I love to call guys “daddy” when they fuck me

The answer is YES to both your questions.

hi !

A couple of years ago, I messed around with a "straight" married guy. At one point, I said, "Do you like that?" And he said, "Yes, sir. Keep going, sir."

I dunno. That was kind of a turn-off for me. I'm not much into nomenclature role play in sex. I prefer the natural moans and groans over the fantasy type dialogue.

R2 ?

At 26, it's not too old if you're hooking up with guys who are significantly older than you, like late 40s/early 50s but it can be a bit weird if you're hooking up with guys your age.

I've found the daddy thing is either a huge turn on or turn off to guys with very little in-between so it's one of those things that's best to bring up prior to doing it when you're fucking.

I address them as "minion"--I like to pretend I'm Cersei Lannister.

R5 I'm one of the turn off guys. I don't like it when a guy or gal does it. First I'm only in my mid-30s. Secondly, it just makes me feel dirty. Third, parents are the last thing I want to enter my mind during sex.

[quote]not like I have daddy issues or something

That's immediately what I think of when somebody calls me 'Daddy'. Nope, your father issues are not a turn on.

[quote]And he said, "Yes, sir. Keep going, sir."

R3 That's the military fantasy thing. A sort of sub-genre of the daddy thing. The top is the four-star general, the bottom the sweet private.

R9 I'd like for people to discuss such things beforehand. Sir would make me uncomfortable, as well.

I hooked up with a black guy, who was apparently into raceplay. I didn't know that beforehand. In the middle of hooking up he started asking me to call him the "n-word" and using other racial epithets to describe himself. It made me very uncomfortable. After I blew my load, I got out of there as quick as I could.

Not to you, r8, but other men like to be called "daddy."

Your snippiness issues are not a turn on.

R10, meet R5.

I don't like it when men call each other faggot in porn. I couldn't imagine doing it in bed. It's usually a certain genre of pron where this appears, but a Daddy, here or there, wouldn't bother me.

Being called Daddy is a boner killer for me

Too many people are unimaginative when it comes to filth, and rely on porn cliches to get going. I miss the days when dirty talk was self generated. I once dated a guy who had the filthiest mind, and he was very verbally expressive. Every night we spent together fired me up until the next time. He still features in my memory wank bank thirty years later. He was one dirty bastard.

I should have added a poll. How is that is so popular in porn and not in real life?

"and rely on porn cliches to get going."

Yea, can it with the Jeff Strykker cringeworthy bullshit dialog.

Then go see a shrink about your unresolved daddy issues. No one is interested in being a surrogate parent to your numerous psychological issues.

Had a hookup 2 years OLDER than me wanting ME to be "daddy". I made a weak attempt. While I'm old enough to be daddy (37) and I have no delusions on my age, I also don't see myself as that archetype. I'm also not sure what I'm supposed to do with that title, incest is gross.

For me, verbal role play is everything, especially for one nighters. I’ll save the “real” stuff for the real relationships.

OP = and the “daddies” he likes are white

R7 agree

I'm 67. If you want to hook up with me, I'm fine if you call me "grandpa."

Live ya life! If it gets ya going go with it

I love to call a guy “Daddy” when he gives me an allowance. Forget the sex role play.

Who is this codger at R23? I imagine a guy with Popeye forearms, a squint, and a pipe.

Aaargh...it's a sailor's life for me.

As much as I hate being called Daddy, there are worse things. I was with this guy once who wouldn't say suck, he said suckle instead. Suckle my cock, etc...

It was too gross, and even though he was hot I never hooked up with him again.

R26 This is from an adjacent DL thread "Adults who say Veggies instead of Vegetables..." Thought you might enjoy it:

[quote]I avoid all of those childish expressions or ways of referring to things...

[R10] I agree. I always refer to my penis - and the penis of my darling of the day - as a penis. Never cock or dick or sweet manmeat or my big fucking lovebone or The Chokester. I simply ask him where he would like me to place my penis and then I comply. Using the correct anatomical terms guarantees an exciting sexual intercourse.

I lose my erection when men say things like “would you like to ejaculate?” or “would you like to penetrate me?”

Interesting! I love to call my daddy when I need a fucking.

I like it when Hispanic guys say, "Fuck me, papi!"

As a man who attracts younger guys with daddy interests, I like knowing in advance that I'm expected to play out a scenario or faux-strangle a guy or demand to be called "Sir." It's not like such things are inevitable, and they're not of much interest to me.

Does everyone get objectified?

The only thing I care about is the hole.

I used to hook up with a guy because he was a hot daddy, but he absolutely hated to be called and be thought of as a daddy.

So it was just my fantasy

[quote]I like it when Hispanic guys say, "Fuck me, papi!"

R30 The first time I heard that, I thought he was saying "Fuck me, Poppy" -- I had no idea who or what Poppy was. Very confusing. Only later did I get the daddy reference.

Saying “daddy” at 26 is weird. 25 and below babes!

Oh, jeez, so many rigid thin-lipped prudes.

Sex (as I remember it - very old married man now) was a banquet. So many ways to love. Tolerating, even actually enjoying encountering a partner's surprising and different needs. Dancing or singing are analogies. The song can be in many keys. A good lover sees what dance steps the partner takes... lead when needed.

R30 R34 Hearing "o si, papi!" when you hit the guy's g-spot way up in there, nothing is hotter.

[quote]Is not like I have daddy issues or something.

Yes, it is.

It skeeves me out completely. The last person I want to think about while I'm having sex is my father.

I don't wanna hear anything. Just shut up and fuck.

I still call my actual father "daddy", so can't stand when it's used in a romantic way. Do straight guys call girls "mommy"? Always seemed like a strange thing to me to bring your parents into intercourse.

Is r37 Mackenzie Phillips or Ivanka?