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Sherri Shepherd - Barbara Walters Told Me To Read A Book

Recalls Sherri Shepherd about her time on The View: “Barbara was so hard on me. I cried for three years in my dressing room because she was so hard on me, but she did it out of love.”

At one point, Shepherd remembers the legendary journalist telling her, “I love you. I just need you to read a book, dear.”

Meow.

While dealing with Walters was challenging, Shepherd says it was actually the response to her remarks about Christianity and the LGBTQ community that proved to be the hardest thing for her to deal with.

Over the years, Shepherd made several insensitive and blatantly homophobic comments about LGBTQ people, including blaming gay men for spreading HIV to heterosexual black women, and frequently using the “love the sinner, hate the sin” argument when talking about homosexuality, in general.

Recalls Shepherd, “When people wanted to cancel me and take out full-page ads on me and take it outside The View, I would cry. Because I would go, ‘If you knew my heart.’ I came from doing standup and making people laugh and doing sitcoms.”

She continues, “I wish we were a culture of loving and going, ‘Let’s just see, hold on before we go, click, your entire life is done, your livelihood. You can never come back from this.’”

Shepherd says she has evolved since then and no longer holds her homophobic views or judges LGBTQ people.

“You love who you love,” she says today. “I’ve evolved. Look, my best friend, my best friend Tommy Borden, he’s been married to his husband, Jimmy, for the last 17 years. I couldn’t even make two marriages work past six years. Who am I to be judging anybody?”

Later in the interview, Shepherd gives credit to Rosie O’Donnell for sticking up for her when she was offered pennies on the dollar to the other co-hosts, which is an unfair reality for many Black women in America, who, on average, make 38% less than white men and 21% less than white women.

“I thank Rosie O’Donnell to this day,” says Shepherd, “because when I was being asked to join The View, they offered me less than Elisabeth Hasselbeck, who had only done Survivor and worked for Puma, making the tennis shoes.”

“There was no way I should have been offered less than Elisabeth Hasselbeck with my credits,” she continues.

“Rosie O’Donnell called me and she said, ‘This is what I make. This is what Joy makes. This is what Elizabeth makes. This is what you should ask for.’ She helped me negotiate through the entire process.”

by Anonymousreply 54September 2, 2020 8:33 PM

Agree! And? She hates gays. Whatever!

by Anonymousreply 1August 27, 2020 9:34 PM

[quote] She hates gays. Whatever!

Shepherd says she has evolved since then and no longer holds her homophobic views or judges LGBTQ people.

“You love who you love,” she says today. “I’ve evolved. Look, my best friend, my best friend Tommy Borden, he’s been married to his husband, Jimmy, for the last 17 years. I couldn’t even make two marriages work past six years. Who am I to be judging anybody?”

by Anonymousreply 2August 27, 2020 9:36 PM

That was very cool of Rosie and she wouldn't have "evolved" if people hadn't confronted her about her fucked up views.

by Anonymousreply 3August 27, 2020 9:36 PM

Anyone remember her sitcom on Lifetime? I forget what it was called.

by Anonymousreply 4August 27, 2020 9:41 PM

R4 it was called "Sherri"

by Anonymousreply 5August 27, 2020 9:43 PM

Oh duh hahaha R5 Thanks

by Anonymousreply 6August 27, 2020 9:43 PM

[quote] and she wouldn't have "evolved" if people hadn't confronted her about her fucked up views.

Who cares what made her attitude evolve. Homophobic attitudes don't normally evolve unless something drastic happens. If her attitude evolved then good for her for wising up.

by Anonymousreply 7August 27, 2020 9:48 PM

When a grown woman thinks the earth is flat, yeah, I would also agree with Barbara that they need to read a book.

by Anonymousreply 8August 27, 2020 9:48 PM

[quote]“Rosie O’Donnell called me and she said, ‘This is what I make. This is what Joy makes. This is what Elizabeth makes.

How did Rosie know what the others make?

And didn't Sherri have an agent to negotiate her contract?

by Anonymousreply 9August 27, 2020 9:56 PM

[quote]She continues, “I wish we were a culture of loving and going, ‘Let’s just see, hold on before we go, click, your entire life is done, your livelihood. You can never come back from this.’”

Homophobes love trotting this tired ass line out. The interviewer should have asked her if she felt the same way about Roseanne Barr's comments.

Did she evolve because she's genuinely come around, or because the high paying gigs have dried up?

by Anonymousreply 10August 27, 2020 10:03 PM

That's good she evolved about gay people. Is she still incredulous that the earth is round and not flat?

by Anonymousreply 11August 27, 2020 10:09 PM

Does anyone still remember Sherri Shepherd as a flat earth believer, a Christian with multiple abortions, and, finally, the mom of an irretrievably handicapped child whom she blamed on her contract husband who was ever much the hypocritical grifter that she was.

In the meantime, whatever happened to the child Christian Sherry rejected and vilified? At least, the villainess still has her Game Show Network to succor her, even if she has no idea what the word means in keeping with her proud ignorance.

by Anonymousreply 12August 27, 2020 10:20 PM

Yes I remember her being a somewhat likeable gullible, prejudiced moron.

by Anonymousreply 13August 27, 2020 10:22 PM

Still preferred her to the insufferable and proudly ignorant Hasselbeck

by Anonymousreply 14August 27, 2020 10:23 PM

Good for Barbara to tell her to read a book.

by Anonymousreply 15August 27, 2020 10:24 PM

She was a terrible host (not that I watched regularly.) Weirdly, I've always enjoyed her performances as a comedic actress -- in fact -- I think she comes across as a more intelligent woman when she's acting. I guess having writers helps. Good to hear she's "evolved," I guess. Took her long enough.

by Anonymousreply 16August 27, 2020 10:25 PM

[quote] And didn't Sherri have an agent to negotiate her contract?

She was coming from the West Coast and only had a Hollywood Agent who negotiated acting roles for her

[quote] How did Rosie know what the others make?

Barbara Walters probably told her, before Rosie joined the show (so Rosie would know how much to ask for when she first went on the show) at the time Babs & Rosie were really close, not so much now after working together.

by Anonymousreply 17August 27, 2020 10:29 PM

Has she kept quiet about the developmentally disabled son she blamed on her shiftless moment in the son boyfriend?

by Anonymousreply 18August 27, 2020 10:37 PM

This is Sherri's best work...

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by Anonymousreply 19August 27, 2020 10:44 PM

She was good on that quirky "Trial & Error" show with John Lithgow.

by Anonymousreply 20August 27, 2020 11:00 PM

She was hilarious on 30 Rock, too.

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by Anonymousreply 21August 28, 2020 1:32 AM

She apologized and said she no longer has those beliefs. Is it necessary to still drag her?

by Anonymousreply 22August 28, 2020 1:47 AM

Eldergays never forgive and never forget, R22.

by Anonymousreply 23August 28, 2020 1:53 AM

That was wrong of Barbara to tell her that. She should have presented her with her first book (one with plenty of pictures) to get her started on her journey.

by Anonymousreply 24August 28, 2020 2:14 AM

Rosie was probably incredulous that the very dumb Hasselbeck was considered a peer and getting paid to commentate. I'm guessing that's part of Rosie's motivation to get equal pay for Sherri. Whatever the motivation, glad it happened.

by Anonymousreply 25August 28, 2020 3:05 AM

I realize Rosie also had a crush on Hasselbeck. Smart people can get horny for dumb people.

by Anonymousreply 26August 28, 2020 3:06 AM

[quote]Smart people can get horny for dumb people

It's a time honored tradition R26. From the first caveman on.

I've had built but dim and been the dumbass in the relationship myself. Lust makes the world go 'round.

by Anonymousreply 27August 28, 2020 3:19 AM

[quote]That was very cool of Rosie and she wouldn't have "evolved" if people hadn't confronted her about her fucked up views.

The road to hell is paved with people who always believed they were right when confronted with the truth.

I'm happy she changed.

While she wasn't great for the View, I did think she was funny and she's a great comedic actress. She has been ever since she popped up on Friends years ago as Ross' coworker in a brief part.

by Anonymousreply 28August 28, 2020 3:49 AM

I like her and I"m glad she's evolved; she explained the whole earth is flat thing; she went blank for a minute certainly at the wrong time.

Good on Rosie for trying to help her.

All of the co-hosts I've disliked on that show, Sherri's not even top five.

by Anonymousreply 29August 28, 2020 3:53 AM

Thinking back on Hassleturd, Sherri and Babs, I can't decide which one made me cringe the most. Probably Hassleturd...

by Anonymousreply 30August 28, 2020 3:53 AM

Sherry's a View legend because she happened to be guest hosting on the day of Rosie and Elisabeth's big blow-up. Sherry and Joy tried in vain to calm down Rosie and Elisabeth and get the producers to cut; they even improvised some funny bits as the whole thing was going down.

by Anonymousreply 31August 28, 2020 4:30 AM

I've always hated this dumb bitch. Shame on Bah-Bah for bringing her up out of working at TJ Maxx where she belongs.

by Anonymousreply 32August 28, 2020 4:39 AM

She's a very good comedic actress and should continue to work. However, she doubled down on her ignorant views time and again. Others on the panel told her the other side and she wouldn't accept it.

Sorry - but she had YEARS to look into this while on the show. She didn't. She wanted to play the black Christian single mom role. Fine, but your bigotry isn't going to fly when you return to show business.

Still, I really enjoy her and would like to see her where she belongs - on a sitcom. She wasn't a good choice for The View as you can't use comedy THAT much in discussing politics, law, religion, etc.

by Anonymousreply 33August 28, 2020 4:49 AM

[quote] She wasn't a good choice for The View as you can't use comedy THAT much in discussing politics, law, religion, etc.

What? Joy and Whoopi are comedians. Colbert is basically a comedian. Comedians are perfect for political commentary.

by Anonymousreply 34August 28, 2020 4:55 AM

Barbara Walters gave the best advice she could to an arrogant standing up "Christian" cunt who didn't know anything about life or our world beyond her own snout and did not care to.

by Anonymousreply 35August 28, 2020 7:58 AM

Wait a second. You people are surprised that many of the churches that African Americans go to are homophobic? How do you think the term "on the down low" originated?

by Anonymousreply 36August 28, 2020 8:05 AM

I don’t like this “you love who you love” bullshit. Sex is involved. Sex matters. Gays aren’t just in love with a person. We are sexually attracted to men and want to have sex with men. “You love who you love” is her way of avoiding the problem she still probably has with gay men fucking each other and disobeying the word of God. If I’m going to be accepted by people like Sherri, I want her to accept all of it. Oh and is that gay friend really her BEST friend? And if so, fuck him for being her friend.

by Anonymousreply 37August 28, 2020 8:39 AM

R37 - Do you have any comment about the developmentally disabled "son" or his treatment?

by Anonymousreply 38August 28, 2020 8:51 AM

This homophobic cunt can die in a grease fire!!!! NEXT!!!

by Anonymousreply 39August 28, 2020 9:00 AM

Compared to Star Jones, Sherri was a bore-fest. Star brought the DRA-MA!

by Anonymousreply 40August 28, 2020 9:31 AM

Wasn't it African prostitutes who gave AIDS to the world? Maybe she needs to read "And The Band Played On"?

by Anonymousreply 41August 28, 2020 11:24 AM

HAM!

by Anonymousreply 42August 28, 2020 11:42 AM

"And the Band Played On" is a work of fiction based on some true events.

by Anonymousreply 43August 28, 2020 4:43 PM

R37, it is about love. Eventually, you're going to fall in love with one of those people you're fucking. Or you're going to fall in love with someone you haven't fucked. And if that person loves you back, then you'll both want your love to be recognized as significant as the "standard" kind of love.

by Anonymousreply 44August 28, 2020 4:50 PM

[quote] I don’t like this “you love who you love” bullshit. Sex is involved. Sex matters. Gays aren’t just in love with a person. We are sexually attracted to men and want to have sex with men. “You love who you love” is her way of avoiding the problem she still probably has with gay men fucking each other and disobeying the word of God.

I think she was sincere. She's not gonna talk about fucking and sucking, whether it's between homosexuals or heterosexuals. She admitted she has had 2 failed heterosexual marriages & that she's no expert. She also acknowledged that homosexuals have actual love for each other (i.e., it's more than just a freak sex thing, it's hard-wired, it's an orientation). That's my take on it.

by Anonymousreply 45August 28, 2020 5:21 PM

I should have put the "freak sex" in quotations. I don't think of it that way, but some do.

by Anonymousreply 46August 28, 2020 5:24 PM

R36 She was raised a Jehovah's Witness. They also believe homosexuality is wrong. So she wasn't raised as a Baptist. She left the JW's prior to coming onto The View. The problem with her was not that she was was a comedian, it was that she was dumb as a brick.

by Anonymousreply 47August 28, 2020 10:36 PM

R47, I think it would be fair to say that more African Americans, religious or not, have a problem with homosexuality when compared to whites. Then again, many white straight people know on an intellectual level that they should be accepting of gays but the way they act is disappointing. They show in all kinds of ways that we're not truly their equals.

by Anonymousreply 48August 28, 2020 11:19 PM

For people who keep asking about her son: I read the article in People mag and she says she loves him fiercely. He is a young man now. You can tell he is developmentally disabled, but he's a cutie. <--sorry for being frauish, but he is.

by Anonymousreply 49September 1, 2020 2:03 PM

She has not evolved if she is using that goddamn acronym.

by Anonymousreply 50September 1, 2020 2:39 PM

Maybe she has evolved because her best friend Niecy Nash married a woman last weekend.

I say we give her a chance.

by Anonymousreply 51September 1, 2020 8:10 PM

I like Sherri and I think she's funny. She was raised in an extremely religious household and it did a number on her personally, but she grew. Im glad life experience has changed her outlook on gays. She has also been very transparent sharing all her personal problems with world with the intent to help other people. Im also thrilled that her best friend Niecy Nash is out the closet!

by Anonymousreply 52September 1, 2020 10:44 PM

Isn't she a baby-abandoner?

by Anonymousreply 53September 2, 2020 4:32 PM

Maybe, R53. She was tricked into a surrogacy agreement by a man who only wanted her money. She now has to pay him child support.

by Anonymousreply 54September 2, 2020 8:33 PM
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