Light up a smoke after dinner? Engage in road rage on the way to somewhere? Talked endlessly about an ex?
What Did a Crush Do That Made You Instantly Lose Interest in Him/Her?
|by Anonymous||reply 243||Last Tuesday at 3:40 PM|
Weird subtle racist remarks/jokes
|by Anonymous||reply 1||08/22/2020|
White after Labor Day. Unforgivable.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||08/22/2020|
That's not true any more.
|by Anonymous||reply 3||08/22/2020|
Funny how this was a popular thread on Reddit today, and the same exact subject appears on Datalounge.
|by Anonymous||reply 4||08/22/2020|
They said they were fucking someone who was not only much older, but married as well. Totally grossed out after hearing that and it was obvious they had no morals and would have no problem cheating if they could admit that with no problem.
|by Anonymous||reply 5||08/22/2020|
Said they didn't like animals. What kind of piece of shit does not like animals?
|by Anonymous||reply 6||08/22/2020|
They didn’t reciprocate with the same feelings after I told them how I felt. Much as the grey area and having hope can be a good place to be for a while, it’s very freeing knowing for definite someone doesn’t feel the same. I’ve always found that helps me move on. And you get to do so without any ‘what ifs’.
|by Anonymous||reply 7||08/22/2020|
Park the U-haul.
|by Anonymous||reply 8||08/22/2020|
Admitted to posting on DL
|by Anonymous||reply 9||08/22/2020|
Very rude to a waiter, that ended it.
|by Anonymous||reply 10||08/22/2020|
Insisted on calling me "Uncle Bill" the 1st and only time we had sex. My name isnt Bill. Then bursting into tears when he came just sealed the deal . So cute,so fucking weird.
|by Anonymous||reply 11||08/22/2020|
Married a woman
|by Anonymous||reply 12||08/22/2020|
We went to see a movie. His ex showed up at the theater, too. Dirty, disheveled, greasy hair. Totally scuzzy. Sat down next to me and farted nonstop the entire run of the feature.
Okay...if that's your type, you're not mine.
|by Anonymous||reply 13||08/22/2020|
Showed up for aerobics in sweats and PF Flyers.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||08/22/2020|
Asked me to throw a pie in his face. Really.
|by Anonymous||reply 15||08/22/2020|
He got into the bottom position with his legs up—before me.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||08/22/2020|
Claimed that they didn't drink or smoke weed.
|by Anonymous||reply 17||08/22/2020|
Stabbed me in the heart with a fucking pencil when I expressed my feelings.
|by Anonymous||reply 18||08/22/2020|
Directed a few lame horror movies.
|by Anonymous||reply 19||08/22/2020|
You've got my life R19. Was one of them 976-Evil by any chance?
|by Anonymous||reply 20||08/22/2020|
R16 - Funny!!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 21||08/22/2020|
He told me I could be good-looking if I got some plastic surgery.
|by Anonymous||reply 22||08/22/2020|
Kissed me tenderly on my birthday then a week later denied it had ever happened.
|by Anonymous||reply 23||08/22/2020|
Simple. He told me he wasn't interested in ME.
|by Anonymous||reply 24||08/22/2020|
Well, actually it was the tiny meat, but the rape (or should I say "rape") revealed the fact to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 25||08/22/2020|
Farted really loud in bed, and acted like nothing ever happened.
|by Anonymous||reply 26||08/22/2020|
R26 I actually knew a guy that would do that on purpose. It was like a test. If they reacted snottily he quit dating them . Was your guy named kent ???
|by Anonymous||reply 27||08/22/2020|
It's called a Dutch Oven. But you have to pull the covers over the victim so he is trapped.
|by Anonymous||reply 28||08/22/2020|
Took me up to the Hollywood Hills to show me the beautiful view. Then proceeded to pull out a hypodermic needle and shot up. Not so sexy.
|by Anonymous||reply 29||08/22/2020|
He shot himself...dead...in my kitchen. Ruined the moment, and the dinner.
|by Anonymous||reply 30||08/22/2020|
Had a tattoo.
|by Anonymous||reply 31||08/22/2020|
Told me my pussy stank.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||08/22/2020|
Wore diarrhea brown long johns with multiple holes in them. He had a sexy body but he looked so awful in them my interest waned in an instant.
|by Anonymous||reply 33||08/22/2020|
Just to clarify, OP asked about an actual crush, not just someone you went out with.
|by Anonymous||reply 34||08/22/2020|
Thank-you, R34. What's your point?
|by Anonymous||reply 35||08/22/2020|
R35 What's your question?
|by Anonymous||reply 36||08/22/2020|
He showed me his poverty-stricken life. I quit!
|by Anonymous||reply 37||08/22/2020|
Lol R20...no but he did direct The Prodigy.
|by Anonymous||reply 38||08/22/2020|
Real life crush - turned out to be a white supremacist
Celebrity crush - I fell for Jim Caviezel when I saw him in The Thin Red Line. Then I found out he was a far right wingnut who supported Rick Santorum
|by Anonymous||reply 39||08/22/2020|
He’d dated a drag queen.
Wonder what happened to that guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||08/22/2020|
He stood me up for a date-lite at 9 and then showed up at 2 am wanting to come in and fuck.
|by Anonymous||reply 41||08/22/2020|
[quote]Lol [R20]...no but he did direct The Prodigy.
Different guy. Difference decade. The Prodigy came out in 2019. My guy wasn't the director -- that was Robert "Freddy" Englund. He was the writer. Don't know what yours did but my friend was an un-medicated bipolar rich guy heavy into freaky kinds of S&M. And I'm just too vanilla for that stuff. Nice guy otherwise though.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||08/22/2020|
Posting stupid memes on Instagram.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||08/22/2020|
I had a crush on a man for a decade. It made sense at first because I saw him everyday, but then it continued when I saw him maybe once every two years.
I saw him recently. He still looks great. But I have no interest now. Just because I have a new crush. Not having any fresh material to crush on kills a crush eventually when there are other men around.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||08/22/2020|
This isn't me but a friend had a huge crush on a guy he'd see on the train. They actually flirted and met. He found out the guy was married with a new baby and terrified of STDs. My friend decided to seduce him one night by giving him a blow job through the window of his car in a parking lot. His legs were sticking out the window and he went to work. The man was so horrified and my friend managed to eject himself from the window before the guy rolled it up and tore off in his car. I guess he lost interest lol.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||08/22/2020|
Kept going on about how much he liked ‘Beef Strokinoff.’ Said it about three times. Hahahaha.
|by Anonymous||reply 46||08/22/2020|
I didn't like Stevie, so he dropped me...
|by Anonymous||reply 47||08/22/2020|
Expressed sympathy for Trump because the press was so mean to him.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||08/22/2020|
He said "Delish" when we were talking about America's Test Kitchen.
|by Anonymous||reply 49||08/22/2020|
Dining out, when he paid for us he ordered a cheeseburger, when I was paying for us, he ordered the most expensive steak on the menu. He had money. Cheap bastard.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||08/22/2020|
Was a decent kisser the first time I went out with him but he just took me to the beach. I was underage so he said we couldn’t go anywhere or do anything much. Looked me up 3 years later or so and when I thought we were going to go out he had on sweat shorts and I didn’t realize I was meeting him at some friend’s apartment. He was so obviously not dressed to go anywhere. He wanted a booty call so I left.
|by Anonymous||reply 51||08/22/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 52||08/22/2020|
Yanked his puppy’s leash and dragged the yelping baby. He went from being muscular, handsome, and hairy to being a snotty, spoiled brat.
|by Anonymous||reply 53||08/22/2020|
I found out he fucked one of my friends and took the condom off while he was passed out on a Maximum Impact high. That’s basically rape.
|by Anonymous||reply 54||08/22/2020|
My big strong manly crush turned into a prissy little diva after one drink. It was very off-putting.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||08/22/2020|
I kind of wish the man I'm currently obsessed with would do something like strangle a puppy so I could get over him.
|by Anonymous||reply 56||08/22/2020|
At a work event ate really weirdly (not great table manners) and then, after everyone had been drinking, was an overly enthusiastic dancer. Like Elaine Benis but as I was the only sober person no one else really noticed. They were all dancing badly but he was really noticeable. Then a few of us had a late dinner, he ate, exited abruptly and didn’t pay. Total end of crush. Too many weird things at once.
|by Anonymous||reply 57||08/23/2020|
Dean Cain: Jeezus...did he look good in that costume. Then I found out about his politics...instant dick wilter.
OJ Simpson: he was a good-looking man, then...well, we all know what happened next.
In real life, there was a guy in college who was really good-looking, nice body (like the Soloflex guy), wore the tightest jeans, and had such a cute, muscular butt...then I witnessed him bully another guy. From total stud to total jerk-off.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||08/23/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 59||08/23/2020|
I'd meet the occasional Jew Hating Self. Was at a dinner party at some fancy party and this drunk queen says to me "I had to stop six times coming over here for these jews who wouldn't get out of my way." I swear he said that. Everyone stopped with their forks midway to their mouths. And then they all looked at me.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||08/23/2020|
I had a crush in college with beautiful blue eyes and jet black hair. We finally ended up dancing and making out on the dance floor at the LimeLight and I was so excited to pursue it further.
Then someone told me he dyed his hair and wore blue contacts. Instant turn off and I immediately quit pursuing him.
|by Anonymous||reply 61||08/23/2020|
Outed me to his gaggle of fags. When I wasn’t out yet.
|by Anonymous||reply 62||08/23/2020|
r61 that's not very nice
|by Anonymous||reply 63||08/23/2020|
Is a Republican...PASS!!!
|by Anonymous||reply 64||08/23/2020|
Didn’t like FOLLIES.
|by Anonymous||reply 65||08/23/2020|
Moved to Texas and ghosted me
|by Anonymous||reply 66||08/23/2020|
I had a very new friendship with a guy i adored. We were young, early 20's, he comes to my house one night crying. He's got spots on his dick. He's scared. Will i go to the STI clinic with him. It's syphilis. He doesn't know who he got it from because he had been with so many guys in a two week period!! This should have been a warning sign. I'm not a judgmental person. I feel sorry for him. I ignored the many warning signs. In the subsequent months I fall in love with him. It ended terribly, he was an absolute cunt. Listen to your instincts. I still love the bastard though.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||08/23/2020|
Said Gone With the Wind was a stupid movie and laughed at my collection of porcelain Scarlett O'Hara dolls
|by Anonymous||reply 68||08/23/2020|
He audibly farted while FaceTiming. And like, his face scrunched up and everything.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||08/23/2020|
Sometimes, reading people's writing will be a turn-off (bad spelling, can't figure out contractions, etc.).
|by Anonymous||reply 70||08/23/2020|
He talked about cheating on an ex as if it were nothing.
Being a slut is fine, if that's the agreement. Being a shameless dishonest whore is not.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||08/23/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 72||08/23/2020|
He told me he had been with 7 guys in one weekend. Yeah, no thanks.
|by Anonymous||reply 73||08/23/2020|
Prep signals to me you're not necessarily looking after your health, but you're an irresponsible slut. You might not have HIV but you probably have everything else.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||08/23/2020|
[quote]I had a crush on a man for a decade.
That’s just sad. Please tell me that even though you had a crush on him that you still dated/had relationships with other people during this time?
|by Anonymous||reply 75||08/24/2020|
[quote]That’s just sad. Please tell me that even though you had a crush on him that you still dated/had relationships with other people during this time?
And that's not even the saddest thing about my romantic stories.
|by Anonymous||reply 76||08/24/2020|
They don’t like to have kids
|by Anonymous||reply 77||08/24/2020|
First - on a date told me he was cheating on his boyfriend. We didn’t have desert
Second - went back to his place, we made out got naked and he proceeded to shoot up. With what I don’t know. I Got dressed and walked out. His last words as I left, whatev....
|by Anonymous||reply 78||08/24/2020|
Says he is not a fan of musicals
|by Anonymous||reply 79||08/24/2020|
Littering. It's so careless and says a lot about you as a person.
|by Anonymous||reply 80||08/24/2020|
R58 my crush actually bullied *me*.
It must have majorly fucked me up somehow, because I’ve never had a relationship or a sexual encounter and can’t envisage myself being successfully able to, either.
|by Anonymous||reply 81||08/24/2020|
'Desert' has one 'S', it stands for Sand; 'Dessert' has two 'S's, for Sugary Sweet. You're Welcome.
|by Anonymous||reply 82||08/24/2020|
Kept asking me--several times a day--"Do you love me?" After the first time or two....
|by Anonymous||reply 83||08/24/2020|
R81 Care to develop? Do you attribute his bullying as the sole reason for your lack of intimate experiences? Did he bully you for being gay?
|by Anonymous||reply 84||08/24/2020|
He was obviously gay (talented, gorgeous, built) but would go out of his way to gush over his completely heterosexual marriage to a much older dumpy woman named Deborah. But with his Australian accent it came out Dibra.
Now I don't crush on him at all. Its gone.
|by Anonymous||reply 85||08/24/2020|
The usual. He aged badly.
|by Anonymous||reply 86||08/24/2020|
Does being HIV+ make people lose interest too ?
|by Anonymous||reply 87||08/24/2020|
Perfect guy, handsome, good job and lovely to around. Then one night he made dinner and drained the pasta in a colander over under cold water...
|by Anonymous||reply 88||08/24/2020|
We went to the beach and he strips off his shorts and was wearing the cheesiest RAINBOW striped bikini.
|by Anonymous||reply 89||08/24/2020|
He asked me for nudes so I sent them and then I found out he was showing them to his friends without my knowledge or consent.
|by Anonymous||reply 90||08/24/2020|
R90 that’s fucking terrible. Did you get some payback? I’d be furious, and probably get a complex if someone did that to me.
|by Anonymous||reply 91||08/24/2020|
R90 honey everyone does that.
|by Anonymous||reply 92||08/24/2020|
Made me watch a really bad movie he had made, all two hours plus of it. Dick wilter.
|by Anonymous||reply 93||08/24/2020|
R84 ah, I should have elaborated, but I didn’t think anyone would care because it’s long-winded childish #lesbiandrama.
You probably still won’t care now and I don’t blame you, but for anyone interested or for any babydykes who may wander past; I got picked on by a straight girl I was in love with during senior year, because she was a mean bitch and because I was nerdy and passive and just a walking target in general. As far as I know, it was nothing to do with me being gay, unless my bully had homophobia issues I knew nothing about.
My crush was tall and willowy, pretty, blonde, and the lead in the Drama club. She was the extroverted and tough but sensitive androgynous type, tending to wear leather jackets to school and sneak out to concerts but also cry over romantic movies and get giggly or shy when her boyfriend - high-achieving, wealthy, hippie type - brought her flowers. She was popular, well-liked, and nice and friendly to everyone but me. It was a mindfuck.
This girl would screw with me knowing that I had a past history of being bullied, and in retrospect probably knowing I had a crush on her too. She would do things like steal my bag in homeroom, take everything out to pass around and mock with her friends; or deliberately walk hard into me and trip me up passing in the halls; or badmouth me to other students with the most ridiculous rumors (like a teacher got me pregnant), and make fun of me in class when I had to give a presentation or answer a question (a joke the teachers all found hilarious, encouragingly); or flirt with me in class to confuse me, then literally turn her back and ignore me when I smiled over at her in the common rooms trying foolishly to make amends.
We were both 17 and I’d had years of this treatment from other girls by then, so I really should have stood up for myself and called her out publicly to put a stop to it. However, my emotions and hormones got in the way. Gods know why I desired her and admired her at all when she acted like such an immature juvenile bitch, but the heart wants what it wants and I wrongly perceived we had an energetic connection of some sort. I thought she was a talented actress, a witty and smart individual, good-hearted when she thought to be, and someone with confidence I wanted for myself. I was so jealous of her boyfriend I couldn’t stand sitting next to him and making friendly small-talk in our shared classes. So the whole thing was a two-way street, for which I now take my part of responsibility.
One memorable occasion on Valentines’, she left me a flower on my desk (with a lovenote in her handwriting) inplain view of everyone, then when I saw it and asked her about it she denied all knowledge of it and started asking everyone if they knew of the insane individual who’d do such a thing. I’ve never forgotten that, and I think it has wired my mind to believing that my own feelings of desire or intimacy are something shameful and deserving of humiliation. I’ve spoken to therapists about it and have been unable to shake the fear or the memory.
My pattern now is falling for unavailable people who treat me inequally and with disdain (whether via direct put-downs or immediate unsubtle ghosting), or who just don’t take me seriously. I rarely experience people showing attraction toward me, but on the few occasions where that has happened I found the suitors (so to speak) unattractive and creepy on some level. Envisaging a future where I am happy and have a partner of any description completely eludes me - my mind is blank. I really don’t know what to do about it.
|by Anonymous||reply 94||08/24/2020|
He open wallot with no monies! After I gave pee pee show!
|by Anonymous||reply 95||08/24/2020|
Cheer up r94! You've recognised the pattern, but that insight is inert without action, it's hard, I would guess. And no amount of what other people say will make you feel different in and of itself. While you draw breath there is hope, even if you only live to spite those who caused you so much pain and grief.
|by Anonymous||reply 96||08/24/2020|
R81/R94 Was this in the 60’s or 70’s since you mentioned hippie?
|by Anonymous||reply 97||08/24/2020|
Decided he was non-binary and started insisting on they/them pronouns
|by Anonymous||reply 98||08/24/2020|
He preferred messy jelly lube instead of liquid lube.
|by Anonymous||reply 99||08/24/2020|
He pulled down his pants to reveal an ugly smelly stink fish pussy. I was catfished by a MTF! The horror!
|by Anonymous||reply 100||08/24/2020|
Sorry FTM... we’ve been drinking
|by Anonymous||reply 101||08/24/2020|
R97 haha no it did not! This only took place about 12 years, in fact. I use the word “hippie” because my parents do.
R96 thank you for your kind words, that’s very sweet. I know intellectually that you’re right, of course. The best revenge really is living well. My challenge in life so far has been getting my heart and emotions to agree with my head, and change my actions accordingly. Anyone got tips for doing that?
|by Anonymous||reply 102||08/24/2020|
^^12 years AGO. God I hate this posting format.
|by Anonymous||reply 103||08/24/2020|
They told me they frequent a website called Datalounge.
|by Anonymous||reply 104||08/24/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 105||08/24/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 106||08/24/2020|
I had no idea beggars could be this choosy.
|by Anonymous||reply 107||08/24/2020|
Fight with a waitress an Indian restaurant about the cultural relevance of tea in India. He knew he had fucked up and the rest of the meal was excruciating as was the rid home and inevitable “talk.”
|by Anonymous||reply 108||08/24/2020|
R108 Oh god - the waitress probably spit, pissed, or shit in your food if the fight was before the meal.
|by Anonymous||reply 109||08/24/2020|
Well, i was on the other end. My boyfriend left me when i got throat cancer. I guess it was a deal breaker. Like THE day i was diagnosed. I was too distraught to be angry, People are cunts.
|by Anonymous||reply 110||08/24/2020|
R108 Details? What did he say to her?
|by Anonymous||reply 111||08/24/2020|
R110 Be glad you didn’t waste another moment with that piece of shit.
|by Anonymous||reply 112||08/24/2020|
R108 I don’t recall much, just that it was chai related, maybe about having milk? It was interesting because he knew he fucked up, but continued to bury himself deeper instead of concede that he was wrong, apologize and move on. It was that arrogance of needing to be right and his attempt, or whatever it was, to impress me that was the undoing. If he just would have been a gentleman, said he didn’t know what he was talking about I wouldn’t even remember. Oh, and if it wasn’t clear the waitress was Indian and I think part of the family of the owners.
|by Anonymous||reply 113||08/24/2020|
I thought “crush” meant a one-sided affection that delightfully suspends all constraints and kind of objectifies them.
|by Anonymous||reply 114||08/24/2020|
Had a crush on my vet. She calls me later in the day after I had taken my dog in for blood work. We are chatting and by the conversation it is obvious she is a conservative.
|by Anonymous||reply 115||08/24/2020|
As he disrobed, he was wearing a black vinyl thong with a zipper down the front. I'm a fraidy-cat.
|by Anonymous||reply 116||08/24/2020|
R87, only if it's full-blown AJDS.
|by Anonymous||reply 117||08/24/2020|
I've been crushing on the same guy for a year. Haven't met him yet. I'm sick of this obsession and wish I could meet him and learn he has bad breath or body odor or some other awful trait. I need to learn something nasty about him to lose this fixation. I'm wasting my own life wanting him.
|by Anonymous||reply 118||08/24/2020|
R70 I’ve been turned off after reading crushes’ Facebook posts- I don’t mind typos or innocent grammatical/spelling errors, but consistently misusing basic words like your/you’re makes me lose respect.
R87 and R117 I’ve totally lost interest in guys after finding them on Grindr and reading that they’re poz and/or into bb.
R118 my current crush (of about a month) is also someone I have never met. He literally doesn’t know I exist.
I had a huge crush on one of my grad school classmates for several months until I found out he was straight.
|by Anonymous||reply 119||08/24/2020|
Show me his disgusting narcissistic personality behind closed doors. He love bombed me, flattered me, treated me like a queen until I finally moved in with him. Then his cray came out. I was so appalled. I didn’t even stay with him for a full year before deciding to hide my money and move out.
|by Anonymous||reply 120||08/24/2020|
R61, you couldn't tell they were contacts? Those colored contacts give you lizard eyes; they look very strange.
|by Anonymous||reply 121||08/25/2020|
[Quote] He was obviously gay (talented, gorgeous, built) but would go out of his way to gush over his completely heterosexual marriage to a much older dumpy woman named Deborah. But with his Australian accent it came out Dibra.
|by Anonymous||reply 122||08/25/2020|
I'm usually the one who fucks it up and makes them lose interest in me, not the other way around.
|by Anonymous||reply 123||08/25/2020|
R123 do you shit on dicks?
|by Anonymous||reply 124||08/25/2020|
He said he believed in God. I laughed and then pitied him.
|by Anonymous||reply 125||08/25/2020|
On a third date, I inadvertently mentioned that I didn't really find back hair attractive, after he prompted me by commenting on another guy's hairy back. Oops.
A couple dates later, it was time for a sleepover. We had a fun night. Come morning light, I see blood spots all over my sheets when he got up to pee. When he returned, he started crying and told me he had his back waxed. He bled on my sheets; it was over.
|by Anonymous||reply 126||08/25/2020|
Aw that was sweet of him, r126. I’m not a back hair fan either but I give him bonus points for trying to please you
|by Anonymous||reply 127||08/25/2020|
R126, you come off as kind of a cunt. Having back hair is not that unusual. You better stick with guys who have no body hair at all if you want to avoid back hair totally. I feel sad for your fling for having in the first place try to please you and then be humiliated enough to shed a few tears for you.
|by Anonymous||reply 128||08/25/2020|
Dragged me to ‘friends helping friends’ pyramid scheme and later an EST type seminar, both designed to steal my money and my sanity
I no longer could fool myself into feeling safe around him
|by Anonymous||reply 129||08/25/2020|
Some of you deserve to be alone
|by Anonymous||reply 130||08/25/2020|
He tried to sell me Amway products
|by Anonymous||reply 131||08/25/2020|
Such delicate flowers on here ! Back hair grosses you out ? What about ass crack hair ? Or ear hair ? R126 you sound like a real piece of work and Id be safe in betting you will die alone. The man went through a painful and unnecessary procedure just to please you and you were pissed ? You're not just a cunt,you're an uber cunt !
|by Anonymous||reply 132||08/25/2020|
[quote] Funny how this was a popular thread on Reddit today, and the same exact subject appears on Datalounge.
Um, yeah, that happens all the time. Same with Twitter threads.
|by Anonymous||reply 133||08/25/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 134||08/25/2020|
R131 you’re misremembering, Jay, honey. It was Confederated Products. And he was a straight guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 135||08/25/2020|
Did not meet with Mother's approval!!
|by Anonymous||reply 136||08/25/2020|
Wow I forgot about guys like R129's. I've had 2 dates that turned into MLM pitches.
|by Anonymous||reply 137||08/25/2020|
R126 you are a nasty cunt.
|by Anonymous||reply 138||08/25/2020|
We went out to dinner and he asked for sugar and lemons so he could make his own lemonade at the table....😒
|by Anonymous||reply 139||08/25/2020|
Told me that he still lived at home with his parents...he was forty.
|by Anonymous||reply 140||08/25/2020|
Proper back waxing does not result in a person bleeding. A good esthetician could wax a gorilla and leave her smooth.
But R126 certainly represents one end of the "Date from Hell" spectrum. Not the bleeder, who sounds like someone needing true caring.
|by Anonymous||reply 141||08/25/2020|
His head started to smell really bad, even in the refrigerator.
|by Anonymous||reply 142||08/25/2020|
R142 Well to be fair about it dear,when he said he wanted to give you head I dont think he meant it quite that way.
|by Anonymous||reply 143||08/25/2020|
Not in my program/major
|by Anonymous||reply 144||08/25/2020|
sent me a picture of their poop
|by Anonymous||reply 145||08/25/2020|
He should have dumped you, r126.
|by Anonymous||reply 146||08/25/2020|
I LOVE back hair!
|by Anonymous||reply 147||08/25/2020|
Had a crush for several years on a guy who was absolutely gorgeous. The most beautiful man I’d ever seen and while I knew it was nothing more than a crush, it was always a pleasure to be around him just to look at him. His personality was odd and the crush finally died when I found out he had been indicted for child pornography and is now doing several years in a federal prison.
|by Anonymous||reply 148||08/25/2020|
R140 how do you know he didn’t have a good reason for living with them, like having to take care of them?
|by Anonymous||reply 149||08/25/2020|
Had to ask his husband’s permission.
|by Anonymous||reply 150||08/25/2020|
But for the gender, that happened on a particularly good episode of BAD GIRLS.
|by Anonymous||reply 151||08/26/2020|
Ricky Martin - started buying kids one after the other.
|by Anonymous||reply 152||08/26/2020|
Rude to waitstaff seems to be a theme. Reminds me of the scene from cable guy where Owen Wilson is such a douche on a date.
Especially the part where he tries to feign interest in his dates life. That’s a killer.
|by Anonymous||reply 153||08/26/2020|
Men who interrupt you.
|by Anonymous||reply 154||08/26/2020|
R154 OT but my father does that to women, and it drives me fucking crazy.
|by Anonymous||reply 155||08/26/2020|
R155, not OT. It’s so fucking rude to do it to anyone.
|by Anonymous||reply 156||08/26/2020|
Start a thread on Datalounge.
|by Anonymous||reply 157||08/26/2020|
yoga he was this northern European/nordic type, uncut, hung, not overly built . but that was it for me. he finished up with a headstand. I still cringe thinking about this
you never know someone until you've seen his morning routine
|by Anonymous||reply 158||08/26/2020|
He never brought his wallet.
|by Anonymous||reply 159||08/26/2020|
R158 and the problem was?
|by Anonymous||reply 160||08/26/2020|
R158 and the problem was?
|by Anonymous||reply 161||08/26/2020|
Used the words "stank sleeve".
|by Anonymous||reply 162||08/26/2020|
men who cannot spell
|by Anonymous||reply 163||08/26/2020|
R163, their the wurst
|by Anonymous||reply 164||08/26/2020|
yoga, R161? really?
what are we going to do afterwards, go out for brunch and shopping?
I NEVER rag on femmy guys, or give anyone shit about their lisp or their Liza albums. but I cant get hard to that. sorry.
|by Anonymous||reply 165||08/26/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 166||08/26/2020|
Some of you picky cunts deserve to die alone
|by Anonymous||reply 167||08/27/2020|
At the time I was only 18 and had a beautiful fluffy, friendly lionhead rabbit which I was very fond of. He refused to touch it and actually backed away, despite not being allergic.
|by Anonymous||reply 168||08/27/2020|
R165 I assume yoga itself wasn't the issue, but his personality.
Yoga in itself is just a type of exercize, and it is very healthy for anyone.
|by Anonymous||reply 169||08/27/2020|
I mentioned this before — dating a bear is burp and fart central. I used to be into hairy and husky guys and dated a few, but many think farting, burping and bathroom humor is hilarious. Oh course we all do it, but making such a show of being crude killed any crush. I finally realized bears are just the adult version the gross fat kid from your childhood that was always eating and busting ass and laughing about it. No thanks.
|by Anonymous||reply 170||08/27/2020|
[quote]At the time I was only 18 and had a beautiful fluffy, friendly lionhead rabbit which I was very fond of. He refused to touch it and actually backed away, despite not being allergic.
I love animals but I personally have never felt any need to pet rabbits. Some are super fluffy and pretty but they seem somehow way wilder than cats or dogs, and you sort of feel they don't want you near them, or at least that's how as an outsider see them. I actually totally get why someone would back away but I totally get why you didn't want to have anything to do with him. A pet comes always before a stranger. I could never date anyone who didn't get along with my pets.
|by Anonymous||reply 171||08/27/2020|
We were talking about kilts (which I occasionally wear for formal events and which piqued his interest). He volunteered that he liked the idea of wearing a kilt because he sometimes wished he was a girl. Already 3 or 4 implications I didn't have the interest in unpacking, just in that statement. Conversation nosedived from there and I haven't kept up with him since.
|by Anonymous||reply 172||08/27/2020|
He used the word "unpack" in a sentence very similar to "Already 3 or 4 implications I didn't have the interest in unpacking, just in that statement."
|by Anonymous||reply 173||08/27/2020|
R110, that is so fucked up to the point of absurd.
|by Anonymous||reply 174||08/27/2020|
Borrowed my thermos and never returned it.
|by Anonymous||reply 175||08/27/2020|
can't kiss--has happened too many times to count
|by Anonymous||reply 176||08/27/2020|
Bad kissers can be trained R176. My 1st husband wasnt very good,I just dont think he had a lot of practice. But he was a helluva lay,so I took the time to teach him . He ended up being an amazing kisser,maybe even better than me!
|by Anonymous||reply 177||08/27/2020|
Out on a first date he had a dismissive attitude to the server then leaned over fingering my collar and told me my collar stays were missing.
Then he sniffed and polished his fork with the napkin.
I endured but soon fled.
|by Anonymous||reply 178||08/27/2020|
His doll collection
|by Anonymous||reply 179||08/27/2020|
R170 If I could pin a comment to the top of the page, this would be it.
|by Anonymous||reply 180||08/27/2020|
Except for the "dismissive of server" part, I could possibly have been r178's date.
|by Anonymous||reply 181||08/27/2020|
R179 even a buff guy with dolls? (sorry, “figures”)
|by Anonymous||reply 182||08/28/2020|
R158 dumped someone for doing yoga?
I’m sorry, what?
|by Anonymous||reply 183||08/28/2020|
[quote]what are we going to do afterwards, go out for brunch and shopping?
Someone sounds quite damaged. Wonder how many crushes you’ve killed just by opening your mouth.
|by Anonymous||reply 184||08/28/2020|
Bragged that his only sources of news were "The Daily Show" and Steven Colbert.
|by Anonymous||reply 185||08/28/2020|
R185, give me his number 💖💖
|by Anonymous||reply 186||08/28/2020|
Began to smoke a cigarette while I was going down on him.
|by Anonymous||reply 187||08/28/2020|
R187 -- Did he at least have the manners to ask if you minded if he smoked while you were eating?
|by Anonymous||reply 188||08/29/2020|
The revelation that all of his friends were awful, vapid, mean people. He seemed like the sweetest guy, but show me your friends ...
|by Anonymous||reply 189||08/29/2020|
hmmm R189. sounds like he tends to attract creeps....
|by Anonymous||reply 190||08/29/2020|
Left a $2 tip when much, much more was required for the bill
|by Anonymous||reply 191||08/29/2020|
would not stop talking about astrology
like, he's never on time this week because something is retrograde rising in his venus. ok
|by Anonymous||reply 192||08/29/2020|
Confessed that I would be hotter if spoke with a heavier FOB Asian accent
|by Anonymous||reply 193||08/29/2020|
R189, were you dating Jonathan Groff?
|by Anonymous||reply 194||08/29/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 195||08/29/2020|
He said he liked Trump because he got a tax cut
|by Anonymous||reply 196||08/29/2020|
When I was 14 I had a crush in this cute skater in my class. However, my feelings for him evaporated when I found out he smoked pot! Man, I was lame...
|by Anonymous||reply 197||08/29/2020|
Saw him picking his nose when I was returning from the table from the bathroom. Had his whole finger up there and was really going to town. I circled back and ask the hostess something then came back in hopes that he was done with the cavity search. Needless to say we parted and there was no second date.
|by Anonymous||reply 198||08/29/2020|
He was immediately dumped when his inability to properly load a dishwasher was discovered.
|by Anonymous||reply 199||08/29/2020|
use the word pimp as part of her email address
|by Anonymous||reply 200||08/29/2020|
Vulnerable to the DL firing squad here, but; called me “needy” and cut off all contact after I put them up on my couch, fed them, and monitored how they were during a difficult recovery from a potentially-fatal crisis of health.
|by Anonymous||reply 201||08/30/2020|
You made the right call, r197.
|by Anonymous||reply 202||08/30/2020|
I had a crush of a really cute guy and he seemed somewhat into me too.
We went on a lunch date and he had a hair sticking out from his nostril. I was young and petty so I immediately thought he was gross
|by Anonymous||reply 203||08/30/2020|
He actually responding positively to my embarrassing overtures. I ran like an Olympiad.
|by Anonymous||reply 204||08/30/2020|
R204 Sorry- responded
|by Anonymous||reply 205||08/30/2020|
Opened his mouth.
|by Anonymous||reply 206||08/30/2020|
Laughed when his cat puked in my shoes.
|by Anonymous||reply 207||08/30/2020|
[quote] had a beautiful fluffy, friendly lionhead rabbit
As a pet?
Sounds like he dodged a bullet.
|by Anonymous||reply 208||08/30/2020|
R191 and did you make up the difference yourself to give the server a "full" tip, or did you just sit in silence and complained to us later like a beta coward?
|by Anonymous||reply 209||08/30/2020|
Chewing on his nails while we're having a conversation. At least we weren't eating at the time--or, well, I wasn't anyway. Stomach-turning...
|by Anonymous||reply 210||08/30/2020|
Farted LOUD on one of those plastic booth benches while we were eating and the sound reverberated throughout the place. People turned around and looked and he laughed. We were finished so I told him I had to get running.
|by Anonymous||reply 211||08/30/2020|
Recently went on socially distanced date going on walk w/my dog in tow. Convo flowed well up until he stuck foot out to trip dog's hind leg. End of date
|by Anonymous||reply 212||08/30/2020|
OMFG I cant even with all these fart stories ! I told any man I ever dated right up front "an occasional slip is one thing,but making a production out of it is another entirely and I will NOT have it" ! I grew up in a family of farters who thought it the height of hilarity and it repulsed me from childhood. I know,I sound very stick up the ass, but I cant help it.
|by Anonymous||reply 213||08/30/2020|
R213 r11 here - I’m the same way. It was nasty -it sounded like a machine gun going off for like 10 seconds since it was amplified by the plastic bench he was sitting on. Everyone looked at us. I was so embarrassed.
|by Anonymous||reply 214||08/30/2020|
R211 I mean
|by Anonymous||reply 215||08/30/2020|
Sorry, I still think farting is extremely funny in ANY circumstance.
|by Anonymous||reply 216||08/30/2020|
He was giving me head and threw up chicken parmesan all over himself, me, and the bed.
|by Anonymous||reply 217||08/31/2020|
r217, you win
|by Anonymous||reply 218||08/31/2020|
Said he’s had sex with women.
|by Anonymous||reply 219||08/31/2020|
20 years ago when I was 20. Hot guy. Handsome, blond hair, tanned, toned, and lips that could suck a golf ball through a garden hose. First date went very very well. Sex was mind-blowing. Second date I found out he was addicted to meth.
|by Anonymous||reply 220||09/09/2020|
|by Anonymous||reply 221||09/09/2020|
R122 An unnecessary embellishment, dear. We all get it.
|by Anonymous||reply 222||09/09/2020|
Wanted to combine food and sex. I hate that--icky. I love each individually, but keep em separate!
|by Anonymous||reply 223||09/09/2020|
Handsome director of a play, I was in. Cast all went out to dinner, after a performance. He tipped $1.
|by Anonymous||reply 224||09/09/2020|
Made up a scenario to get out of a date 90 minutes beforehand. He offered a rescheduled date for the next evening and, when I followed up the next day, he never replied. Talk about a crush that instantly dissipated. Deleted and never bothered again.
|by Anonymous||reply 225||09/09/2020|
R224, and how much did you tip?
|by Anonymous||reply 226||09/12/2020|
Thought dirty jokes were foreplay.
|by Anonymous||reply 227||09/12/2020|
Told me he's into yellow and brown. And NO its not the skin color.
|by Anonymous||reply 228||09/12/2020|
R121 It was always too dark to see any details at Limelight.
|by Anonymous||reply 229||09/14/2020|
90 Day Fiance
|by Anonymous||reply 230||09/14/2020|
Said he was a Roman Catholic and started ranting aboujt God.
|by Anonymous||reply 231||09/14/2020|
He had the nerve to try to escape after I spent all that time tying him up and putting the ball gag in his mouth! He made me hit him and knock him out. Not my fault.
Some guys are just ungrateful.
|by Anonymous||reply 232||09/14/2020|
Vote Republican. Vote for Trump.
|by Anonymous||reply 233||09/14/2020|
R213, your sensitivities about "fart productions" is far from being as offensive as your terrible English.
[quote]OMFG I can't (Oh, dear,) even with all these fart stories ! (Oh, dear.) I told any man I ever dated right up front (Oh, dear.) "an occasional slip is one thing,but (Oh, dear.) making a production out of it is another entirely and I will NOT have it" ! (Oh, dear.) I grew up in a family of farters who thought it the height of hilarity and it repulsed me from childhood. I know,I (Oh, dear.) sound very stick up the ass, (Oh, dear x 3.) but I can't (Oh, dear.) help it.
If you're retarded please have the floor monitor at your group home let us know so that we can make appropriate allowances. Until then, chill. You may not like farts but your writing is a turd smeared across the screen.
|by Anonymous||reply 234||09/14/2020|
R234 loves for rough trade to fart in her mouth .
|by Anonymous||reply 235||09/15/2020|
R234 has way too much time on their hands.
|by Anonymous||reply 236||09/15/2020|
R235 can't do anything but what she always does - behave homophonically.
And R236 is illiterate AND a mangler of the language, twat what she is.
Excuse me. Twat that its is.
The low DL - so many out-of-work shits.
|by Anonymous||reply 237||09/15/2020|
Thank you so much R234/R237 for deigning to grace us illiterates with your magnificence . We are better for having such an esteemed CUNT such as you to point out our ignorance . Bless you ,you pendantic fart sucking unfucked old twat .
|by Anonymous||reply 238||09/15/2020|
R237 is hitting the vodka hard today.
|by Anonymous||reply 239||09/15/2020|
[R226] I always tip 25-30%. But a dollar? If you aren't able or willing to do better than that, for waitstaff, please eat at home. Or fast food.
|by Anonymous||reply 240||Last Sunday at 2:09 AM|
Pick their nose and eat the contents🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
|by Anonymous||reply 241||Last Sunday at 2:27 AM|
No R241 !!! I cant believe that ever happened !!! PLEASE tell me you made that up ! Did you confront him? what did he say ?
|by Anonymous||reply 242||Last Sunday at 2:18 PM|
When he wouldn’t discuss the sealed, plastic 55 gallon drum in his living room. At least the table cloth covering it was nice.
|by Anonymous||reply 243||Last Tuesday at 3:40 PM|