hairy stars were celebrated again.

by Anonymousreply 104Last Friday at 2:07 PM
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by Anonymousreply 105Last Friday at 2:45 PM

Love hairy chest, pits, pubes, ass crack, legs, trimmed beard. No to back and shoulder hair.

by Anonymousreply 106Last Saturday at 6:37 PM

R99 strange comment, why wouldn't I have a chance?

by Anonymousreply 107Yesterday at 12:32 AM

r105, for some reason, I don't like that much stomach hair

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