Bottoming. What is it about?

Laziness.

Are you 13 OP?

Fuck off, R2. OP's question is legit to me.

To me, it's about making orgasms more intense.

Pleasing daddy.

I was assigned bottom at birth.

All of the above and even much more, OP, depending on your unique sexual development experiences.

No idea.

Career advancement.

Does girth or length matter to you?

$300 cash.

It really depends. Sometimes your anus feels like a sexual organ, and sometimes it feels like an anus.

Orgasmic submission. Being taken care of. Some of us are in positions of control in 'real' life - we take care of business, we take care of people, we take care of EVERYTHING in our life. Except this wonderful sensation of being controlled by someone else. As you can tell, I am not a power bottom but a very submissive, loving one.

The guy I used to date could top me every once in a while, and it felt great. He had a small dick. My boyfriend of the last 10 years is basically a total bottom, even though he has a big dick. Every once in a while I will bottom just to change it up, BUT, honestly it does not feel good, because he is too big for me, and it ends up hurting.

I don’t know the reasons and frankly don’t care. I just know I’m madly in love with each and every one of you.

The appeal is the upcharge!

I like to be fucked by thick dick. I don't like long ones, just thick ones. The feeling of opening up is amazing.

R16- I have both length AND girth.

I don’t know how you guys are having sex but I’ve just been rubbing butts together. Am I not doing it right?

I've tried a couple of times, but I've never been able to do it. I've always felt like a failed gay. I'm lucky that my BF was never interested in topping me, although I would have done my best.

R19, you need to train first. Use small sex toys first, and masturbate. This will teach your brain to associate the two. Eventually move to larger toys or the real deal. Oh and plenty of lube.

What R20 said. Most guys have to learn how to do it. Practice, practice, practice.

Otherwise, it's just a... pain in the ass.

It took me awhile to enjoy being a bottom. (R20 has good advice.) Now I enjoy being a bottom as well as a top, but for me it depends on who I'm with. I can't describe why being a bottom feels good but it does. My orgasm as a bottom is more intense and the thought of my partner inside of me is a turn on.

It feels good if the guy has a thick dick and isn't too long; otherwise it's like being harpooned.

Agreed with r23. That's why I recommend short bears aka pocket bears.

There is a reason why the prostate is wrapped in nerves.

Although I'm not strictly a bottom, I enjoy the intimacy of it. There's the popular notion in our culture that the bottom is "giving it up," but really both partners are giving, the top giving his dick. It's a fun present :)

I have no need for pain. A big dick may be good for porn, but in real life I prefer no more than a little over average.

It's about subservient inadequacy disguised as pleasure giving to the guy who sees you as a doormat.

r26, boyfriend cock over porn cock in a LTR any day.

Porn cock gives too much wear.

R27 is an idiot. Best to ignore him, OP.

Had a bottom cum hands free the other day while I was fucking him. Was awesome. Made me feel I was doing him right.

It’s a pain in the ass.

My bf once told me he just wanted to be "filled".

Been a top most of my life. Then an accident made getting hard difficult but not impossible. So, I switched. Mostly bottom now. I like it. Feels good and when it’s my turn to cum, it’s powerful.

Husband says I produce far more cum after I’m bottomed and he’s spooged inside of me. Then when he focuses on me, I fucking scream in ecstasy. It’s that good.

If I’m really turned on (super horney) I can top good, but the orgasm is just ok.

[quote] Is it about submission? Or rather about taking control? It hurts so good? Is it the ultimate taboo?

yes, all of the above. I think that bottoming works because it works on many levels.

Physically, it's that "full feeling" of the anus being stretched and wrapped around a cock, coupled with the taboo of doing something really perverted. I think about how turned on the other man is with his hard dick sliding in out of me and that turns ME on!