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The FAKE NEWS of male prostitutes getting paid to service women!

Can we please stop with this ridiculous trope!

I just watched some of that Netflix Hollywood show and they have a storyline about some 1940s gas station where young hunks get paid to service these old horny hagresses.

PLEASE! If such a place existed, they certainly were not servicing old hags. Get real! They were getting paid to have sex with men!

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by Anonymousreply 160July 18, 2020 11:53 PM

I agree, the market for heterosexual male escorts is tiny.

by Anonymousreply 1May 17, 2020 4:24 PM

American Gigolo was an improbable ridiculous movie for the same reason!

by Anonymousreply 2May 17, 2020 4:26 PM

Actually, some male escorts made a name by only servicing women. Many Wealthy older women who were still single or in unhappy marriages did hire young men to fuck them.

You all are just so brain dead and biased that in your small minds everything is gay when it’s the opposite.

There are male prostitutes that are female only.

And gay men were not highly booming in the 1940s.

by Anonymousreply 3May 17, 2020 4:26 PM

Ummmm women did rent men back then. It’s less common now. In the past, before single women were able to be with men alone in an apartment etc and it not be breaking rules, they would rent men.

by Anonymousreply 4May 17, 2020 4:28 PM

R3 Sounds like a straight guy's fantasy! If these lonely old hags were hiring a male escort, it was more likely to accompany them to social events not to get plowed like some XXX porno fantasy

by Anonymousreply 5May 17, 2020 4:29 PM

R5 they existed. And Scotty Bowers had some men that were women only.

by Anonymousreply 6May 17, 2020 4:30 PM

OP - they even said in Hollywood that 75% of the clients were male. Did you miss that part?

by Anonymousreply 7May 17, 2020 4:31 PM

Well if there's a pie chart of male prostitution clients, it would be 98% GAY men and 2% women and even that is probably being generous

by Anonymousreply 8May 17, 2020 4:32 PM

R5, you are so ridiculous, you think women don't have sex? Why do you think they are fighting for abortion rights?

by Anonymousreply 9May 17, 2020 4:33 PM

Its NOT fake news...it existed, not only in Hollywood, but in every major city. Why would you think that older, unattractive women (or men) wouldn't pay for hustlers? Do some research on the guy...he's totally credible.

by Anonymousreply 10May 17, 2020 4:33 PM

R7 I didn't even make it to that point of the show. I was so put off by the over the top ridiculousness of this supposed drive through male prostitution gas station for 1940s lonely old hags, I couldn't bear to see what other lies they would come up with next!

by Anonymousreply 11May 17, 2020 4:35 PM

LOL at gay men (who make up like 3% of the worlds population) thinking women didn’t like getting fucked. They existed.

Also, it is acknowledged in the show that 75% of the customers were male.

No, female clientele wouldn’t be 2%. There are more of them than us in America.

by Anonymousreply 12May 17, 2020 4:36 PM

Miss OP has stated her boundaries!!

by Anonymousreply 13May 17, 2020 4:37 PM

A thread in which gay men at a social media site speak with authority about women's sexuality, and what women of means might or might not do....

Look up gigolo in the dictionary. My own suspicion is that those paid encounters, with a man paid to present a service, are a different with woman clients. Less likely to be "take our clothes off, get to it, and get lost..." Dinner, companionship, human connection.. before, during, and after the dick... more likely with women.

by Anonymousreply 14May 17, 2020 4:37 PM

R14 we saw that in Hollywood. Fetus-Cavill had to chat up Lupone for a while, get to know her and her know him before they finally started fucking. They didn’t just get to it, he had to chat her up first. Make her feel important and special and give her attention

by Anonymousreply 15May 17, 2020 4:40 PM

Women only like a one-off every couple years. They mainly use their sloppy cunts to get money & power.

by Anonymousreply 16May 17, 2020 4:42 PM

R14 Well then they're not really paying for sex, they're paying more for a male chatting companion.

by Anonymousreply 17May 17, 2020 4:43 PM

Doesn’t change that they went to male hookers for that companionship. Lmao

by Anonymousreply 18May 17, 2020 4:46 PM

There are probably some insatiable, old, rich women out there somewhere.

by Anonymousreply 19May 17, 2020 4:47 PM

[quote] A thread in which gay men at a social media site speak with authority about women's sexuality, and what women of means might or might not do....

#Jealousy

by Anonymousreply 20May 17, 2020 4:47 PM

It sounds like there are some women on this thread who pay men for sex LOL

by Anonymousreply 21May 17, 2020 4:49 PM

The same way people claim men went to see “Deep Throat” when a huge percentage of that audience were women.

Gay men think women don’t like sex. Just because they don’t want it in their ass doesn’t mean they dont enjoy sex.

by Anonymousreply 22May 17, 2020 4:52 PM

R16, recently divorced disgruntled straight man

by Anonymousreply 23May 17, 2020 4:52 PM

M is a lonely old woman who pays men for sex.

by Anonymousreply 24May 17, 2020 4:52 PM

Hollywood (the TV series) was implicitly and explicitly, a fairy tale. Not meant to be considered historical, even slightly. Just used the Scotty Bowers story as a jumping off point.

by Anonymousreply 25May 17, 2020 4:55 PM

R22 types FRAU

by Anonymousreply 26May 17, 2020 4:56 PM

OP, stop bogarting other guys' peens. If they wanna give a little sumpin to some old lady, what's it to ya?

by Anonymousreply 27May 17, 2020 4:56 PM

R5 a la Nigel Havers as male escort (and con man) and Lewis Archer in Coronation Street.

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by Anonymousreply 28May 17, 2020 4:56 PM

There are escorts who service older women in Japan. They work at "host bars." The men at these bars also service women who work at hostess bars.

by Anonymousreply 29May 17, 2020 4:57 PM

Upper Class Women paying for sex is common in Japan and the UK.

by Anonymousreply 30May 17, 2020 4:58 PM

Google “did women pay for sex ever” and you will get tons of articles from women who are open about paying for sex and male hookers who speak about women paying them for sex.

I know gay men are small minded and lost mentally, but women love sex too. They just weren’t allowed to express that. So they paid and enjoyed it.

by Anonymousreply 31May 17, 2020 5:00 PM

Male prostitution was never as lucrative or profitable as female prostitution, primarily because men are more naturally limited in the number of liaisons per day. A female prostitute could potentially have upwards of 12 clients a day, one a hour.

The most successful male prostitutes looked for situations, even actual marriages.

by Anonymousreply 32May 17, 2020 5:00 PM

what ever the news is dermot mulroney can fuck me any way he wants

by Anonymousreply 33May 17, 2020 5:01 PM

There are a ton of women who get neglected by their husbands. They have needs, too. And some of them enjoy it to pay the escort with the money they get from their husbands.

by Anonymousreply 34May 17, 2020 5:05 PM

yeah, the patty Lupone character I found conceivable

by Anonymousreply 35May 17, 2020 5:09 PM

Off topic: do lesbian only hookers exist? I’m not talking about putting on shows for straight men but lesbians hiring other lesbians for sex? I’m just curious.

by Anonymousreply 36May 17, 2020 5:10 PM

Why would old hags have to pay for sex when they can become teachers and have sex with their students for free?

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by Anonymousreply 37May 17, 2020 5:11 PM

One of the reasons some women like to pay to get fucked is because that gives them power over that man. Also, that young man has to do whatever her wants desire unless he stated his boundaries prior and has to make sure she is satisfied

by Anonymousreply 38May 17, 2020 5:15 PM

Some original Scotty Bowers photos popped up on an auction site some time ago. Just him with ladies. Also, he had the goods.

by Anonymousreply 39May 17, 2020 5:20 PM

If the womens want their pussies eaten, more often than not they need to pay for that service.

by Anonymousreply 40May 17, 2020 5:22 PM

Well on the show the woman is paying upwards of $100 for the boytoy's services, which must have been a fortune then. So some of these rich old biddies were paying hundreds of bucks just for a chat? Please! Couldn't they just go talk to the gardener?

by Anonymousreply 41May 17, 2020 5:23 PM

R41 their clientele were RICH.

by Anonymousreply 42May 17, 2020 5:25 PM

I new dancehalls in Hamburg, Geneva, Lausanne, Vienna, where Southern European men went to dance with mature ladies some of whom made appointments for sex. And this was the 1980s.

by Anonymousreply 43May 17, 2020 5:30 PM

well no, not really r41. The hustler's being paid to listen. Not just grunt uh-huh, uh-huh, ma'am I need to tend to that rose bush now.

by Anonymousreply 44May 17, 2020 5:30 PM

[quote] Not just grunt uh-huh, uh-huh, ma'am I need to tend to that rose bush now.

Especially not if what she really wants is for him to tend to HER rose bush!

by Anonymousreply 45May 17, 2020 5:32 PM

I know an older woman who paid for young men to service her. It happens. Not as often as men paying for sex, but it exists.

by Anonymousreply 46May 17, 2020 5:32 PM

Successful dancers, in known companies that tour. They are the hardest to date. Very complicated people.

by Anonymousreply 47May 17, 2020 5:34 PM

Men are more likely to pay for sex and it’s more common but that doesn’t mean women don’t or didn’t. Women did more frequently in the past because they weren’t allowed to be sexual. This was how they were able to quench their appetite and fill their sexual needs and express what they wanted.

by Anonymousreply 48May 17, 2020 5:34 PM

[quote] I know gay men are small minded and lost mentally,

Get the fuck off this board you frau cunt!

by Anonymousreply 49May 17, 2020 5:37 PM

If you were a frau, you'd be paying for it OP

by Anonymousreply 50May 17, 2020 5:45 PM

If you were a woman in 1947, who could not show sexuality etc. and weren’t a conservative Christian, you would gladly be willing to pay $$$ for a good fuck by a young hottie.

by Anonymousreply 51May 17, 2020 5:46 PM

You mean this is a movie?

by Anonymousreply 52May 17, 2020 5:47 PM

The most DL thread ever.

by Anonymousreply 53May 17, 2020 5:49 PM

[quote]There are a ton of women who get neglected by their husbands. They have needs, too. And some of them enjoy it to pay the escort with the money they get from their husbands.

Cuckolding and swinging has also become way more acceptable, but I don't think money is exchanged in most of these circumstances. Even the couples who are still attractive and do each other regularly will invite other people in to keep it interesting.

by Anonymousreply 54May 17, 2020 5:52 PM

R54 not in 1947. It wasn’t acceptable then. That’s why you had to do it on the low or pay for it, on the low.

by Anonymousreply 55May 17, 2020 5:53 PM

Maybe Ethel Merman paid for it.

by Anonymousreply 56May 17, 2020 6:09 PM

I knew a guy who made a lot of money giving "private tennis lessons" to rich society ladies. He was especially popular with young trophy wives and who could blame them? They were not getting a lot of action from their grandpa husbands.

by Anonymousreply 57May 17, 2020 6:24 PM

R57 I know a black personal trainer who would go to Upper Middle Class or Rich homes and train in their home gyms. He ended up fucking quite a few of those white lonely housewives.

One of their husbands found out and actually was intrigued and wanted to watch her get fucked by a black man. They ended up having 3somes regularly.

by Anonymousreply 58May 17, 2020 6:29 PM

R57, interesting.

by Anonymousreply 59May 17, 2020 7:19 PM

r57 was he employed by Camille and Kelsey Grammer in s1 of Real Housewives Of Beverly Hills? The guy Camille would kiss on the lips in front of his wife?

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by Anonymousreply 60May 17, 2020 7:35 PM

Who is the guy on the left at OP?

by Anonymousreply 61May 17, 2020 7:39 PM

This is appealing to me as a woman who is only attracted to gay or bi men. I love pretty boys.

by Anonymousreply 62May 17, 2020 7:44 PM

[quote] lesbians hiring other lesbians for sex?

Lesbians are too cheap to pay for hookers.

by Anonymousreply 63May 17, 2020 7:51 PM

^They see it as a waste of money. Haagen-Dazs and wallet chains however...

by Anonymousreply 64May 17, 2020 7:56 PM

R62 Would you pay for a manwhore though?

by Anonymousreply 65May 17, 2020 9:01 PM

[quote] There are escorts who service older women in Japan.

Japan is a whole nother world of kinky freakiness, aka robot sex

by Anonymousreply 66May 17, 2020 9:03 PM

If all they had to choose from was Deuce Bigalow, Male Gigolo, and Fred Garvin, Male Prostitute, they'd probably remain celibate.

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by Anonymousreply 67May 17, 2020 9:09 PM

Heidi Fleiss tried to start a brothel in Nevada for female clients. It never got off the ground.

by Anonymousreply 68May 17, 2020 9:10 PM

R68 that is her issue. Others have done well.

by Anonymousreply 69May 17, 2020 9:11 PM

[quote] Well if there's a pie chart of male prostitution clients, it would be 98% GAY men and 2% women and even that is probably being generous

Link, or your pants are on fire.

by Anonymousreply 70May 17, 2020 9:12 PM

It's just the way women are socialized. They might hire a male stripper for a bachelorette party but they're not going to take turns sitting on his cock.

by Anonymousreply 71May 17, 2020 9:24 PM

This reminds me of Al Pacino claiming he was a prostitute for old Italian women in the sixties...

by Anonymousreply 72May 17, 2020 9:43 PM

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by Anonymousreply 73May 17, 2020 9:44 PM

What's it to you, OP?

by Anonymousreply 74May 17, 2020 10:38 PM

Straight guy fantasy, totally unrealistic

by Anonymousreply 75May 18, 2020 12:14 AM

I could see an older Tallulah Bankhead going for something like this.

by Anonymousreply 76May 18, 2020 12:27 AM

R61 David Corenswet

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by Anonymousreply 77May 18, 2020 12:46 AM

Here he is in briefs about to seduce Patti Lupone.

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by Anonymousreply 78May 18, 2020 12:47 AM

Nude profile.

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by Anonymousreply 79May 18, 2020 12:47 AM

Women don't pay men to screw them, they pay them to go away.

by Anonymousreply 80May 18, 2020 1:13 AM

We pay migrant day laborers to fuck us!

by Anonymousreply 81May 18, 2020 1:16 AM

Women don’t pay for it because women don’t have to pay for it.

by Anonymousreply 82May 18, 2020 1:24 AM

Women don’t pay for it because women don’t have to pay for it.

by Anonymousreply 83May 18, 2020 1:24 AM

Women don't generally have to pay for sex because women, like a lot of men who sleep with men, take care of themselves. Men pay for sex because they are gross, can't get laid, are old, are in the closet, want to fulfil some weird fantasy or because they're high (gross at the time). Women generally only have to pay because they're old. It's 1000x easier for a woman to get laid. Women don't pay for sex at all compared to men.

Anyone who thinks that 95%+ male prostitutes are being paid for by anyone but men, regardless if there is also a woman involved is retarded.

by Anonymousreply 84May 18, 2020 1:32 AM

It doesn't matter either way, the series sucks

Made it through 2 episodes and felt a relief when I realized I wouldn't have to watch the rest.

by Anonymousreply 85May 18, 2020 1:40 AM

Did Corenswet get hazardous duty pay?

by Anonymousreply 86May 18, 2020 1:44 AM

[quote] Corenswet

That's an unfortunate last name.

by Anonymousreply 87May 18, 2020 1:51 AM

R86 poor thing got to eat Patti Lupone's pussy on camera!

by Anonymousreply 88May 18, 2020 3:56 AM

Straight people are incredibly uncomfortable with gay male sexuality.

They need to be reassured that something very real like male sex workers operate within heterosexual terms.

by Anonymousreply 89May 18, 2020 6:01 AM

Yuck R88

by Anonymousreply 90May 18, 2020 10:51 AM

Hollywood is not a good show. Jim Parsons is a decent actor, but he’s reading lines that make him sound like a ridiculous send-up of whatever he is supposed to be. The Rock Hudson character is unwatchable.

Corensweet is pretty. He’s from an old Philly family with Quaker roots, likely explains the name and why he uses it R87.

Laura Harrier is gorgeous.

But yeah, the show has some issues. I don’t plan to keep watching it, but not specifically because of the Gigolo Gas Station.

by Anonymousreply 91May 18, 2020 10:58 AM

From Men's Health

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by Anonymousreply 92May 18, 2020 11:01 AM

That all reads like fantasy fic, R92, about as realistic as Fifty Shades of Grey (which it name-checks). It's the easiest thing in the world to find male whores for men; where do women go? There's literally nothing useful in that article.

by Anonymousreply 93May 18, 2020 11:26 AM

Or Corenswet is a Jewish name. DLers of Jewish and Quaker ancestry, any help?

by Anonymousreply 94May 18, 2020 11:27 AM

Of course male prostitutes service(d) women. When I was a teenager I worked in a store and knew two male prostitutes for women. It was a working class neighborhood. Trophy wives married to scumbag mobsters hired a regular looking man reputed to have a giant dick. He and his fellow prostitute were matter of fact about the job.

by Anonymousreply 95May 18, 2020 11:50 AM

R 93, the Op stated there are no male prostitutes for women.

by Anonymousreply 96May 18, 2020 12:33 PM

Is Patty Lupone a woman or a gay man?

by Anonymousreply 97May 18, 2020 12:40 PM

[QUOTE] Of course male prostitutes service(d) women. When I was a teenager I worked in a store and knew two male prostitutes for women. It was a working class neighborhood.

Was one of them Al Pacino?

by Anonymousreply 98May 18, 2020 12:41 PM

Vast majority of clients of male prostitutes are men.

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by Anonymousreply 99May 18, 2020 12:52 PM

I thought the old woman’s pussy would be all dried up like a hibernating prune.

by Anonymousreply 100May 18, 2020 1:06 PM

Don't be stupid. there are many books and studies on sexuality and even books on the business side of prostitution. It's well known that most male prostitutes service men, because culturally to this day few women pay for sex. No one here said women don't have sex, quite the opposite, it's so easy for women to have sex easily they don't have to resort to paying for it.

by Anonymousreply 101May 18, 2020 1:15 PM

[quote]Women don’t pay for it because women don’t have to pay for it.

The most average-looking woman can easily have any number of men ready to have sex with them, even from relatively good looking guys, without having to pay. It's just the way it is. Now, what prevents them from sleeping with thousands is the prospect of being perceived as a slut, which could lead to loss of currency/agency, a woman's worst fear. And it a woman is found to have paid for it, it's over. She might as well kill herself.

by Anonymousreply 102May 18, 2020 1:39 PM

Look at the straight guy accounts on Only Fans, and how many are pressured to push gay envelopes to earn a bit of cash. No straight woman is asking a guy to show his asshole.

by Anonymousreply 103May 18, 2020 1:40 PM

No straight women go to OnlyFans period. Sorry straight male whores, but your fans are all dudes.

by Anonymousreply 104May 18, 2020 3:02 PM

Isn't there a whole reality show on Showtime about straight male escorts who only do women? Gigolos or something like that.

by Anonymousreply 105May 18, 2020 3:13 PM

Well, r105, if it's on a reality show that must mean it's true, right?

by Anonymousreply 106May 18, 2020 3:14 PM

r106 just saying they exist. I think someone even posted a whole thread here about one of them.

by Anonymousreply 107May 18, 2020 3:15 PM

It’s very niche, r106.

by Anonymousreply 108May 18, 2020 7:53 PM

[quote] No straight woman is asking a guy to show his asshole.

You mean to tell me Ginny in Billing isn't asking guys on OnlyFans to spread their cheeks?

by Anonymousreply 109May 18, 2020 8:05 PM

Check out rent a rasta. Happens all the time in Jamaica

by Anonymousreply 110May 18, 2020 8:21 PM

I read about plump middleaged Brit women who go on sex vacations to the islands to get BBC. Not sure how much they pay them. By the inch I presume.

by Anonymousreply 111May 19, 2020 2:29 AM

R111 That sounds like a very niche market.

by Anonymousreply 112May 19, 2020 10:09 PM

[quote]I read about plump middleaged Brit women who go on sex vacations to the islands to get BBC. Not sure how much they pay them. By the inch I presume.

More likely by the centimeter.

by Anonymousreply 113May 20, 2020 12:11 AM

An estimated 80,000 single women, from teenagers to grandmothers, flock to the island every year and use the services of around 200 men known as 'rent a dreads', 'rastitutes' or 'the Foreign Service' who make this resort their headquarters.

Female sex tourism is nothing new. It was reported in the late 1840s, when an Englishwoman went to Rome to take a lover. But in recent years it has grown in popularity. These days the women who participate are more likely to be single professionals than bored Shirley Valentine housewives. With females staying single longer and rising divorce rates, these holidays are expected to explode in popularity in the years ahead....

The gigolos working on Negril beach offer a simple explanation for their role in what is commonly, though euphemistically, called 'romance tourism'.

'For us it's a fun and easy way to make money,' says Leroy. 'For her, she gets some real good lovin'. All the English ladies who come here complain about the men back home. They say they are cold and selfish, mechanical and uncomplimentary. We know how to make a lady feel good.'

His friend explains that there is no welfare state in Jamaica. Staff who work in the hotels, which charge guests from about £120 a night, earn between £40 and £50 a week. The hard-working and high-earning but lonely western women who come to the island seem like millionaires. 'We are all poor in Jamaica. What we do is more fun and more money than working in a hotel.'

It can be extremely lucrative, but the idea that the men charge a certain price for a set service simply doesn't happen. There seems to be a mutual but tacitly agreed deception at the heart of the gigolo-client relationship. Payment is rarely mentioned because this would shatter the illusion that she is the most beautiful woman he has ever seen and he has fallen desperately in love with her. Instead, after charming the women and offering to be their guide, the gigolos set about, sometimes in subtle ways, extracting as much money as possible...

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by Anonymousreply 114May 20, 2020 9:02 AM

"The most average-looking woman can easily have any number of men ready to have sex with them, even from relatively good looking guys, without having to pay. It's just the way it is. Now, what prevents them from sleeping with thousands is the prospect of being perceived as a slut, which could lead to loss of currency/agency, a woman's worst fear."

I would say that a woman’s worst fear is picking up a stranger at at bar/club and getting raped. Happened to a friend of mine, the nice guy from the club suddenly wasn’t that nice anymore in the bedroom.

And the second issue with this „women can have sex with any guy at any time“ is that the sex might not be that great for the woman. Ask your female friends about their one-night stands (if they had them) and most of them will probably tell you that the sex was not satisfactory for them. Plenty of straight guys out there who have no idea how to please a woman, a lot of them simply don’t care.

If she pays for sex however, he has to do what she wants because she has all the power. It’s a bit different.

by Anonymousreply 115May 20, 2020 12:31 PM

girls will buy boys

by Anonymousreply 116May 20, 2020 1:04 PM

Pregnancy risk.

by Anonymousreply 117May 20, 2020 2:17 PM

[quote]PLEASE! If such a place existed, they certainly were not servicing old hags. Get real! They were getting paid to have sex with men!

Scotty Bowers was apparently pansexual and regularly had sex with women as well as men. Bisexuality is very much a real thing. A year or two ago a porn starlet revealed in an interview that about 80% of men in straight porn are gay or bi, and yet they constantly have sex with women. The black and white thinking of bisexuality not being real is false and dangerous, and yet some people love to pretend that is the case.

by Anonymousreply 118May 20, 2020 2:24 PM

[quote] R41 Couldn't they just go talk to the gardener?

That is what Martha Stewart does.

by Anonymousreply 119May 20, 2020 2:27 PM

My cuntish aunt went to Jamaica on holiday and got fucked by a Rasta. She proudly told us so when she returned. She didn't say if she had to pay or not.

by Anonymousreply 120May 20, 2020 2:39 PM

Her pay, mon.

by Anonymousreply 121May 20, 2020 2:42 PM

Men won't pair-up anymore with an unemployed woman. Isn't that a form of 'payment'? No job, no cock?

by Anonymousreply 122May 20, 2020 2:49 PM

R115, she's picking up a stranger for sex - the dangers are still the same. Money doesn't automatically equal power, if the guy is desperate, stupid, on drugs or just doesn't think he's getting paid enough.

by Anonymousreply 123May 20, 2020 4:11 PM

Is there a gay version of the Rasta-tutes? Not in homophobic Jamaica, of course. Maybe Puerto Vallarta?

by Anonymousreply 124May 20, 2020 8:43 PM

This series was just awful. It is self-indulgent and downright ridiculous. I am still watching it and it only gets worse with each passing episode.

by Anonymousreply 125May 27, 2020 5:54 AM

[quote]R19 There are probably some insatiable, old, rich women out there somewhere.

Clark Gable’s first wife comes to mind.

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by Anonymousreply 126May 27, 2020 6:16 AM

I had a friend who was gay or bi years ago who claimed he was bi and did that when he lived in Hollywood. He said the most famous woman, very few higher him just to be their date at events so they looked popular, they really did want sex. And the guy was very handsome and masculine, even by today's standards.

It's not that straight woman don't want sex, they just mostly don't trust totally strange men in a lot of situations. Hiring some guy off the streets to fuck them is a lot more dangerous than a man do the same with a woman. Or a man with a man.

by Anonymousreply 127May 27, 2020 6:20 AM

Hasn't everyone watched the Lifetime film [italic] The Madam of Purity Falls [/italic] by now?

by Anonymousreply 128May 27, 2020 6:21 AM

I can see some dames paying for it.

by Anonymousreply 129July 6, 2020 7:55 AM

Paying for sex is a man's business.

by Anonymousreply 130July 6, 2020 8:05 AM

Indeed R130 women can get plenty of free sex with heterosexual men

by Anonymousreply 131July 6, 2020 8:15 AM

Exactly.

Women hate paying for things in general, you think they're going to pay for sex when they can get it so easily?

by Anonymousreply 132July 6, 2020 9:55 AM

Then why are there poverty stricken women everywhere?

by Anonymousreply 133July 7, 2020 6:26 AM

I'd pay for Corenswet's Golden Tip

by Anonymousreply 134July 7, 2020 5:26 PM

Ryan Murphy loves having hot male characters fuck older women. Maybe he's living vicariously through those hags?

by Anonymousreply 135July 15, 2020 9:45 PM

A lot of British and European women pay for sex with men. It’s not uncommon. They even go on trips together to places like Turkey and Gamibia. No joke.

by Anonymousreply 136July 15, 2020 9:51 PM

[quote]I know gay men are small minded and lost mentally...

r31, I would amend the above to read: I know [bold]many[/bold] gay men [bold]on DL[/bold] are small minded and lost mentally... Otherwise, I agree with you.

by Anonymousreply 137July 15, 2020 9:59 PM

You'd have to be an idiot to believe they don't service women.

The problem is not that the media is depicting male prostitutes that service women, it's that they're depicting male prostitutes as ONLY servicing women, as a way of making the straight men watching more comfortable.

Male prostitutes who service women exist, but male prostitutes who only service women do not. And if they do they've probably only got a dollar to their name because you can't be a successful prostitute by being picky. Beggars can't be choosers, and businesses can't be exclusive.

by Anonymousreply 138July 15, 2020 10:13 PM

[quote]Gamibia.

Is that supposed to be GAMBIA or NAMIBIA?

by Anonymousreply 139July 15, 2020 10:16 PM

I think its Namibia after Gambia ate it.

by Anonymousreply 140July 15, 2020 10:21 PM

it's*

by Anonymousreply 141July 15, 2020 10:23 PM

Personally I don't get why women would pay for sex, even the older or more unattractive ones. The world is full of attractive straight men who want to fuck and aren't particularly picky.

If it's about power then it makes even less sense. Women have all the power over men, especially when it comes to sex. Men have murdered for pussy. Are women really not aware of the power they hold sexually over straight men?

by Anonymousreply 142July 15, 2020 10:35 PM

The fact that women have to pay for sex to feel powerful when they have straight men wrapped around their fingers is so aggravating to me. Women are idiots. If gay men and women switched places we'd have enslaved all men by this point. Women squander their power.

by Anonymousreply 143July 15, 2020 10:38 PM

R143 that sounds ridiculous and shows how little a lot of DL men understand what it's like to be a woman. You would not enslave men because you'd be too busy being knocked up, murdered, raped, and so on. The whole "women have men wrapped around their finger" is a myth, because for a short window of time in their lives (maybe 12-20), men might give them an obnoxious amount of attention. It's a male power trip, disguised as "women having power".

Come on, DL can be full of 🤤🤪 sometimes, but I know you're not that clueless.

by Anonymousreply 144July 15, 2020 11:50 PM

That's the thing. You don't even have to have sex with them. When I was younger many women, especially newly divorced women literally paid me to escort them places. They want to be seen with arm candy too. I figured, why not?

One particular wanted me to drive her ex's restored car just "to get back at him." He didn't know about but I guess it made her feel better.

by Anonymousreply 145July 15, 2020 11:57 PM

[quote]r142 Personally I don't get why women would pay for sex, even the older or more unattractive ones. The world is full of attractive straight men who want to fuck and aren't particularly picky.

Some might not want reputations as tramps (men can never keep their yaps shut) and so they discretely hire professionals.

by Anonymousreply 146July 16, 2020 12:03 AM

My boss openly calls me her gay husband. She pays me basically just to drive her around town to be her pal while shopping and hold her hand when she goes to the doctor's office. It's not a bad gig. I dont have to have sex with her. Too bad I am not bi, she is actually very pretty, total strangers compliment her on her looks all the time. Yet she cant find a man who likes her for her and not her money.

by Anonymousreply 147July 17, 2020 6:25 AM

OP, Go to the most expensive bars, restaurants, specialty stores, designer shops, etc which have primarily women customers and you'll see plenty of men who use their impeccable charm & manners, as well as their personal style and good looks to make money. Think at least some of these types who work on commission aren't available to do more for their regular clients? That's how at least 1 male prostitute I know got his start.

Met a few very heavyset, unattractive women in the film industry who propositioned a male friend. Saw the same women on film sets with young, cuties (including one who just wrote his autobiography and has a current thread on DL.)

Had a (platonic) roommate who would do couples or women with the man watching. Yes there are established professional, older couples who want to very quietly hire a man with the right looks and style. Think GQ model type.

Agencies in Vegas cater to all of the above demands according to a couple of friends who applied and then turned them down. The women paying were usually obese or alcoholic, with undesirable personalities, who wanted to show off to their friends that they could get a youngish GQ-type stud. Escort's job was to make an ex-BF jealous, or to be the Plus-1 at a special social event. Some form of sex such as a long massage with oral was generally expected after the more public happening.

by Anonymousreply 148July 17, 2020 6:49 AM

A friend of mine did a thesis on the tourism practice of women visiting Africa and being assigned native guides who it was understood would provide sex.

It was an HIV transmission issue that warranted research.

by Anonymousreply 149July 17, 2020 4:40 PM

[quote]There are probably some insatiable, old, rich women out there somewhere.

R19 Yes, I'm here and have been for the last 20 years. I've hired escorts, some as dinner companions and others for sex. I have specific sexual preferences and have no problem finding a match especially through our 'old girls network.' I started hiring at 40 when my husband divorced me for a younger woman. I've never been happier, socially and sexually.

by Anonymousreply 150July 17, 2020 5:10 PM

R150, what type of men do you hire? A certain physical type?

by Anonymousreply 151July 17, 2020 5:11 PM

R151 For companionship, I rely on my friends to recommend men who represent well at dinners and social engagements so their physicality is less important. Absolutely no taller than 6' - I'm 5'4" and the perfect height for me is 5'9". I don't want anyone towering over me.

For sex, yes, I have certain physical preferences: Prefer ages 40 to 60. Thick neck. Military bearing. I don't care if he's bald or has a full head of hair. Tattoos and piercings are totally unacceptable and, so far, have not encountered any except for the occasional pierced ear (sans earring). Young men don't interest me. I value experience.

by Anonymousreply 152July 17, 2020 5:48 PM

Susan Avery is a rich woman in Judith Krantz’s “Scruples II” who keeps an entirely separate apartment to occasionally meet escorts in.

Therefor, #Truth

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by Anonymousreply 153July 17, 2020 6:09 PM

R152, interesting -- thanks for sharing. It does sound like the type of man a woman would want for an escort is older, more experienced, well-mannered, a good conversationalist, etc.

The premise of hiring a guy as young as Corenswet's character does ring a bit false.

by Anonymousreply 154July 17, 2020 6:36 PM

R12, You make too much sense. People ike the OP are idiots and too one dimensional. Its sad. Like how can your brain be so narrow and out right wrong. Either that or he is a liar.

by Anonymousreply 155July 17, 2020 6:44 PM

R154 I don't know any woman in my 'old girl network' who wants to be with a man in his 30s or younger. We are all in our 50s and 60s and value experienced escorts with a mature bearing. Of course, we acknowledge that some of our sexual companions are bisexual but almost all of our dinner / social companions are gay.

by Anonymousreply 156July 17, 2020 6:55 PM

R88, maybe Ryan Murphy likes to dress up as Patti Lupone and have young gigolos eat his mussy?

by Anonymousreply 157July 17, 2020 9:11 PM

[quote]Cuckolding and swinging has also become way more acceptable

Went back to Ohio last year and got together with a friend from high school, who told me she belongs to a group of swingers and that some allow her to record them with her phone so her husband can watch from home.

More power to them if they're happy. Her husband has a heart condition and lower sex drive than she has (they are both 50), so the arrangement works out well for both of them.

by Anonymousreply 158July 17, 2020 10:58 PM

[quote] I don't know any woman in my 'old girl network' who wants to be with a man in his 30s or younger. We are all in our 50s and 60s and value experienced escorts with a mature bearing.

This is such the opposite of gay men

by Anonymousreply 159July 18, 2020 7:20 AM

[quote]R102 The most average-looking woman can easily have any number of men ready to have sex with them, even from relatively good looking guys, without having to pay.

That doesn’t mean it will be a good sexual experience, tho. Straight men are notoriously selfish in bed, and not that aware of female anatomy. And if a woman picked him up in a bar he might have had a few drinks, which might impart performance. Plus, he could get violent (the biggest cause of death and physical injury to women is men.)

If a woman can afford it and wants a good sexual experience, it makes sense she would occasionally hire a skilled, vetted professional who treats the encounter like a job (rather than simply as a chance to get off, which is often how a male pickup would approach it.)

by Anonymousreply 160July 18, 2020 11:53 PM
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