Do Women Compare Their Partners Penis Size?

A man's penis size isn't as important to a woman as a man's knowing his way around a clitoris -- oral sex is a much more satisfying orgasm than vaginal. He can use his hand or his mouth. Doesn't matter as long as he knows what he's doing. And if he does, believe me he'll be rewarded with whatever he wants. He's welcome to vaginal if that's what he wants or a nice healthy blowjob. A satisfied woman will give him whatever he wants.

Oops I forgot to answer your original question. No, most women don't compare penis size, they compare how well their partners tickle their clit.

It's really mostly just gay guys who are obsessed with cock size and make it this essential trait by which other human beings live or die.

yes, we do. mostly if it's outside the norms in any way. bigger or smaller than average, a bend, excessive hair, shaved. a weird color, smell or taste. we typically really go into details on performance.

I've always thought that if your partner is above average, just keep quiet about it so that other people don't try to steal them from you. Or at least sleep with them.

I'm a gay man - so not sure what women do.

I'm not a woman, but a female acquaintance of mine (NOT a friend, too many issues that needed sorting out on her part) was always eager to inform me about her boyfriend's talent in the sack, and that included penis size, both length and diameter. I assume she measured. I can only imagine that her female friends got even more of an ear full.

Never thought I’d see the day on DL where an r1 not only doesn’t do their job, but is a straight female.

I mourn for you, DL.

Nope. Penis size in all its detail is mostly a male obsession. R6 my guess is your friend is telling you about her boyfriend because 1) she thinks that's what you want to know about him or 2) she's trying to impress you with him.

R7 Oh, yeah, the times they are a changin'

Every woman I've ever met who talks about penis size is seeking to put down the opposite sex.

R1, Not all women like the same thing in bed and a truly good lover listens to what his partner wants and desires.

R8 I suspect you may be right.

Of course not OP. Women are inherentely competitive. They would immediately fuck the guy with a bigger dick than theirs. On the contrary, women dress their man as badly as possible, etc, so that their ' girl friends ' are as little interested as possible. ( even though they know they will fuck them anyway to make a point). Human female are the least loyal of all creatures. And that includes snakes and hyenas.

[quote] Women are inherentely competitive. They would immediately fuck the guy with a bigger dick than theirs.

Come again.

R12, What women have you been hanging out with that have such low morals? I'd never, ever consider dating a friend's man even after they broke up. Disgusted when a friend's ex makes a pass me.

Furthermore I love that my BF dresses well and has excellent grooming. Even more of a priority is that he has excellent manners and is chivalrous even to strangers. Again R12 you must know a lot of evil women.

Yes I've dated men that were large and it's very uncomfortable. The very kind, considerate men revealed that they didn't get a lot of oral because of their size issue.

As long as it's not a micropenis, women don't care. They prefer average ones.

The discussion is more around performance as size doesn’t affect the pleasure as much. Not too small where you can’t feel anything or too big where it hurts. Take a handsome face and nice wallet over a big cock.

I am a man and do not give a fuck how big your dick is.

I've discovered that people who talk too much about having sex usually aren't getting any. There was this one housewife friend of a friend who'd come out with my best friend and I a few times (also a straight woman) and she'd always go on and on about how hot her sex life was with her husband. The woman was 60 and talking about how they'd lube each other up with baby oil and how her husband's penis was so big she could barely take it. I've seen her husband - he ain't all that. She went on and on so much that I figured she had to be trying to overcompensate. Seeing them as a couple, I got the vibe that they probably hadn't had sex since 1996.

goodness me, I suspect a few of the women's posts in the thread are a bit less women than they claim.

also, women absolutely like girth and at least average length because a good stroke rhythm is preferable to a jackrabbit. I think men started the rumors that women don't care about size at all

R12 You do realize that the OP asked for a woman's opinion, yes? Why do you have such venom towards women? We're on this site because we LOVE gay guys. Most of you are the sweetest, funniest, most generous people. My mom always believed that every woman should have a gay son. All her friends who did were doted on by their gay sons. My brother got sick of hearing it.

[quote] I've seen her husband - he ain't all that.

A lot of ugly guys have big dicks.

the kinds of women who brag about their man's dick size are ALSO the kind who will steal another woman's man the moment she isn't looking.

they're called "slags", honey.

they aren't dating for love, sex or romance. they are dating for status and points over others. women know to recognize these and weed them out of their friend-pool quickly.

A smart lover of either gender knows to keep their under cover delights just that...under cover. Many a song laments the blabbermouth's discovering the beloved in the arms of a "trusted friend" whose curiosity was piqued by careless bragging.

A man who knows how to position his penis for maximum G-Spot contact is worth his weight in gold!

Where is this mythical G-Spot? A man who knows how to position his penis and rub on the C-spot is the real keeper!

Don't let these ladies fool you. They are way more candid about these types of things than they're letting on. They may not share details with everyone, but they're talking and they DO care. I've seen so many dick pics from my female friends (husbands/boyfriends, Tinder dates, etc.). I tell some of them, "boy how times have changed." The fact that women are trolling for quickies online ( and via apps) like gay men have been doing for 20+ years cracks me up. We're still a very prudish country but we (men and women) have come a long way in a short amount of time.

R25: No myth, Baby, and if your G-Spot had been the object of a lover's affection, you'd know it! The G-Spot is the extended base of the clitoris located in the upper wall of the vagina.

Only gay men who are not getting any are obsessed with penis size. Gays who have active sex lives know they will run into all sizes of dicks and will make the best of the situation.

For missionary position, women don't like a lot of length because when a man's dick hits the cervix, it's jarring and uncomfortable. Girth is better. For Doggy, length is good, and if you are woman who is obese, length is good because her man can get passed the mounds of excess fat!

Oh dear.

Thank God R26 showed up to mansplain and dispute the women's revelations! We might as well end this thread now that he has spoken and set us straight!

Sensible adults neither send, save, swap nor share genital pics, the operative words being "sensible" and "adult."

"It Ain't the Meat it's the Motion"

Women, be wise. Keep your mouth shut. Don't advertise your man.

R33: I'm with you, Brother Man/Sister Woman.

And many many many married couples ended up divorce due to his lack of.... don’t tell me women do not care. They all do care but some decided to stay with their husband just because of financial and emotional secure. Vibrator and cheating, hello

women talk about quality over quantity.

and even if they do so more frankly than straight men hanging out together, they still tend to talk generally and not specifically. "i enjoy doing x. i like it when A Guy does y."

they know that their friends will be grossed out thinking about the visualizations at the next group dinner get-together to know too many personal details about the individual husbands there.

R36, what nonsense, I thank my lucky stars that I'm not straight

I have clearly been femaling wrong my entire adult life.

I’ve only heard talk of the size when it’s unusually small. One of my friends had a man try to trick her into marrying him, sight unseen. (They are Persian) She thought it was suspicious so she did some Lucy and Ethel type high jink, like spilling something all over him and getting his pants off in order to see what was going on, which was nothing. He apparently was missing his genitals. Other than cases like this, we don’t talk about it. I’m loyal and don’t like telling tales out of school. However another person I know did tell me her husbands butt stinks and now I can’t look at him.

maybe the difference is married vs single (although I have heard quite a bit about my married friends sex lives)

More r39! No one will know you’re telling us. Missing dicks, smelly asses, oh come on!

...and again - generalizations(

I'm a woman and I have many women-friends. One of them is an escort-girl and she constantly tell me about her sex life, men and penis sizes. Another one is married to her former classmate (her first man ever) and never discuss her sexual life at all, another one - is musiccan, very creative person, she had many boyfriends, but she never discuss them as well, another one likes to discuss her sexual life - mostly complain about lack of boys' imagination. So how they do their fucking statistic? As for me, I never discuss sizes either, unless it's a really funny random case.

We may talk about dicks but usually only if they are abnormally small or large or funny looking. Otherwise it will be about the sex being great or bad or whatever. The sole focus isn’t on the cock it’s usually on the man, his body, his eyes, his kissing skills or whatnot. I’ve had average to smallish dicks that were much better than huge ones so it must depend on how the guy uses it and what angels it hits as well as how hot he is and what kind of person he is

^angles, though an angel would be nice too

OP, why do you think they're lying?

You realize women are different from gay men, right? I don't get gay men who think they are women trapped in a man's body

R26, hardly any women are trolling for quickies online, that's why when Ashley Madison was hacked it was revealed that most of the "women" on that site were bots

Wonder how many of the "women" at lpsg are actually female ....

Women only talk about dick size if it's small, usually to warn other women away from said small cock. If it's big they keep that info to themselves lest one of their bitch friends try to steal their man.

[quote] There was this one housewife friend of a friend who'd come out with my best friend and I

Oh, dear!

R47, women are more likely to complain about a dick that's too big than one that's too small. Internet searches back that up. Btw, even straight men do more internet searches for dick pics than straight women

A female friend and I were talking about guys' dicks and we've both agreed that straight guys with giant dicks don't know how to fuck- as if size will guarantee a good one. They also seem to get off on pounding you until you say, "That hurts"- it re-affirms that they have big ones.

I wonder if straight men ever complain about or discuss pussy size. 🤔

She's got a huge vagina!

I never considered penis size and either had good sex or bad sex with the person, not his penis. I’ve had a couple of micro penises which I barely felt and mostly average to below average penises....until I met Big Tony (the nickname I gave him). I could barely handle him, but I sure loved the struggle. Unfortunately, I’m now a size queen.

Not really. We will talk if there's something wrong in the bedroom, however. Size really doesn't have a lot to do with it unless it's so small you can't tell it's in. You don't marry those.

R46, Also consider the number of women on these sites that talk a good game but will never actually meet the potential partner. Fantasizing? Ashamed of being seen as they're insecure about their looks or have gained weight? Thinking of making their husband jealous? Sadly I've met women who fall into this category.

R54, A former friend used to talk about men's dick sizes and their inadequate lovemaking skills. Yes she had serious anger issues with men.

Finally admitted her very best lover had an unusually small penis but really cared about her needs sexually and took his time to please her any way she wanted. He also used his finger at the exact same time.

Sadly most men learn about sex from watching porno then wonder why women reject them. In Japan it used to be a thing for men before marriage to visit a sex teacher so that they could learn about real women's needs.

Maybe some women will mention the penis size of their husbands in conversations, but they are more than likely to disclose (or "brag") jeweleries, clothes and shoes, gifts...they got from their husbands, bragging a bigger cock in bed does't impress much IMO.

R54, plenty of small dicked men don't have a problem finding women if they're rich. Ask Donald Trump.

Best tops I've ever had were not the biggest. I prefer someone good and with an average size works for me.

Topix used to have threads of women's perspectives, you get some very interesting insight on how they think about their men and others' husbands, but sadly such discussion usually didn't last long, the threads soon would be hijacked by trolls, men who had weird festishes like CFNM will pretend to be women and write all sorts of fantasy.

R57 knows some shallow bitches

smart women only brag about the things their man does for them without being nagged to do it.

As others have said, it’s only a matter of discussion if it’s above or below average. In my experience, I have encountered one very small penis and one very large penis. Otherwise they’ve been unremarkable and the men they’re attached to are always more notable. I had one friend who always seemed to be with men who were “sooooo huge, oh my god!” and we just rolled our eyes. Same with women who complain about the guy’s tiny dick *after* they broke up.

It’s not a Frau thing at all. It’s almost exclusively a gay guy thing. They are completely obsessed with everything related to dicks.

And women are obsessed with everything related to look, status and money.

Its not a deal breaker with women if a guy is small,but believe you me they talk about it . By the same token,a lot of women dont like big ones either .

Some women are size queens too, I have known them. What most women are REALLY size queens about though is a mans height. Little guys, 5'7 and under, have a very hard time getting dates. Most women want a man that is 6ft tall even if she is short.

my 4 adult decades (as a gay man) showed me many women gossip about exceptional dick size. Not normal cocks, but big and gorgeous, or tragic micro dicks, do get blabbed about.

R64, R65, R66, R67, Why do you keep saying ALL women? NO, ALL women agree on very little.

Because the posters you referenced r68, type like Wendy Williams talks. You know what I mean, fucking stupid.

I typed "many women", you cunt.

R7, I liked R1's response and I did specifically ask for a women's perspective after all! Still, as I read this the responses I did recall one specific quick remark a work colleague said about her very cute husband years ago. I don't recall what prompted it, but her rolled-eye response was "and that's not big either."

I never looked at him the same way again.

R70, Obviously by both of your posts you have serious anger issues with women. Please get help.

R71, I feel very sorry for that woman's husband, as she clearly doesn't see anything wrong with putting down a man where he's potentially the most vulnerable.

The most pleasurable cocks are the ones that curve, either up, down, or sideways. Those curved cocks will hit spots you didn't even know you had.

Nah, I find the one that was the best had the biggest mushroom head and tapered to the base. The curved ones sometimes curve the wrong way.

R72 no, I’m just allergic to cunts

R75 another vote for the massive mushroom head. Love the subtle ‘pop’ sound it makes as it pushes it’s way beyond and then plunges deep into the pearly gates.

I don’t discuss penis sizes with anyone. That’s personal, and I just don’t do it. As a matter of fact, though I may discuss some sexual stuff here, it’s anonymous (sort of-no one cares who I am, anyhow), but I don’t get into details about my sex life with my girlfriends or guy friends. It’s no one’s business, but mine, and my lover’s. No one needs to know about what we did, how we did it, or how many times, or about their penis size, shape, etc.

And guess what? I never ask my friends about it either. I’m not interested. It isn’t any of my business, and honestly, I don’t want to know.

I don’t discuss penis sizes with anyone. That’s personal, and I just don’t do it. As a matter of fact, though I may discuss some sexual stuff here, it’s anonymous (sort of-no one cares who I am, anyhow), but I don’t get into details about my sex life with my girlfriends or guy friends. It’s no one’s business, but mine, and my lover’s. No one needs to know about what we did, how we did it, or how many times, or about their penis size, shape, etc.

And guess what? I never ask my friends about it either. I’m not interested. It isn’t any of my business, and honestly, I don’t want to know.

R51 “even a 747 looks small when you’re flying it into the Grand Canyon”