“Calling out any discrimination is a must, but is cancelling entire companies and public figures who misstep an even more effective strategy to let the larger society know what is no longer tolerable? Even more importantly, are there any overlooked costs to the community and it’s people doing the cancelling?“
DL’s Favorite Gay Therapist Explores Cancel Culture
by Anonymous | reply 79 | March 19, 2020 5:39 AM |
nudes?
by Anonymous | reply 1 | March 11, 2020 2:31 AM |
I bet he “cancelled” Aaron Schock multiple times
by Anonymous | reply 2 | March 11, 2020 2:33 AM |
I'd like to cancel his stupid hair and that hideous shirt.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | March 11, 2020 2:36 AM |
Well cancel that circus shirt he's wearing for starters. Is he a member of the Vatican Guards?
by Anonymous | reply 4 | March 11, 2020 2:40 AM |
Even the gays have their weirdos.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | March 11, 2020 4:10 AM |
This guy should have been canceled a LONG time ago.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | March 11, 2020 4:25 AM |
Thanks for the update on this fabulous man. He still looks remarkable, but I’m disappointed in his choice of shirt. It looks like it’s made of leftover bedspread fabric from 1965. Of course, he looks better in the shirtless photo in his black briefs.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | March 11, 2020 4:52 AM |
R1, his nudes came out ages ago.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | March 11, 2020 4:54 AM |
R10, well no one sent them to me!
by Anonymous | reply 11 | March 11, 2020 5:04 AM |
WeHo enough said.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | March 11, 2020 5:44 AM |
Why would anyone send you hole pics unsolicited, R11?
by Anonymous | reply 13 | March 11, 2020 5:45 AM |
He'll be cancelled for not advocating cancellation.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | March 11, 2020 6:03 AM |
He's a bit less insufferable in this than in most of his videos.
One thing that he's missing completely in this whole cancel culture debate is that, from a psychological perspective, it's really quite unhealthy. He points out that just repressing negative stimuli can have long-term consequences (a political backlash, for instance), or limit dialogue. I'm surprised that he fails to mention that cancel culture leads to people not developing a better resilience to negative input. There's only so much that you can achieve by regulating your surroundings and the public discourse; in the end, however, life will find a way to shit on you. In these cases, the question is raised: Do you have a thick enough skin and good enough mental strategies to deal with this kind of stress? If not, you become weak and suffer negative physical and psychological results. If yes, you can defy adversity and persevere.
Cancel culture makes us weaker because young people can never learn resilience.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | March 11, 2020 9:36 AM |
She’s trying.
by Anonymous | reply 18 | March 11, 2020 9:41 AM |
The shirt is blatantly horrendous. Therefore I cannot take anything he says seriously.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | March 11, 2020 10:30 AM |
It looks like he’s wearing a wiglet in that pic.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | March 11, 2020 10:36 AM |
[quote]The shirt is blatantly horrendous. Therefore I cannot take anything he says seriously.
Can you ever take a doctor who presents hole online seriously?
by Anonymous | reply 21 | March 11, 2020 10:54 AM |
Is it internalized homophobia that I can't get past the gay voice? I just couldn't have him as a therapist.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | March 11, 2020 11:33 AM |
Charlatan! Altough he has the degree and licence to practice, his ethical compass is firmly fixed on the "weho" demographic of white insecure ,neurotic , with a touch of BPD types. Remember Bob Bugereon???? His narcissistic need for appearance validation would be best served in a career with Treasure Island Media.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | March 11, 2020 11:59 AM |
Someone has either an unrevealed racial slur or a rape victim ready to spill. 🤣
by Anonymous | reply 24 | March 11, 2020 1:04 PM |
I guess it’s true that a lot of therapists are crazy themselves. I mean, look at that shirt.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | March 11, 2020 2:10 PM |
I guess it’s true that a lot of therapists are crazy themselves. I mean, look at that shirt.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | March 11, 2020 2:10 PM |
There were several nudes of his asshole and cock.
Did anyone save them to share again?
by Anonymous | reply 27 | March 11, 2020 2:16 PM |
The shirt wouldn't be so bad if the manufacturer had bothered to line the pocket stripes up with the body of the shirt. How did that make it past Inspector No. 5?
by Anonymous | reply 28 | March 11, 2020 2:37 PM |
He’s cute, ugly shirt and all. I wouldn’t mind seeing his hole and dick pics.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | March 11, 2020 2:48 PM |
It was a nice dick, r29 (though, as you might imagine, the DL size queens tore it to shreds).
by Anonymous | reply 30 | March 11, 2020 3:10 PM |
I agree with every word he says.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | March 11, 2020 3:11 PM |
If I looked like this I wouldn’t have to worry about cancelling much.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | March 11, 2020 3:18 PM |
R2 He for sure did something with him and this is just an attempt to get ahead of that when it inevitably comes out.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | March 11, 2020 3:20 PM |
Why doesn’t he dye his hair. He would look so much younger.
by Anonymous | reply 34 | March 12, 2020 12:20 AM |
I would like to cancel a load all over his face
by Anonymous | reply 36 | March 12, 2020 9:11 AM |
R35, that picture is what I picture hell on earth to be like.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | March 12, 2020 11:47 AM |
Phony little fuck.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | March 12, 2020 12:16 PM |
Gorgeous Jesse Tannenbaum had to set his IG to private last year after so many DL queens were checking him out because of Matt. But now he is open again and still hot.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | March 12, 2020 12:34 PM |
R35. The photo screams: “When you and your BFFs are pushing 40 but still 16 at heart. Squee!”
by Anonymous | reply 40 | March 12, 2020 12:39 PM |
[quote] Why doesn’t he dye his hair. He would look so much younger.
He wants to be taken seriously.
*snort!*
by Anonymous | reply 42 | March 12, 2020 1:01 PM |
Does "queer" cancel culture actually work ?
by Anonymous | reply 43 | March 12, 2020 1:20 PM |
The wiglet is worse than the blouse.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | March 12, 2020 1:22 PM |
Queers are only willing to cancel gays they don’t want to fuck. See Aaron Schock.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | March 12, 2020 1:24 PM |
Why did Jesse get that huge gross tattoo? Does he think it looks good?
by Anonymous | reply 46 | March 12, 2020 3:00 PM |
[quote]Why doesn’t he dye his hair. He would look so much younger.
You can always tell. And it almost never looks better. Or younger.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | March 12, 2020 4:01 PM |
R39 why would Jesse Tannenbaum care if DLers looked at his Instagram? I thought that was the point of online social media?
by Anonymous | reply 48 | March 13, 2020 12:38 AM |
I remember Jesse is a late addition to this group. He posted a one-year anniversary pic of meeting this wonderful group of friends. So what happened to all his friends from the years before? Now it seems he spends all his waking days with this group.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | March 13, 2020 12:59 AM |
Someone as old as Jesse finding a whole new set of friends is weird.
He look perfect but there must be something wrong with him.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | March 13, 2020 1:11 AM |
This WeHo Squad seems to be a powerful entity. Are they the WH version of The Plastics? What’s the story?
by Anonymous | reply 51 | March 13, 2020 1:12 AM |
He looks crazed and like he has bad breath!
by Anonymous | reply 52 | March 13, 2020 1:15 AM |
Jesse is looking worse the more time he spends with this vacuous crew.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | March 13, 2020 12:44 PM |
Does he take lesbian therapy patients—or only white good looking WeHo gay males?
by Anonymous | reply 57 | March 14, 2020 3:30 AM |
He’s connected to Aaron Schock?
Lol, bitch is finished.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | March 14, 2020 4:27 AM |
Funny how every time Aaron Schock does something else stupid or anti-LGBT we get these hand wringing articles by lightweights trying to push the idea that nobody should be held responsible for being a bigot or causing damage to people.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | March 14, 2020 4:56 AM |
Why doesn't Matthew have a husband by now?
by Anonymous | reply 61 | March 14, 2020 5:21 PM |
Wait - do we know he's friends with Schock?
And - that's a wig right?
by Anonymous | reply 62 | March 14, 2020 5:35 PM |
[quote]Had a great convo with my friend @davecoast today less about circumstances and more about the stories we tell ourselves because of them. Here’s one he created about the corona virus and I love it! It gave me goosebumps actually and they say pay attention when that happens. ✨
by Anonymous | reply 63 | March 18, 2020 5:52 PM |
He has such a huge forehead naturally, and that stupid quiff just elongates it even further. He would look much better with a shorter haircut.
by Anonymous | reply 64 | March 18, 2020 5:55 PM |
He looks like he's wearing a uniform from Hot Dog On A Stick or Farrell's Ice Cream. The person who said he looks good in that shirt really hates him.
by Anonymous | reply 65 | March 18, 2020 6:01 PM |
I have no problem dealing with negative shit, r17. I've dealt with plenty over the 60 years of my life. I also don't have learned not to deal with stupid shit, so I have no problem canceling toxic people from my life and social media. The queen in the OP is a great example of stupid shit I neither want nor have to listen to.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | March 18, 2020 6:04 PM |
He has a HUGE forehead and the rest of his face looks squashed into the bottom 2/3s of his face, yet in some pics he looks fantastic.
Gurl knows his angles.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | March 18, 2020 6:12 PM |
Gurl has been gazing into a mirror for a long, long, time.
by Anonymous | reply 68 | March 18, 2020 6:16 PM |
Punch. Delete. Ghost.
by Anonymous | reply 69 | March 18, 2020 6:18 PM |
R69
by Anonymous | reply 70 | March 18, 2020 6:37 PM |
so 70 replies tearing his appearance apart and almost 0 discussing the question he posed.....
Very DL, I guess.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | March 18, 2020 6:44 PM |
He’s old. Covid will make quick work of him.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | March 18, 2020 6:46 PM |
I vote to CANCEL R71.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | March 18, 2020 6:46 PM |
Sorry r71 I'm not taking advice nor listening to anyone dressed in a clown shirt. Not happening.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | March 18, 2020 7:27 PM |
r71, so you're proposing we take him seriously as an important intellectual?
by Anonymous | reply 76 | March 18, 2020 8:06 PM |
This dude’s last two posts are such Oprah drivel. Finding the positives and meaning in this epidemic. A tad early for that gurl.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | March 18, 2020 10:33 PM |
WTF? He writes more unending word salad babble than Dr. Jake.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | March 19, 2020 5:07 AM |
I hope all his clients cancel. But he probably offers Skype therapy sessions, shirtless.
Hopefully he attended this event:
by Anonymous | reply 79 | March 19, 2020 5:39 AM |