We’ve been together 7 years and I’ve never heard him say this before. Should I leave him? We live in Atlanta.
My husband used the N word twice this week.
|by Anonymous||reply 78||06/04/2020|
Tell him you'll leave hi if he ever uses that word again. And then, if he does, seriously, leave him.
|by Anonymous||reply 1||05/20/2020|
Tell him that you can do better and pack your bags.
|by Anonymous||reply 2||05/20/2020|
...is he black?
|by Anonymous||reply 3||05/20/2020|
Stealthy deplorable division thread!
|by Anonymous||reply 4||05/20/2020|
Gurl, he's been cheating with a brother uses the word casually and it's rubbed off on him!
|by Anonymous||reply 5||05/20/2020|
Do I have to be the one to say it?
|by Anonymous||reply 6||05/20/2020|
OP: Are you black?
|by Anonymous||reply 7||05/20/2020|
Could you post wedding photos for us to peruse?
|by Anonymous||reply 8||05/20/2020|
give us the context! not to excuse him, but just because we want to know
|by Anonymous||reply 9||05/20/2020|
100% absolute get him the fuck out - if this is true.
Since it's not, based on your overtelling "We live in Atlanta."
Grow the fuck up.
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|by Anonymous||reply 11||05/20/2020|
This is probably the same OP who in the past two days has been fingered by his boss and jammed a pink dildo up his twat.
Develop a better routine. Shecky!
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|by Anonymous||reply 13||05/20/2020|
I really do always wonder why people make up stupid shit.
|by Anonymous||reply 14||05/20/2020|
Was he singing along to a NWA rap?
|by Anonymous||reply 15||05/20/2020|
present hole and make your decision based on how deep he plunges his penis inside thee, never ever through away a good shtupper.
|by Anonymous||reply 16||05/20/2020|
[quote]I really do always wonder why people make up stupid shit.
They probably have nothing to say.
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|by Anonymous||reply 18||05/20/2020|
He’s projecting. Fucking a black man or woman, or both, if he’s lucky!
|by Anonymous||reply 19||05/20/2020|
Deliver his cracker mouth a vicious slapping!
|by Anonymous||reply 20||05/20/2020|
I know for a fact that the n-word is casually thrown around among whites in the Atlanta gay community, often as a "joke." I finally had to tell my brother to stop using it, but he refuses.
|by Anonymous||reply 21||05/20/2020|
I'm curious as to what the content of why he was saying it?
|by Anonymous||reply 22||05/20/2020|
R22 - his black partner suggested putting a Thomas Kincaid painting above the mid-century modern sofa and he just couldn't hold back a "N-er please!"
|by Anonymous||reply 23||05/20/2020|
[quote] never ever through away
|by Anonymous||reply 24||05/20/2020|
Way to go from 0 to 250 you MARY.
How did you last 7 years together if you can’t confront him with how you feel about it before THAT is your plan A?
|by Anonymous||reply 25||05/20/2020|
Why is everyone assuming it’s “that” N-word? I have a feeling OP is trolling us, and the big reveal is that the word is actually something less objectionable, but still good reason to break up with BF over. Like “Nescafé.”
|by Anonymous||reply 26||05/20/2020|
R24 - I am all for good spelling, grammar and punctuation but how gay do you have to be to "oh, dear!" even the most obvious spell check errors of a poster who was obviously typing quickly on his/her phone...smh
|by Anonymous||reply 27||05/20/2020|
Maybe the COVID-19 got to the PC part if his brain before it makes it's way to the lungs....damn red states and their re-opening
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|by Anonymous||reply 29||05/20/2020|
I’m leaving both of you,
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|by Anonymous||reply 31||05/20/2020|
I'm biracial and hear it all.
But if straight African Americans who use the word "faggot" were cancelled by their "husbands" or wives or partners, the black birth rate would collapse.
Quit. Giving. Power. To. Idiots.
And don't come here with your trolling shit, OP. We see you.
|by Anonymous||reply 32||05/20/2020|
What N word? Nylons?
|by Anonymous||reply 33||05/20/2020|
If you would rather talk to strangers about your relationship than your partner in real life, you clearly lack the intelligence and maturity needed to be in a relationship. Do him a favor and cut him lose. He is wasted on you.
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|by Anonymous||reply 36||05/20/2020|
Did you just ask him why he says that? Don't be such a dumbass.
|by Anonymous||reply 37||05/20/2020|
Needs to be tied up and abused by a big you know what man!
|by Anonymous||reply 38||05/20/2020|
I’m giving this entire thread the side eye
|by Anonymous||reply 39||05/20/2020|
This is such bullshit OP. Get the fuck over it. I'm sure there's been a bunch of shit that's come out of your mouth that your husband hasn't liked either. If that's the worst thing you've ever heard him say you should only be so lucky. I hope he dumps your ass and hope he dumps you for a black guy.
|by Anonymous||reply 40||05/20/2020|
Maybe you should move out of Atlanta
|by Anonymous||reply 41||05/20/2020|
There’s only one thing you CAN do, op. Go to the nearest bridge and hurl yourself off it while weeping for your lost love.
|by Anonymous||reply 42||05/20/2020|
Drop him off in Grove Park and if he makes it home you can forgive him.
|by Anonymous||reply 43||05/20/2020|
Please tell me you weren't at Greenbrier Mall.
|by Anonymous||reply 44||05/20/2020|
So you have known him how long? He just started??? I don't think so.
|by Anonymous||reply 45||05/20/2020|
Snoop Dogg said it like 700 times yesterday....
|by Anonymous||reply 46||05/20/2020|
You better NOT have been at the King Center .
|by Anonymous||reply 47||05/20/2020|
OP is a Russian troll. Look at his post history. & block.
|by Anonymous||reply 48||05/20/2020|
Were you on the patio at BULLDOGS ?
|by Anonymous||reply 49||05/20/2020|
Yet another stupid troll post.
|by Anonymous||reply 50||05/20/2020|
how can you tell r50
|by Anonymous||reply 51||05/20/2020|
Nutcase is my guess.
|by Anonymous||reply 52||05/20/2020|
Depends. How big is his dick and how much money does he make?
|by Anonymous||reply 53||05/20/2020|
R53 5” and tons that’s why he stays
|by Anonymous||reply 54||05/20/2020|
Well, at least I hope the jokes were funny.
|by Anonymous||reply 55||05/20/2020|
I'm not sure if his calling you Nancy is grounds for breaking up. Unless perhaps if it were during sex.
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|by Anonymous||reply 57||05/20/2020|
OP Everyone in Atlanta says the N-word. Looks like your either going to be celebrate or move to Finland.
|by Anonymous||reply 58||05/20/2020|
"I have a feeling OP is trolling us"
|by Anonymous||reply 59||05/20/2020|
OP is either retarded or trolling or both.
|by Anonymous||reply 60||05/20/2020|
I guess we're to assume that it was a racial pejorative since you mentioned that you live in Atlanta. But here's something for the folks who make it sound like Atlanta is 99% black. People who say they live in Atlanta are usually don't mean the city of Atlanta but the 29 county metro- area that makes up Atlanta. The population is right at 6 million people with 53% white and 34% black. Being around a lot of black people has never been a detractor of non-Blacks using that word. So living in Atlanta doesn't mean anything.
My question is why are you asking strangers? He's your husband. If it bothers you, tell HIM and ask HIM to not do it again. Either he loves you and will resolve whatever is going on that's making him say the word, or he'll try to justify it and keep saying it and prove that he's not the person that you fell in love with and married. Or is he?
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|by Anonymous||reply 64||05/21/2020|
OP’s husband didn’t use the N word. It was OP herself who said it and got bitch slapped.
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|by Anonymous||reply 66||05/21/2020|
The n-word is an adaption of the Spanish word 'negro' which is a derivative or descendent of the Latin adjective 'niger' which means black. So where does this morph into a derogatory, racist insult. I know that it is, but it's origins are not.
|by Anonymous||reply 67||05/21/2020|
R67 Calling someone an adjective depersonalizes people by characterizing them as a physical/psychological trait or mental condition. Especially when it’s turned into a noun, like “black/negro,” “cripple,” “retard,” “homo,” etc. All of these words are innocuous when used in different contexts - as adjectives or verbs.
|by Anonymous||reply 68||05/21/2020|
[R67] Perhaps it has something to do with the use of the word by racist slave owners in the US, and then racist white supremacists post Civil War, and then racist Jim Crowers, and then racist Jim Crow esqs and now the use by white racist nationalists?
If you investigate the usage by those folks as you did the origin, I bet you'll probably come upon the who , what, when , where and how of the word morphing into a derogatory racist insult.
|by Anonymous||reply 69||05/21/2020|
No, it predates your examples.
|by Anonymous||reply 70||05/21/2020|
[R70] I didn't say that it didn't pre-date it. My point was that perhaps it was the way that it was used by those in power over Blacks during the given periods that led to its morphing into a derogatory racist insult.
|by Anonymous||reply 71||05/21/2020|
I blame that racist Mark Twain.
|by Anonymous||reply 72||05/21/2020|
please bump this thread
|by Anonymous||reply 73||05/24/2020|
Ok, I’ll put in the request.
|by Anonymous||reply 74||05/24/2020|
Oh hon, is he the one that started all this trouble by chance?
|by Anonymous||reply 75||05/30/2020|
OP was that you I saw being hoisted atop the CNN sign ? Hmmmm? Well? Huh? Was it?
|by Anonymous||reply 76||05/30/2020|
Are you dead yet, OP? I hope so!
|by Anonymous||reply 77||06/04/2020|
Is his name Dwight?
|by Anonymous||reply 78||06/04/2020|