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Should I be concerned that my boyfriend is racist if he only buys white dildos?

We were scavenging through the adult section of our gay neighbor’s yard sale and discovered a bin of dildos in various shapes and sizes. My boyfriend completely ignored the dildos of color and selected only the white ones.

by Anonymousreply 53May 20, 2021 8:59 PM

Just how damaged do you have to be to buy used dildos? Ewww...

by Anonymousreply 1August 21, 2020 1:04 AM

As long as they were clean and gently used, I don’t think there’s necessarily a problem.

by Anonymousreply 2August 21, 2020 1:06 AM

If you are buying sex toys at yard sales, BF’s quirk is the least of your problems.

by Anonymousreply 3August 21, 2020 1:06 AM

My sister swears she used to drive by an adult video store that advertised used “toys.” Of all things I would NEVER buy used...

by Anonymousreply 4August 21, 2020 1:07 AM

Does he discriminate while taking anon loads?

by Anonymousreply 5August 21, 2020 1:08 AM

Ok bitches we have established that OP and his boyfriend are saving money in the wrong places (dude those are items it may be worth spending more to not get second hand), but is the boyfriend also a closeted racist and just openly gross?

by Anonymousreply 6August 21, 2020 1:10 AM

I just can't imagine a world where someone would buy even a "gently" used dildo. Just how poor are you? Start a freaking gofundme or something. No one should have to stick a used dildo up their hole.

by Anonymousreply 7August 21, 2020 1:14 AM

better white than clear

by Anonymousreply 8August 21, 2020 1:15 AM

I asked the guy at a local shop out of curiosity what was the weirdest thing someone tried to return and he said a stripper pole.

by Anonymousreply 9August 21, 2020 1:33 AM

I know a lesbian couple that load all their toys in the dishwasher for a heavy cycle. They swear they are so clean afterwards you could eat with therm. So I could see some queens buying some if the price was right.

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by Anonymousreply 10August 21, 2020 1:40 AM

R10 I notice they put the latex on the upper rack while the stainless steel goes in the bottom.

by Anonymousreply 11August 21, 2020 1:48 AM

Does your average everyday lesbian have that many dildos? I'm really really gay, so I'm not sure what lesbians do sexually.

by Anonymousreply 12August 21, 2020 1:50 AM

OP, it is very problematic that your partner has a bias against dildoes of color. Do they try to at least consume erotic media centering disabled trans poc?

And please stop with the classist shaming of OP for thrifting dildoes and other sensual-aids. People on limited incomes deserve sexual pleasure and self care. There are no germs, give me a break. Give 'em a rinse and keep it moving.

by Anonymousreply 13August 21, 2020 1:59 AM

OP he’s a racist pig and you need to dump him fast. If your man isn’t willing to shove any color of anything up his ass then you just plain need to dump him.

by Anonymousreply 14August 21, 2020 2:02 AM

They have a whole collection of different ones. Apparently they have a plastic tub on each side of the bed, one side has the clean ones and on the other side is the tub where they put the used ones. They had to do that because the dog was getting ahold of the used ones Plus before they weren’t washing and one got a UTI.

by Anonymousreply 15August 21, 2020 2:03 AM

Is the dildo white-white? Does it honk when you squeeze it? If so, he’s probably into clowns.

by Anonymousreply 16August 21, 2020 2:05 AM

I know way too much about your neighbor’s sex life, OP.

by Anonymousreply 17August 21, 2020 2:07 AM

Can you tell what color they are in the dark?

by Anonymousreply 18August 21, 2020 2:09 AM

Tip for the lesbian neighbor couples' UTI from dildo, wash dogs, dildos, and selves in diluted vinegar and wash underwear in bleach, as well as any plush dog toys.

by Anonymousreply 19August 21, 2020 2:12 AM

OP, walk away from the computer. You've become desperate for attention from anonymous strangers.

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by Anonymousreply 20August 21, 2020 2:14 AM

Dump him. Then start dating someone who prefers your dick to discount bargain bin clearance dildos. You are better than this, OP.

by Anonymousreply 21August 21, 2020 2:22 AM

Easy Savings Tips for elders on assistance. Enjoy Sensual Thrifting!

by Anonymousreply 22August 21, 2020 2:24 AM

Plot twist: It turns out that the yard sale neighbor is a mortician.

by Anonymousreply 23August 21, 2020 2:31 AM

This is what I use OP. I got it on sale for like $40.

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by Anonymousreply 24August 21, 2020 2:35 AM

If vinegar works, why not use pickles and enjoy a kosher dill afterwards? Sex and lunch. No fuss, no muss.

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by Anonymousreply 25August 21, 2020 2:39 AM

OP, yes you should be concerned. But not that your BF is racist. Rather that he must rely on dildos, instead of yourself, for his sexual gratification. If you're white and the dildos are white ...... Well, I'm just pointing out the obvious.

by Anonymousreply 26August 21, 2020 2:44 AM

R15 I've never used a dildo, but FFS, isn't it common practice to wash them after each use? Granted, they're lesbians, but to just throw dirty dildos in a tub?

by Anonymousreply 27August 21, 2020 3:11 AM

I know this is a joke thread so I will bring in my frau reaction.

Why are you buying dildos? Don't you have 2 dicks already.

Well I hope it's a joke as you are getting one used from a yard sale.

by Anonymousreply 28August 21, 2020 3:40 AM

Yeah not sure, but I think they just had a basket o’dildos next to the bed and didn’t think much about cleaning, etc. They would just toss them all in the dishwater after a few weeks. But then after the UTI they developed the two tub system.

by Anonymousreply 29August 21, 2020 3:46 AM

Do either of them have canes? I feel like obesity is involved, if not hoarding. Both the lesbian neighbors and the gay dildo thrifting couple.

by Anonymousreply 30August 21, 2020 3:48 AM

This did not happen.

by Anonymousreply 31August 21, 2020 3:49 AM

My friend and his bf are currently borrowing my toy collection. Dildos, plugs and a fleshjack.

by Anonymousreply 32August 21, 2020 4:17 AM

Make sure you dishwasher the entire set when you get them back.

by Anonymousreply 33August 21, 2020 4:19 AM

You should get a Japanese penis dildo!

The Sujiman Jiro Dildo Japanese Cock is a softly textured toy that replicates a sizeable Asian penis with a beautifully rendered shaft, complete with realistic veins and sleek glans.

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by Anonymousreply 34August 21, 2020 4:27 AM

What about a Frankenstein dildo? It ain’t easy being green!

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by Anonymousreply 35August 21, 2020 4:40 AM

[34] Sizable Asian penis. LOL.

by Anonymousreply 36August 21, 2020 3:04 PM

Sizable yet it’s packaged in a 4” candy bag lol

by Anonymousreply 37August 21, 2020 4:00 PM

Get a fucking life, OP. Geez

by Anonymousreply 38August 21, 2020 4:03 PM

Bump

by Anonymousreply 39May 20, 2021 12:55 AM

Trollin trollin trollin

by Anonymousreply 40May 20, 2021 12:55 AM

Once you go pre-owned you never go back.

by Anonymousreply 41May 20, 2021 12:58 AM

I’m astonished at the cost of new dildos. Why not just toss it on the top rack of the dishwasher? More importantly, OP, did you get a small paper bag to take it home or did you have your purchase delivered?

by Anonymousreply 42May 20, 2021 1:02 AM

Maybe OP should post this in the 'What was your worst financial misstep?' thread

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by Anonymousreply 43May 20, 2021 1:09 AM

[quote] Does he discriminate while taking anon loads?

Yes, his hole rejects their loads and then forcibly expels them

by Anonymousreply 44May 20, 2021 1:11 AM

Dildos are so binary.

by Anonymousreply 45May 20, 2021 1:16 AM

La nuit tout les dildoes sont gris.

by Anonymousreply 46May 20, 2021 1:52 AM

If you’re in Denver, you can rent a sex doll

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by Anonymousreply 47May 20, 2021 2:13 AM

Forget the used dildos

Your BF needs a wake-up call

Take him for a "surprise" weekend to a hotel room to service BBCs

Once he gets a taste for large melanin-rich penises

by Anonymousreply 48May 20, 2021 2:25 AM

No, because his ass is color blind.

by Anonymousreply 49May 20, 2021 4:04 AM

A black dildo commodifies the African American and implies you only value his penis instead of his clothing sense, rhythm, bone density, and before-the-beat singing abilities. Your black dildos are keeping us back!

by Anonymousreply 50May 20, 2021 4:15 AM

Poor Jack and Dolf. Anything to make ends meet.

by Anonymousreply 51May 20, 2021 8:44 PM

R1- Pish posh, all you have to do is run them thru the dishwasher!

by Anonymousreply 52May 20, 2021 8:48 PM

They sell nothing of the sort at T&A lingerie.

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by Anonymousreply 53May 20, 2021 8:59 PM
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