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Does anyone else have a small dick?

I'm 5" with a good thickness but Jesus am I insecure about it! And I'm measuring from base to tip, not the balls. Anyone else actually have a dick that's under 6"?

by Anonymousreply 58March 31, 2020 10:51 PM

Mine's under 2"!

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by Anonymousreply 1March 30, 2020 3:35 PM

Sorry - when really turned on I'm 6" but thick as hell.

by Anonymousreply 2March 30, 2020 7:36 PM

I’ve been told I have an innie. It will occasionally poke its head out if there’s money around.

by Anonymousreply 3March 30, 2020 7:46 PM

I'm under 6" and have a thin dick. Luckily I make over $200,000 a year and have no worries about losing my job from coronavirus, and can work from home in my large quiet apartment.

by Anonymousreply 4March 30, 2020 7:56 PM

Some of us appreciate an average or smaller peen, since some of us appreciate not getting rip apart by a big sausage.

by Anonymousreply 5March 30, 2020 7:58 PM

I'm 7"x5" and have been told I have a small dick. Gay guys' perceptions =/= reality when it comes to these things. As a top I prefer bottoms to have a smaller dick than me, as long as it isn't *extremely* small (literal microdick level) or misshapen, it's a non-issue. even then I don't care much as long as they have a nice ass, a good personality, and are a good bottom for me.

by Anonymousreply 6March 30, 2020 8:03 PM

They’re all fine. Don’t worry about your penis size.

When you’re on your stomach with your face in a pillow I can’t see it anyway.

by Anonymousreply 7March 30, 2020 8:04 PM

For me, it’s more about the overall esthetic than the number of centimeters.

by Anonymousreply 8March 30, 2020 8:09 PM

A perky 5-incher that works all the time, or a big 8-inch flopper than never gets hard?

by Anonymousreply 9March 30, 2020 8:16 PM

I get turn on when the guy is a bottom and has a small dick, and I prefer average or smaller than average dicks when I get fucked, I cannot handle a big one

by Anonymousreply 10March 30, 2020 8:18 PM

If you move to China, you will suddenly be horse-hung!

by Anonymousreply 11March 30, 2020 8:25 PM

Same. I never worried about it when I was younger. Never gave it a thought. But all that porn really twists expectations.

by Anonymousreply 12March 30, 2020 8:26 PM

I love a cock that fits easily in my mouth!

by Anonymousreply 13March 30, 2020 8:45 PM

The average American erect penis is 5.1 inches. OP, you're perfectly average as are millions and millions of others..

by Anonymousreply 14March 30, 2020 8:47 PM

OP: how do your compare to your father, brothers? Are they about the same size? You're doing fine, no worries. Also, how old are you? As time goes on, you simply accept your size, and it's not much of an issue.

by Anonymousreply 15March 30, 2020 8:50 PM

Several of the hottest guys I had sex with had small (in one case, tiny) dicks. It helps that I'm a top but all of 'em seemed less inhibited (I'd have thought it would be otherwise) in terms of expressing their enjoyment of sex than guys with average or larger endowments: they really got into it. It ain't what you got, it's the way that you do it.

An observation based on a limited sample, sure. But none seemed limited or worse, "damaged" by what others might see as a shortcoming: just the opposite

by Anonymousreply 16March 30, 2020 9:14 PM

I’m maybe slightly longer than average 6.5 - but used to be thin. As I’ve aged it’s gotten fatter and now I’ve had guys comment I have a big dick. One perk of getting older - less hard but thicker.

by Anonymousreply 17March 30, 2020 9:25 PM

It seems to get get thicker as you age because the pelvic floor relaxes/weakens a bit allowing better blood flow. Younger men can simulate that by (carefully!) doing reverse kegels and regular kegels.

by Anonymousreply 18March 30, 2020 10:17 PM

What are reverse kegels?

by Anonymousreply 19March 30, 2020 10:22 PM

Reverse google it and find out!

by Anonymousreply 20March 30, 2020 10:38 PM

[quote] I'm under 6" and have a thin dick. Luckily I make over $200,000 a year and have no worries about losing my job from coronavirus, and can work from home in my large quiet apartment.

Translation:

I’m very insecure about my deformity.

by Anonymousreply 21March 30, 2020 10:52 PM

Reverse kegels, done right, increase my girth by about 1/2", but you have to be careful with them and make sure to also do regular kegels to keep pelvic floor balanced. Don't overdo it. I find they also stimulate my prostate nicely.

by Anonymousreply 22March 30, 2020 10:52 PM

I'm not big - in the 4 1/2 to 5 range.

But.....

(a) I'm 110 percent bottom so no one seems to mind

(b) It may not be huge, but I cum a huge amount and shoot very far, so that's (often) fun for my partners.

by Anonymousreply 23March 30, 2020 10:57 PM

I do, but I think it wouldn't be if I lost weight, TBH.

by Anonymousreply 24March 30, 2020 10:58 PM

What matters more to me is what's attached to the dick. You could be 8", but if your face and body look like Richard Simmons, then no bueno. I actually feel sorry for porn actresses, having to fuck all those monster cocks attached to fugly men.

An attractive face and a fit, proportional body make up for a lot, unless you have a micropeen that can't do much.

You are average-sized, OP. Nothing wrong with that. Don't be too hard on yourself.

by Anonymousreply 25March 30, 2020 11:06 PM

I've got a long and thick dick. But the best sex I ever had was with a guy who had a micro penis. I truly believe that the biggest sex organ is the brain.

by Anonymousreply 26March 30, 2020 11:16 PM

Years ago, I had a crush on a guy who went to my gym. He was cute as hell, had a great body, was very nice and genuine and somewhat shy. One day, I saw him naked in the shower and saw that he had a micro peen. Not just small, but truly micro. But I still would have slept with him if I'd had the opportunity, because he was just such a sweetheart.

by Anonymousreply 27March 30, 2020 11:24 PM

OP what a pity. Your father's mega cock prolapsed me several times. As well as my brother. But really, don't make a case out of it. 5 is average. Your dad's 10 is really an exception.

by Anonymousreply 28March 30, 2020 11:34 PM

The average American penis is 5”.

by Anonymousreply 29March 30, 2020 11:36 PM

I prefer average to smaller. Huge is a problem. Really. Lots of times, it won’t get completely in, or completely hard.

I dated this Italian for a few months. We barely had sex, because he was so big. It took three nights of struggling to finally get it in there, and I was not a Virgin. He was crazy about me though. He told me that all women were whores, who had lose vadges, and that he was so happy to have found a good girl like me. I dumped the night after he told me that shit.

He was GORGEOUS. Northern Italian. Like an Alex Skasgard type. The body, the whole thing. Total asshole, in the end.

He went out and bought a ring, and proposed to me from his Camero. True story. I told him to go fuck himself, then he stalked me for a year or two.

Italians and Irish are the best and the worst. Great looking, great bodies, great penises, but you cannot get rid of them easily.

They are truly devoted. Must be a Catholic thing.

Best lover ever had about 5 inches. I’m not trying to fuck an actual cucumber.

by Anonymousreply 30March 30, 2020 11:44 PM

Irish are not know for having fabulous cocks and bodies. But you do you. Looks and charm, OK.

by Anonymousreply 31March 30, 2020 11:57 PM

known

by Anonymousreply 32March 30, 2020 11:57 PM

[quote]Translation: I’m very insecure about my deformity.

Knowing that a lot of gay men would consider my dick deformed, is it any fucking wonder I'm insecure?

by Anonymousreply 33March 31, 2020 12:12 AM

What R2 said. I prefer 5"-6" that are super thick but not so thick that I'm not uncontrollably scraping it with my teeth when I have it in my mouth.

by Anonymousreply 34March 31, 2020 12:44 AM

Yes r1 but you know how to work it!

by Anonymousreply 35March 31, 2020 12:46 AM

What is ‘normal’ or average penis size?

An average penis size of 8.8 cm (3.5 inches) when flaccid

An average penis size of 12.9 cm (5.1 inches) when erect

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by Anonymousreply 36March 31, 2020 1:11 AM

Growing up terribly insecure in a pre-internet era I was so convinced I was small that even as a college freshman I would change clothes in an impossibly small closet. It wasn’t until later that I realized that, at just under 9”, I had a big dick. What a revelation!

by Anonymousreply 37March 31, 2020 3:31 AM

Every one here should watch the new show Dave on FX. Funny and totally honest guy about having a little - and deformed- dick. His nickname is Little Dicky. I find it funny - and refreshingly honest about being undersized and imperfect.

by Anonymousreply 38March 31, 2020 3:53 AM

Im 5 but pretty thick . Ive always been told I have a nice one ,but I honestly never really gave it much thought . I figured its not like you can change it. I also have big hairy balls that compliment it nicely. No complaints as of yet .

by Anonymousreply 39March 31, 2020 4:01 AM

I always had a slightly below average dick. Very self-conscious about it as a black, gay man. Those immediately interested in me usually have certain "expectations". Not everyone has the time to invest to get to know my other attributes. To make matters more complicated, about 6 years ago, I was diagnosed with cancer and had aggressive chemo and radiation. The radiation destroyed my groin area and as a result, I cannot ejaculate, and my dick shrank significantly. I must have lost two inches in length and an inch in girth. I can still "cum" in a sense, but I don't feel an orgasm and I don't shoot anything, and that's if my dick manages to work at all. I'm wary of putting myself out there to meet people because I don't feel as if I have anything to offer other than a nice conversation. I'm also older and don't have looks or a fit body to attract men. I'm trying to get used to being alone.

by Anonymousreply 40March 31, 2020 4:31 AM

Mine's a tiny lil' delicate thing. But mah gentleman callers take me from behind, so no worries!

by Anonymousreply 41March 31, 2020 4:33 AM

I'm 6" and just average girth, but I am not into massive cocks when I am looking for someone. They look good but are completely impractical when you are trying to fuck them.

by Anonymousreply 42March 31, 2020 4:37 AM

Dave on FX explains his penis.

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by Anonymousreply 43March 31, 2020 4:49 AM

I would like to get that surgery where they cut the gristle that welds your dick to your pubic bone, then you wear a weight for a while so it doesn't try to re-attach and grow back.

In the end, you gain an inch or so more length. I would just like to hang longer flaccid.

by Anonymousreply 44March 31, 2020 5:02 AM

OP, I’ve met a lot of guys over the years who’ve said, “My penis is small.” But when they took their pants off I saw nothing out of the ordinary. I never would have noticed or even thought their penises were small without the unnecessary intro. TBH, I’m one of those fugly big-dicked guys they joke about on here. I’d rather be handsome.

by Anonymousreply 45March 31, 2020 5:03 AM

🤠[bold] SIZE MATTERS

by Anonymousreply 46March 31, 2020 5:05 AM

We pocket gays love you.

I must confess I have a magic dick that changes shape every time I look at him - soft or hard. He pretends he’s Jesus. I doubt Jesus talked about furry butts that much.

by Anonymousreply 47March 31, 2020 5:50 AM

R40, you have something to offer, for sure.

I am so sorry you went through that. I hope you’re OK, and the most important thing is that you are healthy.

by Anonymousreply 48March 31, 2020 6:18 AM

5.5" and thin. And a 'grower' not a show-er, which means unless I'm erect, it looks downright pitiful.

Goddammit.

And I'm a top. Nobody wants a needle-dick top.

Goddammit.

by Anonymousreply 49March 31, 2020 6:27 AM

I'm much more interested in a guy's other attributes than I am in how big his dick is. I don't like anything over about 7 inches anyway. Hard to such and hard to get fucked by. The love of my life had probably a 4.5 inch dick. I couldn't have cared less. I was wild over him. He dumped me to go back to his wife and kids. But his small dick didn't bother me at ALL.

by Anonymousreply 50March 31, 2020 6:37 AM

Luv me them small dicked guys. Porn is obsessed with big cock, but give me a guy with a little dick who knows how to kiss and likes to bottom. . . Well, it's called "love."

by Anonymousreply 51March 31, 2020 9:25 AM

If ever there was a thread that was useless without pics this is it!

by Anonymousreply 52March 31, 2020 1:44 PM

I grew up with 2 brothers on a ranch in Montana. My daddy and brothers were always naked round the house after a long days work. We had an shower off the side of one wall. We didn't have no mother she died when we was young. We had Ginny but she were hardly a lady, so bent and craggy. We spent our days around horse cocks and bull cocks nobody ever thought we was big boys. My brother Jeb's morning wood went couple inches over his belly button and mine just barely reached it. Jeb was a beanpole well over 6 feet at age 14. I figured I must be small but it sure felt good tugging it. Jimmy used to plug me with his and it sure dint feel big. We stopped that when Jinny caught us out and said we'd go to hell. Jeb told us to plug it in old the sheep. LOL FOFL course de dint do that. Sally was Jebs and we dint want to church the batter. Goshnamit if I dint learn til HS that my 9 was at all big. Jeb must have 10.

by Anonymousreply 53March 31, 2020 3:06 PM

Nothing better for me then a 5” dick!

by Anonymousreply 54March 31, 2020 3:59 PM

Big penises are nice to think about, even play with, but sucking and fucking them are horrible.

by Anonymousreply 55March 31, 2020 9:10 PM

[quote]Does anyone else have a small dick?

All those guys with the loud muscle cars who try to 'drag race' in normal traffic - or the drivers of pick-up trucks with the oversized tires?

Small Dicks

by Anonymousreply 56March 31, 2020 9:23 PM

You left out Corvettes, R56 - the classic small dickmobile - aka "The Plastic Penis."

by Anonymousreply 57March 31, 2020 10:33 PM

Every Trump Voter and Bernie Supporter... tiny-dicked beta-men. All of 'em.

by Anonymousreply 58March 31, 2020 10:51 PM
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