How hairy do you prefer your sex partners?

I answered 'somewhat hairy' although my current FB is a middle eastern guy with a very hairy chest and ass and he's hot as fuck. It really depends on the guy.

My ideal is really hairy but with a specific hairy pattern.

A few years back, I finally had sex with my ideal man physically. My god, was he gorgeous. The sex was mind blowing. I still think of him all the time

It really does depend on the guy. I usually love hairy guys but I’ve been with many sexy hairless ones

I like hair on head, chest, pits, forearms, bush and legs. Don’t like it on faces, shoulders, backs, balls or asses.

I only like hair on the top of the head. I don't like facial hair or pretty much anywhere else.

Love men who are really hairy. Not a fan of back hair, but I like it just about everywhere else—armpits, chest, adomen, balls, ass. It's always been a turn-on for me.

Man with many hairs is ok. But if you bring donkey, please make it shaved donkey.

It really depends on the guy. Some guys look great more smooth while some look terrible covered in hair. It depends.

This hairy.

(Incidentally this is my favorite Redditor currently. I think he’s tremendous. And he’s clearly into his own pubes and their musk. And he’s evidently versatile. WOOF.)

OP, you should have given options for "It varies" and "Don't care."

Not into facial hair, or on back, buns or untrimmed pubes. Shave your balls and hole guys! Hair is fine elsewhere but prefer very little.

I actually love back and shoulder hair

R11, it’s tough to shave hole hair

Love all sorts of hair—facial, chest, balls, ass, back

But oddly, I really like bald men

Body hair is totally gross. I like my men completely shaved.

Just in case you're not able to see R9's guy due to Reddit's restrictions:

I want to know how the straight men and lesbians on this site answered.

A guy who shaves his hole is an immediate turn off. The most unsexy thing I can think of.

There are no straight men on DL, honey.

Hairy chest and ass makes me rock hard.

Shaving hole is ridiculous. Perennial 5 o'clock shadow - feels like you're licking a prickly pear cactus. Also, what is with all the gay boys afraid of natural 70s-style bush? Nothing wilts my dick faster than some queen with a shaved crotch (trimmed is bad enough, but SHAVED?!) looking all pre-pubescent. Creepy AF. Being Barbie-smooth is for dolls, not manly mens.

A look I find hot -- a smooth man with full beard.

That patch of lower back hair. Turn on or turn off ?

Definitely a "Monkey Man" look, r23

What’s monkey man ?

Atavistic trait held over from humans' close association with other primates.

The hairier the more primitive

Use a hair removal cream around your hole.

Too hairy ?

I prefer guys with little to no hair, but it isnt a must, if a guy is skinny I can deal with some hair OK. Big and hairy though, just no, bears are not attractive for me

Hairy guys have BO

I’m just wild about hairy...

nothing is fine, but really hairy and the guy is comfortable with it I like a lot

Tony Bay is an example of my ideal man. Very hairy, and in all the right places. I find it irresistibly sexy.

ideal

[quote] Hairy chest and ass makes me rock hard.

For me it’s legs. Exceptionally hairy legs are my weakness.

Natural. He could be completely hairless as long as it isn't because he's Nairing every last inch of his body every morning.

The only places I don't like hair is upper arms, shoulders and back I like dark hair on pale white skin.

The hairier the better in my book. As for the little patch of lower back hair, I've always wondered why that doesn't have a name. Maybe we could name it.

natural

If you have hair, it can be removed (temporarily or permanently.) If you don't have hair, it's not that easy to get it added.

R29, so hot, especially on bald guys

I live back and shoulder hair— something very primal

I like a muscular good looking man with a hairy chest, hairy underarms, hairy forearms and legs, and a treasure trail that leads to a large and dense pubic patch with hairy balls.

Give me a Playgirl model from the 70s or 80s any day.

What if you trim or remove your body hair with the assumption sex partners like it, but then they're disappointed when you give them the big reveal. Will you grow it out to pursue a relationship with someone who loves body hair?

I don't remember people being this picky about specific features before dating / hookup apps. Now, any physical trait a person seeks (or fetishizes) can just be ticked in a search form or selected from a drop-down. All others without the perfect combination of race, muscles, dick size, body hair and many other details are filtered out or ignored.

You’ve got to love who you are, not who you feel you need to be

I am often in Cairo and stunned at how an entire group can be so hairy. It is great that I am hairless being it is considered exotic there.

Covered in hair. Hairy shoulders are my weakness.

Wow, every pot has a lid, as they say. ^^

R45, I hooked up with a guy who eventually would become my bf of three years. As I first kissed him and we started taking our clothes off, I held him close and felt some light hair on his back. He recoiled a bit and said sheepishly, “Fuck, I meant to wax that!l”

I told him I loved hair everywhere. He relaxed almost immediately and the sex was electric.

As we started to date, I asked him to stop waxing and grow out his body hair. He chest hair grew out into a wonderful thick nest. He grew his shoulder and ass hair.

I can’t believe he was waxing that gorgeous mane.

Of all the men I’ve dated over the years, he was my ideal type.

Why do people even have body hair, seems completely unnecessary.

This will do nicely...

hairy pubes are a must

If a man shaves for you, it means he really really cares

Smooth trumps hairy, if in doubt.

Without actual visual examples, the poll is kind of useless - one person's 'Hairy' is someone else's 'Somewhat' which is someone else's 'Really'.

That said, I went for hairy. I like a beard, a hairy chest/stomach, trimmed/groomed pubes and smooth balls, and hairy legs with a mostly smooth ass and a hairless hole. Not a fan of hairy shoulders/back or hairy holes.

R57, that list leave only 5 people you can fuck

I’m always amazed when I see guys with really hairy arms and legs but no hair on their chest

More so than a Ken doll, but less so than Madonna.

I love hairy guys but they seem to be in the minority and in big demand

That's what you tell yourself, eh Sasquatch? r61

sexy rob

R58 that's more than enough, I've only got one dick after all.

Tbh, it depends on the guy, and if I like you with your clothes on, then what you look like underneath really doesn't matter- that includes hairy backs, small cocks, that one guy with a third nipple... I'm lucky that my brain is wired that way, and it's led to some really great times with all types of great men.

However, nothing is hotter than sliding your hand down the front of some trick's pants and finding a nice full bush. Woof.

This hairy guy is very sexy

Ben Dodge

R63, I don’t WTF he’s doing in that video, but I love his chest hair pattern. Irish, Italian, and German guys can have that look. Irish-Italian mixes are my fav

R66, gives me a hardon

R67, years ago, there used to be a website that sold videos of very hairy men. I forgot it’s name but I would jerk off to the website which have short clips of the videos

There are so many hair patterns that men can get on their bodies. Interestingly, I’m only attracted to certain patterns.

If you have some hair between your two chest muscles, it’s not a turn on. If you have lots of stomach hair but no chest hair, no dice. If you only have some on your chest, nothing.

I love both chest muscles matted fully but not unruly. Don’t like it going up the neck.

Oddly, although l love chest hair, I once met a handsome guy with thick chest hair. The sex was amazing but oddly I found he had too much chest hair.

I used to have a very straight roommate with gorgeous chest hair. He bedded so many women.

When I asked him how he attracted them, he said he always kept the top two buttons of his shirts undone so everyone could see his chest hair. “Lots of chicks dig chest hair.”

Daddy!

Once I was at a bar and a guy kept hitting on me. I wasn’t in the mood to hookup so kind of ignored him.

He then straight out asked me what kind of men I like. I told him I liked someone who was a great kisser. He then said, “try this.” He leaned in and we kissed. Yes, he was a great kisser.

Then he asked me what else I liked. I mentioned I liked guys with hairy chests. He unbuttoned his shit and showed me how hairy he was.

I went home with him.

R73, wow. What a stud

[quote] I forgot it’s name

Oh, dear!

Face, legs, arms, chest, hands, feet, nothing on shoulders, back or ass or at least around asshole. Standard issue pubes that aren't out of control. Pref with trimmed but not shaven pits so he doesn't reek.

And zero hair on biceps/upper arms but forearms are ok and expected to have hair

I used to shave my hole but then it just got to be a pain. I noticed guys stopped eating my hole once I stopped shaving it.

I guess I should start shaving it again

Ooh, love tricep hair. Reminds me of hot construction workers

r79, I just convinced my FB NOT to shave his hole so I could eat him out. Don't do it!

The football coach in high school had a gorgeous hairy chest. He alway had a sexy 5 o’clock shadow.

I would jerk off thinking about him all the time

I'm jerking off now

VERY hairy. They Must have a good thick dark bush, the wider it spreads the better. Yummmm.

I like hairy bodies but not hairy bushes I hate getting hair stuck between my teeth

It is great for dentil hygiene

Is that a lentil dish?

Foad hairy

yummy

Natural Asian Hairless Muscle with Puckered Pink Hole. Yum.

That's the number 17, r90. It comes with egg roll and hot and sour soup. For two.

Nothing better than looking up and seeing a hairy chested man pumping away in your ass.

Heaven.

Extra point if he has facial hair and is a good kisser

sexy times

R73 is a little too hairy for my tastes, but he's so fucking hot I would overlook it and if it was going to be a long term thing I'd encourage him to groom a little more.

I dated one guy who I had to ask to grow out his chest hair because he was a bodybuilder used to shaving it, and he became so much hotter with the hair. I've never actually had to ask anyone if they wouldn't mind trimming a bit.

I think this poll shows that men need to stop shaving all of their body hair once and for all.

However - there's a happy medium. Really hairy backs and necks are a turnoff - I know there's not much you can do about it, but it's not for me.

[quote] [R73] is a little too hairy for my tastes, but he's so fucking hot I would overlook it and if it was going to be a long term thing I'd encourage him to groom a little more.

Are you kidding?? Why mess with perfection?

R96 not too much of a trim - just very light, I'm just not a fan of when it is so long/thick it forms those little curls like that, and I'd like to make sure he had a smooth neck, back and shoulders - but he's very close to perfect.

R97 - you honestly don’t deserve him.

Like he'd have a chance anyway :-)

Well I don’t have a chance either R99 but I’d buy him the goddamn crackers to eat in my morherfucking bed if I did. ;-)

Who is the pic at R73?

My future ex-husband, r101.

I’ll fight you for him!

Hated 80’s and 90’s porn with the hairless porn stars.

Porn got so much better in the naughts when hairy stars were celebrated again.

Love hairy chest, pits, pubes, ass crack, legs, trimmed beard. No to back and shoulder hair.

R99 strange comment, why wouldn't I have a chance?

r105, for some reason, I don't like that much stomach hair