Are you 8 inches or bigger?

Yes, 70 1/2 inches to be exact.

In my prime (mid-30s and trim), I came in at 8.75”. Not long before then I thought this was pretty normal, given limited experience and exaggerated claims/stories. I was truly surprised when the (very) random hookups would make a big deal over my size.

Unfortunately, 15 years, 100 lbs, and a bout with Peronies has me down to about 7” - but at this point I don’t care. I’ve got a great partner and care about sex less and less.

I love 9” in my asshole

Circumference?

R2, how exactly does a penis shrink over time? Sounds kind of gross and totally tragic.

I’m tremendous!

Is it just me, Or are cocks getting bigger, on average, over time? Only there seem to be more young guys with Monster-plus dicks now than 35 years ago. All of them bottoms.

As you gain weight the fat pad starts covering up the base of your penis r5. One of the benefits to being slim is a longer penis.

I'm 4 inches, but could easily pass for 10.

On a good day 8 x 5.5 and no it’s not common. I can count on one hand the guys I’ve seen with comparable or bigger.

No. Should i just kill myself?

No. Should i just kill myself?

Give me a break.

Yes, 8x6

I am lucky length and girth at 8x8 which I thought was the biggest cock I ever saw till I met my husband. I always joked with hookups if their dick was bigger than mine I would bottom. My husband is a freak. 11x9.

Anytime there is a thread about dick size there's a rush of posters tripping over their appendages to post that they are 7/8/9 inches and they didn't know this was uncommon until men they had sex with told them how impressive their size was. It is the dustiest, most cliched humblebrag ever.

I'm assuming some of these posters are also the ones in the savings/retirement/networth threads fretting that they only have a few million dollars in property, cash and assets tucked away.

Big-dicked guys are hoars, so they show-up in a lot of bedrooms. And appear on many online show-off sites, giving the impression there are a ton of hung men in the world..

Pffft.... you guys are amateurs. Nothing you have between your legs could fill me to satisfaction.

Donald at top of list.

I’m sensing jealously in this thread.

R17 may be part of the explanation. Because I’ve definitely seen a lot of that small number that make up the 5% - and that is primarily the gay component of that 10%. The numbers don’t quite make sense. Maybe being in NYC affects it - as most of those large ones have been here and I’ve rarely run into one in smaller towns. Maybe also because Hispanic guys tend to be bigger - and that’s always been my type.

R16 is an idiot with a 3” wiener. He does NOT get, in any way, shape, or form, the psyche of a closeted gay teen who’s trying to fit in. A lot of guys with big dicks don’t focus on dick size; for them it may be about acceptance, body hair, muscles, whatever.

For me, the definition of an alpha male was/is a hairy chest; dick size is way down on my checklist of masculinity.

According to the largest study of penis size – a review of studies involving over 15,000 men – the average length when erect is 5.16 inches.

For flaccid penises, the measurements were 3.61 inches (9.16 cm) in length.

OP: Most men are nowhere near seven inches.

^^5.16 inches translates to about 13.12 cm in length.

Smoking decreases your penises length.

My husband is almost 8.5. I love his cock. He’s never bottomed. Why would he ? I’m happy to ride it.

Mine’s close to 7 long and is 6 around. Most other penises seem smaller and thinner.

Sorry, but microdicks are gross. Won't go near 'em.

Bone-pressed, and most aroused, I’m a bit shy of 9”. Flaccid between 5.5” and 6”. But my girth is only about 5”.

9x6. Almost too big. No complaints so far. I always seemed to attract extremely muscular bottoms. Heaven.

Mmm, I'll take R29.

Penis size is in direct proportion to the number of years younger one looks on DL .

R17 "hoars"

WTF? Who the fuck over age 10 doesn't know how to spell "whore"?

I am so glad this thread was started. Penis size is rarely discussed on DL.

Only around 2.2% of men in the US have an erect penis over 20 cm (or 7.87”) if you look at published medical journal studies rather than online anecdotes. That’s roughly 1 in 50. Above 8” is only 1.5%. Only 1 person in the study of 1661 men had a 10” dick as the statistical outlying anomaly. Find your needle in gay stack.

What is this bone pressed you all speak of?

I'm 8 in gay inches.

Thread is useless without pictures.

There are far more big dicks in NY, LA, SF and MIA. It's a self-selecting group. It's money, looks, brains, body and dick size. Looks and body fade. Money can come and go. Brains can falter with age. But, with ED drugs, a big dick can last a very long time.

I assume all of you are lying as every man I have ever met lies about the size.

I was once involved in a study where men put forth self measurements (at University) then we asked the group who self reported to be verified in a clinical setting. 40% declined. Of the 60% who remained most were 16 to 20 ML (1 inch or more) less than their reported size. With some adding as much as 3 inches (48 ml).

Any study that uses self reported sizes can be thrown away.

I prefer small to large. In every population both exist. Early on in my life I spent a lot of time in Mexico and the Dominican and men many, smaller men.

Yes 8.25 x 5

R30 exactly, and another point about even legitimate statistical studies is the aspect of self selection. Many smaller guys will not volunteer or they opt out due to social stigma., so it’s assumed the means and averages are actually inflated (pardon the pun) or skewed versus the general population. I can’t think of an environment where you could force an entire sample group to participate even in a prison or military study.

4 and a half, but my friends say I could pass for three. Limp as a lettuce. Oodles of dressing tho.

I’m in NYC and a top. At my prime, I could get any guy i wanted. I’ve always been bigger than the majority of guys I’ve been with and I’m only7.5x6.

It actually seems the girth makes guys think it’s bigger. Oftentimes, guys would say they were bigger than 8 inches but when we pulled them out, mine was always bigger. And instead of them admitting they lied, theyd instead tell me that I’m the one measuring wrong and that clearly I was bigger than 8 inches. One guy who claimed he was 8 told me that I must be above 9 inches instead Of admitting he was really like 6.5 inches.

Here is the thing. You have to take into account they cannot measure ever dick in the world, so they would have to sample size it. If they based it off the big dick reddit thread here then 90% of the males would have 12 inch cocks.

Mmhmm funny how almost everyone posting here claiming to be 8” or whatever. Maybe they should do a study as to why DLers have disproportionately large cocks! I’m about 6.5, not sure circumference but it’s decent. I grew up thinking I was fairly small based on porn, but having been around a bit now I’ve seen I’m on the right side of average. I’m happy with that.

Gay homo boys! Must show pictures! Am expert on topic of pene. I guess length and win prizes at Slovenian Natuonal Fair.

I actually don't care. My husband is the huge guy (11 inches) and it took me months to be able to take him fully. Sex is a fucking process with us. He likes having a dick everyone wishes for but in reality, it would be easier if he was 6 inches.

[Quote] Yes 8.25 x 5

Read 7x 4 as per r39. At best.

I'm 7 inches long with a 7 1/2 inch circumference. All these stories of 11 inch cocks are hilarious. I was a whore in my younger days, and while I saw a lot of big cocks, I only saw one truly astounding cock. Yet here on DL, it seems there at 11 inch cocks everywhere to be had.

[quote] Yes, most statistics claim that the "average" male penis us somewhere around 5.5 inches,

How big is the average female penis?

I'm a grower not a shower. Maybe 2 inches soft but when erect 8X7. I love having a big dick!

[Quote] I love having a big dick!

I'd rather have a bf with a big dick.

pics or it didn't happen

"bone pressed"? Does you cock lift weights? Does your member bench press or do a snatch lift?

[quote]Only around 2.2% of men in the US have an erect penis over 20 cm

And they're all on Datalounge!

On Grindr we all are OP

It's funny how even guys with big dicks will lie about their size. One of my exes said he had "just over eight inches." I never measured it but I'm pretty sure it was closer to 7 than 8.

What does bone-pressed mean? Does it mean you measure from the top and shove the ruler back as far as till will go? Without doing that I'm a 6 incher. Most guys in big cities like L.A., S.F., and New York lose interest when I tell them that. Guys in smaller cities don't care as much. That's my experience.

The vast majority of men who claim they have 8" or more wouldn't have that much if they measured from their assholes.

Like all the gay pornstars over the years the studios claimed had 12" cocks. Chad Hunt, Steve York, Jeff Stryker, Rick Donovan, et al. If you look at their equipment you'll see every time that the have somewhere around the 8-8.5" length tops.

All gay men lie about their height and their penis size.

Im 5'10" and when I go on dates with guys who say they are 6' or even 6'1 they are almost always shorter than me.

For most of my adolescence and young adulthood I was convinced I had a small dick. I made me reticent about having sex relationships with men (first experience when I was 26). Oddly, I was less "embarrassed" with women.

When I finally had sex with other men, I noticed that... my dick didn't seem that small in comparison. I'm 6.5 .

So odd what all this dick size/self esteem thing is like...

is this size obsession and fetishization an American thing or in other countries as well. After all we have this biggest, brightest, numero uno thing going on here in many social aspects

I lie about my height all the time. I'm 5' 4 3/4", but I tell people I'm 5' 5". 😲

Lots of small dick whiners and doubters on this thread.

I'm 8x5

It's the dream of every committed bottom to one day find a man who can breach that second pussy.

A friend had his prostate removed. Noticed his dick shrank. When he mentioned it, the doctor said "Oh, that always happens."

R67 even a three inch dick can breach that second pussy.

[R52] My husband does have a bigger dick than I do. Lucky me!

My dick curves up, so measuring with a ruler from root to tip (topside) definitely robs it of length - when measured with a measuring tape it's 7.8" on the day-to-day which I would round up to claim 8" when I'm rock hard.

I'm not saying I've been around the block but I'm not a virgin either, and I've never been with a man with a bigger dick than mine - a few similar, and one a bit thicker, but I just don't think huge dicks are as common as most men are led to believe from porn/Reddit exhibitionists (who often have favourable angles and poses to maximise the look of the dick).

I also think a lot of men massively overestimate size without doing actual measurements. I've had guys think I was 9" before.

Hey, don't want to hijack thread, But I have a buddy considering penis enlargement surgery. 10k and only offered in Beverly Hills, DC and Chicago. They SAY it is completely reversible.

I told him that he was an idiot. He is not super small, about average. Ok girth. He is also a bottom who claims to be verse on occasions. I was already wary about it, and he sent some before and after pics. All the dicks were limp and the "afters" to me, it looked like the enhancement would only make the limp as big as it was when it was hard.

It is supposed to be the latest tech. Anybody looked into it?

R72 that sounds like the ligament cutting procedure to me - they cut the ligament that anchors your penis inside your body so more of the 'internal' part of the penis shows on the outside.

The benefit, you have a bigger looking flaccid dick, but it has no impact on the erect size - and when you have an erection, it's not capable of pointing up anymore.

r49 - Never in my life ran into a cock bigger than mine at 8 inches until I met my husband. He even warned me since it was a blind date (no dick pics). He is the only one I have ever seen that big in real life. Honestly, I spent about 10 minutes laughing and playing with it. There was no way he was fucking me that night.

I was in a long, monogamous relationship throughout my twenties. That relationship ended in 2003, and because it was devastating, I was sexless for about a year and a half while taking stock of my life and focusing on work. I tentatively started to date again in 2005, and I finally went to bed with a guy I'd been seeing for several weeks. He was an actor, and though he was cute, he was a bit chubby, with a dad bod, and he was starting to lose his hair. After our night out at a concert, he was about to drop me off in front of my house when he started kissing me in the car and opened my shirt. I wasn't expecting anything, but he asked if we could go into my house and continue.

After about fifteen minutes of kissing and making out, shirts off, he fumbled to open his fly, and then it emerged, enraged. I was stunned by how huge it was (9 inches cut, and very thick); I'd experienced only one before that almost compared. But this one was beautiful, truly, like a marble sculpture. I was so surprised, excited, and a bit nervous (I'd always been a top and had no idea how I was going to accommodate that). Still, I thought, bloody hell, this is really going to be a monumental night.

I was mistaken.

First, I could barely get the damned thing into my mouth. It was just too damned wide. Like trying to wrap one's mouth around a baseball bat. I could sense that he wasn't enjoying my efforts all that much because my teeth were scraping it every time I attempted to go down deeper and swallow it. So, I resorted to sucking and licking the head and about two inches further while jerking his shaft and slipped a couple of fingers up his ass to massage his prostate. He shuddered hard and came profusely, I swallowed it all, and he literally passed out. Fast asleep. And that was that.

I felt awkward. I didn't know what to do, so I just laid next to him and spooned him as he slept, thinking he probably just came too hard and would wake again momentarily for round two. Again, I was mistaken.

When he did wake about two hours later, he jumped up, got dressed, and said he had to rush out because his parents were watching his adopted son, and he was supposed to have picked him up some time earlier.

As he was leaving, I was polite but infuriated; this had never happened to me before. After the immense thrill ride he apparently got out of it, I naturally felt some reciprocation was in order.

I didn't return his calls the next day or anytime after that. I happened upon his social media profiles recently, and he's now gone full tilt, morbidly obese and bald. I like to think it was karma.

R75, LOL. Who is this actor? Kevin James or John Goodman?

I'm 9 x 6. Bottoms would cum within seconds of penetration and I loved it.

Then I became a bottom.

In my entire life (including University measuring) I have only encountered one huge one.

He showed it hard, I said..."My hands are not even that big, get out." and that was that.

r77, this is not a baking thread. 9x6 pans are appropriate there, but not in this thread.

Suspicious how the DL average seems to be about 8.5 ...

R25 i wrote that about my large husband. I’m average & was never hung up on it as I had only been with average sized guys before him. It took me awhile to get over his largeness when we first started dating. Since he liked to top I was fine - i like to bottom.. He had an old boyfriend that was also big cocked but only bottomed. Now that’s fucked up

R68 - What is with these friggin' doctors? I had an operation and shortly before I was put under my doctor told me -- "By the way, you are no longer going to be able to ejaculate afterwards."

WTF?!? That was information I would have appreciated having beforehand. I'm not sure I would have gone through with the procedure.

r75 that is a shame. My huuby was the same way. Two weeks of effort work and practice was worth it.

r82 what did you have done??

"the average length when erect is 5.16 inches."

If they didn't factor-in Asians it would be 6.16"

#75 is talking about Will Sasso.

I'm a top. I have 7.5, on the very thick side. I've had a few guys say it's too thick for them, but most seem to like it. I was used to being the big-disked one until I met my first serious boyfriend, who had me beat by at least an inch on length and girth. Thank god he was a bottom! My jaw ached from trying to get him even halfway in. I love to suck, and I much prefer an average-sized cock, or even slightly small. I love when I can get the whole thing in.

I think the apparent increase in young guys with huge endowments can be explained with

1. They have more opportunities to put themselves out there -hookup apps, Tik-Tok, Instagram, etc. There aren't really more of them in the population. We just get to see them.

2. Guys are shorter these days, so their dicks look proportionally bigger.

3. Guys shave their pubes, so their dicks look bigger.

4. Camera angles are selected which flatter the size of the cock. Perspective is everything.

5. Out and out fraud. Numbers are misreported. Photoshop comes into play...

Through the years I've come across plenty of cocks as big or bigger than my own, but I'd much rather play with an average-sized one.

9x6. I actually prefer a bit smaller. Guys with hard muscular asses (bottoms) don't seem to mind. The optic is incredibly sexy. I'm not complaining.

R40 I'm 4 x 4; but I can take two in the back & two in the front.....

r86 is that true/ I flew next to him on a flight to chicago, he hit on me and asked me if I wanted to grab lunch in the airport but I had to catch a flight.

9 by 6. No complaints.

More importantly, do you recycle?

This thread is so ridiculous. Nice eyes and a pleasing personality are what matters.

[quote]More importantly, do you recycle?

I don't have room in my kitchen!

r91 marry me!

I'm somewhere between 5 and 6 inches in length, but the base of my cock is insanely thick. I am just a little less thick around than a Coke can.

I'm mostly bttm but I have guys who loved the thickness, and two guys told me I was the first dick to really stretch them open and make them cum. (I'm also a super heavy shooter, which almost everyone I play with likes a lot.)

American fattards' cocks will be shrunk to what? 3 inches when their weight reaches 400 lbs.?

I don’t exactly look at a stranger’s crotch, but I have no skills judging whether a clothed man is packing. So I’m at a loss that others are able to make (accurate) size comments about me even when I’m wearing loose-fitting pants.

I find the thumbs are a general give away.

R98 Shoes and feet, big feet big meat.

I think they should do average size by race. It's clear that some races are on average larger and some are smaller.

A rich friend usually answers the question this way.

"How big is your dick?"

"Sixteen million dollars excluding the townhouse."

It works surprisingly well.

"I’m sensing jealously in this thread."

Interesting Freudian slip.

At any rate, these threads are always filled with the lamest fantasies. Although, IMO, nothing could type the one eye color thread where several people claimed to have eyes that changed color. Not that their eyes looked different colors depending on surrounding colors or light sources; but that their eyes actually changed color, like some character on some CW vampire show.

I tell a lie: there was one thread where a certain someone (you know poo) claimed that their delicate eyebrow situation was the secret to their spectacular beauty.

I'm sure she's on this thread bragging about her big penis.

I can relate to R45 and R62. I'm 6.5" as well ("bone-pressed"--I've never heard that until now, but lol, very true!) and unsure about circumference (whatever average is I reckon). I'm happy with it. It's a nice cock and does the job. I'm glad it works. I've developed a complex over other things in life, so I'm glad I'm at least average here. But, it's stupid and saddening that I even find comfort in it.

I'm fascinated about stories we hear about actors in Hollywood. Big dicks seem to be overrepresented there. Kind of reminds me of Dirk Diggler in Boogie Nights. They get a false sense of their worth and it gives them the confidence to get into films.

I have a high amount of respect for those "below average" and can negotiate the bullshit this world places on us.

Those are my thoughts.

There isn't a standard way to measure, so there's an issue right there. Do we do the inside (the side that would hit our stomachs if we were lying down on our backs) or the outside? If on the inside, do we measure from the point where it juts out from the body to the tip? If on the outside, do we include any of the balls, because it sort of merges? What about curvature? As someone mentioned above, if there's any curvature, the inside measurement will be shorter and the outside measurement longer. A tape measure is obviously much better than a straight-edge ruler.

I've said it before and I'll say it again. There are only two things in this world that I can't abide: Size queens and small dicks.

I was blessed with 8 and third inches. I posted proof of my boasts several years ago. I'm from the Show Me State.

Make that 8 a third. It's late and I'm lit. So sue me.

Big dicks rule, I've never heard anyone say I wish I had a smaller dick.

If only the Datalounge had some way of polling readers’ answers to your question, OP.

Are smaller and//or averaged-sized guys intimidated by big-dicked guys?

Uh yeah

You know what I hate? An 8 incher below a big beer belly.

You know what I love? A 5 incher on a fit, trim daddy.

I'll never for the life of me understand what's supposed to be appealing about an 8 inch dick; ugly and impractical.

R114 is “average”

r113 that is funny I would rather a big cock on a fat bear than a small cock on a fitness model.

I have a cock with an average length, but with a good amount of girth. The head on it is enormous, and that's what guys say first when we get naked. Most don't bother to deep throat me, they are fixated on the head and its underside. I'm not complaining. I feel like the head is going to explode when the right guy blows me.

As for anal, honestly I have never given or received. I'm not into it. I will blow a guy dry; I'll keep going until the last drop he can muster.

I'm with R116.

Would a less-endowed man ever shy away from pursuing someone whom he knew or sensed to be much larger?

Reply 19, they sure do! I barely crack 8 inches when bone pressed, so like 7.5 visually, and little dicked guys tend to hound me, BIG time. They just love my cock!

I have fat dick a little over 6.5 inches. I haven't had any complaints

And the average erect penis is still 5.1 inches.

R121 sounds ideal to me!

[107] Must be a Kansas City thing. I also have a 8 incher and live in KC. Must be the water.

I used to say 6" on online profiles, even though I never really measured. I used to work in construction and could eye measurements pretty well. Guys would show up and tell me it looked bigger. That said, I've been bigger than 3/4 of the guys I've been with.

The worst was a guy who I thought was the best looking man I had ever seen and he said he had 8". I guess because he was pretty no one ever called him out on it. So when he said "wow that's a big 6 inches" i said "and that's a small 8". He wasn't happy and didn't even stay to cuddle after getting railed.