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Why So Crude?

Why are men, especially gay men, so crude in their language and descriptions of people, especially on DL? I get the “bitchiness” part, but many times it goes into vile and ugly language.

by Anonymousreply 72September 12, 2020 9:56 PM

FUCK YOU AND YOUR CUNT LIPS _ WHORE

by Anonymousreply 1September 11, 2020 4:59 PM

It's not just men, or gay men. Plenty of females are just as crude. The anonymity of the internet loosens some people's inner scumbag.

by Anonymousreply 2September 11, 2020 4:59 PM

What the fuck are you talking about, you rancid cunt?!?

by Anonymousreply 3September 11, 2020 5:00 PM

Say what, cunt?

by Anonymousreply 4September 11, 2020 5:00 PM

LOL, R3! I didn’t say there was no humor!

by Anonymousreply 5September 11, 2020 5:01 PM

OP:

*walks into Kohl's*

*wanders around Kohl's*

*screams*

WHY IS THIS NOT A JCPENNEY? I WANT A JCPENNEY!

by Anonymousreply 6September 11, 2020 5:01 PM

For example, OP?

by Anonymousreply 7September 11, 2020 5:01 PM

OP is right: many gay men say "cunt" more than anyone in the world, and also hugely love poop and fart jokes.

I think it's because so many gay men over 35 are in a state of arrested development. Many of us often tend to freeze at the high school years because we feel we never got to experience h.s. properly because so many of us we were closeted then. This we act either incredibly juvenile over swearing or become obsessed with cliques, or both..

by Anonymousreply 8September 11, 2020 5:04 PM

Disingenuous, R7.

by Anonymousreply 9September 11, 2020 5:04 PM

Oh, Lordy, my post has struck a nerve, as 4 out of the first 9 posters don’t show up. I block the ultra crude and mean, so the vile ones must have glommed on to this post.

by Anonymousreply 10September 11, 2020 5:06 PM

I don't answer questions to an unknown entity before lunch. Fuck off and go piss on a tree, little doggie.

by Anonymousreply 11September 11, 2020 5:16 PM

"I get the bitchiness"

No. No, you don't.

by Anonymousreply 12September 11, 2020 5:17 PM

//ignore FAT, UGLY TROLL OP

by Anonymousreply 13September 11, 2020 5:22 PM

I agree, OP. Nearly every post about women either starts with the OP throwing slurs around, or the comments are filled with them. Sorry eldergays, but some of us are just OVER the misogyny & sexism. Is harmful to women & it's harmful to us.

by Anonymousreply 14September 11, 2020 5:30 PM

I have a question for you OP, what's so wrong with being crude?

by Anonymousreply 15September 11, 2020 5:32 PM

It's a relief to let it out here. I don't take it seriously and I've been called a stupid cunt on here a few times. Who cares? To me, it's like when friends get fake rude with each other to make a point or just blow off steam.

If anybody feels hurt by it, I don't know how to address that except maybe don't use DL.

by Anonymousreply 16September 11, 2020 5:33 PM

It is the vocabulary of the uneducated - the argot of the trailer park - the vernacular of the public housing project dweller.

It is the way they were taught to speak by the ladies in the bordello where they were raised. Or for many, it is the way they were taught to express themselves by the carnies who were their childhood friends.

by Anonymousreply 17September 11, 2020 5:38 PM

R17, lmao.

by Anonymousreply 18September 11, 2020 5:40 PM

Go back to Baptist church where you belong, R17.

by Anonymousreply 19September 11, 2020 5:41 PM

R2 obviously doesn’t know any real Baptists and has also never been to a carnival, a circus, a church, or a whore house.

Had he, then he’d be a Baptist who attends church 4 times a week, including Sundays.

by Anonymousreply 20September 11, 2020 5:54 PM

Fiddlesticks!

by Anonymousreply 21September 11, 2020 6:11 PM

Whoosh, R19.

by Anonymousreply 22September 11, 2020 6:15 PM

R10 wins the Nellie Prisspot award!

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by Anonymousreply 23September 11, 2020 6:15 PM

OP is still recovering

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by Anonymousreply 24September 11, 2020 6:16 PM

Words are just words.

by Anonymousreply 25September 11, 2020 6:20 PM

Sorry, R22, there so many vocal social climbers around here that I can't tell fact from fiction.

by Anonymousreply 26September 11, 2020 6:20 PM

R25 What ARE words for?

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by Anonymousreply 27September 11, 2020 6:21 PM

Well, H-E-double hockey sticks! Who knows?

by Anonymousreply 28September 11, 2020 6:22 PM

[quote] FUCK YOU AND YOUR CUNT LIPS _ WHORE

I love you!

by Anonymousreply 29September 11, 2020 6:22 PM

Below is the kind of crude, dirty hot teddy bear-on-Keanu Reeves action that just disgusts me.

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by Anonymousreply 30September 11, 2020 6:23 PM

We’re not, you diseased, bearded hag.

by Anonymousreply 31September 11, 2020 6:23 PM

Oh my gracious goodness, OP, how positively terrible.

Will you recover? Shall we call for the doctor??

by Anonymousreply 32September 11, 2020 6:25 PM

Never trust a person who doesn't swear.

by Anonymousreply 33September 11, 2020 6:30 PM

Miss OP

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by Anonymousreply 34September 11, 2020 8:11 PM

OP eats bloody stools...

by Anonymousreply 35September 11, 2020 9:58 PM

OP, is your name Julie?

by Anonymousreply 36September 11, 2020 10:30 PM

OP I’ll rip your fucking leg off and beat you to death with it your faggoty-assed cunting whore.

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by Anonymousreply 37September 11, 2020 10:30 PM

I had an English professor in college who would wince if students swore--he referred to it (ironically) as "language of the gutter."

by Anonymousreply 38September 11, 2020 10:32 PM

OP for your consideration

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by Anonymousreply 39September 11, 2020 10:39 PM

I’ve eliminated gender and sex-based expletives, so now I’m pretty much stuck with scatological vocabulary. I’m still not sure why I’m a name-caller.

by Anonymousreply 40September 11, 2020 10:41 PM

OP...

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by Anonymousreply 41September 11, 2020 10:49 PM

R3 That reminds me: I was on Reddit a few days ago, reading the comments on a post regarding La Senatrice, and in their comment, someone said the following about the subject "He really is a rancid cunt.". The odds of that poster NOT being a Datalounger are slim.

by Anonymousreply 42September 11, 2020 10:59 PM

R37 is a dickless fucktard.

by Anonymousreply 43September 11, 2020 11:04 PM

Maybe it’s because - CUNT - is one of the most powerful words in the English language. When used properly and confidently it’s effectiveness is unquestionable and profound. And gay men, more than any other group, have realized this and harnessed it’s power. ‘You fuck’n cunt’ never is ambiguous.

by Anonymousreply 44September 11, 2020 11:27 PM

OP is someone's cunting daughter

by Anonymousreply 45September 11, 2020 11:38 PM

THANKS R39 - I knew there was a reason for my filthy fucking mouth.

by Anonymousreply 46September 12, 2020 12:00 AM

Lady Di talked to Elton John about how dry her twat was just before she died.

That is prescience.

by Anonymousreply 47September 12, 2020 3:15 AM

We get our words from popular culture.

Popular culture is 50% crude and swear words.

Be happy it is not more.

by Anonymousreply 48September 12, 2020 3:26 AM

OP I bet you got a hot hole.

by Anonymousreply 49September 12, 2020 3:31 AM

Miss OP when she hears language that befouls her delicate ears. ....

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by Anonymousreply 50September 12, 2020 4:23 AM

Jeepers!

by Anonymousreply 51September 12, 2020 4:44 AM

The straight females have set their boundaries for our site.

by Anonymousreply 52September 12, 2020 4:53 AM

Because saying things like "blow me" aren't really considered insults among gay men.

by Anonymousreply 53September 12, 2020 4:55 AM

R53 exactly, that’s an expression of acceptance and excitement.

by Anonymousreply 54September 12, 2020 5:14 AM

Dear Lord in Heaven!

by Anonymousreply 55September 12, 2020 5:19 AM

[quote]Why are men, especially gay men, so crude in their language and descriptions of people

LOL!! You must be fucking kidding me?! Yeah, straight guys talk SO gentlemanly and the lyrics to WAP are not crude at all because we all know straight women always act ladylike.🙄

by Anonymousreply 56September 12, 2020 5:24 AM

It never made sense to me till I realized a high percentage of crude contributors were home drinking and spewing drunk talk. I know because it used to be me.

by Anonymousreply 57September 12, 2020 5:29 AM

We refuse to get down in the gutter with them.

by Anonymousreply 58September 12, 2020 5:47 AM

Honorable mention for all the objectifying and dehumanizing language here: "my tops" or "my bottoms" instead of "my sexual partners," "would tap dat ass," etc. I realize it's popular slang and I'm over the hill but I do get tired of seeing it everywhere.

by Anonymousreply 59September 12, 2020 6:04 AM

I swear like a Marseille sailor and I'm neither a drunk nor a lowlife.

by Anonymousreply 60September 12, 2020 11:59 AM

So you actually don't get the bitchiness, OP.

by Anonymousreply 61September 12, 2020 12:03 PM

Lol, R17 sounds just like me in high school. I practically carried a soapbox around with me to hop on and pontificate about people who use blue language.

I am so FUCKING glad I grew the FUCK up and learned to appreciate the SHIT out of a well-placed blue word.

by Anonymousreply 62September 12, 2020 12:41 PM

OP, please go somewhere else, anywhere else. You hurt waddle feelings mean absolutely nothing to us.

by Anonymousreply 63September 12, 2020 12:45 PM

All anonymous boards are a mess, OP.

by Anonymousreply 64September 12, 2020 12:48 PM

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by Anonymousreply 65September 12, 2020 1:28 PM

and PS: Good MORNING!

by Anonymousreply 66September 12, 2020 1:28 PM

Dickless Fucktard is my nom de plume.

by Anonymousreply 67September 12, 2020 3:54 PM

For OP

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by Anonymousreply 68September 12, 2020 4:19 PM

R62, choke on a dick.

by Anonymousreply 69September 12, 2020 4:43 PM

Welcome to DL

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by Anonymousreply 70September 12, 2020 4:58 PM

R64 and should be protected. The lack of censorship is the only reason I come to this beautiful forum.

by Anonymousreply 71September 12, 2020 9:48 PM

OP, this is not AOL. This is the Datalounge.

If this website is not to your taste, get the fuck out and go any of the billion other websites available to you or start your own.

In the meantime, shut your cunt mouth.

by Anonymousreply 72September 12, 2020 9:56 PM
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