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30+ year olds that dress and act like teenagers

I’m 34. I use to skateboard and I know how I dress still and always has a little of that skater beach bum bohemian in it. It’s my personal style. I wear a lot of vintage so I do have a unique tee shirt collection. But I’m trying to not dress like a teen or 21 year old anymore. No more Supreme clothes, or anything like that. I’m still very into simple style.

Anyway. I’m the last to judge but I recently started going back on Instagram from having so much time. Some of the people I follow who do not tell people their age but I’ve known them for over 10 years when they could get into clubs so I know they are 31+ , their style makes me absolutely cringe. Combine that with being instagram narcissist who do photo shoots where they style themselves 🤮 and post 20 videos a day- I’m shocked how out of touch they are. What happens to these people who’s style never evolves. That are over 30 with sideways hats , Zara pants, loud shirts. It’s all so... cringe

by Anonymousreply 99May 4, 2020 2:15 AM

You shouldn’t be dressing in The Supremes’ clothes anyway. That’s kind of weird.

by Anonymousreply 1April 5, 2020 8:44 PM

OP must have been quite the sight skateboarding in an ensemble like this.

Did your wig hat ever come off?

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by Anonymousreply 2April 5, 2020 8:47 PM

I’m a very old man but still young at heart

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by Anonymousreply 3April 5, 2020 8:48 PM

I said I know longer wear Supreme since turning 30. I do have a great single stitch vintage tee collection that I wear beachside it’s one of a kind and unique- I somewhat work in fashion. I do not wear any supreme any more. I like unbranded, or lightly branded like Stone Island APC or Saturdays.

by Anonymousreply 4April 5, 2020 8:51 PM

No my wig never fell off r2 (have a shaved head). No ensemble either. Usually skate shirtless. Not everyone is an Eldergay or black woman in the group The Supremes 🤣

by Anonymousreply 5April 5, 2020 8:53 PM

Here’s OP in his off-stage look.

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by Anonymousreply 6April 5, 2020 8:55 PM

For reals...

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by Anonymousreply 7April 5, 2020 8:57 PM

To be specific this is who makes me cringe

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by Anonymousreply 8April 5, 2020 8:57 PM

R8, that truly is cringeworthy

by Anonymousreply 9April 5, 2020 9:10 PM

[quote]I do have a unique tee shirt collection

[quote]I do have a great single stitch vintage tee collection that I wear beachside it’s one of a kind and unique- I somewhat work in fashion

You are exactly what you're complaining about, OP.

by Anonymousreply 10April 5, 2020 9:12 PM

Well I’m not cringe. So it is a difference. And vintage is curated not thrown together to look like a clown

by Anonymousreply 11April 5, 2020 9:18 PM

[quote] And vintage is curated not thrown together to look like a clown

Depends, OP, depends.

by Anonymousreply 12April 5, 2020 9:38 PM

OP wears Depends

by Anonymousreply 13April 5, 2020 9:46 PM

Great fashion, like GAP, never goes out of style!

Keep wearing the beach and skater fashions, OP!

I'm there with ya!

#GiveGap

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by Anonymousreply 14April 5, 2020 9:48 PM

Never give up being your youthful self, OP!

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by Anonymousreply 15April 5, 2020 9:50 PM

R14 May I ask a personal question? Are you on the spectrum?

by Anonymousreply 16April 5, 2020 9:51 PM

Live every day as if it were 1993!

#EveryGiftOnlyGap

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by Anonymousreply 17April 5, 2020 9:53 PM

Is R17 young James Marsden? Woof.

by Anonymousreply 18April 5, 2020 9:56 PM

Fuck mid 90s fashion from the gap looks better than todays style. Unbranded vintage gap holds up

by Anonymousreply 19April 5, 2020 9:58 PM

OP, there are plenty of GAP fashions online for all your cool skater dude needs!

Just search "GAP Men Skater 1999" and you will find your entire Summer wardrobe!

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by Anonymousreply 20April 5, 2020 9:59 PM

1999 fashion was my favorite. So pure

by Anonymousreply 21April 5, 2020 10:00 PM

1999 and Khaki-A-Go-Go at GAP!

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by Anonymousreply 22April 5, 2020 10:03 PM

R20, I had that hairstyle some time that year.

by Anonymousreply 23April 5, 2020 10:03 PM

1999 and Khaki Country at GAP!

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by Anonymousreply 24April 5, 2020 10:04 PM

Oops! Here's 1999's Khaki Country at GAP!

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by Anonymousreply 25April 5, 2020 10:05 PM

Khaki Soul at Gap in 1999!

#RIPBillWithers

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by Anonymousreply 26April 5, 2020 10:06 PM

OP why are you concerned about what other people wear? It’s none of your business. I’m more concerned about people acting their age rather than dressing their age.

by Anonymousreply 27April 5, 2020 10:10 PM

This thread is a steaming pile of shit so of course GAP playlist troll appears.

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by Anonymousreply 28April 5, 2020 10:29 PM

The Gap is for basic bitches.

The GapPlaylistGuy is on a hypomaniacal tear because he didn’t take his meds.

Bad Aspie!

by Anonymousreply 29April 6, 2020 12:05 AM

Hijacked. Yes that insta was cringe. I agree how you act is more important, but your style should match your personality. If your personality is cringe your style will be too. So just don’t be a cringe-y person

by Anonymousreply 30April 6, 2020 12:21 AM

I still have no clue what "I no longer wear Supreme" means.

by Anonymousreply 31April 6, 2020 12:27 AM

Supreme is one giant Ponzi scheme.

by Anonymousreply 32April 6, 2020 12:28 AM

OP sounds like a sour, starchy judgmental killjoy. Who are you to judge how others dress. Chill, dude.

by Anonymousreply 33April 6, 2020 12:31 AM

R31, me either!

Diana Ross.

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by Anonymousreply 34April 6, 2020 12:32 AM

R3 HAS to be a DL denizen ! "Im 63 but look 23!"

by Anonymousreply 35April 6, 2020 12:52 AM

Once the GapPlaylistsGuy troll invades a thread, it's time to abandon it.

by Anonymousreply 36April 6, 2020 2:39 AM

You can never outgrow timeless decor, OP!

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by Anonymousreply 37April 6, 2020 2:43 AM

I've seen a dude in his 40s whose online handle is a combination of his university acronym (which he attended over 20 years ago) and the word "boy". And no, he can't pass for being in his 20s (or his 30s).

by Anonymousreply 38April 6, 2020 2:45 AM

What are Zara pants?

by Anonymousreply 39April 6, 2020 2:54 AM

Pants from Zara.

by Anonymousreply 40April 6, 2020 3:28 AM

I see the saddest example of this phenomenon at the gym, gay men in their 40s and 50s dressing in all of the hot teen brands often with dyed hair and facial hair, or even hairpieces. A cautionary tale for me.

by Anonymousreply 41April 6, 2020 4:06 AM

I enjoy the look on German-looking guys, or actual Germans, with huge cocks.

by Anonymousreply 42April 6, 2020 5:12 AM

Guys, “cringe” is a verb, not an adjective.

by Anonymousreply 43April 6, 2020 5:30 AM

OP

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by Anonymousreply 44April 6, 2020 5:36 AM

OP, I know you don’t wear Supremes clothes anymore but I hope you didn’t throw anything like this out.

It’s timeless.

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by Anonymousreply 45April 6, 2020 5:37 AM

I say wear what you want. Be true to yourself and your own style. The only thing that I find butt clenchingly nauseating are people like Madonna, who are afraid of being old, so they dress in stuff that they do not have the self confidence to wear. Hanging out with guys less than half her age and getting butt implants isn’t making her look younger. Just makes her look like a tired old fool.

by Anonymousreply 46April 6, 2020 5:40 AM

Is this what we need to avoid?

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by Anonymousreply 47April 6, 2020 6:43 AM

Cringe

by Anonymousreply 48April 27, 2020 12:15 AM

[Quote] No more Supreme clothes

Nah. Those ensembles are timeless.

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by Anonymousreply 49April 27, 2020 12:20 AM

Supreme yo

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by Anonymousreply 50April 27, 2020 12:29 AM

WEAR WHAT "YOU" FEEL! IT TOOK ME "MANY" YEARS TO GET "THE COURAGE TO BUY MY POWDER "BLUE" CLAM DIGGERS "AND IM GLAD I DID!! BLESS, BILL TAYLOR

by Anonymousreply 51April 27, 2020 12:36 AM

Some of it isn’t people trying to dress too young. Some of it is people who got their style at age twenty, and keep that style from then on. As time goes on, it gets more and more outdated or inappropriate for their age, because they’re not twenty any more. Madonna’s doing that.

We see it as cringe today, but in a way people were always doing a version of this. The difference is, in the old days, older generations came from a time when people dressed more conservatively and older than their age. If you were young in the 1940s-50s, you were dressing like a forty year old anyway. So if you kept that style it wasn’t too out of place, just old school.

Now if you are around forty or even fifty, you come from a time when young people dressed pretty childishly, so wearing your young clothes at age fifty looks ridiculous.

But the idea of wearing the clothes of your youth and never changing isn’t new. Here’s a perfect example. Everyone is wearing “modern” clothes except for Violet Crowley & Mrs Hughes, who are old fashioned and traditional. Everyone else moved on.

That used to be really common in that era, because a lot of old ladies were raised not to show their ankles. There’s a lot of old pictures of old ladies in the twenties and thirties wearing long dresses, while other women are wearing short flapper outfits in the same picture.

People are sort of doing that now. They’re still wearing their young clothes, but their young clothes were childish and garish, and they never grew out of that style.

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by Anonymousreply 52April 27, 2020 12:45 AM

“Who”, not “that”, OP.

by Anonymousreply 53April 27, 2020 12:46 AM

I worked out a style rule when I worked on Wall Street in the 80s. I decided white bucks in the summer had to be strictly limited to a few wearings, and needed to disappear completely before 30. Never to appear again. Bow ties and colorful suspenders could be worn up to 29, and then reappear after age 55. I don't mind old people who dress young, in fact I get a kick out of it.

I suppose nobody wears suspenders now so that rule isn't very interesting.

I would say a new rule is that young men must stop going sockless in a professional setting or a semi-important social affair - before 25.

It was ridiculous to see celebrity men in the last few years showing up on talk shows jammed into their skinny suits, an no socks. 40 year old men. No.

by Anonymousreply 54April 27, 2020 12:52 AM

Only dress your age if you look your age.

by Anonymousreply 55April 27, 2020 12:53 AM

Examples??

by Anonymousreply 56April 27, 2020 12:53 AM

Dress in what makes you comfortable. When older people (50+years old) start having bad plastic surgery and try to look 20. It really looks awful. See Madonna for an example.

by Anonymousreply 57April 27, 2020 12:53 AM

Madonna has had bad work done but she wears a variety of clothing.

by Anonymousreply 58April 27, 2020 12:54 AM

Jonah Hill made a movie called Mid90s.

The way everyone acts like it was so long ago, might as well call it the Mid40s.

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by Anonymousreply 59April 27, 2020 12:57 AM

R52 = Aaron Schock

by Anonymousreply 60April 27, 2020 1:13 AM

And OP is just another annoying hipster homo with a "carefully curated selection of single thread vintage t-shirts" like a character from a Nick Hornby novel.

Instead of a personality, he has a collection of t-shirts

by Anonymousreply 61April 27, 2020 1:16 AM

R58, but when’s the last time you saw Madonna wearing a suit or dress suitable to her age?

She went through a phase around when she did Evita, and when she lived in England with Guy Ritchie, when she wore nice clothes that suited her age. Then she stopped and went back to wearing her typical “look at me! Aren’t I shocking?” style she’s had since she first came on the scene. If she was still wearing her British rich lady style, she’d look great at her age now.

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by Anonymousreply 62April 27, 2020 1:55 AM

r62

I don't follow Madonna closely but I recall a thread here when she appeared on Regis (or whoever it is) and Kelly. She looked quite mumsy in a long, I think, pink dress. The dress wasn't even especially tight but Madonna was thicker. She didn't look like she thought she was 25. No comment on the face.

by Anonymousreply 63April 27, 2020 1:57 AM

The appearance was after she'd moved to Portugal.

by Anonymousreply 64April 27, 2020 1:57 AM

R63, this?

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by Anonymousreply 65April 27, 2020 2:00 AM

Yeah. That dress says "wacky mother" to me.

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by Anonymousreply 66April 27, 2020 2:02 AM

It can be hot on the right guy, but those guys tend to be losers. But hot losers you want to fuck, slumming around in track pants and wifebeaters and baseball caps.

by Anonymousreply 67April 27, 2020 2:03 AM

It says “chav” to me.

by Anonymousreply 68April 27, 2020 2:04 AM

30 is close to 18 than 50.

by Anonymousreply 69April 27, 2020 2:06 AM

I don't understand the question, and I won't respond to it.

by Anonymousreply 70April 27, 2020 2:07 AM

I'm 67 and wear Denizen slim fit jeans. I have no ass to speak of, and if I wear regular fit jeans, they fall off too easily. I can see your point, tho, as we have a lot of 60+ Polish guys in the neighborhood who try and dress like thugs. Kinda funny.

by Anonymousreply 71April 27, 2020 2:26 AM

I dress ONLY to please OP! He'd better think what I'm wearing is age-appropriate, or I'll have to CHANGE to suit him!

by Anonymousreply 72April 27, 2020 2:42 AM

My next door neighbor must be pushing 35, straight, and dresses like a 22 year old skateboarder. He might be able to make it work if he had one iota of personality, but I just can’t take him seriously with his backward baseball cap.

by Anonymousreply 73April 27, 2020 2:53 AM

Backwards baseball caps come into play for the balding, though, right?

by Anonymousreply 74April 27, 2020 2:55 AM

Ryan S. Is so cringe @ r65. I felt second hand shame. Ugh.

by Anonymousreply 75April 27, 2020 3:50 AM

Madonna is goalz

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by Anonymousreply 76April 27, 2020 4:33 AM

I hate hate hate hate grown men that wear bow ties. I fucking hate bow ties as much as Madonna hates carnation flowers!

by Anonymousreply 77April 27, 2020 4:34 AM

I read somewhere that Madonna’s “roots” are actually gray or white hair dyed black to look like roots. Then blonde dyed down from there. How she’s not bald I don’t know. Wigs?

by Anonymousreply 78April 27, 2020 4:43 AM

If you’re over the age of 18- which is already pushing it- and still wearing Supreme then you need to check yourself.

by Anonymousreply 79April 27, 2020 4:44 AM

I think people should dress how they feel, unless time has been egregiously harsh (e.g. Madonna).

by Anonymousreply 80April 27, 2020 4:47 AM

Madonna never really could pull off the tweedy/horsey/countryside look, especially being 5'4" or whatever and caked in gaudy makeup (with that pallid skin underneath).

Were those 'FCUK' (no typo--French Connection UK) sweatshirts and hoodies popular in the US around 15-20 years ago? They were, unfortunately, ubiquitous in Europe at the time. I was working in the Netherlands back in 2003, and my manager was a balding fortysomething then who would routinely receive clients wearing his "kidult" outfits, including those FCUK hoodies.

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by Anonymousreply 81April 27, 2020 7:23 AM

That's true. Never thought about it like that but I did have more respect when she dressed like an upper crust Brit instead of a hip hop wannabe.

by Anonymousreply 82April 28, 2020 12:02 AM

OP I don’t know about that; I feel like most Millennials I know and see out in the wild tend to stay in their own hipstery lane.

Take manic ex-child actor Devon Werkheiser (as an off-the-cuff example I was just watching), who has taken to wearing ‘prayer shawl’ ascots everywhere he goes as a gimmick/plug for his post-fame workplace. He puts them on loosely as a pendant, typically paired with a safari shirt, a grey marl tee, black skinny jeans and a trimmed beard I.e. ageing-toward-40 Barista/Whole Foods customer chic. Lucky for him he’s very cute and charismatic.

It’s like getting a hipster IV watching him flirt and flail all over former Youtube sensation Anthony Padilla, who I can only describe as an Orlando Bloom knockoff clad in a fetching H&M vintage palm-print shirt. And this is only normcore, low-dB civilian hipsterism. But they aren’t hypebeasting.

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by Anonymousreply 83May 3, 2020 10:51 PM

Are those guys pushing 40?

by Anonymousreply 84May 3, 2020 10:59 PM

R84 no, they’re only just 30/early ‘30s per the thread topic. They’re just dressed in older more outdated styles, as an counterpoint to OP’s original statement. I don’t know where all these covert Millennials dressed as Zoomers hang out.

by Anonymousreply 85May 3, 2020 11:04 PM

I am in my late 50s. There have ALWAYS been a number of men who hang onto their college styles or young man styles into their 30s and beyond. Gay men. Straight men. Working class, professional.

I always got a kick out of ghetto-y gays who hung onto their trash 20yo stylings at 40. Same for aging straight chavs. I think its kind of hilarious and pitiable. If additionally they are a different culture than I am, I can find it sexy. You can run into the gay types in trash resorts like Sitges or Mykonos. There are a lot of gone to seed Germans in the Canaries, 50 years old, still slimish, flasque of tone, huge pendulous cocks, still styled like its Stuttgart 1990 and they are the belle of the ball.

by Anonymousreply 86May 3, 2020 11:14 PM

What should people aged 39 be wearing?

Oh, guess what? I don't care because I don't like Nazi fashion dictators controlling my life.

Deal with it.

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by Anonymousreply 87May 3, 2020 11:16 PM

Deal👏 with 👏it!👏

by Anonymousreply 88May 3, 2020 11:17 PM

Wouldn’t Tony Hawk be the standard bearer for this? Hasn’t he maintained the same style throughout his life? If he says it’s OK, then I’m cool with it.

by Anonymousreply 89May 3, 2020 11:27 PM

I know this isn’t the Supreme thread, but since it veered off it to it at one point and that other one that was supposed to be about one of the backup singers, but became all about Miss Ross has brought up a question. I’m realizing now that they are wearing wigs in what looks like all their pictures. How did they never get it together to just use their own hair for a change? I get Tina Turner needing wigs because she has alopecia, or didn’t want to give Ike anything to pull and grab her by, but were those bitches just too lazy to go to the hair salon and have their hair done or what?

by Anonymousreply 90May 3, 2020 11:34 PM

Regardless of age, I ask every non-essential to please try on everything in their wardrobe - ALL FOUR SEASONS- and photograph themselves from the BACK. Donate anything that accentuates the back fat.

You have the right to wear whatever. Just leave those hovering blobs of lard covered Loosely.

by Anonymousreply 91May 3, 2020 11:59 PM

R50. That was a joke on a play on Supreme the clothing brand. It was to make a point that all the old gays on datalounge don’t know what Supreme is, only the singing group.

Proved the point

by Anonymousreply 92May 4, 2020 12:40 AM

Every one in the 60s wore wigs.

by Anonymousreply 93May 4, 2020 12:45 AM

See? Wigs.

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by Anonymousreply 94May 4, 2020 12:47 AM

Wtf. Elder gay. Supreme clothing! Not wigs! Not Dione Warwick!

by Anonymousreply 95May 4, 2020 1:07 AM

Younger gay, learn respect for your elders. You will need respect when you get old too.

by Anonymousreply 96May 4, 2020 1:09 AM

Fuck you old gay!

by Anonymousreply 97May 4, 2020 1:11 AM

OP, Vision Street Wear presented by EMF's Unbelievable

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by Anonymousreply 98May 4, 2020 2:11 AM

Dr. Phil's wife looks like she shops at Forever 21.

by Anonymousreply 99May 4, 2020 2:15 AM
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