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Lets standardize these hook up sites with some simple tips for new users or dumb โstraightโ guys who donโt know whatโs up
1) If your profile is blank, send a photo of yourself in the first message. Obscure your face, send only your bicep, whatever the case may be, but by sending something you are reassure the other member you are not a time waster
2) If you have a blank profile and message someone with multiple public pics it is not reasonable to demand more pics from them without first providing pics of yourself. I donโt care if youโre married and discrete - most people are
3) Whenever possible, try to actually read a persons profile so you know whether or not youโll be compatible
4) Whenever possible actually fill out your profile information, stats and if you write a bio, keep it to four lines or less. Long winded rambles make you look desperate
5) Know your role If you choose to include it - If youโre a 99% power bottoms donโt put โverse bottomโ for the 1 time you kinda tried topping. It screws up search results and annoys people
6) If the website has a built in โlikeโ feature, a โpokeโ or a โwoofโ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐ปโ๐ request people not use that feature on you. Show some humility if someone woofs at you, ignore it or politely go fuck yourself
7) ๐๐ผ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐๐ฎ๐๐, ๐ฝ๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ ๐ผ๐๐๐ฑ๐ฎ๐๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ฝ๐ต๐ผ๐๐ผ๐, ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฎ๐ด๐ฒ (+/-๐ฑ ๐๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐) ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐ผ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐๐ถ๐๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฒ ๐๐ป๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ธ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐๐ฟ๐๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ป๐ฐ๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ณ ๐๐ผ๐โ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐๐ผ ๐ต๐ผ๐ผ๐ธ ๐๐ฝ. No one will hesitate slamming the door in your face when you show up for said hook-up
8)Be straight forward. If youโre not interested, politely say so and wish the person luck.
9) Do not take it personally If you are blocked. Itโs the name of the game and letting every single person youโre not interested in down gently isnโt plausible, (and honestly, itโs not like you do that every time youโve blocked someone either)
10) Read between the lines - if a back and forth banter slows drastically after you send pictures that could mean the person is on the fence or it could mean they are not interested but not repulsed and want to politely let the convo die
11) Do not stalker message someone who has gone MIA for 2 seconds. You may not have a life but most of us do. You should never write more than two or three lines without a response. Block paragraph messages read like youโre unbalanced
12) Report all fake profiles or third party spammers immediately and block them
13) Just pay for a membership If itโs not going to break the bank. Not being able to afford it is one thing but being cheap makes you look, well, cheap (but not in the good way)
14) Be your own best friend and be confident. Post attractive, clear images, sell your good points and have fun. Donโt look at other profiles with too much envy - you never know what their lives are really like
15) Donโt take any of it too seriously - it should be fun
16) Itโs not gonna kill you to be kind
What are your thoughts on the above? What points did I miss?