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"I will teach my grandkids to hate you"

Absolute trash human beings.

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by Anonymousreply 67Last Friday at 4:33 AM

[quote]Absolute trash human beings.

and ironically that comment makes YOU worse than them.

And even more pathetic is you're too stupid to realize it,

And finally what is a disaster is you felt the need to share it.

Ergo: You need help, seek it.

by Anonymousreply 106/22/2020

How so r1?

by Anonymousreply 206/22/2020

I knew without watching it would be another Gen X Cow

by Anonymousreply 306/22/2020

I told you. It's always white women. Always.

by Anonymousreply 406/22/2020

Hate = Trash

At any socio-economic level, age, gender, or ethnicity, hate is trash.

Oh, and so’s r1

by Anonymousreply 506/22/2020

[quote]and ironically that comment makes YOU worse than them.

Not really, no.

by Anonymousreply 606/22/2020

In some sense, it does, actually, because you cannot claim ignorance. You knew what you were doing when you were doing it (hating and judging). It's a struggle not to judge others or proclaim them to be repulsive. It's a basic part of our natures.

Allowing someone expressing hatred to drag you down to their level by creating the same reaction is never good. It's a good demonstration in the overall lack of emotional control in our culture.

It's a subtle, but important difference. I'm not xtian, but the phrase 'hate the sin, not the sinner' comes to mind here when saying shit like 'you're worse than her' - which ironically, makes that person judging you for judging her for judging the invisible spectators a passenger in the same boat.

See how that works? The way judgments and intolerance spreads? It's perfectly fine to make a discernment about this person's values and that you do not wish to share them or respect them....but to judge her value is to inhabit the same territory of hate.

by Anonymousreply 706/22/2020

Just a friendly reminder:

Boris wants to destroy America and its power by posting things that provoke hatred toward each other.

Have a nice spiral!

by Anonymousreply 806/22/2020

So stop hating, r7, and you’ll stop being trash.

Blacks can’t stop being black, gays can’t stop being gays, women can’t stop being women. But you CAN stop hating.

At least in theory. If you can’t stop hating then yes, you are trash.

by Anonymousreply 906/22/2020

I eat piles of shit.

by Anonymousreply 1006/22/2020

Im an old queen , seen and heard it all , and Ive never given these type of people one second of attention. They just dont exist to me . If everyone treated them that way maybe theyd crawl back under the rock they slithered out from . Growing up super gay in a straight world ,you learn very early to ignore a lot of crap. I wouldnt waste a disdainful glance that bitches way.

by Anonymousreply 1106/22/2020

You had me at Boris and lost me at spiral, R8.

Friendly reminders are usually not accompanied by a heartfelt wish for doom. Odd.

by Anonymousreply 1206/22/2020

Hate speech is hate speech, no matter what side of the line you stand on. Yeah, I'd like this lady to stop hating, but I don't have to accept her hatred. Nor do you. SHE, however, lives in the world as as human being and is not 'trash.'

Stop do you help her do that? By hating her back? Calling her trash? Saying she has to take personal responsibility and walk away? How do we go about learning to stop hating and living together in peace?

Seems simple, R9, doesn't it? But what is your role in the drama?

by Anonymousreply 1306/22/2020

Pretty sure she’d be like that with or without Trump.

by Anonymousreply 1406/22/2020

People who rob others of their humanity do not deserve to have their humanity honored, r13. They forfeit that right by denying it to others.

by Anonymousreply 1506/22/2020

So if you call Nazis trash, you are no better than the Nazis?

by Anonymousreply 1606/22/2020

Agree with R11. I’m from NYC and lived briefly in Buffalo, where I encountered many people like that horrid woman. Never took them seriously. They don’t go anywhere in life, and those “grandkids” will either reject her hate or remain in the mud of ignorance.

by Anonymousreply 1706/22/2020

TwO WRoNGs doN'T make a RIghT

by Anonymousreply 1806/22/2020

And appeasing racists hasn’t worked very well either, Mr. Bumpersticker

by Anonymousreply 1906/22/2020

There is a huge difference between judging large groups of people as a mass and judging one person based on her behavior.

No, they are not equivalent.

by Anonymousreply 2006/22/2020

Let me be clear. You don't have to be her friend, and you don't have to be silent in the face of her hatred. You don't have to hate HER, just her views.

To demean a human being, no matter what they've done, is to sink to the same level. Rise and see the mistake when you do this.

She forfeits nothing. She's a human being, like Hitler was. She was born innocent and somehow, like Hitler, she became corrupted. Her hatred is a disease. Find the source of the corruption and root it out.

by Anonymousreply 2106/22/2020

Do you feel the same about serial killers?

Just curious where (if) you draw the line.

by Anonymousreply 2206/22/2020

Dial it back, Melodrama Mary at R12. That wasn't a "heartfelt wish for doom," it was an accurate representation of how these threads always spiral into massive hatefests.

These threads are started very specifically to get replies like R1, which then sets up a false dichotomy that, for some reason, Dataloungers love to argue about.

Right now, people are trying really hard to turn this into a "the left is just as bad as the right because hate is wrong no matter what." That's the false dichotomy set up as an argument: is the left "allowed" to hate a person who acts this way, or are they supposed to be "the better person" and hate the views, not the person?

And it's getting a little thick in here because the primary antagonist has just invoked Hitler. Already! At barely 20 replies!

So yes, these things spiral. They always do.

by Anonymousreply 2306/22/2020

If she were teaching her grandchildren to murder blacks, would that be enough for you?

by Anonymousreply 2406/22/2020

I’m sure you’re used to hearing Hitler comparisons, but we’re just trying to see where you draw the line.

by Anonymousreply 2506/22/2020

How about if she knelt for the National Anthem. Would that make her trash in your eyes?

by Anonymousreply 2606/22/2020

Serial killers, child molesters, murderers, killer cops, people like her.....

All human, just like you. Look at them and understand that you are not all that different. You, too, are capable of atrocity under certain situations.

Lock them up away from others, but do not be cruel. Try to find out how to help, not make it worse. So many come out of our prisons worse than when they went in. Would you say it's a system or attitude that's working? Has it ever worked?

We have laws. You break them and there are consequences. I'm not for coddling law breakers or some goof with a bleeding heart.

by Anonymousreply 2706/22/2020

You want to know where I, personally, who have only posted once in this thread, and who you don't know at all (and couldn't identify even if you had my full personal information) stand on this philosophical question, R25?


by Anonymousreply 2806/22/2020

R26, I don't like baiting. You want to confront me and call me out as if I'm defending her views then do so.

Her views are despicable. She's still a human being. You don't get to change that.

by Anonymousreply 2906/22/2020

[quote]...these things spiral

Next thing you know, cops will be shooting blacks in the back in the streets!

by Anonymousreply 3006/22/2020

R1's argument is just another take on the alt-right/Russian troll meme, 'you're just as bad for being intolerant of my (their) intolerance.' It's a poor argument.

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by Anonymousreply 3106/22/2020

I think your Kumbaya approach is getting people murdered in the streets

by Anonymousreply 3206/22/2020

R21 sounds like some Christian Evangelical bullshit I have zero interest in.

by Anonymousreply 3306/22/2020

Did anyone tell her the South lost?

by Anonymousreply 3406/22/2020

PoisonedDragon posts many divisive things so he isn't any better than R1.

Maybe they are working together to divide gay men.

by Anonymousreply 3506/22/2020

[quote]R26, I don't like baiting. You want to confront me and call me out as if I'm defending her views then do so.

You're the one who has said you're not going to "coddle some goof with a bleeding heart." You're the one invoking Hitler.

For someone who doesn't like baiting, you're sure doing a lot of it.

by Anonymousreply 3606/22/2020
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by Anonymousreply 3706/22/2020

Hello. I am Boris, here, and I am not Russian as somes of you thinks. I am good patriot American, and I agrees with r1 who says that we must not hates the people who loves our wonderful President Trump. It is time we knows that there are no Russians on this site making the discords between the patriot Americans who loves our country. The Russians do not comes to this site. Thanks you all.

by Anonymousreply 3806/22/2020

I don't see it that way. I see this woman's views as completely corrupt and full of hate. You don't fight back with hatred and the same arsenal of name calling and dehumanizing.

You call it out for what it is, shout it down and drown it out. You stand together and declare her words as trash. She can live how she chooses, it's a free country, but you don't have to tolerate it.

R36, nice try, but I just answered someone asking a question about Hitler. I didn't invoke his evil acts or his views, just the fact that he was born human. Trolldar is a great way to figure out who posts what.

by Anonymousreply 3906/22/2020

It's interesting that R1 isn't even the guy who later went on to spam the thread with "liberals should love everyone including serial killers and Hitler because they're all HUMAN and you're mean for denying them their humanity!"

by Anonymousreply 4006/22/2020

[quote]Trolldar is a great way to figure out who posts what.

We haven't had trolldar in five years or longer.

The ignore-dar trick shows you're the first one who brought up Hitler, as far as I can tell.

by Anonymousreply 4106/22/2020

Not likely that troll’s a “guy”. This stinks of frausplaining.

by Anonymousreply 4206/22/2020

Right, and how interesting that you ignore the real point of my posts, R40, which is that you don't gain anything by imitating that which you perceive to be wrong and hateful.

You are human. So were they. Maybe not as nice (I don't know you) and certainly not deserving of any real attention. The only way hatred gains a foothold (ask Germans) is when there is already hatred in the hearts of those hearing it.

Check yourself, human.

I call it trolldar, R41, as an oldster who remembers. The ignore tab is used similarly.

by Anonymousreply 4306/22/2020

And there it is: 'Frausplaining'

demean, label, dehumanize

by Anonymousreply 4406/22/2020

Every time we stand up to hate, we get the “I thought you liberals were tolerant” nonsense.

We got over this nonsense a long time ago. Loving the hater hasn’t worked. Let’s try standing up to them for a change.

by Anonymousreply 4506/22/2020

If you’re going to hate, r44, you’re going to get called out on it

You’re clouding your hate in a cloud of self-righteousness, but it is hate nevertheless

by Anonymousreply 4606/22/2020

OP, you are either extremely naive, or you like to hear the self-righteous snottiness of your own voice.

by Anonymousreply 4706/22/2020

Stop coming on gay sites and telling us what’s what, and we won’t accuse you of frausplaining

by Anonymousreply 4806/22/2020

She's not really a Karen, so what's the name for a KKK loving, hateful White Supremacist bitch? Tammy? Becky Sue?

by Anonymousreply 4906/22/2020

What "oldster" acts surprised at the word "frausplaining"?

by Anonymousreply 5006/22/2020


by Anonymousreply 5106/22/2020

How privileged do you have to be to come on to a gay site and lecture us on how we’re allowed to react to hate?

by Anonymousreply 5206/22/2020

These assholes teach their kids, and it starts early. I think the schools need to teach tolerance and anti-bullying, as early as kindergarten. Seriously, we need diversity training for kindergartners. If a child says a slur (racist, homophobic, misogynist), suspend the kid for a few days, and let mom/dad stay home from work to watch the kid. School districts that refuse to teach the curriculum automatically forfeit federal funding. And if parents don't like it let them pay their own money for private school.

by Anonymousreply 5306/22/2020

R8 right you are and it's not just Boris. A good chunk of people on social media have lost their wits and live for TROLLING. Totally a spiral in chaos.

by Anonymousreply 5406/22/2020

Yeah enough of the fucking Dali Lama on this thread. I hope the woman in OP gets covid!

by Anonymousreply 5506/22/2020

This is just another version of blaming normal rational people for Trump winning the election - because we condescended to his base (who are mostly disgusting racist human garbage).

Fuck this cunt woman and her miserable chicken fried existence. The sooner these people die out the better the world will be.

by Anonymousreply 5606/22/2020

I'm guessing she's on welfare but hates Black people being given "handouts"

by Anonymousreply 5706/22/2020

Is the racist "be tolerant of this WT redneck bitch" pissed off because that's his Memaw in the video? Or is it you?

It's all cutting too close to home for you isn't it? You're vociferously defending her because that's either you and your entire family (it obviously is) or you're a little bitch who comes on here to look at naked men and won't admit it.

Either way, fuck off and die. No doubt you'll come back with some more beatific and self-righteous commentary, but please be aware, I won't read it, and I don't give a fuck what people like you and your scarecrow-haired MeMaw think. You're all too stupid to live, and you're a dying breed, and that's why you're all spazzing out. Go cash your SSDI, pop some oxy and go listen to Rush L. it'll soothe you.

But obviously, still, fuck off.

by Anonymousreply 5806/22/2020

Don't worry, her grandkids already hate her

by Anonymousreply 5906/22/2020

Ladies and gentlemen: I present you American white trash

by Anonymousreply 6006/22/2020

R3, that lady doesn't look GenX? She looks like a grandmother desperately trying to look early fifties.

by Anonymousreply 6106/22/2020

She’s a cunt. And anyone who defends her in any way is cunt-adjacent.

by Anonymousreply 6206/22/2020

The nice thing about that video is you know that that woman and her family have horrible lives. They're heroin addicts and can;t find jobs

by Anonymousreply 6306/23/2020

She is what she is and just because she claims to hate you isn't a reason for hating her back. Ignore her stupid ass, like she deserves.

Saying she needs to die? Too far.

by Anonymousreply 6406/29/2020

Not too far for someone like her.

by Anonymousreply 65Last Friday at 3:27 AM

Forgiveness is fucking hard.

by Anonymousreply 66Last Friday at 3:37 AM

R26 who the fuck does that?

by Anonymousreply 67Last Friday at 4:33 AM
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