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Hot Straight Bro Encourages Other Straight Dudes to Get a Gay Best Friend

He doesn’t understand why gays are so hated by straight men and feels gays are the most loyal friends to their straight friends.

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by Anonymousreply 119Last Saturday at 7:35 AM

He just oozes sex, the face, body and voice, just everything.

by Anonymousreply 103/23/2020

His gay best friend must be lowkey obsessed with him.

by Anonymousreply 203/23/2020

Hmmm why would gays be so hated by straight men?

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by Anonymousreply 303/23/2020

Why does he speak ebonics?

by Anonymousreply 403/23/2020

There he is: the mythical hot straight guy who lets his gay friend give him head.

by Anonymousreply 503/23/2020

Of course if you're a media influencer or performer that relies on your looks, you're going to need a gay following. Gay rumors used to kill careers, but not anymore. See Nick Jonas and Harry Styles.

by Anonymousreply 603/23/2020

The rumors don’t kill careers, the confirmation does r6.

R4 I don’t hear Ebonics. He speaks the way most straight young guys do these days. How old are you???

by Anonymousreply 703/23/2020

They're (gays) not hated be most straight men. A lot of straight men like cocksucking. Trust me.

by Anonymousreply 803/23/2020

Gays are super nice to him because he's hot. An ugly straight guy isn't going to get the same treatment.

by Anonymousreply 903/23/2020

i think he's supposed to be that gay best friend.

by Anonymousreply 1003/23/2020

Um, he's recording in the closet...hint...he's the gay best friend!

by Anonymousreply 1103/23/2020

[QUOTE] Gays are super nice to him because he's hot. An ugly straight guy isn't going to get the same treatment

He will if he has a big dick.

by Anonymousreply 1203/23/2020

Shut up you old trash bags.

Most straight men barely tolerate gay men. Reality.

He is straight and doing something Pro Gay and right away you all start accusing him of being gay. Then you wonder why they hate us and the ones that don’t are afraid to hang with us.

You’re pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 1303/23/2020

I think this guy called me from a call center, the voice and accent sound familiar.

by Anonymousreply 1403/23/2020

He’s a cutie

by Anonymousreply 1503/23/2020

I would blow him.

by Anonymousreply 1603/25/2020

[quote] He doesn’t understand why gays are so hated by straight men

Um, see r1.

by Anonymousreply 1703/25/2020

Gay or straight, he's hot as fuck. I'd be happy to be his GBF, and offer him anything he wants on the side. Or on my back, or...

by Anonymousreply 1803/25/2020

He also has a message to black girls.

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by Anonymousreply 1903/25/2020

The way he spreads his legs, I just can't...

by Anonymousreply 2003/25/2020

I know he's in the closet for the mirror there, but

he's in the closet. For the mirror there.

by Anonymousreply 2103/25/2020

This will end in queers ... I mean TEARS!

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by Anonymousreply 2303/25/2020

Is he really in the military, do you think?

by Anonymousreply 2403/25/2020

He is. Which is why he posts from the closet. The only place he is alone.

by Anonymousreply 2503/25/2020

He is. Closet has mostly military gear.

by Anonymousreply 2603/26/2020

Okay Queens, get on it. Find out his Instagram and Twitter ASAP

by Anonymousreply 2703/26/2020

TikTok is literally the most homoerotic platform I have ever seen... It literally full of young, hard bodied twunks parading around without shirts and shaking their body around... Every single one of them has at least one shirtless twerk and one massive bouncing bulge clip.... it's my wet dream come true!

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by Anonymousreply 2803/26/2020

Yes, but unfortunately they don't allow nudity.

by Anonymousreply 2903/26/2020

These are young people making clips for attention and “fame”, not porn. They can make an OnlyFans if they wanna be nude moron r29

by Anonymousreply 3003/26/2020

Generation Whore. A lot of young hetero guys have caught on they can bleed older gay and closeted guys by just filming mundane shit they do and grabbing their crotch now and then. Easiest money ever.

by Anonymousreply 3103/26/2020

R31 is right. This generation of guys know how easy it is to use gay men.

Many of them don’t interact with gay men otherwise.

by Anonymousreply 3203/26/2020

R32, you have a very pessimistic personality

by Anonymousreply 3303/26/2020

I have a realistic one. Most straight men aren’t close to gay men. That is just reality.

by Anonymousreply 3403/26/2020

Id be his gay bestie anyday!

by Anonymousreply 3503/26/2020

R34, glad I have a different experience, dude. That is all.

by Anonymousreply 3603/26/2020

R36 That's interesting because everything I've seen suggests that R34 is mostly correct. The lives of straight and gay men differ significantly the more they get older. Even gay who lead the most boring and domestic lives are very different than the average married couple.

by Anonymousreply 3703/26/2020

^^^gay couples

by Anonymousreply 3803/26/2020

Exactly r37

DLers live in a make believe bubble and a fantasy utopia where every straight man loves gay men and they’re all Best friends. It’s not real. Even the most tolerant straight men aren’t as close to their gay best friends as their straight or female ones.

by Anonymousreply 3903/26/2020

Hot bro

by Anonymousreply 4003/27/2020

Straight men don't have female friends, as a rule.

by Anonymousreply 4103/27/2020

If r39 wasn’t accurate, why would this guy need to make a video ostensibly telling other straight guys that gay guys are tolerable as friends?

R39 is correct.

by Anonymousreply 4203/27/2020

If he is making a video like this is because he knows personally that straight men hate gay men. He even says “they have the best personalities yet you hate them because they’re gay”. That is because he sees and hears shit from other straight bro’s that we don’t. Like I said.

The way some of the white posters here say white people make racial jokes etc. when a black or Hispanic person isn’t around is the same for when gays are around. Just because I smile in your face doesn’t mean I like you. Tolerance doesn’t mean I like you. It means I tolerate you.

by Anonymousreply 4303/27/2020

Ok. And how does that affect how you move through life?

by Anonymousreply 4403/27/2020

The average gay man makes less than their straight peers. If you were to properly break down the wage gap...

White straight men make the most

White gay men make the second most.


Asian Men

Hispanic Men

White women

Asian women

Hispanic Women

Black Men

Black Women.

This is why I get annoyed with the focus always being “women”. Do women make less than men? Yes. But white women make more than other men and women too.

by Anonymousreply 4503/27/2020

PS I made an error.

The average white woman makes more than the average Hispanic man they need to be swapped.

by Anonymousreply 4603/27/2020

I want to make some white gay men, asian men, hispanic men and black men. Is this the tread for me?

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by Anonymousreply 4703/27/2020

Facts and data matter, dude.

Two Vanderbilt economists, Christopher Carpenter and Samuel Eppink, linked self-reported sexual orientation with earnings for employed US adults in the 2013-15 National Health Interview Surveys. They found that gay, full-time employed men made, on average, 10% more than similarly employed straight men. The difference in pay persisted even when they controlled for a variety of factors: presence of a partner, the sexual orientation of a partner, race, age, ethnicity, and the size of one’s firm and family.

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by Anonymousreply 4803/27/2020

His name is Garrett, he is born and raised in the Bay Area of Cali. He was a star athlete in school, playing football and wrestling. He is 20 years old (his bday is 1/20/2000) and an Aquarius. He is heterosexual but incredibly loving and supportive of gays.

He doesn’t have a preference when it comes to girls, and doesn’t understand people with racial preferences because there are beautiful women of all colors and races. The first thing he notices on a woman is her eyes and smile. He’s most attracted to a woman’s eyes, and he prefers a girl with a pretty face and not amazing body than a girl with an amazing body but not that pretty face. A body can always be worked on and changed but a face cant without surgery and even that doesn’t always work. (Lol).

He’s a sweetheart.

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by Anonymousreply 4903/27/2020

He made that video about being friends with gay dudes because growing up in the Bay Area many of the straight men are “tolerant” of gays but they want nothing to do with them past that, or they full on hate gays. He said after joining the military he saw how hateful straight boys are of gays even more than back home and he hears disgusting comments everyday of his life about gays, so that inspired him to make that video. Not only for homophobic people but those that are just “tolerant” to try befriending someone who is gay too. There is a difference between liking someone and tolerating them.

He is incredibly liberal, at least socially. He is more modest in a moral aspect.

He is based in Louisiana for the Military and is on base right now. He says most of the guys that join the Military are ignorant, small minded white boys who are insecure and assholes for no reason. The minute those guys get a little rank they treat everyone else like shit.

by Anonymousreply 5003/27/2020

He shouldn’t look down on white military dudes

by Anonymousreply 5103/27/2020

He is speaking what he sees and hears, because he is in the military. He should not be honest because they’re white?

by Anonymousreply 5203/27/2020

Do you know him r49? I would think he wrote all that himself if it weren’t written in the third person.

by Anonymousreply 5303/27/2020

Is it just a coincidence that the majority of his TikToks are recorded in the closet?

by Anonymousreply 5403/27/2020

Because he is on the base and shares a room with other dudes. 🙄🙄🙄🙄 he is on base. The closet is where he can be alone.

by Anonymousreply 5503/27/2020

This is akin to cute young straight women who believe older straight men are their "best friend" and are in denial that they're just hoping to sleep with her someday.

by Anonymousreply 5603/27/2020

He gets social anxiety when around too many people and shuts down and gets awkward. His background is Portuguese. He doesn’t recommend the Military unless you have no other options, it’s filled with too many power hungry, racist/homophobic dudes. He has 5 siblings. His dream is to be successful, get married and have two kids.

He would date older but hasn’t. He has a lot of women and gay men that offer him things and try to spoil him but he doesn’t accept. He only gives out his number to people he works with or family/friends. He showed us his phone and his Snapchat/Insta/Tik Tok messages are insane. He gets at least a thousand messages daily from people ever since he joined Tik Tok.

His favorite eye color is green. They make him weak.

He hates Louisiana so much. Everything about it and what it stands for. He says everything is so far away from each other. He loves Texas a lot. He goes into TX anytime he can. He says there is so much to do there and it’s fun. LA is trash.

He misses his home state, California, everyday. When he’s done with the Military he is going back home to Cali.

by Anonymousreply 5703/27/2020

He also said he isn’t saying all gay men are good people. He said there are very bad gay men out there, but he knows that they are a bad person and it has nothing to do with them being gay. There are good and bad people in every race/nationality/gender/sexuality etc. some people think all gays are bad but he knows there are good ones and bad ones like anyone else.

But most he has met are good, hard working, generous, kind, encouraging, helpful, loyal, and most important to him, honest. He loves honesty and the gay dudes back in Cali he grew up around were blunt with him, and he loved them for that.

by Anonymousreply 5803/27/2020

I've been saying on here for years that the straight men you eldergays grew up with are NOT the straight men of today. Most my friends are straight men. We are all very open with each other including talking about our sex lives. My generation is just not that homophobic. There are a few bad apples but most of them are like the guy at OP.

Dozens of times here I've been told it's all a lie and they secretetly hate me. I don't think you eldergays hear how paranoid and sad that sounds.

by Anonymousreply 5903/27/2020

R59 it is a lie. It depends where you are from. The majority of the country is in Red states and most of them, not all, are small minded.

You still find homophobic pieces of shit in cities like LA, Miami and NYC, yet alone all over Louisiana and Indiana etc.

And I am 28. A part of your generation. I’m being honest.

by Anonymousreply 6003/27/2020

It also depends on how mainstream and masculine you are. Guys react differently to flamboyant or effeminate men.

by Anonymousreply 6103/27/2020

It also depends on how mainstream and masculine you are. Guys react differently to flamboyant or effeminate men.

by Anonymousreply 6203/27/2020

R60 you can find homophobes under 35 in all those places? Because I haven't seen it. Ive lived in Arizona and frequently visit Georgia where I have family (and they don't live in Atlanta) and while yes you can find homophobes there all the ones I've encountered are much older. People our age at worst don't care. Vanishingly few of them put energy into being homophobic.

by Anonymousreply 6303/27/2020

This dude was inspired to make a pro Gay PSA because of how homophobic his peers are but r63 hasn’t ever seen homophobia.

Also, tolerance isn’t acceptance.

by Anonymousreply 6403/27/2020

R48 Did they control for penis size?

by Anonymousreply 6503/27/2020

R64, maybe people don’t like you because it’s specially you. You seem to have a dour disposition that would be a drag to be around, man.

by Anonymousreply 6603/27/2020

R64 how do you know he was talking about his own generation? I never said I've never seen homophobia. I've said I don't get it from people my own age.

by Anonymousreply 6703/27/2020

Because they’re being nice.

by Anonymousreply 6803/27/2020

Rather than millions of people all collectively faking acceptance of gays to "be nice", it's more likely a few eldergays are just bitter and insist we all must be miserable because they didn't have this environment when they were growing up

by Anonymousreply 6903/27/2020

I notice that gays who have had it hard being accepted get jealous when bi and gay guys are integrated into and accepted by their straight male peers. It’s like they can’t be happy for gay dudes who are accepted

by Anonymousreply 7003/27/2020

Omg. It’s not about being bitter. I’m 28. It’s about TRUTH.

by Anonymousreply 7103/27/2020

It’s you r71.

by Anonymousreply 7203/27/2020

"They just call you faggot and shit because they think it bugs you."

This is the shit I hear from the straight obsessed fucktards. Keep chasing your straight guys, bromeo. One day you'll be able to get one drunk enough to take advantage of.

by Anonymousreply 7303/27/2020

He’s just so hot though.

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by Anonymousreply 7403/27/2020

Look, when you have a straight boy telling you a lot of straight men are homophobic, you believe it.

by Anonymousreply 7503/27/2020

Why is he always wearing clothes in his pictures?

by Anonymousreply 7603/27/2020

He’s shirtless here

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by Anonymousreply 7703/27/2020

He's an 11 out of 10

by Anonymousreply 7803/27/2020

Beautiful Portuguese American boy.

by Anonymousreply 7903/27/2020

R78 he really is

Him with his momma

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by Anonymousreply 8003/27/2020

His mom is a MILF.

by Anonymousreply 8103/27/2020

His mom is hot to death

by Anonymousreply 8203/27/2020

I wonder what dad looks like.

by Anonymousreply 8303/27/2020

Antioch is kind of a working-class/lower middle class part of the Bay Area.

by Anonymousreply 8403/27/2020

So? R84 he never claimed he came from money.

by Anonymousreply 8503/27/2020

If he came from money, he wouldn’t be in the military.

by Anonymousreply 8603/27/2020

I wasn't criticizing -- I think it's all the more impressive that he's taking a stand in an area that's less likely to be welcoming to that way of thinking than some of the more liberal/progressive areas would be.

by Anonymousreply 8703/27/2020

Many rich people are homophobic. Idk where this idea that money erases homophobia comes from.

by Anonymousreply 8803/27/2020

I have a small crush on him. He is just the sweetest and cutest

by Anonymousreply 8903/27/2020

Portuguese Prince

by Anonymousreply 9003/28/2020

He's really naive.

by Anonymousreply 9103/28/2020

Why? R91

by Anonymousreply 9203/28/2020

He is on Live right now

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by Anonymousreply 9303/28/2020

His new chest tat

by Anonymousreply 9403/28/2020

I love him. He has a little hood in him and I find it kind of sexy

by Anonymousreply 9503/28/2020

I find that gorgeous treasure trail stunning.

by Anonymousreply 9603/28/2020

I love urban dudes

by Anonymousreply 9703/28/2020

Same r97. He had to go off on someone on Live and it was fun. The hood came out. Otherwise he’s a sweetheart trying to make it. But when you piss him off he doesn’t care. Love it. Kinda hot.

by Anonymousreply 9803/28/2020

He’s a hottie

by Anonymousreply 9903/31/2020

Can't wait to read it here that homeboy finally came out of the closet. Anytime a "straight" guy is this involved in gay people affairs he is probably closeted and overcompensating.

by Anonymousreply 10003/31/2020

R100 proves why they will never fully feel comfortable around us.

He isn’t that involved with gay rights. He made one video about it. Every other video has nothing to do with gays.

by Anonymousreply 10103/31/2020

R100, gay guys like you ruin it for cool gay dudes. Shut your piehole

by Anonymousreply 10203/31/2020

[quote]Gay men now earn more than straight men in the US

Yes but according you your facts in the article, gay men are less employed than straight men. They are just comparing job to job not overall employment. That's just like what people have been pushing about gays for decades, that we make more because we usually don't have to spend money on things like raising kids. The fact is most gays are not high powered lawyers. How many times have you been in a big retail store like Macy's or Bloomingdale's and seen a straight man selling cosmetics? Those are shit paying jobs and they are filled with gay men. As the article even points out, more gay men are unemployed than straight so they don't get counted in their analysis. So as a group, gay men actually make less on average than straight men.

by Anonymousreply 10303/31/2020

R102. Who told you I am gay. We straight people can spot a supposed "Straight" dude protesting too much. We don't care either way about gays, we are neutral and unbothered as long as most of you are not overstepping your boundaries . R103 true about retail.

by Anonymousreply 10403/31/2020

Begone r104. This is not a place for your kind

by Anonymousreply 10503/31/2020

R105. Ok fair enough but stop obsessing over us.

by Anonymousreply 10603/31/2020

He's cute but he's not a 11/10. I'm a college prof and many young men are gorgeous. I think some of you are quite old.

by Anonymousreply 10703/31/2020

I’m sure you’re a college Professor

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by Anonymousreply 10904/02/2020

[QUOTE] I'm a college prof and many young men are gorgeous.

Post some Instagrams of the hot students you fantasize about, R107.

by Anonymousreply 11004/02/2020

Yeah r107. Put your money where your mouth is.

by Anonymousreply 11104/02/2020

He is very cute. A little hood

by Anonymousreply 11204/12/2020

Sizemeat verificata?

by Anonymousreply 11304/12/2020

Ask him r113

by Anonymousreply 11404/13/2020

He’s hot

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by Anonymousreply 11504/14/2020

At least once he is done with the Army, he can get further education via the GI Bill, which now covers not only undergrad but some graduate programs as well.

by Anonymousreply 11604/14/2020

Alex Cohen's younger brother?

by Anonymousreply 11704/15/2020

Please let him be bi

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by Anonymousreply 11806/06/2020

Love him so much

by Anonymousreply 119Last Saturday at 7:35 AM
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