Height Difference

OP leaves out the 23 year age difference. Plus the object of desire is an 8 and OP is a 3 and has never had a fuckbuddy let alone a partner.

OP - my husband is 5'6" I am 6'1". There is no issue.

Ok, r2, but are you the top?

We are friends with a gay couple where one is 5’6” and his husband is 6’4”. It looks odd and their pictures on social media are always taken at kooky angles like the villains on the Batman tv show to try to minimize the height difference.

There's someone who I like but there's a 5-6 inch cock difference. I keep thinking about it. Do you guys think this is a problem? Does anyone have any advice re how it could work in terms of kissing, cuddling and other "stuff?"

r3 we flip sometimes but most of the time he is. He might be 5'6" but he is hung like a mule and passionate as fuck. I was a top only until I met him.

OP, you should conjure-up an Ernst appearance, unless that’s him at R2.

Ok, r6. I love it!

If you like the guy, definitely not a problem.

It’s not a big deal op cock is cock unless one of you is an ugmo

r10 buttahface is forgivable with a big wang.

I’m surprised Ernst hasn’t been all over this yet...

who is Ernst?

Just watch Fun Sized Boys and that should clear up any issues. Hopefully the tall one is the top or all bets are off.

Physically it makes no difference. Psychologically, if it makes you feel inadequate for some reason, that's a big problem.

At what height do you say "Oh, that's a tall man?"

I am 6 foot but feel average height.

Horizontally everyone is just about the same height OP.

What is considered short for men?

Short Under 5'6"

If you're the short one and your partner is 5–6 inches taller than you, it might make topping them a bit awkward. In terms of attractiveness, I don't really have a height preference. I've found men who are 5'5" just as hot as men who are 6'5". It really just depends. I'm 6'2" and often find myself to be one of the tallest people in a room, so it's not often that I come across a potential guy who is taller than me.

5-6 inches? That’s it? 11 inches, now that’s a lot!

Honestly though, people talk like it is an issue but it isn’t. Like R17 said, everyone seems like they’re on a more level playing field when they’re horizontal.

That's not a big deal. I dated a guy who was 9 inches taller than me. As long as you don't look as ridiculous as Camilla Cabello and Sean Mendes, you're fine.

I’m around 5”8 I say I’m 5”9 on Grindr and stuff. I’m muscular and look taller in photos. I kinda like guys around my height 5”7-5”10. I have friends that are my height talking about fucking a 6”4 guy and being all impressed they got with a guy that’s tall. I don’t understand when people think guys are attractive because they Are tall. They can be ugly and tall. I like guys that are close to my height. I actually don’t like hooking up with tall guys. My type is shorter range with muscles.

The tallest guy I was with was 7 feet tall. When he would kiss me it felt almost incestuous.

But do you "like" like him, Miss OP?

I, 5'7", top my 6' husband. It has never been awkward or "an issue," ever. Maybe it would be awkward if you had little T-Rex arms. Or if you had weird expectations of being able to hold him up, wrapped around you while you stand up and fuck him, but barely anyone--even tall, muscular guys--can pull off the standing-while-I-fully-support-your-body fuck for more than 3 seconds.

Small penis feel good too. There's a cock ring for that.

I knew a 5'5" guy who was an aggressive power top

I always like being the taller one, but it means you have "can you reach that" responsibilities which get old.

Yes R25, I really "like" like him.

bump

As to what R20 said about topping being awkward, I don't have too much experience here, what is the best position for a shorter guy to top and also can we do frottage and docking without it becoming comical?