Guys who don’t like getting sucked

I don’t, Op, i mean, not much (nor do i like to do it much either). Maybe it is lack of sensitivity or something.

R1, so what do you like to do sexually? Just get fucked?

Some dudes only want to be passive and are only attracted to dudes who are always active

OP, the top was telling you nicely that you use your teeth when sucking.

My response is no sex

Are cut guys less likely to like being sucked?

R2, rimming and doing the fucking, and lots of kissing. But i do oral as well, it just does not give me physical pleasure.

Verstop here. I like sucking dick but getting blowjobs is boring. Normally I lay back and keep my mouth shut so I don't ruin the mood but in general it feels much much better to have my dick in your ass than your mouth.

Those braces, Jan!

I had a nice time with a nice guy who didn't like to receive oral, and I realized he was a "devout" Catholic who was uncomfortable with anything but JO because he could quibble about it, which wasn't possible for anything else. He didn't give oral either, and anal was unimaginable.

It doesn't sound like OP's men have this issue, but at least it could be curable, versus the lump-of-gristle dick at R1/R7. A cock insensitive to a good blow would seem to be insensitive to anything else, except maybe the effects of a small inserted firecracker.

I would like you to blow me, though, r9

Not me. I'm a total service queen. If we're being honest, I don't want a guy to do anything to me. I want to do everything to him. I lose interest in a guy if he wants to suck my dick or get fucked. And yeah I know that's my own fucked up damage, but I own it proudly.

Some guys don’t want a guy who sucks penis

I haven't met any thankfully. Sounds like a major disappointment.

I know a few (married) guys who identify as straight, and don't like to have a man suck their dick, They ONLY are into sucking off other men (preferably "straight.")

Lots of guys who just love to suck for hours seem to hate anything done to them

A friend who is a bottom says that what I feel when I get sucked is what he feels when he gets fucked

R11 I'm with you. The moment a guy says that he wants to suck me, I lose interest. Sure, I let him, but I almost never get off getting sucked. Ditto guys who want me to blow them, but then ask me to stick something up their asses. That is a total boner wilter and I cannot get out of there fast enough.

This developed later in life. Up to my 30's, I would come as soon as a guy touched my dick. I probably developed this coping mechanism to delay ejaculation, but now, even when I'm really into a guy and he wants to suck me, I lose the ability.

i find it odd when guys who are quite frankly "below par" in terms of looks and body hire escorts of gorgeousness and incredible bodies and they pay to suck them off but yet they refuse and do not want to swallow the stud's load? what is up with that? you would think that would be a incredible turn on and power trip for these guys these type of guys to have the sperm/semen/cum of a true alpha sex god they hire and relish it?!..

Not everyone thinks in terms of "alpha sex gods," r18. I'm not one of the people you're talking about, mind you. I suck and swallow. But all that "alpha" shit is weird.

Also, I've hired a total of five escorts, back when AOL was le dernier cri, and regardless of their pics, only one was anywhere close to a "sex god," alpha, beta, gamma, delta, whatever. It cured me of using hookers permanently.

One of my all time favorite fucks was like that . He loved to make out,and oh my god could he fuck like a champ,but he just didnt like getting sucked. He told me he never once got off that way,so i took it as a challenge. 2 hours later I threw in the towel . Not to toot my own horn , but I was known for my oral skills . That being said ,out of the 100s of men Ive had sex with , he was the only one I met like that. As an aside , I looked him up on FB recently for the first time , and a once handsome ,hairy ex wrestler with a rockabilly hair style was now bald and 300 lbs ! I was literally devastated !

[quote] I know a few (married) guys who identify as straight, and don't like to have a man suck their dick, They ONLY are into sucking off other men (preferably "straight.")

IMO, if a man wants to suck dick, that man is gay (the man who wants to suck).

A man receiving oral from a man ... more plausibly straight, but still.

It's guys who fetishize "straight" men.

The sensation can be physically uncomfortable, OP. Not painful, but if there’s too much pressure, it’s just not pleasant. When I was younger, a lot of guys were just bad at giving them. I’m not a fan of the “suck and jack” technique, which is all some guys know how to do.

I like a lot of tongue and do not put my dick in a death grip with your hand, please.

Yep, a lot gay guys aren’t attracted to any man who sucks or gets penetrated. They only want manly Alphas who always penetrate holes and mouths

That is definitely not me, I totally LOVE getting my dick sucked - I like it better than fucking.

Most people don't give good head, honestly.

Most people don't deep throat.

There was one guy I was with who said that but I should have asked if he meant on him or me because he had a giant dick.

The guy who typed these brilliances is also Bump Bitch II. I have him blocked, so I don't know his r numbers except r26.

[quote]Some dudes only want to be passive and are only attracted to dudes who are always active

[quote]Some guys don’t want a guy who sucks penis

[quote]Yep, a lot gay guys aren’t attracted to any man who sucks or gets penetrated. They only want manly Alphas who always penetrate holes and mouths

To tell the truth, few men have performed oral sex the way I like. And I don’t find it sexy to coach them.

The guy I have been seeing for the past year has a big fat cock, one of the biggest around. When he sucks my medium sized dick (it is pretty he tells me!) his dick get rock hard and it is a thing of wonder. It really is hypnotic. I can suck on it for a brief time and it will start to deflate, (sad emoji). He only gets off some of the times when sucking me or if I fuck him, many times he just shrugs it off and says it takes too long and doesn't bother. I friging cum every single time. Never was with someone who could be so comfortable getting his partner to ejaculate and then not care if he cums or not. I accept what I cannot change, but the first few months I thought he was going to break up because the sex was no good for him, but he is very passsionate kissing and frotagging and tells me the sex is good for him. I still wonder but am finally feeling more secure since passing the one year point and all other things are fine with him. Good sex I guess is very subjective and what I feel should be good for him is not his version. All I know is that I have never once not cum when having sex with him. An odd unbalance.