Why Are Kink/Fetish Guys Such Assholes?

They’re usually sex addicts, and if you stand in their way when they’re trying to get off, watch out! It’s like telling an alcoholic they can’t have their vodka.

I haven't noticed them being assholes as such...usually just not that attractive. It's a generalisation for sure but it seems to me that the less attractive a guy is the more into fetish things he is.

Get turned down, did you OP?

I'm as vanilla as they come R3 so no.

Because it’s about the sex so you are only a means to an end—so if you don’t meet their needs anymore—they move on. It basically describes most gay relationships.

OP, you must be either fat or Asian or both. When you're hot, gay guys do not behave like huge jerks.

Move on.

UKGuy made a pretty accurate assessment, at least based on my “sampling” also.

Depends - what do you call kink or fetish? That seems to be a big category.

Personally, I believe they fall into 2 categories:

1) a lot of them are secretly ashamed of these desires and don't know exactly why they have them or what propels them. On the other hand, they don't want to do anything to look into why they act this way as it may be emotionally painful.

2) another group do it for attention, for self-identity, or to spice up a very bland life.

I'm talking about those who are 100% into the kink and can't just have regular sex. I'm not talking about a little role play or stuff now and again.

R6 is the definition of irony. Isn't being fat or Asian the prerequisite for some people's kinks/fetishes?

Sometimes can be too very fucking specific. Some know how to take the pleasure out of sex. And there's no small overlap between those two subsets.

Is being a raging cunt your fetish R6?

Anyone who makes a big deal out of their kink is apt to be a dick.

You will be expected to perform *exactly* to their specifications.

Thanks to apps, guys pretty much completely objectify other guys and act like they are ordering off a sex menu rather than connecting with other human beings. So if that is the case, it’s not that odd that fetish/kink guys are a lot worse. It’s about fulfilling their needs, not yours.

Because it's not about pleasure to them, it's simply a neurosis they feel compelled to act upon.

They're usually are weird fat ugly men. They're weird.

Re-enactment.

Can we start getting rid of them from Pride parades?

Fetish and kink are two completely separate things; they may or may not overlap. I have a foot and sock fetish, but I'm not into kink. And I'm not an asshole, like most of you making idiotic generalizations about things that you don't even bother to research before you start queening-out.

Eww. If sex doesn't do it for you, you are probably fat and ugly.

A sock fetish. GTFO here. Go buy a bag of socks. You're like those mentally ill people who think they are in love with buildings and structures.