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Are there some good gay dating apps or websites for men who are looking for more than a hook up?

Grindr and their like are for hook ups. I’d like to find a great guy, fall in love, get married. It’s not going to happen on Grindr. Any recommendations? What about Match.com? I don’t mind paying to join . I figure any Man who pays to join a site must be serious and looking for more than just a hook up. Recommendations?

by Anonymousreply 13February 11, 2020 3:40 AM

The answer is no.

by Anonymousreply 1February 10, 2020 1:41 PM

OK Cupid. Fun site (I think they have an app now too) filled with fun quizzes, questions, ect. And because it is more in depth, people trnd not to use it for hook ups. I met two (ex) boyfriends on it.

by Anonymousreply 2February 10, 2020 1:44 PM

Gay men got what they wanted. Match.com wasn't enough. Who wants to suffer dinner + a movie- then not get laid?

They wanted hookup sites. Then the bars all went out business.

But isn't it good to always know the truth? No one wanted a relationship. They wanted free, exciting sexual variety found at the click of a mouse. Get in, get off, get out.

by Anonymousreply 3February 10, 2020 1:49 PM

Something called reallife.com. Go find your man at a place you play sport, you watch plays, or you take some evening classes, etc.

by Anonymousreply 4February 10, 2020 1:54 PM

But why?

by Anonymousreply 5February 10, 2020 2:17 PM

There are no great dating app/sites at all. It doesn't matter you're gay or straight, man or woman, 95% online dating efforts end up with on-night stand.You just accept or refuse this culture. Yeah, I know once upon a time somebody met there a wonderful hubby and they lived happily ever after, but bitch please. Moreover, the most users are real jerks with severe mental issues. Believe me.

But if you really want to give it a try, I've heard about eHarmony which is based on users' compability and it's paid though.

by Anonymousreply 6February 10, 2020 3:03 PM
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by Anonymousreply 7February 10, 2020 3:19 PM

Linked-in

by Anonymousreply 8February 10, 2020 4:20 PM

It's called Real Life.

by Anonymousreply 9February 10, 2020 4:24 PM

Falling in love and getting married is just plain SELFISH!

by Anonymousreply 10February 10, 2020 4:55 PM

It's the same pool of gays anyway, just different presentations for different apps.

by Anonymousreply 11February 10, 2020 6:27 PM

E-Harmony is only for straight people. No gays allowed.

by Anonymousreply 12February 11, 2020 1:22 AM

Outinamerica.com used to be an awesome social site. Profiles, pictures, categories, chat... and free. Wish someone would study the model and create a similar site.

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