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My husband used the N word twice this week.

We’ve been together 7 years and I’ve never heard him say this before. Should I leave him? We live in Atlanta.

by Anonymousreply 7806/04/2020

Tell him you'll leave hi if he ever uses that word again. And then, if he does, seriously, leave him.

by Anonymousreply 105/20/2020

Tell him that you can do better and pack your bags.

by Anonymousreply 205/20/2020 he black?

by Anonymousreply 305/20/2020

Stealthy deplorable division thread!

by Anonymousreply 405/20/2020

Gurl, he's been cheating with a brother uses the word casually and it's rubbed off on him!

by Anonymousreply 505/20/2020

Do I have to be the one to say it?

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by Anonymousreply 605/20/2020

OP: Are you black?

by Anonymousreply 705/20/2020

Could you post wedding photos for us to peruse?

by Anonymousreply 805/20/2020

give us the context! not to excuse him, but just because we want to know

by Anonymousreply 905/20/2020

100% absolute get him the fuck out - if this is true.

Since it's not, based on your overtelling "We live in Atlanta."

Grow the fuck up.

by Anonymousreply 1005/20/2020
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by Anonymousreply 1105/20/2020

This is probably the same OP who in the past two days has been fingered by his boss and jammed a pink dildo up his twat.

Develop a better routine. Shecky!

by Anonymousreply 1205/20/2020

Never happened.

by Anonymousreply 1305/20/2020

I really do always wonder why people make up stupid shit.

by Anonymousreply 1405/20/2020

Was he singing along to a NWA rap?

by Anonymousreply 1505/20/2020

present hole and make your decision based on how deep he plunges his penis inside thee, never ever through away a good shtupper.

by Anonymousreply 1605/20/2020

[quote]I really do always wonder why people make up stupid shit.

They probably have nothing to say.

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by Anonymousreply 1805/20/2020

He’s projecting. Fucking a black man or woman, or both, if he’s lucky!

by Anonymousreply 1905/20/2020

Deliver his cracker mouth a vicious slapping!

by Anonymousreply 2005/20/2020

I know for a fact that the n-word is casually thrown around among whites in the Atlanta gay community, often as a "joke." I finally had to tell my brother to stop using it, but he refuses.

by Anonymousreply 2105/20/2020

I'm curious as to what the content of why he was saying it?

by Anonymousreply 2205/20/2020

R22 - his black partner suggested putting a Thomas Kincaid painting above the mid-century modern sofa and he just couldn't hold back a "N-er please!"

by Anonymousreply 2305/20/2020

[quote] never ever through away

Oh, dear!

by Anonymousreply 2405/20/2020

Leave him?

Way to go from 0 to 250 you MARY.

How did you last 7 years together if you can’t confront him with how you feel about it before THAT is your plan A?

by Anonymousreply 2505/20/2020

Why is everyone assuming it’s “that” N-word? I have a feeling OP is trolling us, and the big reveal is that the word is actually something less objectionable, but still good reason to break up with BF over. Like “Nescafé.”

by Anonymousreply 2605/20/2020

R24 - I am all for good spelling, grammar and punctuation but how gay do you have to be to "oh, dear!" even the most obvious spell check errors of a poster who was obviously typing quickly on his/her phone...smh

by Anonymousreply 2705/20/2020

Maybe the COVID-19 got to the PC part if his brain before it makes it's way to the lungs....damn red states and their re-opening

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by Anonymousreply 2905/20/2020

I’m leaving both of you,

by Anonymousreply 3005/20/2020


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by Anonymousreply 3105/20/2020

I'm biracial and hear it all.

But if straight African Americans who use the word "faggot" were cancelled by their "husbands" or wives or partners, the black birth rate would collapse.

Quit. Giving. Power. To. Idiots.

And don't come here with your trolling shit, OP. We see you.

by Anonymousreply 3205/20/2020

What N word? Nylons?

by Anonymousreply 3305/20/2020

If you would rather talk to strangers about your relationship than your partner in real life, you clearly lack the intelligence and maturity needed to be in a relationship. Do him a favor and cut him lose. He is wasted on you.

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by Anonymousreply 3605/20/2020

Did you just ask him why he says that? Don't be such a dumbass.

by Anonymousreply 3705/20/2020

Needs to be tied up and abused by a big you know what man!

by Anonymousreply 3805/20/2020

I’m giving this entire thread the side eye

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by Anonymousreply 3905/20/2020

This is such bullshit OP. Get the fuck over it. I'm sure there's been a bunch of shit that's come out of your mouth that your husband hasn't liked either. If that's the worst thing you've ever heard him say you should only be so lucky. I hope he dumps your ass and hope he dumps you for a black guy.

by Anonymousreply 4005/20/2020

Maybe you should move out of Atlanta

by Anonymousreply 4105/20/2020

There’s only one thing you CAN do, op. Go to the nearest bridge and hurl yourself off it while weeping for your lost love.

by Anonymousreply 4205/20/2020

Drop him off in Grove Park and if he makes it home you can forgive him.

by Anonymousreply 4305/20/2020

Please tell me you weren't at Greenbrier Mall.

by Anonymousreply 4405/20/2020

So you have known him how long? He just started??? I don't think so.

by Anonymousreply 4505/20/2020

Snoop Dogg said it like 700 times yesterday....

by Anonymousreply 4605/20/2020

You better NOT have been at the King Center .

by Anonymousreply 4705/20/2020

OP is a Russian troll. Look at his post history. & block.

by Anonymousreply 4805/20/2020

Were you on the patio at BULLDOGS ?

by Anonymousreply 4905/20/2020

Yet another stupid troll post.

by Anonymousreply 5005/20/2020

how can you tell r50

by Anonymousreply 5105/20/2020

Nutcase is my guess.

by Anonymousreply 5205/20/2020

Depends. How big is his dick and how much money does he make?

by Anonymousreply 5305/20/2020

R53 5” and tons that’s why he stays

by Anonymousreply 5405/20/2020

Well, at least I hope the jokes were funny.

by Anonymousreply 5505/20/2020

I'm not sure if his calling you Nancy is grounds for breaking up. Unless perhaps if it were during sex.

by Anonymousreply 5605/20/2020

never happened

by Anonymousreply 5705/20/2020

OP Everyone in Atlanta says the N-word. Looks like your either going to be celebrate or move to Finland.

by Anonymousreply 5805/20/2020

"I have a feeling OP is trolling us"

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by Anonymousreply 5905/20/2020

OP is either retarded or trolling or both.

by Anonymousreply 6005/20/2020

I guess we're to assume that it was a racial pejorative since you mentioned that you live in Atlanta. But here's something for the folks who make it sound like Atlanta is 99% black. People who say they live in Atlanta are usually don't mean the city of Atlanta but the 29 county metro- area that makes up Atlanta. The population is right at 6 million people with 53% white and 34% black. Being around a lot of black people has never been a detractor of non-Blacks using that word. So living in Atlanta doesn't mean anything.

My question is why are you asking strangers? He's your husband. If it bothers you, tell HIM and ask HIM to not do it again. Either he loves you and will resolve whatever is going on that's making him say the word, or he'll try to justify it and keep saying it and prove that he's not the person that you fell in love with and married. Or is he?

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by Anonymousreply 6405/21/2020

OP’s husband didn’t use the N word. It was OP herself who said it and got bitch slapped.

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by Anonymousreply 6605/21/2020

The n-word is an adaption of the Spanish word 'negro' which is a derivative or descendent of the Latin adjective 'niger' which means black. So where does this morph into a derogatory, racist insult. I know that it is, but it's origins are not.

by Anonymousreply 6705/21/2020

R67 Calling someone an adjective depersonalizes people by characterizing them as a physical/psychological trait or mental condition. Especially when it’s turned into a noun, like “black/negro,” “cripple,” “retard,” “homo,” etc. All of these words are innocuous when used in different contexts - as adjectives or verbs.

by Anonymousreply 6805/21/2020

[R67] Perhaps it has something to do with the use of the word by racist slave owners in the US, and then racist white supremacists post Civil War, and then racist Jim Crowers, and then racist Jim Crow esqs and now the use by white racist nationalists?

If you investigate the usage by those folks as you did the origin, I bet you'll probably come upon the who , what, when , where and how of the word morphing into a derogatory racist insult.

by Anonymousreply 6905/21/2020

No, it predates your examples.

by Anonymousreply 7005/21/2020

[R70] I didn't say that it didn't pre-date it. My point was that perhaps it was the way that it was used by those in power over Blacks during the given periods that led to its morphing into a derogatory racist insult.

by Anonymousreply 7105/21/2020

I blame that racist Mark Twain.

by Anonymousreply 7205/21/2020

please bump this thread

by Anonymousreply 7305/24/2020

Ok, I’ll put in the request.

by Anonymousreply 7405/24/2020

Oh hon, is he the one that started all this trouble by chance?

by Anonymousreply 7505/30/2020

OP was that you I saw being hoisted atop the CNN sign ? Hmmmm? Well? Huh? Was it?

by Anonymousreply 7605/30/2020

Are you dead yet, OP? I hope so!

by Anonymousreply 7706/04/2020

Is his name Dwight?

by Anonymousreply 7806/04/2020
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