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Is there anything that marks DL as a gay site anymore?

Other than the Realjock ads. When did the "pointless bitchery" message disappear? Put back the W&W highlights.

Hell, have the first page be a big swinging dick. I think more right wingers and straight people in general are ending up here because they don't get this is a place for the gays.

by Anonymousreply 63Last Saturday at 11:57 PM

Personally I love the elder gay soap threads

by Anonymousreply 109/05/2020

The discussions about cruising for sex

by Anonymousreply 209/05/2020

DL as a gay site died out several years ago. Now it's an elementary school playground full of shrieking, badly-behaved children.

by Anonymousreply 309/05/2020

Can we get a new P&G thread? The current one is murieled and has been for a few days now.

by Anonymousreply 409/15/2020

We can save it by posting cock shots in all threads.

I think that is key.

by Anonymousreply 509/15/2020

They can't put back W&W because people learned how to game the system and put idiotic rightwing and racist shit on the sidebar.

I do think big hard cocks need to be mandatory on all threads, though, especially political ones.

by Anonymousreply 609/15/2020

That being called fat is the worst insult you can hurl here.

by Anonymousreply 709/15/2020

This should ‘gay it up’ a little.

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by Anonymousreply 809/15/2020

They really need to do away with "W&W" entirely, as I see a lot of posters WWing their own posts, nanoseconds after posting. (You're not fooling anyone, ladies.) Overall, the content here is nowhere near as genuinely witty, inventive, and transgressive as it was a decade or so ago. It's just not.

And they should bring back red tags for the more offensive trolls (like racists and misogynists). Public shaming is hugely undervalued, IMHO.

by Anonymousreply 909/15/2020

WW just means "like" now, and yeah, considering the trolls have figured out a way to give themselves 85 WWs for saying alt-right QAnon crap, I think it's time to retire it. I think the system credits posters who get a lot of WWs so that means even if they get FFed a lot, all their self-given WWs outweigh it.

by Anonymousreply 1009/15/2020

But Ivanka husband send me hiere! I stay to see picture of cock, no poosey like Ivanka husband have. Also, good advice for cream for old husband private back part, so I buy and making Ivanka put in. DL is Best!

by Anonymousreply 1109/15/2020

OP, Have you ever stopped to think that hot looking, physically in prime shape men appeal to straight women as well as gays? Or do you mistakenly believe that all of the readers of Playgirl back in the day were men?

Encouraging the posing of more intelligent looking studs. . .

by Anonymousreply 1209/15/2020

I don't mind that some straight men and women post here, as long as they're smart and funny, it's the creepy fraus with their weird obsessions who fuck it all up.

by Anonymousreply 1309/15/2020

[quote]That being called fat is the worst insult you can hurl here.

You types and smells FAT, R7. Satisfied?

by Anonymousreply 1409/15/2020

The snappish hatred of women you sometimes see is very dusty, old school gay.

by Anonymousreply 1509/15/2020

[Quote]Have you ever stopped to think that hot looking, physically in prime shape men appeal to straight women as well as gays?

Even the the most straight woman who is like Kinsey -6 is not as enthusiastic about a throbbing dick as a Kinsey 3 bisexual man. Instead of dick pics we should flood DL with ass and hole pics.

by Anonymousreply 1609/15/2020

I nearly only post on the porn threads, so I'm doing my part

by Anonymousreply 1709/15/2020

it's one of the gayest sites online. Lots of gay porn, lots of discussion about gay celebrities and tons of bitchy gossipy comments about other celebrities. It has stayed a lot gayer than other blogs like JoeMyGod which has just become a Democrat political stan site and self righteous anti religious blog

by Anonymousreply 1809/15/2020

Honestly - I can do without the gay porn. If I want to see a man naked, I call one.

by Anonymousreply 1909/15/2020

[quote] We can save it by posting cock shots in all threads.

To be sure, it needs to be man on man sex scenes. That will help rid the place of straight females.

by Anonymousreply 2009/15/2020

R14 = Sméagol/Gollum

by Anonymousreply 2109/15/2020

R18: It's the Joe Jervises of the world who helped put Trump in office without even trying.

by Anonymousreply 2209/15/2020

I miss this on the homepage

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by Anonymousreply 2309/15/2020

"25 years of being SO much better last year"

by Anonymousreply 2409/15/2020

R8, I want to have his babies.

by Anonymousreply 2509/15/2020

You're forgetting about all the porn threads, the videos of guys in the shower...

by Anonymousreply 2609/15/2020

Wow. I honestly never noticed that the old Datalounge header/banner was gone.

by Anonymousreply 2709/15/2020

[quote]To be sure, it needs to be man on man sex scenes. That will help rid the place of straight females.

You're joking, right? There's a subset of straight women who LOVE gay porn. They're the only ones who are likely to find the DL and stick around, because the OP's premise is utterly false. There is no mistaking that this is a gay site just from the thread titles alone.

I'm charmed by the naive people who believe there are no gay right-wingers, so the right-wing threads must mean an invasion by straight trolls.

by Anonymousreply 2809/15/2020

[quote] There's a subset of straight women who LOVE gay porn. They're the only ones who are likely to find the DL and stick around, because the OP's premise is utterly false.

So Della loves gay porn?

by Anonymousreply 2909/15/2020

r28, a subset isn't a majority. Why do you think most Playgirl subscribers are men?

by Anonymousreply 3009/15/2020

R18 But JMG has user-posted cookery tips and kitty cat photos to go with the groupthink!

by Anonymousreply 3109/15/2020

R28, I'm sorry, but the lesbians, radfems, straight alt-rightie ladies, the Twilight obsessives, and half of the Froy/Mendez/D-List obsessives are not gay porn lovers.

Over the years we've had a lot of threads cleansed of the riffraff by liberal application of gay porn gifs. It's like Raid for heteros.

by Anonymousreply 3209/16/2020

[quote]R32 I'm sorry, but the lesbians... are not gay porn lovers.

The lesbians in THE KIDS ARE ALRIGHT (2010) like watching gay porn together (?)

I can see gay porn turning off straight men, but lesbians have seen it all.

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by Anonymousreply 3309/16/2020

[quote] They really need to do away with "W&W" entirely, as I see a lot of posters WWing their own posts

Only registered uses should be able to W&W and users shouldn't be able to W&W themselves.

by Anonymousreply 3409/16/2020

R32 trolling

by Anonymousreply 3509/16/2020

R30, it has nothing to do with Playgirl or a majority of anybody. I was responding to the suggestion that gay porn would drive off straight women. It will drive off a few, but any woman hanging out at the DL is already, of necessity, porn-tolerant. Really gross gay porn might work for your purpose, but it will also drive off many gay men.

Honestly, I don't see why it matters in most threads. Looking at the recent threads right now, I see very few where women could not have interesting contributions. Do you think they can't have worthwhile comments on Patsy Cline's death, English grammar and usage, Agatha Christie adaptations, or celebrities making a comeback?

by Anonymousreply 36Last Friday at 2:28 PM

Hell, I'd be grateful if Real Jock stopped posting ads of Greg Pitt, who was run over my a train a few years back.

by Anonymousreply 37Last Friday at 2:31 PM

***by a train

by Anonymousreply 38Last Friday at 2:31 PM

All the political bullshit drags it down. That's part of straight world, leave it out there. We're here to talk about dick size, bank accounts, sexual flings and hairdids.

by Anonymousreply 39Last Friday at 2:34 PM

r39 Political threads are boring, I know this site hates Trump, but some anons make new threads about him every 25 minutes, it's annoying.

by Anonymousreply 40Last Friday at 2:37 PM

[quote] All the political bullshit drags it down. That's part of straight world, leave it out there.

Disagree. If there are politicians out there who are anti-gay and working toward laws that hurt gays, then DL is the place to post. If you don't like to talk politics (understandable), then don't click. (Ignore function doesn't work.)

by Anonymousreply 41Last Friday at 2:37 PM

R41, this is a gay gossip site, not a political site. It's supposed to be gay, fun and bitchy, not lesbian depressing. There's plenty of depressing activist sites out there if anyone is interested. It doesn't belong everywhere in the gay universe.

by Anonymousreply 42Last Friday at 2:40 PM

i love R39

by Anonymousreply 43Last Friday at 2:40 PM

I think what we need is more "Karen" posts! Because more misogyny and racism is always good!

by Anonymousreply 44Last Friday at 2:44 PM

I love the political threads - it makes me feel like I have friends and I am not alone. I am increasingly uneasy over how many people in my life - landlord, some co-workers, some neighbors and old friends have become rabid Trumpers - it is a relief to come here and make fun of Trump..... That doesn’t mean I don’t love making fun of Joan van Ark’s plastic surgery, quoting Valley of the Dolls, talking about what books I’m reading, dialing the telephone with my pencil and dining Once Around The Garden ..... I also look forward to the Company photo at Christmastime.

by Anonymousreply 45Last Friday at 2:51 PM

Sometimes politics and bitchery intersect greatly.

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by Anonymousreply 46Last Friday at 2:54 PM

[quote]Is there anything that marks DL as a gay site anymore?

The mandatory dress code (caftans and earrings, of course) helps.

by Anonymousreply 47Last Friday at 3:00 PM

r1 Me too! The mix of the serious, superficial, gossipy and intricate details in many Dallas threads is much favoured by me!

by Anonymousreply 48Last Friday at 3:08 PM


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by Anonymousreply 49Last Friday at 3:15 PM

Despite the recent onslaught of fascist trolls, DL is still my favorite geigh stop on the Internet. R18 nails it about JMG, but THAT is still head and shoulders above Towleroad, which has become Censorship Central i.e. Andy Towle’s dorm room at Vassar. Keep those caftans rustling in the wind, gurrls.

by Anonymousreply 50Last Friday at 3:16 PM

There's a Madonna and Lady Gaga thread making the rounds today.

So, that's pretty gay.

by Anonymousreply 51Last Friday at 3:20 PM

Datalounge Forever Gay.

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by Anonymousreply 52Last Friday at 3:57 PM

The best thing about this site is the lack of censorship.

The worst thing about this site is the propensity of "anti-fascists" calling for censorship of other opinions than their own, and labeling everyone "trolls“, or "boris".

Right wing whatever people do not "troll" gay sites for fun.

You are boring and dumb.

by Anonymousreply 53Last Friday at 11:56 PM

Yes, R35, you're the one starting threads about how "repellant" [sic] Charlotte Rampling is, but it's everyone else who's a troll.

by Anonymousreply 54Last Saturday at 1:29 AM

We currently have a Patsy Cline thread where two posters are going at it because one made a grammar mistake and didn't like being "Oh deared"..

by Anonymousreply 55Last Saturday at 1:43 AM

Andy Towle is a hack. When he wrote that book about the 80s, he made fun of Soleil Moon Frye getting a boob job at 16. What he failed to mention is that her condition that caused her to need such a boob job actually had a name that I do not remember.

by Anonymousreply 56Last Saturday at 1:55 AM

R9 I would’ve WW’d your post but somehow that didn’t seem right.

by Anonymousreply 57Last Saturday at 2:10 AM

R54, I started the Rampling thread and this is my first post on this thread, I believe. I don't think I'm a troll. I just happened to see a Rampling film the other day and was musing about her.

No desire to offend anyone. I enjoyed reading what others thought about her and agreed occasionally.

by Anonymousreply 58Last Saturday at 6:08 PM


Women now outnumber gay men here.

by Anonymousreply 59Last Saturday at 10:45 PM

Posting endless porn gifs seemed to get rid of the Twilighters

by Anonymousreply 60Last Saturday at 10:56 PM

The political and race-baiting threads haven't completely destroyed Datalounge. There are still some great threads and discussions that pop up.

I also enjoy the eldergay soap threads. I enjoy the threads which celebrate Hollywood royalty, like the current one about Jane Fonda vs. Barbra Streisand. And although I have been a lifelong fan of Madonna's, I enjoy the Madonna-bashing threads because, frankly, there is nothing that is being in said in them that she hasn't deserved. I just find they become less enjoyable when Janbot pops up.

But nothing beats a great film, music or book thread on DL.

by Anonymousreply 61Last Saturday at 11:02 PM

Streisand wins on a count of bringing a homosexual into the world.

by Anonymousreply 62Last Saturday at 11:04 PM

You mean THIS Christmas photo, R45?

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by Anonymousreply 63Last Saturday at 11:57 PM
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