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Cuckolding Comes Out of the Shadows

[QUOTE] The fetish is a common kink where a man takes pleasure in watching his partner sleep with other men. The practice recently made headlines when it was reported Jerry Falwell Jr. enjoyed watching his wife have sex with their 20 year old pool boy.

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by Anonymousreply 47September 7, 2020 10:45 PM

Female partner is implied. The term doesn't mean anything when the opposite-sex-fucking male doesn't have a female that he believes he "owns" humiliating her "master" and his "manhood" by fucking another guy.

by Anonymousreply 1September 7, 2020 2:59 PM

This, I don’t get.

It requires the consent of at least three people. And it still requires that a man see a woman as his property, to loan out.

by Anonymousreply 2September 7, 2020 3:00 PM

[quote]Doesn't apply to gay men

Yes it does. Same shit.

by Anonymousreply 3September 7, 2020 3:07 PM

There is something gay about a husband wanting to see dick instead of pussy.

by Anonymousreply 4September 7, 2020 3:18 PM

No, it's voyeurism when all parties are equals. It's that cuck shit when the "man's woman" is being fucked by another man on front of him.

by Anonymousreply 5September 7, 2020 3:48 PM

R3 Yes, this does apply to gay men. I know plenty of gay couples who want a third party involved.

by Anonymousreply 6September 7, 2020 3:48 PM

Sometimes there really isn't mutual consent.

by Anonymousreply 7September 7, 2020 3:50 PM

[quote]The fetish is a common kink where a man takes pleasure in watching his partner sleep with other men.

I doubt there is any sleeping involved. It's 2020--do we really need to keep using this euphemism?

by Anonymousreply 8September 7, 2020 3:51 PM

I'm gay and identify as a cuck. It's a growing genre in gay porn too.

by Anonymousreply 9September 7, 2020 3:54 PM

It's beta male bullshit that the feminist media pushes onto the public to subvert men even more. Guys that accept this are a bunch of bitches.

Feminism has lowered the value of women. They are nothing but walking vaginas until they turn 28. After that, they hit the wall and get ignored by men.

Girl power!

by Anonymousreply 10September 7, 2020 3:56 PM

[quote] Yes, this does apply to gay men. I know plenty of gay couples who want a third party involved.

So the top wants the bottom who he owns and financially supports to get fucked by another guy?

by Anonymousreply 11September 7, 2020 4:02 PM

It seems so boring to want to just watch...

by Anonymousreply 12September 7, 2020 4:05 PM

Woman here. I was with a guy who started pushing for a third person after we were together about a year. He wanted the third to be a male, not a female. I had never been in a threesome and the idea disgusted me. I thought our fucking was great, we both came every time. I was so adamant about NOT doing a three way we almost broke up at that point. His explanation was that he wanted to watch me be pleasured, that we were too physically close while fucking that he couldn't fully 'enjoy' my reaction. I suggested he watch me get off with a dildo or vibrator but he insisted it had to be another man. He never suggested another woman.

We broke up soon after that. At the time I didn't realize he just wanted to see another guy's cock in action. Now - ten years later - I wish I had done it. Being fucked by one guy and having the other watch? Now that's too tame for me...I want one in my mouth and the other in my pussy.

by Anonymousreply 13September 7, 2020 4:06 PM

How does the picture of Falwell with the potbellied girl relate to this?

by Anonymousreply 14September 7, 2020 4:08 PM

[quote]And it still requires that a man see a woman as his property, to loan out.

I don't think this is always true. I can easily imagine relationships where the woman would demand to have sex with a third guy and have her husband watch, and the husband would meekly go along with it. Lots of possible dynamics here.

by Anonymousreply 15September 7, 2020 4:44 PM

The man is going to resent the woman sooner rather than later. The woman is having fun banging Chad and Tyrone - riding the cock carousel, as it is called - while the man's sexual needs go unmet. The man can't really be enjoying this, he is just trying to hold on to the much younger woman - the reproductive drive is strong.

This young woman shouldn't be in a relationship. She wants to be wild and experiment, and have lots of sex with lots of different people. The man likely wants to settle down, and is just going along with what she wants to appease her. She should break up with him and go sow her oats, and he should find somebody older and who wants the same thing he wants.

by Anonymousreply 16September 7, 2020 5:12 PM

LOL The perspectives on this thread are hysterical. I've been involved in the cuckold community for years some of these pop psychology takes are very funny

by Anonymousreply 17September 7, 2020 5:26 PM

[quote]R17 This young woman shouldn't be in a relationship. She wants to be wild and experiment, and have lots of sex with lots of different people. The man likely wants to settle down, and is just going along with what she wants to appease her. She should break up with him and go sow her oats, and he should find somebody older and who wants the same thing he wants.

Where does it say this? What the article states is [italic]“I just really enjoy seeing my partner in her pleasure,” he said. “Some people go to the theater and see a live performance, well, my version is getting to sit down with a beverage of my choice and see the partner that I love so much enjoy herself.”... Raul himself has also been the willing third party in past relationships — referred to as a “bull.” [italic]

It also says the girlfriend sometimes likes watching him with another woman.

Stop trying to wedge them into your Red Pill fantasy.

by Anonymousreply 18September 7, 2020 6:00 PM

Enlighten us, R17.

by Anonymousreply 19September 7, 2020 6:13 PM

Let them have it. We have fisting, sounding etc. Ew.

by Anonymousreply 20September 7, 2020 6:26 PM

There is a very prominent element of racial fetishization in the cuck community. The most common fetish is for a white couple to want the female to be "serviced" by a "black bull."

Consenting adults, they can do what they want, but the whole thing, especially with the race fixation added, is kinda creepy to me.

Some white guys also get off having their white girlfriends get impregnated by the black bull. They get turned on by the visual evidence of their cuckolding, displayed to the world. And the kid? Well, who gives a fuck, I guess. The kid is just a prop for mom and dad's sex games.

by Anonymousreply 21September 7, 2020 6:35 PM

[quote] LOL The perspectives on this thread are hysterical. I've been involved in the cuckold community for years some of these pop psychology takes are very funny

R17, I'd like to hear your point of view.

by Anonymousreply 22September 7, 2020 6:45 PM

I knew a guy that was an escort and was bi, and he only had in his profile only women/ couples, no men at all. he told me once that all the guys who contacted him to see him fuck their wives, all without exception at the very least enjoyed looking at his hard cock, wanting to see how big and hard it got in front of them, some even were into licking the pussy after he came inside. Males, especially those with some degree of repressed bisexual or same sex attraction are using nowadays women to get as close as possible to a guy in bed.

by Anonymousreply 23September 7, 2020 7:05 PM

R21, wow, that is utterly primordial and fucking pathetic. That man is a failure in my estimation. Letting not just fuck his wife (which is bad enough), but impregnate her. Holy fucking shit, are there any real men anymore? Or perhaps the only real men left are busy scooping up the women.

by Anonymousreply 24September 7, 2020 7:47 PM

^ *letting him not just fuck his wife

by Anonymousreply 25September 7, 2020 7:48 PM

There has to be some form of erotic humiliation and submission for the cuck in watching and being denied sex. If there isn't humiliation and submission then it's simply swinging or a threesome or being a "stag". Most cucks are submissive to their partner and celebrate their sexuality. It's not about some weird anti-feminism. Straight cuckolds usually worship their wives freedom and dominance

by Anonymousreply 26September 7, 2020 7:48 PM

R10, you sound dumb. This has NOTHING to do with feminism. In fact, the men who are into it are often right-wingers who hate feminism like Jerry Falwell Jr. I find it funny that gay men are complaining about "beta males" since right-wing guys believe gay men aren't real men

R16, it's usually the men who are way more into it than the women.

by Anonymousreply 27September 7, 2020 7:55 PM

I’m convinced the men are latent homosexualists or feel inadequate dickwise.

by Anonymousreply 28September 7, 2020 7:58 PM

R24, these guys think you're not a real man because you're gay

by Anonymousreply 29September 7, 2020 7:59 PM

Some of you know nothing about straight people

by Anonymousreply 30September 7, 2020 8:00 PM

Well, one is so unlikely to encounter any in the course of a lifetime.

by Anonymousreply 31September 7, 2020 8:02 PM

I'm a gay cuck. #AMA

by Anonymousreply 32September 7, 2020 8:06 PM

R29, you can be gay and be a real man. It's rare, but possible. I don't think being a man = fucking pussy. It's all about how you take care of yourself and others, facing challenges head on, and protecting your family/what is yours. Real men make a dent in the world and are responsible for the world. Letting another man come in and not just fuck your wife but impregnate her demotes you. You've essentially lost your place in the world.

by Anonymousreply 33September 7, 2020 8:08 PM

R32 you talk like someone who actually understands the fetish and gets off on being the "bull". Good for you!

by Anonymousreply 34September 7, 2020 8:09 PM

R28, the man in the article literally said this:

“There are other men who have bigger penises than I do and that’s OK,” he said. “If she enjoys being physical with somebody with a larger penis, then I want her to go and do that.”

And R21, yeah, I hate that the white Becky is always cucking her husband with a big, strong, superior big-dicked Black man. Black men are more than our penises, you slutty bitches and bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 35September 7, 2020 8:11 PM

r33, who are you to tell men what makes them a real man? Apparently you also think it's "rare" for gay men to be real men so what are you even doing here?

Go post at some red pill/MRA forum and leave us alone

by Anonymousreply 36September 7, 2020 8:23 PM

R25 I'm assuming you're not talking about Becki Falwell.? All of her bulls have been white or Latino

by Anonymousreply 37September 7, 2020 8:25 PM

I don't get it. The man enjoys forcing his woman to have sex with another man? Or she enjoys humiliating him by fucking another man? Or the man gets off on feeling humiliated? But how how humiliated can he feel if he's arranging it?

by Anonymousreply 38September 7, 2020 9:18 PM

The Lord is watching. And so is Jerry.

by Anonymousreply 39September 7, 2020 9:25 PM

Is this available on pay per view?

by Anonymousreply 40September 7, 2020 9:26 PM

R38 a: It's not cuckolding if it's forced. b: She often enjoys it or at least plays along in a role playing type of way. c: Yes, humiliation is a huge aspect of it. d: the same way that you can feel humiliated and submissive with kinky BDSM or Master/Slave, Daddy/Son play that you set up.

by Anonymousreply 41September 7, 2020 9:28 PM

Maybe Jerry likes seeing his whore/wife call out "JESUS!" while getting fucked.

by Anonymousreply 42September 7, 2020 9:28 PM

I like to watch...

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by Anonymousreply 43September 7, 2020 9:32 PM

R38, Some cucks see their wives as much more sexually desirable knowing that physically superior and better looking men want to sex her.

by Anonymousreply 44September 7, 2020 9:41 PM

R33 True. The USMC is full of cockmasters who admire each others manhood and love to share it with each other.

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by Anonymousreply 45September 7, 2020 9:47 PM

I do not participate in aberrant sex acts.

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by Anonymousreply 46September 7, 2020 9:48 PM

^^but my wife does and I encourage her.

by Anonymousreply 47September 7, 2020 10:45 PM
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