Connor/Miles thread

Beauty and the Beasts

Connor's mom just posted:

Miles and Brenda holding hands... how sweet. Miles really is a part of the family now.

Miles looks reticent.

R2 Is PFLAG Mom in SoCal with the boys?

Saw them in Hollywood today. There was an arm around a shoulder

R6 Whose arm around whose shoulder?

R5 Yes she is... most likely in town for the LA premiere on Wednesday.

Previous thread

Are they lovers?

What’s the “my dog is uglier than your dog” competition in Hollywood all about?

R10 Yes, since mid-2018

R12 Declaring your gay love in a coffin seems very perverse for a subgroup whose teen suicide and self harm rates are astronomical. What’s next Rupaul putting his black and Latino contestants in a mortuary themed competition for best looking corpse?

Go to bed, r13.

What does OP mean by Muriel being against young gay love? The previous thread was deleted?

Paywalled, which essentially shuts the thread down.

Young gay lovers can’t afford the paywall and are being shunned here!

New Connor interview.

Is delicacy a code word?

Connor could do a lot better than that.

R18 So he could have become big, thick and muscular like the character in the book and what every comic to series/movie does and he chose to be delicate instead? I want to see that other version quite frankly.

If he'd got swole, he probably wouldn't read believably as a teenager anymore.

No idea who they are. Maybe give us last names.

R22 Miles got swole for 13RW and still read as a teenager...

[Quote] No idea who they are. Maybe give us last names.

Davis/Crawford.

R25 Gee they still look great!

The power of Pepsi.

R22 Said no member of the cast of a Riverdale.

This thread has WW for every damn post... does that bring it to Muriel's attention?

Wonder if Connor ever watched Parenthood...

R30 Miles was like 16 in that sex scene and the woman playing his girlfriend was in her early 20s...

Did they meet through Joey? He was in Love, Simon with Miles and in American Crime with Connor - who he lived with during shooting, remember that interview where he mentioned that they would sing Taylor Swift songs and watch Disney movies together at night after filming lol

Connor should get Joey a guest role on the next season of Locke & Key.

Connor should get Joey a guest role in his bed with Miles.

[quote] Did they meet through Joey?

No one knows how they met... they could have met online on one of those celeb dating apps (Raya?).

The red carpet live stream for tomorrow

What nail color will Connor have?

R36, pink like my cute booty hole

Tomorrow’s the big day. If Miles doesn’t show up to the premiere it will be VERY telling.

R38 He will be there no doubt but whether he stands next to Connor for public photo as a couple is another story.

New stills

Connor interview, looking cute in red

Teal nails

I paint my nails too, let’s be lovers

Interview:

There will be a live Q+A...who dares asking Connor about Miles?

Don't be tacky. Ask about the ugly fucking dogs.

Wow, he comes off as a big fag!

Purple nails

He looks great

Are we going to play this game?

R51 GURLLLLLL

💅 💅 💅 💅

I wonder if he does a gel or powder mani?

R55 Gel, so he can finger me without the nails chipping

And WHERE is Miles?

First 10 minutes

Does the head key get you head from anyone you want?

Yes, R62, just ask Miles

Connor looks good in that suit and shirt combo.

I’m getting a real Flowers in the Attic vibe from this.

The uncle looks cute and gay. How are they going to afford the heating bills and taxes on this house? Does the mother even have a job yet?

R66 The uncle IS cute and gay.

R57 What is that? The fashionable hobo look... Even the little kid had better fashion sense.

No Miles

So the story takes place in Canada ?

R71 Massachusetts

Netflix could have done a better job at hiding that it was filmed in Canada. Apparently there are a lot goofs in the series.

“I’ll tell that to my bf” 👀 (swipe for the video)

R74 Aww

Miles was there

I don't like what Miles is wearing

[quote]"Well, I'll tell that to my boyfriend" (the girl told him she wanted to marry him when she was younger)

Connor wants you to know he's in love y'all!

This will all end in tears.

I love that he feels free to mention that he has a boyfriend.

Miles was not having a good hair day.

R81 Agreed. R76 is one of the rare occasions where I think Connor looks better than Miles. They still make a cute couple though

Miles with the long hair makes him look like the fifth beatle. Do we think he’ll come out before or after the fourth 13RW season?

He'll come out in his thirties after his superhero franchise ends.

I'm new to this thread and late to the party. So can I assume that you all have already discussed that they look alarmingly alike?

They don't look alike, apart from hair color. Miles has quite refined features, Connor does not.

R85 They look absolutely nothing alike.

[quote] "Well, I'll tell that to my boyfriend" (the girl told him she wanted to marry him when she was younger)

This couple is heartbreaking for so many teenage girls...

It's heartening to see that girl still show up for his autograph. It proves that fandom doesn't have to be hideously shallow.

Last night...

Is it weird that I can't look at a child actor without wondering if they'll end up on heroin? Hopefully Connor can be Mae to this kid as she was to Miles.

[quote]"Well, I'll tell that to my boyfriend"

Fan photo with Miles at #3

Hair looks fine in that pic, R94

R82 I agree, Connor is outshining Miles in that pic. Then again, this is Connor's occasion, so it's only right.

The fact that Miles doesn't feel comfortable saying he's Connor's boyfriend at this point is ridiculous. It shows you how far we still have to come as a society.

R97 How do you know he doesn’t feel comfortable? Have you personally asked him?

Miles in very much in plain sight, in public, right at Connor's side. He's clearly not uncomfortable.

This may come as a surprise to many an eldergay, but "coming out" isn't as big a thing with younger guys now, hasn't been for a while. I know guys who are gay, have boyfriends, and just live their lives as gay men, without ever explaining themselves are having a "coming out" moment. They don't feel the need to.

Coming out is for boomers.

R100 Sure, but Miles can never be officially referred to as gay or have it stated on his Wikipedia page etc until he explicitly comes out

R102 Maybe he doesn’t want his sexual orientation listed on a public biography? It’s bad enough that everyone in this thread furiously jerks off to fantasies of him and his boyfriend.

Not everyone wants being gay to be the only thing they’re known for, like his ex Brandon.

I’m a whore, darling

I think we all know why he isn't out..

Miles could be taking a page from the Austin Mckenzie playbook. Austin never really came out, though it was common knowledge he was dating Kevin McHale. When Kevin came out, he outed Austin as well, and later stated in an interview, he always had Austin's permission to post pictures and talk about their relationship. So while Connor and Miles have never been as open as Kevin and Austin were, Miles seems to be getting more comfortable with being around Connor, and eventually Connor will be the one to acknowledge their relationship, probably with a romantic Instagram Pic

[Quote] Miles seems to be getting more comfortable with being around Connor

Miles has been inside of Connor, dear.

[Quote] Connor will be the one to acknowledge their relationship, probably with a romantic Instagram Pic

That didn't work out very well for Polo y Lambda.

R107 I should have said publicly. I walked right into that one!! :) :)

Miles sitting next to Connor's mom in the theatre how cute

Mae and Brenda.

Do we know if Connor is cut or not? Its' 50/50 with Canadians, right?

R110 Where is Miles? Is he to the right of Brenda?

I guess that's Miles to the right of Brenda. He's sat very far back in his seat. Is the person beside Connor his "brother" co-star?

R113 Yes, he's sitting next to her on the right leaning back in his seat while applauding. He turns to the left and you can clearly see that it's him

R114 Pretty sure the person next to him is his actual brother. Brenda posted photos from the premiere and it looks like Connor’s brother was there with his girlfriend.

Connor apparently confirmed Miles is his boyfriend in an episode of the podcast The Boo Crew that came out today (of course by way of saying Miles’ dog that’s all over his pictures is his boyfriend’s)

Fanpics

Connor talking about his coming out in the Love & Sex podcast for Now Toronto. It’s very good and he’s open about a lot of stuff, he talks about being in love (”and have been for a couple of years”) and how that’s basically what made him want to come out when he did. It’s too much to summarize - listen!

Can someone with a paid account please post the link to this thread in the previous one that got paywalled:

Mightn't posting the link in the paywalled thread get this one paywalled sooner?

Connor did an interview with Now Toronto’s Sex & Love podcast where he confirmed he’s “in love”!

He also referred to having a boyfriend multiple times and said he has two dogs...

R122 meet R119

Whoops R119 beat me to it

The longer this goes on the sadder it gets.

R125 The longer what goes on?

Connor’s brother with Connor and Miles at the premiere

Damn. Miles’ closet was just burned to the ground.

R127 His straight bro had a makeover? Don't remember him looking this good.

[quote][R85] They look absolutely nothing alike.

Then I guess I'm the cheese stands alone. They look almost identical to me.

You're not one of those "All white people...

Daddies

... look alike" types, are you?

R132 Their body language makes it seem like Miles is the stronger partner and Connor is the more dependent one.

What does the body language tell you here?

R135 Two stoners who can't get it up even if they tried.

They look nothing alike. r130 s whiteblind.

R134, Connor is Cancer. Enough said.

Is ELJay97 Connor's brother? His music, yikes.

R139 Yes, on both counts, but at least he looks more attractive now after a makeover.

R139 Don’t forget that Miles himself once tried to launch a rap career...

[quote] Their body language makes it seem like Miles is the stronger partner and Connor is the more dependent one.

I think what you mean is that it makes it seem like Connor wears his feelings on his sleeve whereas Miles is unemotional...

R142 Connor is like saying "I'm in love" to anyone who would listen, and Miles is like do I know you?

[quote] he talks about being in love (”and have been for a couple of years”)

Most people here assumed they got together summer of 2018 because that’s when they were first seen on eachother’s Instagrams... but could they possibly have started dating as early as that spring (which means they’re approaching 2 years)?

R134 Is that your way of saying Miles is the top and Connor is the bottom?😂

R143 Lol that's so accurate😂

Wow R141, had never seen that. It's something.

R119 Connor also talked about his "public face" in that interview and he once again inserted Miles into the conversation by saying how he acts in public is different from how he acts with his boyfriend. I think he just like saying boyfriend every chance he gets.

r98

You do know I'm talking about publicly don't you? They are public figures. I don't know and you don't know of any heterosexual actors who keep their relationships a secret it's plastered all over the news, all over the tabloids, they talk about it constantly in interviews, it's on their social media. And even if they don't talk about it publicly it's in publications like people magazine us magazine etc. They always admit to it only gay performers like Miles keep it a secret.

So please stop acting dumb will you.

Maybe every time Connor says boyfriend, Miles gets to wreck his pussy, it’s a little game they play?

I wish he'd been asked more questions about the pups.

r148 Brenda must love that he's getting more open about Miles.

R130: You need to check your eyes, they don't look nothing alike

R149: There are a lot of straight celebrities who are totally secretive about their relationships and don't like to talk about them.

In fact there are openly gay ones who don't talk about their relationships either even after coming out.

R151 So they are into puppy play? I do remember one of them pictured in a collar up thread.

Everyone should listen to that sex and love interview. Connor is so well-spoken. Honestly the part where he talks about how falling in love is important for queer people was very moving. It’s hard to believe he’s only 25.

His comments about being in love spurring him to come out publicly does make it seem like the ball is in Miles' court to reciprocate. I doubt Connor is doing any pressuring, but his point of view seems pretty clear.

Number 8...

[quote]8. He's friends with 13 Reasons Why star Miles Heizer

Umm yeah...friends.

I hope this doesn't fuck up their groove. I think Miles should come out so it doesn't become a wink wink nudge nudge thing in every article that mentions the pair. But I don't think he should feel he had to come out in the underdow of publicity surrounding "Locke & Key."

*undertow

“The two actors have sparked dating rumours by sharing images of each other hanging out - though neither have publicly confirmed whether they're together“

In the Boo Crew podcast Connor explicitly says that his boyfriend’s dog’s name is Crouton. That 100 percent outs the boyfriend as Miles.

Waiting for the day Connor says my boyfriend Miles explicitly... The nitwits in the press can't or won't figure it otherwise. Even then they would hesitate waiting for a reciprocal mention from Miles, which might take a few more years...

Someone posted an article in the Standard, referencing Miles as Connor's bf. Of course, it's a UK publication/site.

*an article from

Connor talking about Crouton

They could be playing a game to amuse themselves, a bit like the game I think Julian Morris and Landon Ross are playing: "How obvious can we get without actually stating that we're partners".

Love is love

They're 90% out as a couple now.

Wil they be 100% if Connor namechecks the other dog?

Brenda posted

Brenda providing content

Lol hi5, R172

Who is that woman beside Brenda? She's been pictured with Connor and Miles before, right?

How soon before they're married?

Brenda is stanning this relationship harder than all of the DL combined. A true Canadian hero.

Bfs

[quote]And who has a dog named Crouton??

A guy in my AA home group has a dog named Crouton. I just found out yesterday.

They're using it to get publicity for Jessup's show.

Classy.

R178 Where are the fangirls digging up these pics?!

I am not liking that 1970s jacket.

r178 Are they getting another pup?

With all the Connor mom pics of Miles, are we sure that he isn’t just being fostered with the Connor family and maybe eventually adopted like Brandon’s character on 13 Reasons Why?

Miles and Brenda are having a torrid affair. I hope Mae doesn't go Lorena Bobbitt on Miles.

January 4, swipe for the pic at R178

Interesting how that account didn't tag either of them...

Brenda posted

Fuck. The Jessup family is so cute.

That's the brother's gf, I think.

R190 Yeah the blonde girl is Connor’s brother’s girlfriend who Connor and Miles recently double dated with.

I wish this thread would start with a brief recap about who is who, life is too short to have to look up every fresh face

R192 You literally only need to know who two people are.

R192 Connor Jessup and Miles Heizer, both actors born 1994.

R193 and R194 I think R192 was referring to the other people in the pics with Connor and Miles. I assume he knows who Miles and Connor are, but he might not know about everyone else.

R180: It doesn't seem like that's what it's happening, but even if that was the case it would be way better than the pr stunts most gay closeted actors do to promote their shows

Nah. The strategy is to address Connor's sexuality in B avenues of promotion, e.g. podcasts. It makes sense. Str8 people aren't susceptible to gay clickbait unless it's tied to scandal. If Connor gets to do some late night talk shows, I doubt he'll talk about it.

So one of the Miles fan accounts on Instagram shared a screenshot of Connor‘s account watching their IG stories. If Connor monitors Miles’ fan accounts he DEFINITELY lurks here...

I doubt it unless he wants to lose brain cells. IG is easy to navigate and I’m guessing either Miles or Connor were tagged which is why he saw it R198

I doubt he reads every post but he probably drops by, maybe searches with some keywords to see if one of you has exposed his home address.

r199 I've thought for a long time now that Connor lurks here and maybe even posts sometimes.

r195 The only other person you might need to know is Brenda, Connor's super PFLAG mom.

[Quote] The only other person you might need to know is Brenda, Connor's super PFLAG mom.

What am I, chopped liver?

Mae is the BACKBONE of this relationship.

Without her approval, Connor wouldn’t be allowed to even SEE Miles, let alone fornicate with him on her property.

Mae is the gatekeeper! Or gaykeeper....

So Mae is Miles’ svengali?

Just how emotionally damaged is Miles?

Why? Do you want to kiss it better?

R207 I mean he’s probably as messed up as any other child actor in LA. He went through a really big party phase a few years ago and was very into the LA “scene.” These days he seems more chill but all of these child actors come with major baggage.

R209 The new Corey Haim?

Is there such thing as an actor who is not basically fucked right up?

R210 Good God, I don't know if I would go THAT far, but yeah I guess there are certain shades...

What's the target date for their wedding? You know Connor is dying to say "my husband!"

Connor has clearly met Miles’ family too since he’s been spotted with Miles’ mom’s dog and Miles’ sister follows him and likes his posts.

So on the slim chance that Miles does come out in the near future, what would be the best way for him to do it? I would love for him to post a promo pic or trailer for Locke and Key on Instagram with a caption like: My Boyfriend just did a thing, you should all check it out!!

Valentine's Day is approaching.....just wait and see 👀

r214 Miles' mom isn't a PFLAG mom like Brenda is.

Connor Jessup on how coming out changed his life and work

R217 Brenda will work her PFLAG magic and bring her around. And Miles' sister also seems very supportive.

R218 This is a great podcast interview where Connor talks about what it was like being publicly closeted but having to give interviews about playing gay characters.

[quote]Was it really you playing hockey in those scenes?

CJ: Oh my God, no. Well, yes and no. Having not seen it, I don’t know which percentage is me versus not me, but I’m not a hockey player. I am a blasphemous Canadian. I tried to play hockey when I was six for like two years and I gave it up, I was the worst one. I would say to my parents “Let me stop playing”. I can kind of skate, so some of the stuff when you see me on the ice and in close-up, it’s obviously me. But anything that seems more unlike me, or anything that is like: “Oh, that kid can actually play hockey”, I guarantee that’s not me. [laughs] That is a very talented and handy double. All of the skaters in the background were all OHL players so there’s no way that I could ever fit in with that group.

[quote]Since you posted publicly that you’re gay, have you noticed a difference in the roles that you’ve been offered?

CJ: Honestly, no. The tangible difference in my life before is almost zero. I’m lucky because of the time that I started to work, it’s different than it was five or 10 or 20 or 30 years ago. I’ve never had an experience being treated poorly, I’ve never felt uncomfortable because of sexuality in any project that I’ve done, and afterward, exactly the same, so it doesn’t feel hugely different in that way. It hasn’t really affected how I thought about what parts I’ll play. For me, it was mostly just a personal thing. I had been out in my life and everybody who knew me and worked with me, my family, everyone who was part of my life had known for a long time. And I when I was doing the show and thinking about coming out and couldn’t think of any reason any more why I would not say something, which is maybe the best way to put it. I also get weird about this stuff, like why did anyone care? No one cares about my personal life, why would they want to hear about it?, it’s my business. And the same way that their life is their business, and I still feel that way, but I also didn’t want to go into this experience and any future experiences feeling even on a small level like I was editing in any way what I was thinking or the things that I was saying or in any way found funny, or my way or a part of who I am and how I express with the world, so I didn’t want to feel like I was having to censor that at all and I couldn’t think of a reason why I would or should, so that was really the reason why I came out.

R218 Oh and Connor confirms he has a boyfriend, though doesn't outright name Miles

R221/R223 The Love & Sex podcast was already posted at R119. Connor also talks about having a boyfriend in the The Boo Crew podcast (posted at R117)

My bad the page was just posted and Connor only recently posted about it.

New Connor/Miles thread because this one's been paywalled.