Dear OP:
“They put ice in everything. Sometimes in wine.“
This is true! And before I went to England the first time, people warned me that I wouldn’t be able to get ice anywhere. I thought that was the weirdest thing for anyone to care about or even notice—until I got there, and then the lack of ice was really annoying.
“They all have air conditioning. Their electric bills must be massive.”
OK, here’s the thing about that. I live in Washington, D.C. Our climate is officially subtropical. People grow cactus and dwarf banana trees in their yards in this city. And it’s not like a tropical island; it’s a fucking swamp. From May through September it’s over 33 degrees celsius almost every day.
When I went to Cambridge for a study abroad in July, I was freaked out that there was no air conditioning in my dorm or my classrooms at first. And it did reach about 90 degrees Fahrenheit/32ish celsius a few days. But it was that hot in the sunlight; as soon as a cloud blew across the sun, the temperature dropped to the point it was chilly. Inside my dorm room, even if it was very warm outside, I could open the windows and the always-cool breeze was *like* air conditioning. So I learned why you don’t have it there: you don’t need it there!
I also learned that summer why Brits wear sweaters around their shoulders/tied around their necks: when the sun is out in the summer, it’s warm. As soon as the sun is obscured by a cloud, it’s sweater weather. It does NOT work like that where I live. Whether it’s sunny and humid and hot here or cloudy and muggy and hot, it is H-O-T in the summer in a way that seems not to have a parallel in the British Isles.
“They all have perfect teeth and spend a fortune keeping them white and bright.”
Not all! According to Ancestry DNA, I am 60 percent British and so I jokingly “blame” my teeth on my heritage—but my teeth are a nightmare for at least three different reasons:
1. I grew up working class/close to poor. My family had health insurance but health insurance does not cover dental care. My father grew up very poor and never had dental care—and so it was not something he considered. So my teeth got off to a rough start in life. At least in the UK, everyone gets functional dental care when they need it. In the US, you could be literally dying of an impacted abscess and health insurance would be like, “not our problem.”
2. It turns out, I only found out a couple of years ago, I developed an allergic disorder called mast cell activation syndrome that is apparently contributing to my teeth basically falling apart. This disorder is associated with (probably was caused by) Lyme disease, and that’s also a very ‘American’ thing even though it’s been written off as a joke by the media for some reason.
3. Ice! A couple of months ago, I was drinking icy water (because it’s hot as hell here in the summer, as discussed above), and I absentmindedly crunched on some ice, and a big ol’ sliver of enamel sloughed off a front tooth. And all the dentists were closed down because of the pandemic. So that was fun!