Do you remember everyone you had sex with?

do who do what, dear?

No. I’m sure I don’t.

You mean just today's sex partners?

Yup only 3. I don’t do casual.

I kept a log until about my mid 20s.

Names? Hahahahaha!

Hell no. I can barely even remember what most of them looked like.

I don't do "names" with my sex partners.

No, you have to be kidding.

I can't remember all the names, but I like to hum them.

yes, their names are in the dossier i keep on each one.

R4=frau

They are Legion

Individuals or entire groups?

I could keep count til I was in my 30s I guess, now I’d find it difficult to hazard a number

Professional responsebility of architect is remember client and client name. Even when client is donkey, the good lady architect remember!

ROTFLMAO -That presupposes I knew their names to begin with!

Certainly not.

But I remember some of them really well, like the cute deaf guy in Denver whose lover broke in on us in flagrante delicto.

And the Italian guy from Philly who had a fat 9" cock. (Joey, was it?)

I wouldn't recognize 90% of the men I've had sex with if I walked by them on the street.

Lol.

My deplorable friend wants to know if family members count.

I don’t even remember the sex.

I remember the name of every man and boys whose dick I groped

I remember the name of every man and boys whose dick I groped

R18 Philly has some GOOD dick

OP you’re assuming I even ever spoke to them.

R24 La Senatrice, is that you??

I would say yes for the most part. Early in lockdown was bored and made a list out trying to remember as much as I could. Granted I’m only in my early 30s and not extremely promiscuous. Was an interesting exercise to say the least.

Are you mad?

After 1998, sure, things slowed to a normal pace.

But prior to that, in my college years and cruising years? Honey, I didn't always see their FACE let alone catch a name.

No. My Weekends alone have big multipliers.

OP - you do know how a glory hole works? It just slides through!

Chit-chat was frowned upon in the darkroom at the baths.

No.

No, but if you circled the listing of every 15th man in the phone book, you would probably have most of them.

Not in the least bit and I’m just a semi-whore. Who cares?

Nope

Intercourse? Yes. One, and we were in a relationship. Other things? Eight, over the course of sixteen years. And no. There is one I can't remember. One of those seven, one shared my name, and had a lovely apartment, which was interesting.

There are MANY I wish I remembered so I could look them up on social media. I come across pictures in a shoe box of old tricks that i don't remember their names. I had fun though so that's all that matters.

Nope. Not even close.

I remember only the ones I named, the memorable ones I called Omigod in the throes of passion.

Some of them. The once in awhile a memory will pop into my head of a guy I fucked around with and it all comes back to me.

The real question is do they remember me?

Of course I do, silly. I see them at Grandma’s house for dinner every other Sunday. How rude would it be not to remember my uncle’s name????????????

Well, I don't remember everyone, but many of them had the same name: "Anonymous."

Of course I do! I only sleep with guys who have the same name as my father.

Daddy!

Only three and they were each so different. Yes, I remember their names.

I don't even remember the one's i have in my phone contacts

Yes I remember. I named them all, Prince.

I only remember the ones who had their dick up my butt: Don, Sam, John, Richard, Sean.

Everyone? No, just the talented ones.

I haven't known everyone's name, but I'd at least be able to remember what they looked like and where it happened, up until I fell in love, and almost all the prior hookups faded from my memory. It wasn't all that many, though.

It's quite shocking how whorey y'all are. I am a virgin!

Only ugly straights do. We are too fabulous for this question..

And you're German so that's kind of sad.

R53 Please “twink” I have seen your xtube videos where you shit on all your top’s dicks.

No, but I do keep the receipts.

[quote]Do you remember everyone you had sex with?

Every single one except the one's I've tried to forget.

I never saw half of their faces, so no.

I can remember the experience but I cannot remember the names (or the faces) of all the people I had sex with.

The men I had relationships with, yes I remember their names and remember what they looked like, but causal encounters just the opposite.

What part of "No!" is it you all don't seem to get?

Not all. Many names are forgotten over the years. If one doesn't see them again, or there are no mutual acquaintances, such fade quickly.

#61 got surprise anal.

[quote]Do you remember everyone you had sex with?

Yes, of the ones whose names I ever knew in the first place.

However, the real question is how many of the people with whom you had sex did you ever bother to learn their names.

I can remember how their loads tasted

I wonder how many of my ~1000 partners remember me...

Not only can I rarely put a name to the face, I often can't even put a face to the dick.

This question is homophobic.

I know the name of everyone that has fucked me in the ass.

I know the names of most of the guys I've fucked in the ass.

I couldn't even begin to name all the guys I've sucked off or who sucked me off, or hand-jobs, etc.

No.

[quote] I kept a log until about my mid 20s.

I wish I'd done that, just for curiosity's sake.

About 20 years ago I did sit down and try to make a list of every partner I could remember and I came up with about 150 names or descriptions (eg. cut guy with PA, Strand balcony).

During the recent lock-down I was cleaning out old boxes and I came across the list. Now I can't even remember a lot of them. Middle age sucks

Lol, you’re kidding right? I’m almost sixty and lived in SF and LA for most of my adult life. I’m no beauty, nor a troll. A typical gay man if you will. Sex has always been quite easy to find. Think about that for a second...

by mid-20s I didn't need to keep a log. It was one. Just one guy.

By late 20s it was two.

By 30, it was three.

Between 30 and 40, you gotta add hundreds.

After 40? Like... a couple.

After 50? Zero more.

Only my family members

I know the name I always called out....

MARY!

No, but I can tell you their VENMO username.

When Craigslist came out, I’d download a copy of the post I replied to and kept the photos they’d exchange prior to meeting, so I do have a great record, which I look through occasionally, of all the guys I’ve fucked in the last 20 years or so. There are several hundred.

They had names????

No, I genuinely don't remember 98% of them, because I used to be majorly promiscuous - that's putting it mildly.

I dated someone briefly, nothing serious, before I met my partner of the last 35 years.

No but many are in my DNA so to speak.

Well, that's a complicated answer for me. I certainly remember every single person I've been in bed with. But the sex I've had with guys in backrooms, porn theatres, The Ramble, sex parties, between parked cars and the like? No. Sometimes I see a guy and wonder if I've had sex with him. As I got older, I let go of my embarrassment, and when I meet someone who I think I may have fucked around with, I just come out and ask, "Have we had sex?" It usually gets a laugh, either way.

So much traffic. So little time to get acquainted.

Their first names yes

^except the one guy who I jerked off in a foot hole but that’s not exactly sex. A few of them used fake names too

Oops glory hole

At 78 years old.......Not even

I don’t remember their name but I see them every time I open the freezer

I keep thorough records....Names, fingerprints, DNA samples, etc...

In 15 yrs hooked up at least 300 times.. im 32 now and slowing down. Def remember the good ones! Time for a ltr

I wonder if I hooked up with any of you.

Odds are, you have.

I do. Kevin rhymes with 11. I decided to make him my permanent lay.

remember their name, fuck no....we didn't even know their names, nor did we want to...lol

No, they remember mine.

In 40+ years of doing it there were many whose names I didn't even know when we were gettin' busy, much less remember them now.

n the beginning, yes of course. On into a decade even. I kept names in a little book. Some names bring back no memories......some entries, "the one in the red sweaer" or "he wanted to put on bathing suits and take them off" cause dim memory, but Mike, George, Bill, Ralph, Jerry, , the silly one, Jose, the preacher, Dean,Stephen, Larry, Roger et al, are just names n a book and I've no recall. I'm in the central West Village NYC, nightly gay guys changed shirts 7 times in front of their bathroom mirrors until selecting the right shirt to wear coming downtown hopin to find a man forr sex. I was there, had a home to go to, they were easy to get. I'd remember the ones who'd come back and ring, or the ones I stopped and spent ime with, or two love affairs. Time passes, general anonymous sex or the piers sex or the Pines sex or street sex, in or out, the names written down mean little now. No, you don't really remember names, and sometimes not even the sex.. You remember the opnes upu become friends with, and still have. It happens.

I want the bars to reopen so I can have drinks with you R88.

I'll bet your stories are fascinating

Well there was this one guy who sneezed bigly when I came in his mouth. His name was Roger: I won't forget the mess on my pants, or his name.

I can't even remember how many countries I've had sex in. How I am supposed to remember individual names?

Names are so...temporary.

I didn't even see all their faces.

People in uniform all look the same.

All Asians look alike.

I’d have to think for a bit, but probably.

Let's just say that when there was a name to remember, I've remembered it.

Such little men, so many times.

I was actually trying to remember every guy I'd ever slept with just the other day. Every time I think I got them all, someone I forgot about would always crop up. And I certainly don't remember their names, I was just trying to think of their faces.

R19 I'm with you. Good Lord, I've tried to forget most of mine. Several did make a long-lasting impression. Usually I remember those guys because it was someplace random, we had great sex or we ended up having a relationship.

Put me down for that scene in Sex & The City when Samantha goes to have her HIV test and the nurse asks her how many partners she's had and she takes like 5 minutes to answer.

OP? Gurl.

Why is it even more sad to be a virgin when I'm German?

Everyone or Anyone???

How Could I forget?

Of course not.

How old are you GermanGayGuy?

I am 29!

R63 “surprise” anal isn’t fun. It’s violating. Happened to me once and honestly it hurt and it was without consent

Yes and no. The more interesting yes. Intellect is rare enough that I take note.

oh and those with bigger cocks tended to be named Al or Allan.

Yes.

I'm surprised at the guys who say they have only had sex with 3 or 4. I've been in a 20+-year monogamous relationship and I had at least a dozen before that. And I never found it easy to find someone to have sex with...for whatever reason. Maybe it was just easier in the 90s.

R123 I need to feel a connection to someone. Have to know him a bit and yes I’ve been called a Frau for that in this thread. It just doesn’t feel right otherwise and it kills my mood and sex drive if a person isn’t willing to put a little bit of time in getting to know one another. I do miss sex currently. I’ll admit it.

R113 you have all those hot German men around! All that big schniedel! Mmm, mmm!

(seriously, ignore the other comment, you be a virgin for as long as you wish.)

I am partnered now but my number of sex partners between, well, the beginning and age 30 was.....not small. And a lot of it was very casual. (Where I lived, cruising the men's room or park was the only option.)

But I remember some guys. I remember how they made me feel, or how hot they were. I was a nerdy, insecure guy when I was younger so when I had the hot ex-Big Ten football player in my mouth, I can remember how he felt, how he tasted. Or the guy I swore was a younger twin of Bryan Cranston....I can remember his smile and how he asked me "Did you bring a raincoat?" to warn me that he was a heavy shooter (and fuck, he was too....one of the few guys I every struggled to swallow).

I remember more than that, too. And some names. But I was in mid three digits 30 years ago when I started to count. Things slowed down in my late 20s, of course, but life was a buffet and I went, bitches. I went many times and have no regrets!!!

R125 I don't want to be a virgin anymore :-( I would be ready for a datalounger to top me :P

I can remember, maybe, the first ten or so, as well as the last five. Between them, there were hundreds if not thousands. I always saw their faces, but rarely got a name. I dubbed some with nicknames, e.g., Motorcycle Guy, Aramis Guy, Mando.

Some of you in New York in the1990s would remember me. I got around and I got a lot of compliments.

Do AOL screen names count?

I had a roommate who would give his tricks nicknames.

"Oh, I saw Uncut Navy at the bar. He was being really crabby. And Piss and Piercings was bartending tonight!"

Before the hookup apps, there was more sex and less chit chat. That’s the way it should be.

The better question is "Do you remember anyone you had sex with?"

Touche.

I never used to see a lot of these when I was out looking to get laid.

R5

So did I. Every person (didn’t get every name)... until I met my now husband... who is the last man I’ll ever sleep with ..... I’m an accountant... we like lists

The good lays yes. The bad ones are dead to me!

Hard to remember names when you're drunk.