Parents Having Sex with Children in the Room

If the kids are ASLEEP, who cares?

R1, no one knows if the kids are asleep and what if you wake them? They always think daddy is hurting mommy.

I knew a guy who was raised by his single dad, who got custody of him around age 4. The dad was 19, and used to have sex with girlfriends in front of him all the time. Nudity was normal and dad did porn on occasion, so sexuality wasn't taboo.

He seemed like he turned out okay except for ending up gay. lol.

My parents never had sex. I'm an immaculate conception.

My mom messed me up pretty good strutting around naked and talking dirty. I'm definitely one of those old fashioned Freudian type gays.

Given that the vast majority of humans lived in one room huts until fairly recently, I'm thinking parents having sex with children in the room was pretty common.

I’m a grown adult, and even I was disturbed when helping to clear out my parents’ old house last weekend I chanced across porno DVDs and books owned by my father. I’ve never thought of him that way, and frankly would prefer not to. I get how ridiculous that sounds, given I wouldn’t be here were it not for my folks having sex. But there’s some things that just ought to stay private.

Yeah, my dad had also had tons of pron. My parents were quite oversexed.

Sex is an important part of a relationship. If they can’t find the time or distance away from their child, so be it.

R7, how old are your parents? They did know they had porn in the house?

This is pretty disgusting.

I walked in on my parents but they were only playing leapfrog.

I don't know if it's considered abuse but it's icky.

Didn’t this happen to the Phoenix kids, turning them into incestuous drug addicts?

Moving the family to the country because they wanted a status symbol house. Never considered how uprooting the kids would affect them, trapping them out on a basically dirt road.

[quote]Parents Having Sex with Children in the Room

We tried leaving the little bastards on the street and telling them to stay there, but the cops get pretty upset about that.

OP, would you feel better about it if parents had sex with their children outdoors?

The lack of a comma in OP thread title🙈

This is a stealth pedo thread. It really should be shut down.

Apparently DL is now mostly trolls and pesos. Are people happy with that?

What do you have against Mexico's currency R19??

Right on R13. I've contracted a case of the yuckies just reading that. When my dog was alive, I didn't even want him in the room. WTF is the matter with people?

Maybe it might have happened when the kids were a newborn baby and when they were asleep of course but after 8 weeks they moved to their own bedroom. It makes me feel uncomfortable when pets or kids are around. It feels wrong.

Who’s debating this fiercely?

In order to debate, there needs to be an opponent. Who thinks it’s a good idea to have sex in front of children? Who is so desperately turned on by their spouse that they can’t move to another room or location? By the time you have kids, the urgency has diminished.

I don't really want to know anything about my parents sex life. My Dad always needs help with his computer (he is 75) and the search items on Google already disturbed me. He googled stuff like "erotic" etc. and obviously has no idea people can see his Google searches. Probably should have told him about pornhub or youporn etc. to find free porn, but no, just no.

Just to answer, the article spoke to a debate on whether it's anyone's business to get involved. Some claim they would tell the friend it is wrong, and potentially damaging. Others said it wasn't anyone's business, and they should keep their mouths closed. Some said they would contact child services,,as it constitutes abuse. So apparently not everyone in NZ agrees.

Did you read thecarticle mate? I think many who are doing it with children in the room don't believe it to be damaging, and they used excuses from Antiquity, Ancient History, and the Third World tonrationalise their behaviour and lack of boundaries. Smells like a debate to me. I know people who said their parents did this on holidays, and visiting relatives' homes.

[quote]Is this how Oedipus complexes start?

In straights, possibly, OP. I don't think it's possible in gays.

When I was a kid, I absolutely 𝑎𝑏ℎ𝑜𝑟𝑟𝑒𝑑 depictions of sex or discussions of it. When I was eleven or so, some documentary aired on PBS purporting to show the fertilization and subsequent cellular division of a human egg cell, and my mom thought that it would be a good way to have "the talk" with me. She and my dad sat on the couch, and she made me sit between them, and put her goddamned arm around me (an extremely atypical level of physical closeness with my parents). I pretty much lost my mind, and ran weeping from the room, slamming my bedroom door, and refusing to have anything to do with them for the rest of the night.

I didn't need to be informed; I already knew "the facts". I'd long since approached that issue the way I had every other, by in-depth reading. For me, human reproduction made for some horrific reading; the whole subject was loathsome to me. It's probably one of the reasons that Christianity got its hooks into me so deeply during my teenage years - it offered an out to that cycle, the idea that another reality existed that one could hope for - the essentially sexless realm of heaven.

Of course, I now have a far different perspective on it, and why I reacted to it that way when I was a kid. It was because I was gay; wired completely differently, all of these depictions of sex were hetero, which was why they always seemed so wrong to me, so unbelievably gross. And it was always represented as being so inevitable, that this was something that all humans did, or eventually ℎ𝑎𝑑 to do. And I knew deep down that I wasn't having any of that, 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟. (I recall an exchange between myself and my mom when I was three or four, and she was telling me that someday I'd fall in love with a woman and get married. "𝑁𝑜," I'd insisted, "𝑛𝑜, 𝑛𝑜 𝑛𝑜!" "You say that now," she went on, "but someday you'll grow up, your body will change, you'll mature, and you'll fall in love with a woman." Now I was getting quite upset, and kept yelling, "𝑁𝑜! 𝑁𝑜𝑡 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟!" "Yes you will, you will," she laughed, grabbing me and tickling me, trying to make me say that I would. But I didn't. Even at that age, I was adamant about it; it was set in stone. 𝑁𝑜 𝑤𝑜𝑚𝑒𝑛, 𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑟. Not ever.) The whole subject made my skin crawl, and did for many years after. Today, at the age of 56, I've managed to achieve something approximating indifference towards it, the assurance that it isn't something that will ever be expected of me, and that there are other metrics for assessing the success of one's life besides marrying and having a family. But for years, it was one of the great traumas of my life.

It's wrong, bottomline. Nobody needs to see that, especially children.

R26. Abso-bloody-lutely I would feel the same in your shoes PD. I lucked out; mum gave me a comprehensive big book (it had included gay coming of age stories and a chapter on gay sex) and said If I had any questions, I could ask her or my Dad anything, but that she thought the book ought to cover it. It did.

If my mom had done that, R28, I don't know that I'd feel that I'd "lucked out." My investigations into these matters were private; I read such materials in encyclopedias and in libraries on the sly. I regarded anything like that from my parents as an intrusion. I wasn't knowledgeable of what constituted gay relationships and gay sex until 1994, when I stopped fighting being gay, and began researching it (as with all things, again, through books).

Tommy Wiseau was a weird guy, but no one had sex with children in The Room

Frau cunt thread.

R31 You probably say that about everything. Your contributions have enriched lives here.

R3 - This sounds like your fantasy fiction. Ick - my parents did not have porn in the house and I searched everywhere for it. Some of my friends parents did and that was exciting to watch. The best I could find was an old 80's version of "The Joy of Sex" to fap to. We were not open about sex in any context really. As an adult, I did find my dads Cialis which is gross, but he was a hot younger wife now. I am from immaculate conception camp as well, in my mind.

I feel like this is something Alicia Silverstone would co-sign which bums me out.

Hard to have sex with Jimmy if he's not in the room.

R32=triggered frau cunt.

When I was an adolescent, I had to have a digital rectal exam to rule out appendicitis. It was our nice middle aged hippy doctor, but at 11 you don't want a middle aged woman near your bum.

I was horrified, and walked out to the car feeling gross and sad. My mom felt bad and was sympathetic. In an odd way to offer comfort, she said "I know, it's awful. I have no idea why gay men want to have sex like that."

This was news to me. I had no idea gay men had anal sex, and really wish I didn't get the news from my mom after enduring a rectal exam at age 11.

Years later it all made sense to me, even if my mother doesn't understand.

Any association I have of sex related to my parents is horrifying and awful. They obviously had/still have an active sex life, and on a logical level I'm happy for them but emotionally it makes me want a Xanax and wine.

R1 In my childhood experiences, if the child was asleep and then wakes up, they pretend to still be asleep and block it out.

It's awful. A baby will forget. Older kids, nope.

Elder Lez here, back in the dark ages when I was still a married Het, it *did* happen on occasion that a child would walk-in on my husband and I En Flagrante- mostly when they were quite young. We immediately would stop what we wee doing and say something lame like, " Daddy's giving mommy a massage." And that seemed to satisfy their curiosity, because honestly, they didn't know what they were seeing. Now another time, the asshole tried to make a move on me WHILE I was nursing one of the kids when they were an infant. Completely gross, and one of the many reasons I left said A- hole.