What Are Your Demands for Rimming Someone?

It must be clean.

They mustn't have an asshole.

Isn't it common human decency to douche before any kind of anal foreplay/sex?

Depends on the guy, really. Mostly, I like it soapy clean, but every once in a while, sweaty musky can be super hot, depending on the guy. So much depends on chemistry.

Of age and a pulse.

They must not be real. Ken dolls only.

I won't rim unless we've both showered beforehand. Preferably together. It can make for nice foreplay and you can really make sure they're clean.

under age 33, an old mussy is an old mussy

They must leave, ain’t ever going to happen

I will never understand guys into musky holes and pits. Makes me want to vomit.

not everyone's a prisspot

shaved and dirty

After judging a chili cook-off on a humid summer day.

For those of you who would never run: why? And are you opposed to giving, or giving and receiving?

About $1,000.

R14 I'm sure you meant "never rim" not "never run" but maybe not?

Douched with Clorox.

I love rimming, so hot

And yet you cunts are worried abut your fucking groceries having Corona virus on them. I hope you rimmers all get Hepatitis.

A nice ass, not fat and not unusually big, and hairy (unshaved.)

R19 is such a sweet and kind human. God has blessed him with such goodness.

R19 I hope you get the most virulent strain of COVID-19.

R16 Yes. Stupid autocorrect.

Rimming is one of the best ways to ignite passion in your partner. If you learn to do it right, your partner can feel it all over their body and instantly want more stimulation.

It’s been my experience that outside of porn, black/Hispanic guys like doing it, and middle-aged to older white men like giving. A lot of young white guys don’t really get into giving it.

"Musk"?

If you mean shit, please, no.

Clean does not mean smelling like a rose. It means being clean. If he smells like a clean man, that's okay with me.

No buttal activity since the last shower...shower must have included well soaped finger in and out of ass numerous times. I don't care if they've douched if I'm just rimming them and not fucking them. I usually don't rim straight guys because they don't know how to take care of their asses.

Hiney smoocheroos!

I don't like rimming

R8, Under 25 for me.

R7 Spot-on. Same here.

Not too hairy. If shaved, recently so. Only coinslots, no rosebuds. No growths or gross skin tags.

I would never rim somebody, nor would I want to be rimmed. I'm just not attracted to holes. I'm a total bottom.

I have to be REALLY into him.

I love rimming, but I don't really get much from being rimmed. Seems like the first thing a guy does is dive into my ass and I just have to sit there and fake like it's the best thing ever. Only one guy ever seemed to know what he was doing and I'm still not sure what sort of magic tongue or technique he had, but it was heaven. Guess that's just sex in general for me. It seems like for every great sexual experience I have, there are 5 that are mediocre or downright awful. I know some people say that "sex is like pizza, even when it's bad, it's good", but I don't agree with that at all.

odd, r33. maybe it's not good for you unless you're extremely attracted to someone.

I don't understand this rimming by bottoms. If I rim I have to fuck that wet hole. And rim I again after I have done so.

Step right up! Get your Hep and parasites, they're free, you just got to stick your tongue in the hole, everybody wins!

I rim only immediately after we've showered and are still fresh. I do not rim after penetration (never ATM), although it's hot to watch in porn.

I love rimming a guy after he's been fucked.

Me too r38 and also during the fuck. Rim fuck rim fuck and so it goes. Drives bottoms crazy as their hole becomes a fuckhole and nothing else.

A meal with some dish that has corn a few hours beforehand

Ewwww, r40! Sick!

Gotcha R41!

r17, you really should try Lysol.

None, because I don't do it. About the grossest thing I can think of.

[quote]About the grossest thing I can think of.

Thanks!

Pro tip: The secret to giving a good rim job is using your tongue to form all the letters of the alphabet while you’re down there. Making lowercase letters allows you to penetrate the anal verge a little bit when you make the tittle above the i and the j.

I’ll never use that advice, but thanks anyway, Karen.

I love the smell of my saliva and clean anogenital musk

Is that anything like assjuice, R48?

Rimming can be very hot. The musk scent isn’t related to being dirty, there are strong pheromones in that area that are sexy when you have chemistry with a person. They are there even if you’ve just showered.

Preach R50. That's why we like to smell a guy's underwear or jockstrap if we're into him.

I was always weirded out by this when I first started having sex, because some guys would have stronger scents than others and, many times, we'd both just showered together and scrubbed everything squeaky clean. Some guys really didn't have much of a scent at all.

R49 yes, assjuice, the smells of our bodily juices mingled into that heady pheremonal fragrance.

R49 yes, assjuice, the smells of our bodily juices mingled into that heady pheremonal fragrance.

Dear Lord in Heaven!

[quote]It’s been my experience that outside of porn, black/Hispanic guys like doing it,

And Quebeckers

I rarely rim, mainly because too many men in America (I'm American) don't have good anal hygiene. Meaning, they think toilet paper is enough and don't wash with soap and water. Nope. If your hands are dirty, you wash them. You aren't satisfied wiping them with just a napkin. Why shouldn't your ass be treated the same and washed after a dump? Guys who are thorough about cleaning are the exception (Asians and those from countries that use bidets).

It's fine if he wants to rim me because I keep it smooth and clean. I'm thoughtful that way.

Two hours in the rim chair. Minimum. If you can't promise that, why would I bother with you?

[Quote] It’s been my experience that outside of porn, black/Hispanic guys like doing it, And Quebeckers

Some sociological anal -ysis please! Why do you think this is?

R57 I agree. I clean my hole thoroughly as well. And though it’s been a few weeks, I trim my hairs down there as well.

One of the best compliments I got was from an older guy who ate me out once. He did it, fucked me, then went back for seconds. He told me how smooth my lips were. He was sweet.

But even clean and showered, there is a chance of some fecal matter remaining, which frankly makes it a no go.

Not if you know how to wash your ass, R61.

R59 Half of that quote is mine.

Just my experience, but I think Black and Hispanic men, for one, like ass. Especially if you have a fat, round ass. They love it. And from what I’ve heard, white guys with fat asses are really desirable.

So when they’re horny they want to slick your hole up before they fuck up. Tongue your hole, clap your cheeks, make it theirs...

Sorry I drifted away for a second. This quarantine is a bitch.

But what about starfishes r30?!?!

What about e-coli?

In forty years of rimming, I've only had one instance of getting something from it. It's not common. Rimming is safer than you think.

I've never rimmed. What does it taste like?

That's a great way to get Giardia.

okay, stupid questions, as i've never been rimmed or been the one doing the giving... what does rimming actually FEEL LIKE for the receiver? just a great wet very tingling and tickling sensation? that eventually if done right and long enough spreads from the hole to the entire crack and then public area altogether?...

If it spreads to the public area altogether, it is no longer rimming.

R70... i meant the sensation of a great rim job spreads to the pubic area without direct stimulation or contact of the pubic area...

I went to nyc for 2 weeks, twice a year for 25 yrs.....rimmed 2 whores a day/nite, lots o rimming. LOTS ..only got gut bugs once. the gaiety strip club, and the piano bar with old ladys playin n singin the ivory keys....full of escorts....good times fuk yea. club Hunters was never worth a dam.

Oh, God. You rimmed a hustler from Rounds?

You do like to live on the edge.

Another inexperienced embarrassing dummy here....

Do you let someone kiss you after they’ve rimmed you? I know ATM is a no no but in porn they always kiss after rimming.

When someone isn’t clean - can you tell right away? Have you ever started a rimming and then stopped because of the smell or the taste?

Tell him up front, "Go wash your ass."

That way, they know they're going to have a good time and they never mind washing their asses.

Must be thoroughly douched.

Must then be thoroughly washed and scrubbed clean externally.

Must be clean shaven or at least very very minimal hair, I don't want to be flossing.

Must be a neat and attractive hole, not some twisted bulging balloon knot or gaping chasm/prolapse.

I also do not like to rim a hole that I have just been fucking, as my dick could have dragged unpleasant residues from deep within that would not normally have been accessible by my tongue alone.

I don't understand people who will kiss, but not rim. The mouth is far dirtier than the other end of the tube.

That they bend over.

[quote] ... my dick could have dragged unpleasant residues from deep within...

Well, okay Big Boy! Come sit with me!!!

The sensation of being rimmed is better than almost anything else. That's why it's worth it.

[Quote] Do you let someone kiss you after they’ve rimmed you?

Yes we all do.

[Quote] I know ATM is a no no

No, not a no no.

Oh hell I had one guy I rimmed the hell out of once. The ass just looked too fucking good and he was clean. Now me, I've been rimmed a lot. Love it.

I must not have a very sensitive hole, because it's never done much for me and many guys have tried it. Only one made me feel anything, so it's either this guy is a sexual genius or my hole just wasn't made to be responsive to rimming.

What's it supposed to feel like?

It's pure ecstasy.

For some guys their mussy is their erogenous zone. Fur real.

It requires strenuous and extended fucking on and off for an hour or two for the mussy to turn into a totally erogenous zone. For all, not just for some. And that is the top's godgiven duty to his bottom. Try it. It's awesome.

They must have a loose, sloppy, prolapsed hole. I don't just stick my tongue up every hole that is presented to me.

I want them to hold onto their stool for at least 2 days, this guarantees a firm clay-like texture when it slides out.