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Can some explain the difference between a Frau and a Karen?

Cause I am confused.

by Anonymousreply 101October 19, 2020 10:32 PM

Fraus don't go postal. They'll goad others to, though.

by Anonymousreply 1September 27, 2020 3:49 PM

I agree with R1.

Fraus are usually harmless. They just annoy people.

Karens are actually hateful and mean, and they will often use their Karen powers to try to get you arrested or beaten up.

by Anonymousreply 2September 27, 2020 3:51 PM

A Frau constantly yells at her friends and family. A Karen yells at strangers.

by Anonymousreply 3September 27, 2020 3:51 PM

They are cousins but a Frau is more benign and just has more old fashioned and self centered views than us. A Karen is just a harpy, a vicious Alice Kravitz on steroids and on YouTube being excessively self center, possibly racist and particularly aggressive. Usually in the tone of I am right, you are wrong and I want what I want because it is my right. Just my quick take.

by Anonymousreply 4September 27, 2020 3:57 PM

Sigh...remember when Karen was happy just to complain to a manager here and there?

The all-new, 2020 Raging Bitchcunt from Hell should have been given a different name.

by Anonymousreply 5September 27, 2020 4:01 PM

Fraus have the Live, Laugh, Love sign in the kitchen; Karens have the ones with wine jokes.

by Anonymousreply 6September 27, 2020 4:08 PM

"Karen" is a misogynist, racist label of contempt for an assertive white middle-class woman. q.v. Trump's "Nasty woman" label for Hillary Clinton.

by Anonymousreply 7September 27, 2020 4:08 PM

Pretty much all women are fraus, but Karens are next-level cunts.

by Anonymousreply 8September 27, 2020 4:32 PM

A Karen will say in public what a Frau thinks in private

by Anonymousreply 9September 27, 2020 4:36 PM

Fraus bake apple strudel.

Karens stuff themselves with Little Debbie's.

by Anonymousreply 10September 27, 2020 4:41 PM

A Karen will ask to speak to the manager, a Frau will leave without complaining, find out the manager's name and start a hate campaign via facebook.

by Anonymousreply 11September 27, 2020 4:43 PM

Bravo, r5.

I think you just did that.

And, I approve.

by Anonymousreply 12September 27, 2020 4:44 PM

Karens are nasty bitches who take delight in being abusive to sales clerks who are only trying to do their jobs.

by Anonymousreply 13September 27, 2020 4:59 PM

Fraus shop at Michaels and demand price checks on every item they buy; Karens shoplift at Michaels and demand to speak to the manager when they are caught red-handed.

by Anonymousreply 14September 27, 2020 5:07 PM

A Frau is the symbol of mundane mediocrity. A Karen is the symbol of violent psychosis.

by Anonymousreply 15September 27, 2020 7:35 PM

Four inches of elastic in their breezy pants and/or leggings.

by Anonymousreply 16September 27, 2020 7:54 PM

You made me laugh R16.

by Anonymousreply 17September 27, 2020 8:56 PM

Don’t they both have bad hair?

by Anonymousreply 18September 27, 2020 9:49 PM

R7 this isn’t about Democratic woman. They are in the trenches with us!

by Anonymousreply 19September 27, 2020 11:36 PM

Fraus and Karens are of all political persuasions. I've known many Karens and Fraus who were Democrats.

by Anonymousreply 20September 28, 2020 12:04 AM

I haven’t.

by Anonymousreply 21September 28, 2020 12:27 AM

All Karens are fraus, but not all fraus are Karens.

by Anonymousreply 22September 28, 2020 12:36 AM

Well they do exist r21. They're all over the Northeast. One of the worst Karens I've ever known was a Berniebro.

by Anonymousreply 23September 28, 2020 12:37 AM

When women over-step the rigid boundaries society sets for them, they are ALWAYS punished. In biblical times they were stoned to death, in the Middle Ages they were accused of witchcraft and burned at the stake. In 2020, the are labeled Karens, ridiculed and doxed.

by Anonymousreply 24September 28, 2020 12:50 AM

The archetypes for both are depicted in BIG BUSINESS (1988).

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by Anonymousreply 25September 28, 2020 12:55 AM

Democratic Women - mostly good 😇

Republican Women - mostly Evil 👿

by Anonymousreply 26September 28, 2020 12:56 AM

Please r24. Go on Youtube and watch the many Karen videos. These women are just cunts. Period.

by Anonymousreply 27September 28, 2020 1:02 AM

r26 it's not nearly as black and white as that.

by Anonymousreply 28September 28, 2020 1:03 AM

I have a cousin who's a lifelong Democrat and she's one of the biggest cunts you could ever meet.

by Anonymousreply 29September 28, 2020 1:03 AM

Meghan Markle is a Karen.

by Anonymousreply 30September 28, 2020 1:04 AM

Fraus want to speak to the manager. Karen's want to speak to the manager, record it on their phone, Twitter and Facebook it then claim one of the following when it backfires. Anxiety, Death threats by non whites, PTSD or fibroids. All while passive aggressively taking on board the comments that have prompted self reflection. With prayer emojis and 'much luv my peeps' added for authenticity

by Anonymousreply 31September 28, 2020 1:12 AM

Frau - Phyllis from "The Office"

Karen - Elaine from "Seinfeld"

by Anonymousreply 32September 28, 2020 1:13 AM

Celebrity Fraus - Kathie Lee Gifford, Ree Drummond, Ina Garten

Celebrity Karens - Kelly Ripa, Jennifer Aniston, Ramona Singer, Lena Dunham, Rose McG

by Anonymousreply 33September 28, 2020 1:15 AM

R7, I know someone who is a Karen. Loves to make scenes in public, thinks if she screams enough she will always get her way. She’s so frightening, managers will let her win just to get her out of the store. She fights people (verbally, thank god) every time she’s told no. A lot of these fights are just unnecessary drama about stuff that doesn’t matter. She’s embarrassed her kids, who just want her to stop. Embarrassed kids are one sign that somebody is being a Karen. They thrive on making scenes.

There is assertive, and there is aggressive. If you have to throw a hysterical screaming tantrum to get people to listen to you, you don’t know how to be assertive. You can be both calm and assertive.

by Anonymousreply 34September 28, 2020 1:20 AM

Fraus buy Yankee Candles

Karens buy LED votives

by Anonymousreply 35September 28, 2020 1:23 AM

Fraus sometimes don’t know they are. Karens always do.

by Anonymousreply 36September 28, 2020 1:30 AM

Elaine was way too fun to be a Karen. She was just neurotic.

by Anonymousreply 37September 28, 2020 1:36 AM

is terrified of both of them, so I'm sure it's confusing.

by Anonymousreply 38September 28, 2020 2:16 AM

Kate Gosselin is the OG Karen.

Simply Sara is a big Frau.

by Anonymousreply 39September 28, 2020 2:40 AM

seems to be terrified of white people in general.

by Anonymousreply 40September 28, 2020 2:41 AM

I'd like to speak to Muriel about having this thread scrubbed.

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by Anonymousreply 41September 28, 2020 2:43 AM

Haley, Becky, Karen and Susan: A Chart -

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by Anonymousreply 42September 28, 2020 2:51 AM

Guys: don't lump all us Susans together!!

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by Anonymousreply 43September 28, 2020 2:56 AM

This is a Karen.....

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by Anonymousreply 44September 28, 2020 2:58 AM

And this is a Susan.....

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by Anonymousreply 45September 28, 2020 2:59 AM

I need to speak with the district manager!

by Anonymousreply 46September 28, 2020 3:34 AM

^^ That's Ultra Karen, Summoner Of District Managers

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by Anonymousreply 47September 28, 2020 3:39 AM

A frau likes potlucks and bedazzling and is always on a diet.

A Karen is a dark hearted person that uses police and systems against "those people" to justify her pathetic existence.

by Anonymousreply 48September 28, 2020 3:54 AM

There is another type of woman - a Mary Richards type woman who is scared to death of suddenly growing old and becoming an unhip Frau. She might have frau friends but goes our of her way NOT to be one .... There is something about a Mary Richards type woman that Karen’s HATE! They perceive “Mary’s” needs to not draw attention to herself as weakness - Karen’s think Mary,s are snobs and it enrages them - Karen’s like to intimidate Mary’s - it usually works.

by Anonymousreply 49September 28, 2020 3:58 AM

An explanation of "Karen" and where the term originates and what it's come to mean:

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by Anonymousreply 50September 28, 2020 4:48 AM

Fraus scrapbook, but Karens do not.

by Anonymousreply 51September 28, 2020 6:13 AM

Ah, R50, so if you call someone the "n" word you are not being racist, you are calling out their behavior? Got it.

by Anonymousreply 52September 28, 2020 6:13 AM

This is a real book btw.

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by Anonymousreply 53September 28, 2020 10:00 AM

Proof

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by Anonymousreply 54September 28, 2020 10:02 AM

R52... huh?

by Anonymousreply 55September 29, 2020 2:19 AM

Fraus work in pods. Karens hunt and stalk solo.

by Anonymousreply 56September 29, 2020 4:37 AM

I still don't know the difference. Both are mysterious.

by Anonymousreply 57September 29, 2020 3:52 PM

Karens do anal.

by Anonymousreply 58September 29, 2020 4:34 PM

Fraus cradle mugs. Karens throw them.

by Anonymousreply 59September 29, 2020 4:56 PM

Frau or Karen?

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by Anonymousreply 60September 30, 2020 7:30 PM

R49, I’m the Mary and you’re the Rhoda!

by Anonymousreply 61September 30, 2020 9:22 PM

Wait until straight white women discover what "Mary" really means...

by Anonymousreply 62October 3, 2020 7:33 AM

A frau works at the DMV and deliberately takes her good old time, forcing you to hear her life story and what her kids and grandkids are up to these days, despite the fact that there is a line out the door. A Karen is in that line yapping away on her cell phone at the top of her lungs, driving everyone nuts, while she's trying to get registration tags for her Cadillac Escalade.

by Anonymousreply 63October 3, 2020 7:44 AM

So is this a Karen? If not, what on earth is it?

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by Anonymousreply 64October 8, 2020 9:30 PM

A Frau is like pre-Karen or Karenesque, if you will.

by Anonymousreply 65October 8, 2020 9:35 PM

Fraus like Julia Roberts, Dancing With the Stars, and David Muir.

Karen’s are a subset of white fraus that like to argue in public, hate minorities, struggle with their weight, and feel persecuted.

by Anonymousreply 66October 8, 2020 9:36 PM

Fraus are frumpy cat ladies. Karens are bossy white women with severe haircuts who love authority.

by Anonymousreply 67October 8, 2020 9:39 PM

Good, I feel edjumacated. Now, what is the difference between a Chad and a Kyle?

Does Chad like bbqs and woodworking? But Kyle likes beating his wife?

I'm confused.

by Anonymousreply 68October 8, 2020 9:41 PM

R7 Get over yourself. Too many people have had to suffer under Karens. Y'all are finally getting called out.

by Anonymousreply 69October 8, 2020 9:42 PM

So what is that at R64 ?

by Anonymousreply 70October 8, 2020 9:44 PM

That’s simply a fat pig

by Anonymousreply 71October 8, 2020 9:47 PM

Karen’s were really busted with social media and cellphones. They got away with all of that until BLM and Covid. That pushed all their rants into the open.

Fraus are harmless: cats, mugs, puzzles, crafts, babies, and soap operas give them life.

by Anonymousreply 72October 8, 2020 9:51 PM

That’s like trying to explain the difference between a bitch and a cunt.

by Anonymousreply 73October 8, 2020 9:52 PM

Karen

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by Anonymousreply 74October 8, 2020 9:59 PM

A Frau is indeed harmless. She's a suburban woman with very banal, mainstream tastes like the Hallmark Channel and Dancing With the Stars. She collects things like Precious Moments figurines and sweaters with pictures of cats on them. She's not a bad person, she's just very ignorant about anything that's outside of her own little world.

A Karen is a nuclear bitch. She lives to police the behavior of others in public, and it's behavior that is innocuous and not bothersome to anybody except a Karen. She also loves to berate service workers like retail clerks and waitstaff who are only trying to do their jobs. She often threatens to call the police for things that are in no way illegal, they're just things she doesn't approve of. She's a miserable, screeching cunt and everybody hates her.

by Anonymousreply 75October 8, 2020 10:52 PM

A Frau cat calls , a Karen rapes.

by Anonymousreply 76October 8, 2020 11:06 PM

they all love david muir.

think he is just waiting for the right girl.

by Anonymousreply 77October 9, 2020 8:21 PM

Frau is a broader category, of which Karen is a subset, IMO.

Nearly all Karens are fraus, but not all fraus are Karens.

by Anonymousreply 78October 9, 2020 8:26 PM

r53 that book is the Karenest book to ever Karen

by Anonymousreply 79October 9, 2020 8:41 PM

David Muir is GAY.

by Anonymousreply 80October 9, 2020 11:06 PM

Emma Stone - Queen of the Fraus

Laura Ingraham - Queen of the Karens

by Anonymousreply 81October 9, 2020 11:45 PM

dtm is super gay, look at his insta.

by Anonymousreply 82October 9, 2020 11:47 PM

Yes, we DLers all know David Muir is gay.

But the fraus don't have a clue.

by Anonymousreply 83October 10, 2020 1:21 AM

R83

the twitter ladies obsessively have no clue dave is gay.

he projects he is straight, so he is part of his whole problem.

by Anonymousreply 84October 10, 2020 6:41 AM

DTM is flaming gay on his instagram.

by Anonymousreply 85October 10, 2020 3:50 PM

R72 they also enjoy margarita nights at Chilis with the girls or if they’re younger fraus, their squad.

by Anonymousreply 86October 11, 2020 1:33 AM

Why can't David Muir just come out? There are many gay male news personalities now, and it's no big deal.

by Anonymousreply 87October 11, 2020 1:36 AM

Thank you everyone for the explanation of the differences between these annoying cows.

by Anonymousreply 88October 11, 2020 1:41 AM

R87

Agree it’s no big deal.

If anything David is making it a bigger deal staying in his glass closet.

He isn’t Brad Pitt, I’m sure no one cares DTM is gay.

by Anonymousreply 89October 11, 2020 3:21 AM

Karen's are spiteful middle aged white women that throw coffees at younger more attractive women at Starbucks.

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by Anonymousreply 90October 11, 2020 5:05 AM

Karens aren't necessarily white. The idiots that bitch about cultural appropriation could also be called Karens.

by Anonymousreply 91October 11, 2020 5:47 AM

They're more likely to be called Ka'reNiqua.

by Anonymousreply 92October 11, 2020 5:48 AM

No, they're white. That isn't to say that other races of women can't be awful and unpleasant. But, Karens are white.

by Anonymousreply 93October 12, 2020 3:34 AM

Fraus are usually protestant Christians, Karens can be any religion.

by Anonymousreply 94October 12, 2020 3:46 AM

I have to imagine a lot of the racists on DL are the leos paid to surveil this site. Give it a rest, guys. We know you are the Master Race.

Master of what, nobody knows.

by Anonymousreply 95October 12, 2020 3:59 AM

A frau will smile to your face, make nice, always preach "BE KIND TO OTHERS and JESUS!" then proceed to start a nasty rumor with her fellow fraus about you and destroy your life, while never losing that "Who me? I would never do that!" Stepford wife bullshit.

A Karen will just start a nasty rumor about you then scream in your face "YEAH, I DID start that rumor!!!! Wanna make something of it?". then call the cops on you saying she feels threatened.

by Anonymousreply 96October 12, 2020 5:31 AM

Frau are individuals ugly on the outside. Karen are individuals ugly on the inside. But if a person is ugly on both inside and outside. She can be refer as both Karen/frau.

by Anonymousreply 97October 12, 2020 5:57 AM

Frau will wear a mask, Karen will call you a pussy for wearing one. Science isn’t her strong suit.

by Anonymousreply 98October 19, 2020 7:53 PM

People will show up at a frau's funeral with flowers. They'll show up at a Karen's funeral just to make sure that the bitch is dead.

by Anonymousreply 99October 19, 2020 8:01 PM

R99 - I want to sit next you at a dinner party.

by Anonymousreply 100October 19, 2020 8:31 PM

R100 As long as you're not a Karen, you're safe!

by Anonymousreply 101October 19, 2020 10:32 PM
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