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What Did a Crush Do That Made You Instantly Lose Interest in Him/Her?

Light up a smoke after dinner? Engage in road rage on the way to somewhere? Talked endlessly about an ex?

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by Anonymousreply 243Last Tuesday at 3:40 PM

Weird subtle racist remarks/jokes

by Anonymousreply 108/22/2020

White after Labor Day. Unforgivable.

by Anonymousreply 208/22/2020

That's not true any more.

by Anonymousreply 308/22/2020

Funny how this was a popular thread on Reddit today, and the same exact subject appears on Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 408/22/2020

They said they were fucking someone who was not only much older, but married as well. Totally grossed out after hearing that and it was obvious they had no morals and would have no problem cheating if they could admit that with no problem.

by Anonymousreply 508/22/2020

Said they didn't like animals. What kind of piece of shit does not like animals?

by Anonymousreply 608/22/2020

They didn’t reciprocate with the same feelings after I told them how I felt. Much as the grey area and having hope can be a good place to be for a while, it’s very freeing knowing for definite someone doesn’t feel the same. I’ve always found that helps me move on. And you get to do so without any ‘what ifs’.

by Anonymousreply 708/22/2020


Park the U-haul.

by Anonymousreply 808/22/2020

Admitted to posting on DL

by Anonymousreply 908/22/2020

Very rude to a waiter, that ended it.

by Anonymousreply 1008/22/2020

Insisted on calling me "Uncle Bill" the 1st and only time we had sex. My name isnt Bill. Then bursting into tears when he came just sealed the deal . So cute,so fucking weird.

by Anonymousreply 1108/22/2020

Married a woman

by Anonymousreply 1208/22/2020

We went to see a movie. His ex showed up at the theater, too. Dirty, disheveled, greasy hair. Totally scuzzy. Sat down next to me and farted nonstop the entire run of the feature.

Okay...if that's your type, you're not mine.

by Anonymousreply 1308/22/2020

Showed up for aerobics in sweats and PF Flyers.

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by Anonymousreply 1408/22/2020

Asked me to throw a pie in his face. Really.

by Anonymousreply 1508/22/2020

He got into the bottom position with his legs up—before me.

by Anonymousreply 1608/22/2020

Claimed that they didn't drink or smoke weed.

by Anonymousreply 1708/22/2020

Stabbed me in the heart with a fucking pencil when I expressed my feelings.

by Anonymousreply 1808/22/2020

Directed a few lame horror movies.

by Anonymousreply 1908/22/2020

You've got my life R19. Was one of them 976-Evil by any chance?

by Anonymousreply 2008/22/2020

R16 - Funny!!!!

by Anonymousreply 2108/22/2020

He told me I could be good-looking if I got some plastic surgery.

by Anonymousreply 2208/22/2020

Kissed me tenderly on my birthday then a week later denied it had ever happened.

by Anonymousreply 2308/22/2020

Simple. He told me he wasn't interested in ME.

by Anonymousreply 2408/22/2020

Raped me.

Well, actually it was the tiny meat, but the rape (or should I say "rape") revealed the fact to me.


by Anonymousreply 2508/22/2020

Farted really loud in bed, and acted like nothing ever happened.

by Anonymousreply 2608/22/2020

R26 I actually knew a guy that would do that on purpose. It was like a test. If they reacted snottily he quit dating them . Was your guy named kent ???

by Anonymousreply 2708/22/2020

It's called a Dutch Oven. But you have to pull the covers over the victim so he is trapped.

by Anonymousreply 2808/22/2020

Took me up to the Hollywood Hills to show me the beautiful view. Then proceeded to pull out a hypodermic needle and shot up. Not so sexy.

by Anonymousreply 2908/22/2020

He shot my kitchen. Ruined the moment, and the dinner.

by Anonymousreply 3008/22/2020

Had a tattoo.

by Anonymousreply 3108/22/2020

Told me my pussy stank.

by Anonymousreply 3208/22/2020

Wore diarrhea brown long johns with multiple holes in them. He had a sexy body but he looked so awful in them my interest waned in an instant.

by Anonymousreply 3308/22/2020

Just to clarify, OP asked about an actual crush, not just someone you went out with.

by Anonymousreply 3408/22/2020

Thank-you, R34. What's your point?

by Anonymousreply 3508/22/2020

R35 What's your question?

by Anonymousreply 3608/22/2020

He showed me his poverty-stricken life. I quit!

by Anonymousreply 3708/22/2020

Lol but he did direct The Prodigy.

by Anonymousreply 3808/22/2020

Real life crush - turned out to be a white supremacist

Celebrity crush - I fell for Jim Caviezel when I saw him in The Thin Red Line. Then I found out he was a far right wingnut who supported Rick Santorum

by Anonymousreply 3908/22/2020

He’d dated a drag queen.

Wonder what happened to that guy.

by Anonymousreply 4008/22/2020


He stood me up for a date-lite at 9 and then showed up at 2 am wanting to come in and fuck.

Instant de-crush.

by Anonymousreply 4108/22/2020

[quote]Lol [R20] but he did direct The Prodigy.

Different guy. Difference decade. The Prodigy came out in 2019. My guy wasn't the director -- that was Robert "Freddy" Englund. He was the writer. Don't know what yours did but my friend was an un-medicated bipolar rich guy heavy into freaky kinds of S&M. And I'm just too vanilla for that stuff. Nice guy otherwise though.

by Anonymousreply 4208/22/2020

Posting stupid memes on Instagram.

by Anonymousreply 4308/22/2020

I had a crush on a man for a decade. It made sense at first because I saw him everyday, but then it continued when I saw him maybe once every two years.

I saw him recently. He still looks great. But I have no interest now. Just because I have a new crush. Not having any fresh material to crush on kills a crush eventually when there are other men around.

by Anonymousreply 4408/22/2020

This isn't me but a friend had a huge crush on a guy he'd see on the train. They actually flirted and met. He found out the guy was married with a new baby and terrified of STDs. My friend decided to seduce him one night by giving him a blow job through the window of his car in a parking lot. His legs were sticking out the window and he went to work. The man was so horrified and my friend managed to eject himself from the window before the guy rolled it up and tore off in his car. I guess he lost interest lol.

by Anonymousreply 4508/22/2020

Kept going on about how much he liked ‘Beef Strokinoff.’ Said it about three times. Hahahaha.

by Anonymousreply 4608/22/2020

I didn't like Stevie, so he dropped me...

by Anonymousreply 4708/22/2020

Expressed sympathy for Trump because the press was so mean to him.

by Anonymousreply 4808/22/2020

He said "Delish" when we were talking about America's Test Kitchen.

by Anonymousreply 4908/22/2020

Dining out, when he paid for us he ordered a cheeseburger, when I was paying for us, he ordered the most expensive steak on the menu. He had money. Cheap bastard.

by Anonymousreply 5008/22/2020

Was a decent kisser the first time I went out with him but he just took me to the beach. I was underage so he said we couldn’t go anywhere or do anything much. Looked me up 3 years later or so and when I thought we were going to go out he had on sweat shorts and I didn’t realize I was meeting him at some friend’s apartment. He was so obviously not dressed to go anywhere. He wanted a booty call so I left.

by Anonymousreply 5108/22/2020

Drained pasta.

by Anonymousreply 5208/22/2020

Yanked his puppy’s leash and dragged the yelping baby. He went from being muscular, handsome, and hairy to being a snotty, spoiled brat.

by Anonymousreply 5308/22/2020

I found out he fucked one of my friends and took the condom off while he was passed out on a Maximum Impact high. That’s basically rape.

by Anonymousreply 5408/22/2020

My big strong manly crush turned into a prissy little diva after one drink. It was very off-putting.

by Anonymousreply 5508/22/2020

I kind of wish the man I'm currently obsessed with would do something like strangle a puppy so I could get over him.

by Anonymousreply 5608/22/2020

At a work event ate really weirdly (not great table manners) and then, after everyone had been drinking, was an overly enthusiastic dancer. Like Elaine Benis but as I was the only sober person no one else really noticed. They were all dancing badly but he was really noticeable. Then a few of us had a late dinner, he ate, exited abruptly and didn’t pay. Total end of crush. Too many weird things at once.

by Anonymousreply 5708/23/2020

Dean Cain: Jeezus...did he look good in that costume. Then I found out about his politics...instant dick wilter.

OJ Simpson: he was a good-looking man, then...well, we all know what happened next.

In real life, there was a guy in college who was really good-looking, nice body (like the Soloflex guy), wore the tightest jeans, and had such a cute, muscular butt...then I witnessed him bully another guy. From total stud to total jerk-off.

by Anonymousreply 5808/23/2020

Self-hating Jew

by Anonymousreply 5908/23/2020

I'd meet the occasional Jew Hating Self. Was at a dinner party at some fancy party and this drunk queen says to me "I had to stop six times coming over here for these jews who wouldn't get out of my way." I swear he said that. Everyone stopped with their forks midway to their mouths. And then they all looked at me.

by Anonymousreply 6008/23/2020

I had a crush in college with beautiful blue eyes and jet black hair. We finally ended up dancing and making out on the dance floor at the LimeLight and I was so excited to pursue it further.

Then someone told me he dyed his hair and wore blue contacts. Instant turn off and I immediately quit pursuing him.

by Anonymousreply 6108/23/2020

Outed me to his gaggle of fags. When I wasn’t out yet.

by Anonymousreply 6208/23/2020

r61 that's not very nice

by Anonymousreply 6308/23/2020

Is a Republican...PASS!!!

by Anonymousreply 6408/23/2020

Didn’t like FOLLIES.

by Anonymousreply 6508/23/2020

Moved to Texas and ghosted me

by Anonymousreply 6608/23/2020

I had a very new friendship with a guy i adored. We were young, early 20's, he comes to my house one night crying. He's got spots on his dick. He's scared. Will i go to the STI clinic with him. It's syphilis. He doesn't know who he got it from because he had been with so many guys in a two week period!! This should have been a warning sign. I'm not a judgmental person. I feel sorry for him. I ignored the many warning signs. In the subsequent months I fall in love with him. It ended terribly, he was an absolute cunt. Listen to your instincts. I still love the bastard though.

by Anonymousreply 6708/23/2020

Said Gone With the Wind was a stupid movie and laughed at my collection of porcelain Scarlett O'Hara dolls

by Anonymousreply 6808/23/2020

He audibly farted while FaceTiming. And like, his face scrunched up and everything.

by Anonymousreply 6908/23/2020

Sometimes, reading people's writing will be a turn-off (bad spelling, can't figure out contractions, etc.).

by Anonymousreply 7008/23/2020

He talked about cheating on an ex as if it were nothing.

Being a slut is fine, if that's the agreement. Being a shameless dishonest whore is not.

by Anonymousreply 7108/23/2020

Supporting QAnon

by Anonymousreply 7208/23/2020

He told me he had been with 7 guys in one weekend. Yeah, no thanks.

by Anonymousreply 7308/23/2020

Prep signals to me you're not necessarily looking after your health, but you're an irresponsible slut. You might not have HIV but you probably have everything else.

by Anonymousreply 7408/23/2020

[quote]I had a crush on a man for a decade.

That’s just sad. Please tell me that even though you had a crush on him that you still dated/had relationships with other people during this time?

by Anonymousreply 7508/24/2020

[quote]That’s just sad. Please tell me that even though you had a crush on him that you still dated/had relationships with other people during this time?


And that's not even the saddest thing about my romantic stories.

by Anonymousreply 7608/24/2020

They don’t like to have kids

by Anonymousreply 7708/24/2020


First - on a date told me he was cheating on his boyfriend. We didn’t have desert

Second - went back to his place, we made out got naked and he proceeded to shoot up. With what I don’t know. I Got dressed and walked out. His last words as I left, whatev....

by Anonymousreply 7808/24/2020

Says he is not a fan of musicals

by Anonymousreply 7908/24/2020

Littering. It's so careless and says a lot about you as a person.

by Anonymousreply 8008/24/2020

R58 my crush actually bullied *me*.

It must have majorly fucked me up somehow, because I’ve never had a relationship or a sexual encounter and can’t envisage myself being successfully able to, either.

by Anonymousreply 8108/24/2020


'Desert' has one 'S', it stands for Sand; 'Dessert' has two 'S's, for Sugary Sweet. You're Welcome.

by Anonymousreply 8208/24/2020

Kept asking me--several times a day--"Do you love me?" After the first time or two....

by Anonymousreply 8308/24/2020

R81 Care to develop? Do you attribute his bullying as the sole reason for your lack of intimate experiences? Did he bully you for being gay?

by Anonymousreply 8408/24/2020

He was obviously gay (talented, gorgeous, built) but would go out of his way to gush over his completely heterosexual marriage to a much older dumpy woman named Deborah. But with his Australian accent it came out Dibra.

Now I don't crush on him at all. Its gone.

by Anonymousreply 8508/24/2020

The usual. He aged badly.

by Anonymousreply 8608/24/2020

Does being HIV+ make people lose interest too ?

by Anonymousreply 8708/24/2020

Perfect guy, handsome, good job and lovely to around. Then one night he made dinner and drained the pasta in a colander over under cold water...

by Anonymousreply 8808/24/2020

We went to the beach and he strips off his shorts and was wearing the cheesiest RAINBOW striped bikini.

by Anonymousreply 8908/24/2020

He asked me for nudes so I sent them and then I found out he was showing them to his friends without my knowledge or consent.

by Anonymousreply 9008/24/2020

R90 that’s fucking terrible. Did you get some payback? I’d be furious, and probably get a complex if someone did that to me.

by Anonymousreply 9108/24/2020

R90 honey everyone does that.

by Anonymousreply 9208/24/2020

Made me watch a really bad movie he had made, all two hours plus of it. Dick wilter.

by Anonymousreply 9308/24/2020

R84 ah, I should have elaborated, but I didn’t think anyone would care because it’s long-winded childish #lesbiandrama.

You probably still won’t care now and I don’t blame you, but for anyone interested or for any babydykes who may wander past; I got picked on by a straight girl I was in love with during senior year, because she was a mean bitch and because I was nerdy and passive and just a walking target in general. As far as I know, it was nothing to do with me being gay, unless my bully had homophobia issues I knew nothing about.

My crush was tall and willowy, pretty, blonde, and the lead in the Drama club. She was the extroverted and tough but sensitive androgynous type, tending to wear leather jackets to school and sneak out to concerts but also cry over romantic movies and get giggly or shy when her boyfriend - high-achieving, wealthy, hippie type - brought her flowers. She was popular, well-liked, and nice and friendly to everyone but me. It was a mindfuck.

This girl would screw with me knowing that I had a past history of being bullied, and in retrospect probably knowing I had a crush on her too. She would do things like steal my bag in homeroom, take everything out to pass around and mock with her friends; or deliberately walk hard into me and trip me up passing in the halls; or badmouth me to other students with the most ridiculous rumors (like a teacher got me pregnant), and make fun of me in class when I had to give a presentation or answer a question (a joke the teachers all found hilarious, encouragingly); or flirt with me in class to confuse me, then literally turn her back and ignore me when I smiled over at her in the common rooms trying foolishly to make amends.

We were both 17 and I’d had years of this treatment from other girls by then, so I really should have stood up for myself and called her out publicly to put a stop to it. However, my emotions and hormones got in the way. Gods know why I desired her and admired her at all when she acted like such an immature juvenile bitch, but the heart wants what it wants and I wrongly perceived we had an energetic connection of some sort. I thought she was a talented actress, a witty and smart individual, good-hearted when she thought to be, and someone with confidence I wanted for myself. I was so jealous of her boyfriend I couldn’t stand sitting next to him and making friendly small-talk in our shared classes. So the whole thing was a two-way street, for which I now take my part of responsibility.

One memorable occasion on Valentines’, she left me a flower on my desk (with a lovenote in her handwriting) inplain view of everyone, then when I saw it and asked her about it she denied all knowledge of it and started asking everyone if they knew of the insane individual who’d do such a thing. I’ve never forgotten that, and I think it has wired my mind to believing that my own feelings of desire or intimacy are something shameful and deserving of humiliation. I’ve spoken to therapists about it and have been unable to shake the fear or the memory.

My pattern now is falling for unavailable people who treat me inequally and with disdain (whether via direct put-downs or immediate unsubtle ghosting), or who just don’t take me seriously. I rarely experience people showing attraction toward me, but on the few occasions where that has happened I found the suitors (so to speak) unattractive and creepy on some level. Envisaging a future where I am happy and have a partner of any description completely eludes me - my mind is blank. I really don’t know what to do about it.

by Anonymousreply 9408/24/2020

He open wallot with no monies! After I gave pee pee show!

by Anonymousreply 9508/24/2020

Cheer up r94! You've recognised the pattern, but that insight is inert without action, it's hard, I would guess. And no amount of what other people say will make you feel different in and of itself. While you draw breath there is hope, even if you only live to spite those who caused you so much pain and grief.


by Anonymousreply 9608/24/2020

R81/R94 Was this in the 60’s or 70’s since you mentioned hippie?

by Anonymousreply 9708/24/2020

Decided he was non-binary and started insisting on they/them pronouns

by Anonymousreply 9808/24/2020

He preferred messy jelly lube instead of liquid lube.

by Anonymousreply 9908/24/2020

He pulled down his pants to reveal an ugly smelly stink fish pussy. I was catfished by a MTF! The horror!

by Anonymousreply 10008/24/2020

Sorry FTM... we’ve been drinking

by Anonymousreply 10108/24/2020

R97 haha no it did not! This only took place about 12 years, in fact. I use the word “hippie” because my parents do.

R96 thank you for your kind words, that’s very sweet. I know intellectually that you’re right, of course. The best revenge really is living well. My challenge in life so far has been getting my heart and emotions to agree with my head, and change my actions accordingly. Anyone got tips for doing that?

by Anonymousreply 10208/24/2020

^^12 years AGO. God I hate this posting format.

by Anonymousreply 10308/24/2020

They told me they frequent a website called Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 10408/24/2020

Dirty fingernails.

by Anonymousreply 10508/24/2020

Got religion.

by Anonymousreply 10608/24/2020

I had no idea beggars could be this choosy.

by Anonymousreply 10708/24/2020

Fight with a waitress an Indian restaurant about the cultural relevance of tea in India. He knew he had fucked up and the rest of the meal was excruciating as was the rid home and inevitable “talk.”

by Anonymousreply 10808/24/2020

R108 Oh god - the waitress probably spit, pissed, or shit in your food if the fight was before the meal.

by Anonymousreply 10908/24/2020

Well, i was on the other end. My boyfriend left me when i got throat cancer. I guess it was a deal breaker. Like THE day i was diagnosed. I was too distraught to be angry, People are cunts.

by Anonymousreply 11008/24/2020

R108 Details? What did he say to her?

by Anonymousreply 11108/24/2020

R110 Be glad you didn’t waste another moment with that piece of shit.

by Anonymousreply 11208/24/2020

R108 I don’t recall much, just that it was chai related, maybe about having milk? It was interesting because he knew he fucked up, but continued to bury himself deeper instead of concede that he was wrong, apologize and move on. It was that arrogance of needing to be right and his attempt, or whatever it was, to impress me that was the undoing. If he just would have been a gentleman, said he didn’t know what he was talking about I wouldn’t even remember. Oh, and if it wasn’t clear the waitress was Indian and I think part of the family of the owners.

by Anonymousreply 11308/24/2020

I thought “crush” meant a one-sided affection that delightfully suspends all constraints and kind of objectifies them.

by Anonymousreply 11408/24/2020

Had a crush on my vet. She calls me later in the day after I had taken my dog in for blood work. We are chatting and by the conversation it is obvious she is a conservative.

by Anonymousreply 11508/24/2020

As he disrobed, he was wearing a black vinyl thong with a zipper down the front. I'm a fraidy-cat.

by Anonymousreply 11608/24/2020

R87, only if it's full-blown AJDS.

by Anonymousreply 11708/24/2020

I've been crushing on the same guy for a year. Haven't met him yet. I'm sick of this obsession and wish I could meet him and learn he has bad breath or body odor or some other awful trait. I need to learn something nasty about him to lose this fixation. I'm wasting my own life wanting him.

by Anonymousreply 11808/24/2020

R70 I’ve been turned off after reading crushes’ Facebook posts- I don’t mind typos or innocent grammatical/spelling errors, but consistently misusing basic words like your/you’re makes me lose respect.

R87 and R117 I’ve totally lost interest in guys after finding them on Grindr and reading that they’re poz and/or into bb.

R118 my current crush (of about a month) is also someone I have never met. He literally doesn’t know I exist.

I had a huge crush on one of my grad school classmates for several months until I found out he was straight.

by Anonymousreply 11908/24/2020

Show me his disgusting narcissistic personality behind closed doors. He love bombed me, flattered me, treated me like a queen until I finally moved in with him. Then his cray came out. I was so appalled. I didn’t even stay with him for a full year before deciding to hide my money and move out.

by Anonymousreply 12008/24/2020

R61, you couldn't tell they were contacts? Those colored contacts give you lizard eyes; they look very strange.

by Anonymousreply 12108/25/2020

[Quote] He was obviously gay (talented, gorgeous, built) but would go out of his way to gush over his completely heterosexual marriage to a much older dumpy woman named Deborah. But with his Australian accent it came out Dibra.

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by Anonymousreply 12208/25/2020

I'm usually the one who fucks it up and makes them lose interest in me, not the other way around.

by Anonymousreply 12308/25/2020

R123 do you shit on dicks?

by Anonymousreply 12408/25/2020

He said he believed in God. I laughed and then pitied him.

by Anonymousreply 12508/25/2020

On a third date, I inadvertently mentioned that I didn't really find back hair attractive, after he prompted me by commenting on another guy's hairy back. Oops.

A couple dates later, it was time for a sleepover. We had a fun night. Come morning light, I see blood spots all over my sheets when he got up to pee. When he returned, he started crying and told me he had his back waxed. He bled on my sheets; it was over.

by Anonymousreply 12608/25/2020

Aw that was sweet of him, r126. I’m not a back hair fan either but I give him bonus points for trying to please you

by Anonymousreply 12708/25/2020

R126, you come off as kind of a cunt. Having back hair is not that unusual. You better stick with guys who have no body hair at all if you want to avoid back hair totally. I feel sad for your fling for having in the first place try to please you and then be humiliated enough to shed a few tears for you.

by Anonymousreply 12808/25/2020

Dragged me to ‘friends helping friends’ pyramid scheme and later an EST type seminar, both designed to steal my money and my sanity

I no longer could fool myself into feeling safe around him

by Anonymousreply 12908/25/2020

Some of you deserve to be alone

by Anonymousreply 13008/25/2020

He tried to sell me Amway products

by Anonymousreply 13108/25/2020

Such delicate flowers on here ! Back hair grosses you out ? What about ass crack hair ? Or ear hair ? R126 you sound like a real piece of work and Id be safe in betting you will die alone. The man went through a painful and unnecessary procedure just to please you and you were pissed ? You're not just a cunt,you're an uber cunt !

by Anonymousreply 13208/25/2020

[quote] Funny how this was a popular thread on Reddit today, and the same exact subject appears on Datalounge.

Um, yeah, that happens all the time. Same with Twitter threads.

by Anonymousreply 13308/25/2020


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by Anonymousreply 13408/25/2020

R131 you’re misremembering, Jay, honey. It was Confederated Products. And he was a straight guy.

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by Anonymousreply 13508/25/2020

Did not meet with Mother's approval!!

by Anonymousreply 13608/25/2020

Wow I forgot about guys like R129's. I've had 2 dates that turned into MLM pitches.

by Anonymousreply 13708/25/2020

R126 you are a nasty cunt.

by Anonymousreply 13808/25/2020

We went out to dinner and he asked for sugar and lemons so he could make his own lemonade at the table....😒

by Anonymousreply 13908/25/2020

Told me that he still lived at home with his parents...he was forty.

by Anonymousreply 14008/25/2020

Proper back waxing does not result in a person bleeding. A good esthetician could wax a gorilla and leave her smooth.

But R126 certainly represents one end of the "Date from Hell" spectrum. Not the bleeder, who sounds like someone needing true caring.

by Anonymousreply 14108/25/2020

His head started to smell really bad, even in the refrigerator.

by Anonymousreply 14208/25/2020

R142 Well to be fair about it dear,when he said he wanted to give you head I dont think he meant it quite that way.

by Anonymousreply 14308/25/2020

Not in my program/major

by Anonymousreply 14408/25/2020

sent me a picture of their poop

by Anonymousreply 14508/25/2020

He should have dumped you, r126.

by Anonymousreply 14608/25/2020

I LOVE back hair!

by Anonymousreply 14708/25/2020

Had a crush for several years on a guy who was absolutely gorgeous. The most beautiful man I’d ever seen and while I knew it was nothing more than a crush, it was always a pleasure to be around him just to look at him. His personality was odd and the crush finally died when I found out he had been indicted for child pornography and is now doing several years in a federal prison.

by Anonymousreply 14808/25/2020

R140 how do you know he didn’t have a good reason for living with them, like having to take care of them?

by Anonymousreply 14908/25/2020

Had to ask his husband’s permission.

by Anonymousreply 15008/25/2020

R148 brrrrr.

But for the gender, that happened on a particularly good episode of BAD GIRLS.

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by Anonymousreply 15108/26/2020

Ricky Martin - started buying kids one after the other.

by Anonymousreply 15208/26/2020

Rude to waitstaff seems to be a theme. Reminds me of the scene from cable guy where Owen Wilson is such a douche on a date.

Especially the part where he tries to feign interest in his dates life. That’s a killer.

by Anonymousreply 15308/26/2020

Men who interrupt you.

by Anonymousreply 15408/26/2020

R154 OT but my father does that to women, and it drives me fucking crazy.

by Anonymousreply 15508/26/2020

R155, not OT. It’s so fucking rude to do it to anyone.

by Anonymousreply 15608/26/2020

Start a thread on Datalounge.

by Anonymousreply 15708/26/2020

yoga he was this northern European/nordic type, uncut, hung, not overly built . but that was it for me. he finished up with a headstand. I still cringe thinking about this

you never know someone until you've seen his morning routine

by Anonymousreply 15808/26/2020

He never brought his wallet.

by Anonymousreply 15908/26/2020

R158 and the problem was?

by Anonymousreply 16008/26/2020

R158 and the problem was?

by Anonymousreply 16108/26/2020

Used the words "stank sleeve".

by Anonymousreply 16208/26/2020

men who cannot spell

by Anonymousreply 16308/26/2020

R163, their the wurst

by Anonymousreply 16408/26/2020

yoga, R161? really?

what are we going to do afterwards, go out for brunch and shopping?

I NEVER rag on femmy guys, or give anyone shit about their lisp or their Liza albums. but I cant get hard to that. sorry.

by Anonymousreply 16508/26/2020

Bad breath.

by Anonymousreply 16608/26/2020

Some of you picky cunts deserve to die alone

by Anonymousreply 16708/27/2020

At the time I was only 18 and had a beautiful fluffy, friendly lionhead rabbit which I was very fond of. He refused to touch it and actually backed away, despite not being allergic.

by Anonymousreply 16808/27/2020

R165 I assume yoga itself wasn't the issue, but his personality.

Yoga in itself is just a type of exercize, and it is very healthy for anyone.

by Anonymousreply 16908/27/2020

I mentioned this before — dating a bear is burp and fart central. I used to be into hairy and husky guys and dated a few, but many think farting, burping and bathroom humor is hilarious. Oh course we all do it, but making such a show of being crude killed any crush. I finally realized bears are just the adult version the gross fat kid from your childhood that was always eating and busting ass and laughing about it. No thanks.

by Anonymousreply 17008/27/2020

[quote]At the time I was only 18 and had a beautiful fluffy, friendly lionhead rabbit which I was very fond of. He refused to touch it and actually backed away, despite not being allergic.

I love animals but I personally have never felt any need to pet rabbits. Some are super fluffy and pretty but they seem somehow way wilder than cats or dogs, and you sort of feel they don't want you near them, or at least that's how as an outsider see them. I actually totally get why someone would back away but I totally get why you didn't want to have anything to do with him. A pet comes always before a stranger. I could never date anyone who didn't get along with my pets.

by Anonymousreply 17108/27/2020

We were talking about kilts (which I occasionally wear for formal events and which piqued his interest). He volunteered that he liked the idea of wearing a kilt because he sometimes wished he was a girl. Already 3 or 4 implications I didn't have the interest in unpacking, just in that statement. Conversation nosedived from there and I haven't kept up with him since.

by Anonymousreply 17208/27/2020

He used the word "unpack" in a sentence very similar to "Already 3 or 4 implications I didn't have the interest in unpacking, just in that statement."

by Anonymousreply 17308/27/2020

R110, that is so fucked up to the point of absurd.

by Anonymousreply 17408/27/2020

Borrowed my thermos and never returned it.

by Anonymousreply 17508/27/2020

can't kiss--has happened too many times to count

by Anonymousreply 17608/27/2020

Bad kissers can be trained R176. My 1st husband wasnt very good,I just dont think he had a lot of practice. But he was a helluva lay,so I took the time to teach him . He ended up being an amazing kisser,maybe even better than me!

by Anonymousreply 17708/27/2020

Out on a first date he had a dismissive attitude to the server then leaned over fingering my collar and told me my collar stays were missing.

Then he sniffed and polished his fork with the napkin.

I endured but soon fled.

by Anonymousreply 17808/27/2020

His doll collection

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by Anonymousreply 17908/27/2020

R170 If I could pin a comment to the top of the page, this would be it.

by Anonymousreply 18008/27/2020

Except for the "dismissive of server" part, I could possibly have been r178's date.

by Anonymousreply 18108/27/2020

R179 even a buff guy with dolls? (sorry, “figures”)

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by Anonymousreply 18208/28/2020

R158 dumped someone for doing yoga?

I’m sorry, what?

by Anonymousreply 18308/28/2020

[quote]what are we going to do afterwards, go out for brunch and shopping?

Someone sounds quite damaged. Wonder how many crushes you’ve killed just by opening your mouth.

by Anonymousreply 18408/28/2020

Bragged that his only sources of news were "The Daily Show" and Steven Colbert.

by Anonymousreply 18508/28/2020

R185, give me his number 💖💖

by Anonymousreply 18608/28/2020

Began to smoke a cigarette while I was going down on him.

by Anonymousreply 18708/28/2020

R187 -- Did he at least have the manners to ask if you minded if he smoked while you were eating?

by Anonymousreply 18808/29/2020

The revelation that all of his friends were awful, vapid, mean people. He seemed like the sweetest guy, but show me your friends ...

by Anonymousreply 18908/29/2020

hmmm R189. sounds like he tends to attract creeps....

by Anonymousreply 19008/29/2020

Left a $2 tip when much, much more was required for the bill

by Anonymousreply 19108/29/2020

would not stop talking about astrology

like, he's never on time this week because something is retrograde rising in his venus. ok

by Anonymousreply 19208/29/2020

Confessed that I would be hotter if spoke with a heavier FOB Asian accent

by Anonymousreply 19308/29/2020

R189, were you dating Jonathan Groff?

by Anonymousreply 19408/29/2020

Get old.

by Anonymousreply 19508/29/2020

He said he liked Trump because he got a tax cut

by Anonymousreply 19608/29/2020

When I was 14 I had a crush in this cute skater in my class. However, my feelings for him evaporated when I found out he smoked pot! Man, I was lame...

by Anonymousreply 19708/29/2020

Saw him picking his nose when I was returning from the table from the bathroom. Had his whole finger up there and was really going to town. I circled back and ask the hostess something then came back in hopes that he was done with the cavity search. Needless to say we parted and there was no second date.

by Anonymousreply 19808/29/2020

He was immediately dumped when his inability to properly load a dishwasher was discovered.

by Anonymousreply 19908/29/2020

use the word pimp as part of her email address

by Anonymousreply 20008/29/2020

Vulnerable to the DL firing squad here, but; called me “needy” and cut off all contact after I put them up on my couch, fed them, and monitored how they were during a difficult recovery from a potentially-fatal crisis of health.

by Anonymousreply 20108/30/2020

You made the right call, r197.

by Anonymousreply 20208/30/2020

I had a crush of a really cute guy and he seemed somewhat into me too.

We went on a lunch date and he had a hair sticking out from his nostril. I was young and petty so I immediately thought he was gross

by Anonymousreply 20308/30/2020

He actually responding positively to my embarrassing overtures. I ran like an Olympiad.

by Anonymousreply 20408/30/2020

R204 Sorry- responded

by Anonymousreply 20508/30/2020

Opened his mouth.

by Anonymousreply 20608/30/2020

Laughed when his cat puked in my shoes.

by Anonymousreply 20708/30/2020

[quote] had a beautiful fluffy, friendly lionhead rabbit

As a pet?

Sounds like he dodged a bullet.

by Anonymousreply 20808/30/2020

R191 and did you make up the difference yourself to give the server a "full" tip, or did you just sit in silence and complained to us later like a beta coward?

by Anonymousreply 20908/30/2020

Chewing on his nails while we're having a conversation. At least we weren't eating at the time--or, well, I wasn't anyway. Stomach-turning...

by Anonymousreply 21008/30/2020

Farted LOUD on one of those plastic booth benches while we were eating and the sound reverberated throughout the place. People turned around and looked and he laughed. We were finished so I told him I had to get running.

by Anonymousreply 21108/30/2020

Recently went on socially distanced date going on walk w/my dog in tow. Convo flowed well up until he stuck foot out to trip dog's hind leg. End of date

by Anonymousreply 21208/30/2020

OMFG I cant even with all these fart stories ! I told any man I ever dated right up front "an occasional slip is one thing,but making a production out of it is another entirely and I will NOT have it" ! I grew up in a family of farters who thought it the height of hilarity and it repulsed me from childhood. I know,I sound very stick up the ass, but I cant help it.

by Anonymousreply 21308/30/2020

R213 r11 here - I’m the same way. It was nasty -it sounded like a machine gun going off for like 10 seconds since it was amplified by the plastic bench he was sitting on. Everyone looked at us. I was so embarrassed.

by Anonymousreply 21408/30/2020

R211 I mean

by Anonymousreply 21508/30/2020

Sorry, I still think farting is extremely funny in ANY circumstance.

by Anonymousreply 21608/30/2020

He was giving me head and threw up chicken parmesan all over himself, me, and the bed.

by Anonymousreply 21708/31/2020

r217, you win

by Anonymousreply 21808/31/2020

Said he’s had sex with women.

by Anonymousreply 21908/31/2020

20 years ago when I was 20. Hot guy. Handsome, blond hair, tanned, toned, and lips that could suck a golf ball through a garden hose. First date went very very well. Sex was mind-blowing. Second date I found out he was addicted to meth.

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by Anonymousreply 22109/09/2020

R122 An unnecessary embellishment, dear. We all get it.

by Anonymousreply 22209/09/2020

Wanted to combine food and sex. I hate that--icky. I love each individually, but keep em separate!

by Anonymousreply 22309/09/2020

Handsome director of a play, I was in. Cast all went out to dinner, after a performance. He tipped $1.

by Anonymousreply 22409/09/2020

Made up a scenario to get out of a date 90 minutes beforehand. He offered a rescheduled date for the next evening and, when I followed up the next day, he never replied. Talk about a crush that instantly dissipated. Deleted and never bothered again.

by Anonymousreply 22509/09/2020

R224, and how much did you tip?

by Anonymousreply 22609/12/2020

Thought dirty jokes were foreplay.

by Anonymousreply 22709/12/2020

Told me he's into yellow and brown. And NO its not the skin color.

by Anonymousreply 22809/12/2020

R121 It was always too dark to see any details at Limelight.

by Anonymousreply 22909/14/2020

90 Day Fiance

by Anonymousreply 23009/14/2020

Said he was a Roman Catholic and started ranting aboujt God.

by Anonymousreply 23109/14/2020

He had the nerve to try to escape after I spent all that time tying him up and putting the ball gag in his mouth! He made me hit him and knock him out. Not my fault.

Some guys are just ungrateful.

by Anonymousreply 23209/14/2020

Vote Republican. Vote for Trump.

by Anonymousreply 23309/14/2020

R213, your sensitivities about "fart productions" is far from being as offensive as your terrible English.

[quote]OMFG I can't (Oh, dear,) even with all these fart stories ! (Oh, dear.) I told any man I ever dated right up front (Oh, dear.) "an occasional slip is one thing,but (Oh, dear.) making a production out of it is another entirely and I will NOT have it" ! (Oh, dear.) I grew up in a family of farters who thought it the height of hilarity and it repulsed me from childhood. I know,I (Oh, dear.) sound very stick up the ass, (Oh, dear x 3.) but I can't (Oh, dear.) help it.

If you're retarded please have the floor monitor at your group home let us know so that we can make appropriate allowances. Until then, chill. You may not like farts but your writing is a turd smeared across the screen.

Thank you.

by Anonymousreply 23409/14/2020

R234 loves for rough trade to fart in her mouth .

by Anonymousreply 23509/15/2020

R234 has way too much time on their hands.

by Anonymousreply 23609/15/2020

R235 can't do anything but what she always does - behave homophonically.

And R236 is illiterate AND a mangler of the language, twat what she is.

Excuse me. Twat that its is.

The low DL - so many out-of-work shits.

by Anonymousreply 23709/15/2020

Thank you so much R234/R237 for deigning to grace us illiterates with your magnificence . We are better for having such an esteemed CUNT such as you to point out our ignorance . Bless you ,you pendantic fart sucking unfucked old twat .

by Anonymousreply 23809/15/2020

R237 is hitting the vodka hard today.

by Anonymousreply 23909/15/2020

[R226] I always tip 25-30%. But a dollar? If you aren't able or willing to do better than that, for waitstaff, please eat at home. Or fast food.

by Anonymousreply 240Last Sunday at 2:09 AM

Pick their nose and eat the contents🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮

by Anonymousreply 241Last Sunday at 2:27 AM

No R241 !!! I cant believe that ever happened !!! PLEASE tell me you made that up ! Did you confront him? what did he say ?

by Anonymousreply 242Last Sunday at 2:18 PM

When he wouldn’t discuss the sealed, plastic 55 gallon drum in his living room. At least the table cloth covering it was nice.

by Anonymousreply 243Last Tuesday at 3:40 PM
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