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Would you let your dad photograph you nude in the shower, like Ansel Elgort did?

Was your family *that* comfortable with nudity?

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by Anonymousreply 45May 24, 2020 7:44 PM

If I looked like Ansel and my father was a professional photographer, yes.

by Anonymousreply 1April 22, 2020 5:10 AM

Is his father Ansel Adams?

by Anonymousreply 2April 22, 2020 5:11 AM

Yes I makeout with my father.

by Anonymousreply 3April 22, 2020 5:15 AM

Ansel's dad demanded photo credit for that picture (which he did not initially receive).

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by Anonymousreply 4April 22, 2020 5:17 AM

Those of you answering "Yes," why? Just curious.

by Anonymousreply 5April 22, 2020 6:21 AM

Only if we were European.

by Anonymousreply 6April 22, 2020 6:27 AM

I was going to say they strike me as a very European like family, so yes. I would rather have the dad do it than the sister who did his calendar shoot. And if I could have a world class photographer shoot me or a friend from LaGuardia I go with the professional.

by Anonymousreply 7April 22, 2020 6:55 AM

Oh, and check out the body of work by Sally Mann who photographed her three children nude for a large chunk of their childhood. She’s perhaps one of the top five photographers of the second half on the 20th century. This is one of the most famous of her works entitled The Last Time Emmett Modeled Nude. And before you scream pedo, please note this is on a Government website owned by the National Gallery of Art.

Unfortunately Emmett is no longer with us, he developed schizophrenia as a young adult and also struggled with issues from having almost died in a car accident that happened prior to this picture and was part of the inspiration for it. All in all he seemed like he was a pretty cool kid and had an idyllic childhood in rural Virginia.

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by Anonymousreply 8April 22, 2020 7:06 AM

You Americans are so conservative.

by Anonymousreply 9April 22, 2020 7:31 AM

I would let my father take my pic, and I would take his. It would be fun. He's got a great bod.

by Anonymousreply 10April 22, 2020 7:39 AM

[quote] Just curious.

"Just curious" is the phrase trolls use before they start arguing with you about your opinion.

by Anonymousreply 11April 22, 2020 8:08 AM

I'm saying 'cheese' as I type.

by Anonymousreply 12April 22, 2020 8:14 AM

Only if he fucked me after

by Anonymousreply 13April 22, 2020 8:14 AM

R8 That kid looks fucking miserable.

by Anonymousreply 14April 22, 2020 8:32 AM

Well, it wasn't just a snapshot. His dad is a photographer for Vogue.

by Anonymousreply 15April 22, 2020 9:13 AM

R14 This was about the third or fourth time Sally did the shoot and it was getting to be late into October at that point and the water was quite cold. Emmett had lost patience, hence the fact that he categorically declared that this would be the final time he posed nude for her and was pushing back on ending the session when she took one last shot, and magically all the elements fell in place. It is a photograph that is a masterclass in what great photography is and can be studied up against all the other versions, which do not meet the criteria of masterpiece.

The car accident earlier that year, which he walked away from, never-the-less irrevocably changed something in him being so close to death and also profoundly affected Sally and how she saw her work. All of that is a culmination and deeply imbedded in the image his body language, expression and demeanor. One could look at it as the moment of the loss of innocence and transformation into adulthood.

An earlier photograph makes a nice compliment to this one. Emmett is in a ditch that narrows and flows into the river. It is both a canal as if he is about to be born, but also a grave. Family and friends surround and observe him, are they in a state of wonder and delight or mourning and repose?

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by Anonymousreply 16April 22, 2020 10:21 AM

Yes, because we are Japanese and the whole family of us always takes a bath naked in a sentō. And probably because we are not 399 lbs like most Americans.

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by Anonymousreply 17April 22, 2020 5:05 PM

R16 Wow. You seem invested.

by Anonymousreply 18April 22, 2020 5:40 PM

R18 I have enjoyed R8 / r16 posts. It was something I was not aware of, and it’s interesting.

by Anonymousreply 19April 22, 2020 5:42 PM

His mom and dad must have helped him clean his dong before. Something familiar, obviously. Or OP let the dog clean his dong instead of his parents?

by Anonymousreply 20April 23, 2020 6:24 PM

Nudity is both not a big deal, and hot. Sometimes both.

All I know is we need lots more of it by young men.

by Anonymousreply 21April 23, 2020 6:36 PM

That's why I would do. Whore out my own child. That's some good parenting! I wonder what Dad would do if he caught him doing heroin. Buy him a speedball?

by Anonymousreply 22April 23, 2020 7:34 PM

MARY ^

by Anonymousreply 23April 23, 2020 7:54 PM

No. But I’d let YOURS.

by Anonymousreply 24April 23, 2020 8:13 PM

The reverse is equally disturbing--would you photograph your adult child nude?

by Anonymousreply 25April 23, 2020 8:16 PM

Instagram made him take down the picture because they say violated their community standards.

by Anonymousreply 26April 25, 2020 5:28 AM

Of course I’d be cool with it. But then, I’m not American.

by Anonymousreply 27April 25, 2020 5:38 AM

[quote] I was going to say they strike me as a very European like family, so yes. I would rather have the dad do it than the sister who did his calendar shoot. And if I could have a world class photographer shoot me or a friend from LaGuardia I go with the professional.

His mom grew up in Larchmont and his dad was born in Brooklyn but grew up in New York City.

by Anonymousreply 28April 25, 2020 5:49 AM

[quote]R7 Emmett Mann is no longer with us, he developed schizophrenia as a young adult and also struggled with issues from having almost died in a car accident

Was he a suicide? I wouldn’t be surprised. Having your parent repeatedly present you nude to the world, over a period of years, can’t really be super healthy.

It’s just not done. For obvious reasons.

by Anonymousreply 29April 25, 2020 6:04 AM

[quote]Yes I makeout with my father.—Ben Brady

Well...doesn't everybody? To like, help your career?

by Anonymousreply 30April 26, 2020 1:11 AM

Yes I would and I have.

by Anonymousreply 31April 26, 2020 1:13 AM

I don’t even consider him before he gets that mole removed...

by Anonymousreply 32April 26, 2020 1:16 AM

Elgort is such an ugly name

by Anonymousreply 33April 26, 2020 1:24 AM

He has a large, flat head. His body is decent but he’s not leading man material.

by Anonymousreply 34April 26, 2020 3:17 AM

Yeah, probably. I'm not ashamed of my body nor am I uncomfortable with it being seen by others. It's just a body, everyone has one so I don't see the big deal.

by Anonymousreply 35April 26, 2020 1:24 PM

Where are the outtakes

by Anonymousreply 36May 24, 2020 4:59 PM

R9 No, we just have boundaries

by Anonymousreply 37May 24, 2020 5:02 PM

No, but I would have liked to photograph my father nude in the shower especially if he was a shower.

by Anonymousreply 38May 24, 2020 5:03 PM

Buttahface.

by Anonymousreply 39May 24, 2020 5:04 PM

My father was not artistic and legally blind, so no I would not. But if my father were a photographer I probably would have. Also, I never really appreciated that I had a very good body up until my early forties, so it would have been nice to have artistic photos of my body when I was in my prime.

by Anonymousreply 40May 24, 2020 5:06 PM

I grew up with my dads junk flopping around in briefs as thats all he wore when home. Nudity was never a big dirty thing in our house . It wasnt encouraged,but if it happened it was no big deal . So yes,Id have let him photograph me.

by Anonymousreply 41May 24, 2020 5:17 PM

Not with that horrible posture!

by Anonymousreply 42May 24, 2020 5:32 PM

my family is very uncomfortable with nudity. Probably too much. Lately, I just don't care that much. the whole trauma of nudity just seems weirder and weirder to me as a I get older.

by Anonymousreply 43May 24, 2020 5:35 PM

I’m sure that Europeans look at this situation differently than us Americans.

by Anonymousreply 44May 24, 2020 7:26 PM

Yeah, we still have that stupid puritan streak and are easily traumatized by pretty much everything. On the other hand, all the cameras everywhere, all the dick pics everywhere, all the amateur porn everywhere, I'm not sure we can sustain this whole nobody should ever be naked or see anyone naked thing.

by Anonymousreply 45May 24, 2020 7:44 PM
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