I’m Having My First Bareback Experience

Guys? How many?

I don't understand how guys can do bareback. Forget the STD aspect of it, which is a whole other conversation. Gay sex is always messy in one way or another. Wrap it before you tap it unless you want someone to crap it.

What is so lacking in your life that you think someone shooting their load up your asshole will correct?

R1 and R2 Op here. Did I write guys? No, guy. Just one. I’m not going to be a cum dumpster. In fact, part of my motivation for going on prep is that I want to start dating seriotand find a guy and get married. I believe in monogamy, but I want to be able to fuck raw with the man I love when I find him. But yeah, experiencing bateback is something I need to do. Yes, gay sex is always messy. I have a freshly laundered fuck blanket to protect my bed and a set of fuck pillows with plastic pillow protectors under the cotton cases. A couple of towels from my camping gear and a small container with hot, slightly wet wash cloths on my bed. Also a bottle of back door lube.

[quote]Did I write guys?

"But I have guys coming"

You're drunk.

Barebacking will not fill the empty holes in your soul or your life.

Yes...stay away from your computer.

No advice but I do have a question: Do you know the status of the guy who is going to leave his deposit?

Use a condom unless you want syphilis.

[quote] I’m not going to be a cum dumpster.

Famous last words

^^^ You got a problem with that?

Op here No. Not drunk The guy is supposed to be HIV neg, but who doesn’t say that? He is married to a man and says he doesn’t get out much. Syph is a problem of course and on the rise. I questioned him about that. I get tested again in april

That’s nice OP.

I’ll alert the press.

[quote]I want to start dating seriotand find a guy and get married.

[quote]The guy is ... married to a man

Hmmm.

Now I have advice: This guy doesn't seem to be trustworthy so I don't think allowing his unwrapped dick in your ass is a good idea. He is married but he is cheating so I couldn't trust him. Prep or not, if I don't trust you, I don't trust your cum.

You need to fill your hole with Jesus.

Sad.

OP, we all know this site is populated by the Saints of Sarcasm. But beneath this, there's a level of deep concern from those who are older and have more experience than you do. You'd be well advised to at least give their advice the respect it deserves for taking the time to tell you what they think.

Personally, I've barebacked with one guy and that was a serious boyfriend, after we'd both tested negative. Otherwise, it will never happen.

[quote] we’re going to make love like men

Mary!

[quote] Yes, gay sex is always messy. I have a freshly laundered fuck blanket to protect my bed and a set of fuck pillows with plastic pillow protectors under the cotton cases. A couple of towels from my camping gear and a small container with hot, slightly wet wash cloths on my bed. Also a bottle of back door lube.

Is this why they say gay sex not normal?

Good for you, OP. Enjoy it. It's been out of reach for a long, long time. Savor it.

There are many STD's you can catch besides HIV if you're having bareback sex with strangers. Syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia, anal warts, etc. Make wiser choices lest you be sorry later...

OP, please ensure you are properly "groomed" and that your suitors will not be fudge-packing.

All these prisspots on this thread.

Enjoy yourself, OP.

Have azithromycin handy, you will certainly need it.

Well?

How was it?

I think he got “Mr. Hands-ed.”

Have fun Op and by fun, I mean catching super gonorrhea.

R26 Op here. It was great. Nice guy. He and his husband have been together 30 years, they were young kids. They have an “open” relationship but too lazy to hook up often. I was just a diversion although I hope to see him again. By the time I had it all figured out and knew I was gay, the whole HIV thing hit so I never had bareback sex-ever. Doing this meant a lot to me. I’m looking forward to doing raw top. That’s the next thing. Regardless, I’m not going to be hooking up much. I’d rather date and then be with a man I have feelings for. That’s what’s so great about prep. I feel I have possibilities now. I can date without fear. Of course there are other STD’s and I have educated myself as to symptoms. I am going to be tested every three months. I have established a good relationship with the infectious disease dept of a local hospital system. I can even email the nurse practitioner there who is wonderful. I’m good and I feel I can finally live my life. Even my OCD has pretty much lifted since starting PREP. Seriously, I truly appreciate tbe messages with sincere advice. That’s meant a lot to me. Re: the guy who said getting fucked bareback won’t fill the hole in my heart-you’re right. It won’t and I don’t expect it to.

[quote] I have established a good relationship with the infectious disease dept of a local hospital system.

Do you have a phone number?

Asking for a friend.

OP - good luck to you, you sound like a good guy. Enjoy life. Enjoy whatever you like doing!

R31 Thank you. I appreciate that.

Sounds to me like OP is acting very responsibly. He's taking precautions and has a realistic outlook. I'm glad he enjoyed his experience!

FWIW, most guys who insist on condoms still do a lot of oral stuff without them -And that's just as risky as anal when it comes to Syphilis, Gonorrhea, Chlamydia, etc. Get tested regularly, be aware of symptoms, and know the guys you're playing around with. I don't know why guys here are trying to slutshame others about having sex. Like they have never done it themselves!

Exactly R2. I am not even that into anal sex, but the times I have done it, I was a top, used condoms, and have pretty much only done it with partners or men I know very well. When I have put sex toys up someone's ass I use condoms on those as well.

R33 I know bisexual and gay men who when hooking up use condoms for oral and dental dams for rimming.

I have a friend that is like OP, but he was into doing it raw/BB for a long time before Truvada was available, and he takes Truvada but prefers it bare. I hope he does not have any other diseases.

Making love? This is for you, you cum dump, you

This thread is PRECIOUS!

This will be OP, telling us about his first bareback experience tomorrow morning:

OMG, OP. Thanks! I can’t STOP LAUGHING MY MOTHER FUCKING ASS OFF!!!!!

😂😂😂😂😂

Gay sex is not always messy. I make sure I’m clean up to my teeth first and there’s nothing better than bare backing. Having a guy cum in you or vice versa is one of the best things about gay sex. Thank god for PREP so we can get back to what it was really appreciated for. So many priss pots on here.

R38, I’m not knocking OP’s urge urge for inner spurge, at all, whatsoever. And I agree, 100%. Thank goodness for PrEP.

At least OP’s making informed and cautious choices. And hey, I haven’t a clue why he wanted to share this with us, but whatever.

The thread IS funny AF if read while clenching and clutching pearls, and eyeballing the room for smelling salts.

The prisspots made this thread.

[quote] Also a bottle of back door lube

WD-40?

Did you send him a thank-you note OP? It’s the decent thing to do.

I’m happy for OP. I just finished reading this thread in between laundry baskets.

I have never appreciated that gay or bisexual men who are as responsible as OP, never experienced bareback. I’m also very regimental regarding condoms, but I too, have opted out of using them in favor of other birth control methods, when in a long term, serious relationship with a man who tests STI free, as I test, too.

Women never really think of what it feels like to have semen inside of us, or how it feels. We cannot feel it when it happens, primarily because we are usually highly lubricated and the better the sex, or the chemistry, the more lubricated we get. So while we do feel a man orgasming, due to muscles contracting, we don’t feel hot semen in our vaginas, the way men feel it in their rectums. And I’ve never done anal, so I have no idea what that feels like.

I know this is sort of graphic, but I do actually understand and appreciate why this was important to OP, in a time when coming out meant condoms, abstinence, or risking becoming POZ

While we’re male and female, respectively, we came of age at the same time: when AIDS was literally wiping out neighborhoods in NYC, where, along with Cali, I saw pick friends off, up close and personal. Being that I have always befriended gays, lesbians and cross dressers who actually worked the boulevard on Santa Monica, before AIDS hit hard, I just saw way too much. Right along with the club scene in NYC. Men were rarely ever faithful, or completely straight. Almost everyone who claimed to be straight, were gay or bisexual, and everyone was fucking around with everyone, including me. It was a big fucking party, and my rules were no needles, and no condoms? No sex.

Good for OP. And great thread. Learned something new from someone else’s perspective, that I had never even considered previously.

It’s awesome that OP got to experience PrEP sex as a bottom, and I hope he’s loving it as a top, too!

R38 Having a guy cum in you or vice versa is one of the best things about gay sex - isn’t that supposed to be the pinnacle of gay sex?

" Any advice? "

LiveCam it on Chaturbate. You'll be a star.

Were the fuck pillows and fuck blanket and mountain of cloths well received?

Enjoy yourself, OP. Sex as it's meant to be, bare. Hope you have a good time!

Well how was it?

Op is 90 let him live a little!

Wash your hands and don’t touch your face.

[quote] Syphilis, gonorrhoea, chlamydia, anal warts, etc.

Oh, please. Those are all curable.

DL is full of old farts who wish they could get someone to fuck their holes and fill it with cum.

Wash your face and don't touch your hands.

Here's some advice: An hour or so later, when you fell like you might want to fart and you discreetly try to eek one out? Don't - or you'll get your underoos full of splooge. Especially inconvenient if you're out and about - like at the grocery store.

You think it was your first.

If you don't catch HIV, you could get the coronavirus. No fucking. Fist bumps only.

r43 While I do love anal, both top and bottom, I find the pinnacle of gay sex to be when he comes in my mouth. I have more control over his orgasm when he is in my mouth rather than in my ass. I get to decide when he comes and sometimes how much he comes. Besides that, I love getting him to dribble pre cum and love the taste of his jizz in my mouth. I am an oral freak. I love sucking dick too much, I think.

'Women never really think of what it feels like to have semen inside of us, or how it feels. We cannot feel it when it happens, primarily because we are usually highly lubricated and the better the sex, or the chemistry, the more lubricated we get. So while we do feel a man orgasming, due to muscles contracting, we don’t feel hot semen in our vaginas, the way men feel it in their rectums. '

Nope, women definitely feel it.

No we don’t, R57. You’re either a straight dude who had some chick lie to you, or are a woman who wasn’t lubricated enough, naturally, without using astroglide.

We do not feel it. We feel it dripping out afterwards, when it’s over, but we do not feel sperm shooting out of a man’s penis if he comes inside of us, without attempting to pull out.

We’re like a fucking well heated water-slide when men are inside, cumming. You think we can tell the difference between his warm cum, and our home made, warm, slip and slide juice?

LMAO.

This is why we freak the fuck out, if the condom broke, or slipped off. Because we are so wet, we don’t notice. Even if we’re tight as drums, and know how to grab a dick with our vagina, we cannot tell when men come.

I have a date next week with an escort who is undetectable. I've been on PrEP for four years now, and this will be my first time meeting him. And yeah, we're gonna bareback and he's going to fill my ass with his creamy load. I can't wait!

R59 you go gurl, enjoy and embrace the jizz.

Lovely.

Phishing, teenage cunts on the DL.

If Op is even real you know he's been a cumdump for decades.

R59 here... decided to cancel my date with the escort cause I was worried about the Coronavirus. Crazy right?

[quote]R12 The guy is supposed to be HIV neg, but who doesn’t say that? He is married to a man and says he doesn’t get out much.

So, you say you want to start dating, and get married.

Why are you seeing a married man, then?

You're a dirty, dirty whore.

Gurl just be PRESENT.

Forget all the overthinking and just be in the moment.

Moan, don't moan. Taking it on all fours, your back, on his back, him straddling you, sideways.

Then turn over.

Don't stop until he does.

BE. HERE. NOW.

OP, do not pay attention to the ignorant cunts on this thread.

Enjoy the sex, enjoy the cum, repeat.

Much love

Close your legs for the married man!

Did the doctor not advise you that PREP is supposed to be used with a condom, not instead of?

I like the OP!

I'm partnered and we don't really have sex anymore. But we're not open and are both fine with where at. I'm 40, he's 52. We've had our fun.

But when I did? I was always safe. Always. Then, my ex and I started to date. Once we got serious he asked if he fuck me raw. I said hell no. But he coaxed me into it. We both got tested. Both were fine on all fronts. Man, raw sex is just better. Getting an ass full of cum? I never thought it would turn me on, but it did. Not even sure why. Ah, my late 20s, early 30s. Love my current partner to death, but my ex could fuck. That was his only redeeming quality however.

This will end in tears and many visits to a doctor.

The smell of shit and semen coming out your ass a few hours after sex is the most revolting smell in their world.

That's a very fragile, guarded, and isolated world R72 must live in.

What a constantly jizz dripping asshole R73 must have.

R42 Op here. THANK YOU for your charming reply!! So nice. I suddenly feel, of all things, validated! Lol@me. 😁

R69 Op here. I know that but it’s not reasonable. You know what? After starting prep my depression got better, I’m not even having a lot of sex. But being on prep makes me feel like more of a man because I know if I meet a guy and want to bed him, I can without all the fear. I’ll tell you something else, my obsessive compulsive disorder, which was so bad it was almost debilitating, HAS LIFTED!!!!! It’s almost totally gone. I always knew it was anxiety based, and now the biggest source of anxiety in my life, fear of HIV is gone and my OCD with it!

Humanity is doomed...or at least Op is.

I wish the biggest source of anxiety in my life was fear of HIV

R78 Op here. I understand what you’re saying, but when you are a hypochondriac like me and have suffered from ocd since childhood, it all adds up and worry over hiv becomes debilitating. If you put one foot in front of the other wrong, you’ll get hiv, even if you haven’t had sex. Prep has changed that for me.

Why aren't you concerned about Corona Virus. Wrap that thing up and wear gloves and a mask.

OP, are you dead from Corona yet?

Well Liddle Miss OCD OP, your life is back to hell because now you can ruminate on catching Coronavirus.

"Women never really think of what it feels like to have semen inside of us, or how it feels. We cannot feel it when it happens." r42

You don't speak for all women AND you're dead ass wrong. Unless you're dead in the vajay-jay.