My husband used the N word twice this week.

Tell him you'll leave hi if he ever uses that word again. And then, if he does, seriously, leave him.

Tell him that you can do better and pack your bags.

...is he black?

Stealthy deplorable division thread!

Gurl, he's been cheating with a brother uses the word casually and it's rubbed off on him!

Do I have to be the one to say it?

OP: Are you black?

Could you post wedding photos for us to peruse?

give us the context! not to excuse him, but just because we want to know

100% absolute get him the fuck out - if this is true.

Since it's not, based on your overtelling "We live in Atlanta."

Grow the fuck up.

This is probably the same OP who in the past two days has been fingered by his boss and jammed a pink dildo up his twat.

Develop a better routine. Shecky!

Never happened.

I really do always wonder why people make up stupid shit.

Was he singing along to a NWA rap?

present hole and make your decision based on how deep he plunges his penis inside thee, never ever through away a good shtupper.

[quote]I really do always wonder why people make up stupid shit.

They probably have nothing to say.

Verificatia?

He’s projecting. Fucking a black man or woman, or both, if he’s lucky!

Deliver his cracker mouth a vicious slapping!

I know for a fact that the n-word is casually thrown around among whites in the Atlanta gay community, often as a "joke." I finally had to tell my brother to stop using it, but he refuses.

I'm curious as to what the content of why he was saying it?

R22 - his black partner suggested putting a Thomas Kincaid painting above the mid-century modern sofa and he just couldn't hold back a "N-er please!"

[quote] never ever through away

Oh, dear!

Leave him?

Way to go from 0 to 250 you MARY.

How did you last 7 years together if you can’t confront him with how you feel about it before THAT is your plan A?

Why is everyone assuming it’s “that” N-word? I have a feeling OP is trolling us, and the big reveal is that the word is actually something less objectionable, but still good reason to break up with BF over. Like “Nescafé.”

R24 - I am all for good spelling, grammar and punctuation but how gay do you have to be to "oh, dear!" even the most obvious spell check errors of a poster who was obviously typing quickly on his/her phone...smh

Maybe the COVID-19 got to the PC part if his brain before it makes it's way to the lungs....damn red states and their re-opening

Nutella?

I’m leaving both of you,

R1.

I'm biracial and hear it all.

But if straight African Americans who use the word "faggot" were cancelled by their "husbands" or wives or partners, the black birth rate would collapse.

Quit. Giving. Power. To. Idiots.

And don't come here with your trolling shit, OP. We see you.

What N word? Nylons?

If you would rather talk to strangers about your relationship than your partner in real life, you clearly lack the intelligence and maturity needed to be in a relationship. Do him a favor and cut him lose. He is wasted on you.

Necrophilia?

Necos?

Did you just ask him why he says that? Don't be such a dumbass.

Needs to be tied up and abused by a big you know what man!

I’m giving this entire thread the side eye

This is such bullshit OP. Get the fuck over it. I'm sure there's been a bunch of shit that's come out of your mouth that your husband hasn't liked either. If that's the worst thing you've ever heard him say you should only be so lucky. I hope he dumps your ass and hope he dumps you for a black guy.

Maybe you should move out of Atlanta

There’s only one thing you CAN do, op. Go to the nearest bridge and hurl yourself off it while weeping for your lost love.

Drop him off in Grove Park and if he makes it home you can forgive him.

Please tell me you weren't at Greenbrier Mall.

So you have known him how long? He just started??? I don't think so.

Snoop Dogg said it like 700 times yesterday....

You better NOT have been at the King Center .

OP is a Russian troll. Look at his post history. & block.

Were you on the patio at BULLDOGS ?

Yet another stupid troll post.

how can you tell r50

Nutcase is my guess.

Depends. How big is his dick and how much money does he make?

R53 5” and tons that’s why he stays

Well, at least I hope the jokes were funny.

I'm not sure if his calling you Nancy is grounds for breaking up. Unless perhaps if it were during sex.

never happened

OP Everyone in Atlanta says the N-word. Looks like your either going to be celebrate or move to Finland.

"I have a feeling OP is trolling us"

OP is either retarded or trolling or both.

I guess we're to assume that it was a racial pejorative since you mentioned that you live in Atlanta. But here's something for the folks who make it sound like Atlanta is 99% black. People who say they live in Atlanta are usually don't mean the city of Atlanta but the 29 county metro- area that makes up Atlanta. The population is right at 6 million people with 53% white and 34% black. Being around a lot of black people has never been a detractor of non-Blacks using that word. So living in Atlanta doesn't mean anything.

My question is why are you asking strangers? He's your husband. If it bothers you, tell HIM and ask HIM to not do it again. Either he loves you and will resolve whatever is going on that's making him say the word, or he'll try to justify it and keep saying it and prove that he's not the person that you fell in love with and married. Or is he?

Nene?

Nelly.

Nanoo

OP’s husband didn’t use the N word. It was OP herself who said it and got bitch slapped.

Noxzema?

The n-word is an adaption of the Spanish word 'negro' which is a derivative or descendent of the Latin adjective 'niger' which means black. So where does this morph into a derogatory, racist insult. I know that it is, but it's origins are not.

R67 Calling someone an adjective depersonalizes people by characterizing them as a physical/psychological trait or mental condition. Especially when it’s turned into a noun, like “black/negro,” “cripple,” “retard,” “homo,” etc. All of these words are innocuous when used in different contexts - as adjectives or verbs.

[R67] Perhaps it has something to do with the use of the word by racist slave owners in the US, and then racist white supremacists post Civil War, and then racist Jim Crowers, and then racist Jim Crow esqs and now the use by white racist nationalists?

If you investigate the usage by those folks as you did the origin, I bet you'll probably come upon the who , what, when , where and how of the word morphing into a derogatory racist insult.

No, it predates your examples.

[R70] I didn't say that it didn't pre-date it. My point was that perhaps it was the way that it was used by those in power over Blacks during the given periods that led to its morphing into a derogatory racist insult.

I blame that racist Mark Twain.

please bump this thread

Ok, I’ll put in the request.

Oh hon, is he the one that started all this trouble by chance?

OP was that you I saw being hoisted atop the CNN sign ? Hmmmm? Well? Huh? Was it?

Are you dead yet, OP? I hope so!

Is his name Dwight?