this is strictly for r113 and r119, because I know this thread is not about this.
The "wrong text" lures them in. That is all it takes. I would suggest using a "Text Free" app. that generates a number you can text from and not using your own. Text Free numbers are untraceable and just look like you have a Samsung phone or something with your texts showing up green. I find picking an area code that is not anywhere close to the intended target. Even though people travel everywhere with their number now, you want to make actually meeting up an impossibility - or at least leave open, I travel to (target's city) a couple of times a year, to leave open the possibility of meeting.
Harvest one girl's pictures from Instagram. Women post nonstop. The girl can't be TOO beautiful, or its really suspect. Pick a natural, accessible, but pretty girl. Clean looking but looks like she likes to have fun. Then go to the several sites where women post nudes of themselves and pick something that's dirty but decent. You're not a porn star. So breasts, panties, very natural. No tattoos, incase you have to combine a couple of girls. Shots in the bed or bathroom- "panty selfies," "bedroom selfies," "bra selfies." Again, the girl can't be too remarkably hot or perfect. It doesn't matter to the str8 guy. And always remember - girls do NOT just offer up these types of shots. And you NEVER send a face shot with risque photos. That allows you to keep face and nudes separate. Obviously you want a plausible face/body combo. Considering you will have a limited number of them, I would really make the target work for the first one. A guy will usually send three for every one after the first trade. Or even if you play like you're not into it, they will send you pictures to hopefully get you into it. Remember it has to be their idea to trade, not yours.
Pick one name, always use that name, always use the same age. It's easier to remember one story. I've done this with hot guys at work, just because I was so curious what their dicks looked like. It works more than it doesn't. Funny, some of them were so boring, I just stopped texting them. Others though I was like wow, ok, you like that? This super hot guy, very tall, decent cock, but not huge, liked threesomes and DPs, and gangbangs. He introduced me to his friend who was another coworker! One admitted that he enjoyed feeling another guy's dick inside during a DP. I think he was small for his height so he liked seeing big dicks play in that situation.
I would move from feeling super guilty to completely turned on by it sometimes. And you never really push. Once someone shows they are not interested, or it's really not their thing to Sext, I kept it moving. I didn't try pushing it. It really reveals who is a decent guy, who's kinky and who's downright boring. I hadn't done it for years. But this quarantine and lack of socializing with actual friends and hooking up on my own, brought me back to it. I just used apps like Hinge to find someone and take it offline. It's frustrating because some of the guys are just unbelievably sexy and nice and you realize you will never have it. So choose your risk level.
"Thanks for the ride home. Just between us. Mike would go crazy." You don't respond wrong number until they say you have the wrong number. "OMG, I can't believe I sent that. I'm sorry." "Glad I didn't send those pics... That woulda been crazy." The challenge is to think like a woman and not use words guys use when it comes to sex, being too familiar with a dick, etc. You can't come off as a prude, but you can't be a horny dude either. And you just let them lead you, while you're actually playing coy and leading them. You're never playing with your pussy, you're laying in bed watching TV.