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Sandra Bernhard - "I can use the 'N' Word Because I'm A Black Ally"

In a 1998 interview with New York Magazine, Bernhard defended herself by saying, “I have carte blanche to use that word from my friend Paul Mooney. I’m a card-carrying white-black girl. Plus, I have a huge Black following, so you know, it’s like a black person saying [n**gerish].”

In 2006, she again defended herself in an interview with Seattle Weekly, saying, “I think anybody Black who comes to my shows gives me carte blanche to say that because I’m really coming from their place. I’m not some cracker up there…It’s so obvious that I’m a part of that culture.”

So is that good enough for Sandra to use the "N" word?

by Anonymousreply 104August 20, 2020 3:20 AM

Luckily nobody under the age of 50 knows who she is, because if they did she'd be getting cancelled on Twitter right now.

by Anonymousreply 1August 16, 2020 11:24 PM

R1 Sandra and the "N" word are trending on twitter right now, hence this thread

by Anonymousreply 2August 16, 2020 11:25 PM

I think you can quote that word if you’re not being racist yourself, like in a sterile academic way, but that’s about it for crackers to say it.

by Anonymousreply 3August 16, 2020 11:25 PM

Nigger, please.

by Anonymousreply 4August 16, 2020 11:26 PM

R4 = Michael Richards

by Anonymousreply 5August 16, 2020 11:27 PM

"huge Black following"

by Anonymousreply 6August 16, 2020 11:28 PM

R2 Oh. Didn't know that, I don't really use Twitter. I'm quite frankly suprised, though, I didn't know the younger crowd was aware of who she is.

by Anonymousreply 7August 16, 2020 11:28 PM

[quote]I didn't know the younger crowd was aware of who she is.

The ugly lesbian AIDS doctor from Pose.

by Anonymousreply 8August 16, 2020 11:29 PM

The only interesting part of all of this is going to be watching that Pussy StarFucker Andy run away from her like his tail’s on fire. Sandy better call KATHY G for advice.

by Anonymousreply 9August 16, 2020 11:30 PM

I just looked at the trending topics on twitter. There is no Sandra Bernhard r2.

by Anonymousreply 10August 16, 2020 11:30 PM

Faggot, please. R5.

by Anonymousreply 11August 16, 2020 11:31 PM

The best part is you know some white conservative did this.

Mariah got the comedy special pulled from TV. I’m surprised she didn’t get Andy to drop Sandy.

by Anonymousreply 12August 16, 2020 11:31 PM

Did you make up the quote in your thread title?

by Anonymousreply 13August 16, 2020 11:32 PM

R8 The kids that watch Pose don't actually watch it, they look at their phones until the trannies in ball gowns come on screen.

by Anonymousreply 14August 16, 2020 11:32 PM

Lol. Countdown to her CANCELLATION, and then subsequent apology.

In 3, 2, 1 .......

She and that other old bitch Madonna. They just can't help themselves.

by Anonymousreply 15August 16, 2020 11:33 PM

Crackers are gonna Crack.

by Anonymousreply 16August 16, 2020 11:33 PM

R11 Beat me to it.

by Anonymousreply 17August 16, 2020 11:34 PM

I saw her at gay pride in Utah quite a few years ago. Was she ever funny? Most of her act I was completely bored.

by Anonymousreply 18August 16, 2020 11:36 PM

R10 use the hashtag #sandrabernhard on twitter

by Anonymousreply 19August 16, 2020 11:36 PM

Is Sandra Bernhard still alive and doing stuff?

Sigh...

by Anonymousreply 20August 16, 2020 11:37 PM

I know how to fuckin use twitter and search for a topic r19. Saying something is trending on twitter has an actual meaning that is tracked, this nowhere even close to trending. I don't know why you bothered telliing such an obvious lie.

by Anonymousreply 21August 16, 2020 11:40 PM

Is sandra Jewish? Because if so...

by Anonymousreply 22August 16, 2020 11:42 PM

R21 - I'm TEN DAYS LATE as it was trending on August 7

The video from the special resurfaced on Twitter on Aug. 7, when a social media user posted it along with the caption, “Just a reminder that Nurse Judy from Pose called Mariah Carey a “n****er” and made fun of other black artist.”

The post generated thousands of likes and comments, with many people angrily reacting to the clip. “Very hurtful, confusing, And disappointing,” Moore tweeted as another person wrote, “She pretty much said Mariah was cooning to her own ppl? I am just bewildered.”

by Anonymousreply 23August 16, 2020 11:43 PM

Who the fuck are the 20% of people who said yes???

by Anonymousreply 24August 16, 2020 11:50 PM

For some reason I misread this at first as being about Sandra Bullock. "Black people who come to my shows" made me look at it again. Thinking that Sandra Bullock said all that was...pretty strange.

by Anonymousreply 25August 16, 2020 11:51 PM

I did exactly the same thing R25! I also thought how strange it was that she had said any of that...

by Anonymousreply 26August 17, 2020 12:18 AM

Dyke, puh-leeeeze!

by Anonymousreply 27August 17, 2020 12:25 AM

Why didn't Sandra ever FIX THAT FACE?

I mean jesus christ, she could afford it!

by Anonymousreply 28August 17, 2020 12:27 AM

Too hard basket R28.

She's got a face like a dropped pie.

by Anonymousreply 29August 17, 2020 12:29 AM

It doesn't matter. No one cares about sandra bernhard

I haven't' heard or thought about her in over a decade

by Anonymousreply 30August 17, 2020 12:33 AM

No, it's not OK for the most repulsive woman in the world to use that word.

by Anonymousreply 31August 17, 2020 12:36 AM

I have never understood the desire to say any word someone might find offensive, part of the reason I almost never curse and I grew up in a household where the N word was common usage, usually preceded by the words God Damn. It is a rather stupid way to be edgy.

by Anonymousreply 32August 17, 2020 12:37 AM

Who?

She's not thing. Maybe she used to be a thing but she's not a thing now.

by Anonymousreply 33August 17, 2020 12:43 AM

1998?

May as well have been Sarah Bernhardt who said it.

by Anonymousreply 34August 17, 2020 12:44 AM

R33 - she was a barely a thing then either.

by Anonymousreply 35August 17, 2020 12:47 AM

R32 Thanks for further confirming that white people are trash amongst themselves behind closed doors.

by Anonymousreply 36August 17, 2020 12:52 AM

Political attitudes have changed so much that it seems pretty ridiculous to go after Bernhard for things she said 22 years ago,.

F&F for the race-baiting troll OP.

by Anonymousreply 37August 17, 2020 1:04 AM

R37 a person on twitter started it

by Anonymousreply 38August 17, 2020 1:06 AM

R37 Then that means people can stop crying about Kevin Hart, who made a JOKE about his own son. Not the gay community as a whole but his own child in which he has no problem with what his father was Joking about.

by Anonymousreply 39August 17, 2020 1:08 AM

Sandra Bernhard was an intelligent purveyor of pop culture and fashion. She was mentored by Pryor and Paul Mooney. She knew the cutting edge of the NY scene. There was a reason Madonna and her were friends.

Kathy Griffin stole her act and dumbed it down for Middle America. A vulgar, crass, cheap imitation.

by Anonymousreply 40August 17, 2020 1:09 AM

So since I'm BFF's with Stacy Abrams, can I use it too?

by Anonymousreply 41August 17, 2020 1:12 AM

Kevin Hart was making fun of hyper masculine black men and their fears of ending up with a gay son. It's a hilarious joke, well-crafted, and delivered perfectly. I laughed my ass off.

I never "cancel" anyone when it comes to stand up. Stand up should be edgy, without rules, without limits.

by Anonymousreply 42August 17, 2020 1:26 AM

Why do these assholes feel the need to even use the word, it's unacceptable...no justification

by Anonymousreply 43August 17, 2020 1:27 AM

Once while I was sub teaching in South Central LA, the usual sophomore Romeo and Juliet crap, I went to great lengths to explain how FILTHY S'pr was. What figs meant, what a spear meant and the difference between a maiden's head and her maidenhead. It was a lecture of cocks, balls and pussy in the language of Tudor England. It was a school in the territory of the Grape Street Crips so I know that they got rival warring families. I had one tall, muscular football player who stumbled in a bit late who started asking questions about the material earlier. He started giving me bullshit until another student said, "Shut up fool, Mr. X is cool." I had students in the class echo, in their own vernacular, what we had already covered. Funny, but in ghetto talk R&J is even filthier. Bottom line is they all got it.

When the bell rang and I took my place at the door giving them a send off to their next class, the large late kid, Lord he was like a WALL, gave me a slap-grab and said with a big smile, "Mister X, you mah nigga." I gave him back a big smile and said,""Nigga, you trippin." He let out a big laugh, picked me off the floor and gave me a bear hug. Every kid left with a smile on their face.

I have always wanted to enter a room full of white people and say," Hey mah niggas, whassup?"

Oh, well, my 2 cents.

by Anonymousreply 44August 17, 2020 1:28 AM

Team Sandra all the way.

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by Anonymousreply 45August 17, 2020 1:31 AM

When was the last time anyone in 2020 thought about Sandra Bernhard?

by Anonymousreply 46August 17, 2020 1:31 AM

R46 — While watching "Pose" in 2019 and 2020, I thought of Sandra every time she hit the screen...

by Anonymousreply 47August 17, 2020 1:35 AM

I cancel comedians who aren't funny and sometimes they're also disgusting. Andrew Dice Clay was one of those.

Who was that guy in the movie with Jessica the country singer who doesn't know if Chicken of the Sea is tuna or chicken? Apparently I don't know either of their names and it's too hot to google. Anyway - that guy - not funny and canceled many years ago.

Cosby - amazingly funny - one of my childhood gods of comedy - absolutely cancelled. I just couldn't handle all those victims over all those years. It overcame my "You must also be unfunny to be cancelled" rule for comedians.

I don't care what Sandra Bernhard said or didn't say or meant or didn't mean or blahblahblahblah.

Eyes on the prize, folks.

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by Anonymousreply 48August 17, 2020 1:39 AM

Where’s the poll option of “I couldn’t care less”?

by Anonymousreply 49August 17, 2020 1:40 AM

[quote]While watching "Pose" in 2019 and 2020, I thought of Sandra every time she hit the screen...

Oh, you're one of the five people who watch that show.

by Anonymousreply 50August 17, 2020 1:42 AM

Have media whores Indya Moore and Angelica Ross piped in yet?

Oh, wait. It's not a trans issue, so they wouldn't give a fuck.

by Anonymousreply 51August 17, 2020 1:42 AM

Hmmm let me pretend like I’m really concerned and offended while also not understanding why people are upset about something from 1998! Does that cover it all?

by Anonymousreply 52August 17, 2020 2:21 AM

I still remember as a kid hearing her say on Letterman don't touch those Calvin Klein underwear ads because you will get AIDS. That made me feel awful about myself. An to think gay men are her main audience.

by Anonymousreply 53August 17, 2020 3:17 AM

It's always the dykes that are the worst people. Everyone loves to make gay men out to be the devil, but if you ever want to meet someone truly and deeply awful and evil, look no further than your local lesbian.

by Anonymousreply 54August 17, 2020 3:31 AM

As long as rap music and rap “culture” opts to use the N-word with wild abandon to this very day, it is highly hypocritical for anyone of any race to go after something a comedian said TWENTY TWO YEARS ago, especially since what she said was true and making an instructive observation about race used for pop culture convenience (in this case, by Mariah.

by Anonymousreply 55August 17, 2020 3:39 AM

No one speaks of pavilions anymore, and that saddens me.

by Anonymousreply 56August 17, 2020 3:59 AM

I adore her and always have.

by Anonymousreply 57August 17, 2020 4:07 AM

I hope — if Sandra comments on this revived matter; because she has never flinched over the years while the use of the word "nig'rish" while describing the actions of Mariah (whom Vibe magazine describes as "mulatto" ) ... I hope Sandra weaves it into a well-laced punchline that also elevates the discussion in a post-racial society.

by Anonymousreply 58August 17, 2020 9:34 AM

This is RW troll bait from Twitter: I imagine OP with a whiny Tucker Carlson face. They have no intelligent arguments to support their racist policies so they target liberal hypocrisy in an attempt to justify their own actions.

Meanwhile the President RT- +Let democratic cities rot}. and The only good democrat is a dead democrat.

I love Sandra. I bought her book in hardcover, I saw WOUINothing live. I flew to NY saw the matinee and flew back to Atlanta. She pointed her flashlight at me and commented on my tan-good, and my shirt- bad! I also saw her on an ill fated RSVP cruise to hell. But, that's another story.

I saw her,pre-pandemic, coming out of whole foods in Chelsea. She was in sweat pants and looked terrific.

by Anonymousreply 59August 17, 2020 10:51 AM

[quote] Is sandra Jewish? Because if so...

What?

by Anonymousreply 60August 17, 2020 10:59 AM

R53 oh come on! Are you serious??? That’s funny as hell! I guess we should just cancel ALL comedians that way NO ONE is offended.

by Anonymousreply 61August 17, 2020 12:50 PM

Comedy is going to die out soon, and no I'm not exaggerating. I seriously just think that it might stop being as much of a thing because of cancel culture. People won't pursue a career where you have to be funny because laughter offends. At best comedy won't die, we'll just be left with nothing but black female comedians that talk about their pussies and that'll be it.

by Anonymousreply 62August 17, 2020 12:53 PM

Mmmmm hmmm

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by Anonymousreply 63August 17, 2020 12:58 PM

I love Sandra, but I was shocked when she used the N word in her Broadway show in 1998. She was making fun of Mariah Carey and her Butterfly album and how she was backtracking on the public and getting all n*****ish with Puff Daddy and Co.

by Anonymousreply 64August 17, 2020 1:18 PM

Here's the clip...around the 2:40 mark

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by Anonymousreply 65August 17, 2020 1:22 PM

She owns 'resting bitch face.'

One good thing she did was King of Comedy.

by Anonymousreply 66August 17, 2020 1:33 PM

The word I wish she would stop saying is "honey."

ENOUGH.

by Anonymousreply 67August 17, 2020 1:34 PM

Its pathetic that people are so desperate to cancel ANYONE that now they are having to go back decades to find a comedy bit from a niche artist saying something that today no one would say.

Get a life OP and any other cancel culture Caroles.

by Anonymousreply 68August 17, 2020 2:22 PM

Good so now that's out of the bag, every woman ally can call us faggots and they won't stop no matter what we do....

by Anonymousreply 69August 17, 2020 3:58 PM

"Even Bernhard’s Pose co-star Indya Moore weighed in, tweeting: 'Very hurtful, confusing, And disappointing.' "

Of course she did.

by Anonymousreply 70August 17, 2020 4:30 PM

Bitch please

by Anonymousreply 71August 17, 2020 4:32 PM

I haven't thought of Sandra Bernhard in ages, I didn't even know she was still in show business.

by Anonymousreply 72August 17, 2020 4:35 PM

She should get on social media more.

by Anonymousreply 73August 17, 2020 5:02 PM

I guess [italic]Sesame Street[/italic] won’t be bringing her back any time soon.

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by Anonymousreply 74August 17, 2020 5:02 PM

I'm one of the 21% R24. Not a racist bone in my body (GenX/white/geh) and I've never used n****r - not once. But I have used Negro more than a few times and when in I've used it in "mixed company" (Jesus, that's almost as offensive as n****r), it has been a way to telegraph being a black ally. So I get her argument. And her comedy.

by Anonymousreply 75August 17, 2020 5:05 PM

Both n-words are bad, absolutely no excuse to use them. A "black ally" should know that.

by Anonymousreply 76August 17, 2020 9:45 PM

Then I can say cracker because I'm a white ally since my boyfriend is white.

by Anonymousreply 77August 17, 2020 9:48 PM

Can an American explain why black culture is awash with the use of 'the word', yet it is meant to be the worst word ever?

by Anonymousreply 78August 17, 2020 9:48 PM

Beats me!

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by Anonymousreply 79August 17, 2020 9:51 PM

R79 Not sure what relevance that has...

by Anonymousreply 80August 17, 2020 10:06 PM

What were they expecting? Jackie Mason insulting some meshugganah schwartzes?

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by Anonymousreply 81August 17, 2020 11:04 PM

Nigger.

by Anonymousreply 82August 17, 2020 11:05 PM

i love that DL is suddenly so woke. remember your hypocrisies the next time you post to bottom shame or vagina shame. I wager to guys 80% or more that do that a.) are racist themselves b.) have never had pussy since a pussy had them and b.) are major bossy bottoms.

by Anonymousreply 83August 18, 2020 12:27 AM

Because gay men are not simps like most heterosexual men.

by Anonymousreply 84August 18, 2020 1:45 AM

White "allies" using this word sounds problematic to me. So how does this work again?

by Anonymousreply 85August 18, 2020 3:41 AM

Funny how the "acceptable" words for Black people keep changing over time, but the N-word remains the holy grail of racial and ethnic slurs.

by Anonymousreply 86August 18, 2020 3:44 AM

Sandra is aggressively ugly and hates blonde gentiles.

by Anonymousreply 87August 18, 2020 3:52 AM

I will never understand white people's obsession with this word. It's extremely easy not to say it. If it's in a book, then you can just say N word or replace it with another clean word. They only listen to rap music so they can say it and claim that's they're only quoting the song and then act like they don't understand why it's offensive. There is no "pass" on it. Some idiots may tell you that you can use it but it doesn't mean every black person will be ok with it.

by Anonymousreply 88August 18, 2020 3:54 AM

R88 So, why does rap and hip hop use nigger endlessly?

by Anonymousreply 89August 18, 2020 4:01 AM

Ask the CIA, R89. They invented it. While you're at it, ask them why they sold crack to Eric Monte.

by Anonymousreply 90August 18, 2020 4:03 AM

Oh, dear.

by Anonymousreply 91August 18, 2020 4:20 AM

it was possibly OK in 98 but not since. Rules and culture change.

by Anonymousreply 92August 18, 2020 4:26 AM

Rappers have made more money on that word than they can count.

by Anonymousreply 93August 18, 2020 6:25 AM

She's still blacker than Candace Owens.

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by Anonymousreply 94August 18, 2020 6:33 AM

Cancel culture is about making a damning case and willingly ignoring the circumstances.

Nowadays it's considered, at best, in poor taste to say the N-word (usually it's considered racist). Back then it was considered cutting edge when a certified comedian said it. Comedians got some leeway back then. Hell, even a decade ago Lisa Campanelli could perform racist stand-up bits and a moment later go on how much she likes big black cock.

by Anonymousreply 95August 18, 2020 8:32 AM

The N word is horrible. You should never call a black person neighbor.

by Anonymousreply 96August 18, 2020 12:25 PM

"Oh my God, there must have been dust on those mints."

by Anonymousreply 97August 18, 2020 1:17 PM

I remember when she was a guest on The View and started talking about Mariah Carey, saying she had gone all ghetto. Something like "she was getting all niggerish up in Diddy's suite". I thought Hasselbeck was going to explode.

by Anonymousreply 98August 18, 2020 3:31 PM

Sandra is a high functioning autistic?

by Anonymousreply 99August 18, 2020 3:49 PM

that Sandra appearance on THE VIEW has been SCRUBBED!!!!! (Sandra also goes off on Laura Bush. INCENDIARY!!!)

by Anonymousreply 100August 18, 2020 4:11 PM

Dissing Mariah Carey is a staple for Sandra's shows over the years.

by Anonymousreply 101August 18, 2020 4:48 PM

I wonder what Richard Pryor would have to say about this.

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by Anonymousreply 102August 18, 2020 6:20 PM

Sandra reading Laura, Barbara, and Jenna:

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by Anonymousreply 103August 18, 2020 7:15 PM

She can use the word ugly all she wants too. She owns that word.

by Anonymousreply 104August 20, 2020 3:20 AM
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