My boyfriend has a "FansOnly" page

Does he have “an” Onlyfans?

Who cares, why are you wasting our time? You're not interested in monogamy anyway, so just end it and move on.

You are being used.

OP FOR YOUR INFORMATION IT IS “ONLY FANS”

BLESS, BILL TAYLOR

Did your hung boyfriend attend The University of Harvard?

If this is for real then RUN!!!

[quote]he is really smart

At least one of you is.

Are you Mike Branson?

You don't deserve him!

Humble faaa-, I mean brag.

I'm 62 look low 40s and was shocked, SHOCKED, when I discovered my young lover Joel is hoovering cocks at the Reid Athletic Center at Colgate.

OP here. Sorry I called it by the wrong term, but you get the meaning.

Link, please. We’ll decide if you should stay.

R13 agree

OP here, I wouldn't link without his ok, and he doesn't know I know, so for now, a hard NO.

[QUOTE] Mind you, I am a decade older

Well maybe if you gave your sugar baby enough money, he wouldn’t need to hock his ass online.

OP here, I am 37 and not quite yet a Sugar Daddy. If I were to pay, I would look for someone much different.

OP - you said he told you that he is in love with you, but how do you feel about him? Are you in love with him?

This thread is useless without pics.

OP, provide the link. Otherwise, your thread is not believable.

I wish I cared about your plight, OP. You seem so unattached to this guy in a deeper sense but are irritated by the OnlyFans. Dump him then and leave us alone.

How dare you omit the link? How dare you?

[quote] OP here, I wouldn't link without his ok, and he doesn't know I know, so for now, a hard NO.

If he doesn't know you know, he won't know you shared it with us.

OP=Betty White

Embarras de richesses

He's a whore, darlin'.

you are too young to be in this type of arrangement.

Sure, Jan.

OP I feel for you. Guys in their 20s are so much more comfortable when it comes to sharing with the world their sex life, especially if it's wild sex. Putting everything out there is really no big deal for them. Guys 35+ it is different mind set and different values. You should enjoy the finite time you have left and be classy if you are the one to break it off, because you may have a change of heart sometime later on.

Does he have “a” Vine?

Most of "My Boyfriend This" and "My Boyfriend That" threads are pretty much useless and fictional. A good night reading to lull you to sleep though.

OP here again. My post is true, just won't post receipts. I guess boyfriend is the wrong term since we never were monogamous. He did say he was in love with me, not sure what that really means to him after what I found out. That is what I am really trying to understand.

He's telling you what he thinks you want to hear.

When a whore says "I love you" it means "are you going to pay my fucking rent or not?"

Dietrich loved her lifelong husband but whored it up publicly for decades. Also she loved Jean Gabin. It's fascinating how provincial the men on DL are, thinking streaming exhibitionism adds anything new to oldest story in the world - people who are polygamous yet capable of love. Sounds like a bad match for you, OP. .

Preview pic.

OP here again. I am not a monogamous guy at all. I was in a 4 year relationship that was great, except the monogamy almost killed me. For me, one thing is to have other random hookups, but another to be an internet person of interest, which is the best I can call it. I am seeing him tomorrow and probably will enjoy myself and still won't bring it up, because all in all, I have a good time with him, and there are no strings attached, we just have gotten into a nice routine that is satisfying for us both.

PS: The preview pic above looks more like me than him. He is baby faced.

so you are ethnic?

How about asking him to invite you to one of these parties? Could you handle it? Anything goes I assume.

I was dating a guy for about 8 months. Everything was going really well. He accompanied me to a holiday party my friends were hosting, the first time he met almost all of my circle of friends. He was smart, handsome, compassionate, great in bed, and a nurse who worked with severely handicapped children and I respected the hell out of that. The day after the party, two of my friends came to my apartment unannounced and asked if I had a little time. Sure, I did. I invited them in, and we sat down. They started asking about the "new" boyfriend. I told them that I was really into him and saw long term potential. Then they dropped the bombshell.

He had done some professional pornography. They brought a DVD. We watched. I felt my stomach fall to my feet and excused myself. A couple days later, the boyfriend came over and I blurted out that I knew that he had done gay porn, because I saw some of it. He did not apologize, but acknowledged that he had, in fact, made four feature films. I chose not see him after that day, and I have regretted it every day. He is "the one who got away." I acted in haste, and provincially at that.

[quote]r32 He did say he was in love with me, not sure what that really means to him after what I found out. That is what I am really trying to understand.

Perhaps you might consider asking him?

OP here. R40 thank you for your post. I know I would miss him terribly if I were to confront him at this time. Even though we are not monogamous, he is the only guy I see on a regular basis. Like I mentioned earlier, he is super smart and easy to get along with, never had an argument either. I am just getting used to what I learned and know it is his choice and he will live with the good or bad that comes with it. Somebody asked above if I would go with him to one of the parties, and would not be able to. I don't even like sending nude pics to anyone on Grindr, so a recorded video is never happening with me. R40, thanks again, I just re-read your post and I understand how you might feel.

OP is the Spaz Troll

If it bugs you it seems silly not to be honest with him that you want to talk it out.

I don’t understand why your problem is, OP. You’re not monogamous, so why do you care? Is it because it’s publicly available? So what? Your relationship sounds casual but entails more than sex.

Just enjoy your connection while it lasts.

^what your problem is

Does he have a MySpace?

Xanga?

AIM?

ICQ?

Tik Tok?

ChatSnap?

Bookface?

TubeX?

have to excuse me I'm a little high right now on this Friday night. I had some really strong edibles that are realize we're strong.

"that are realize we're strong"

… almost poetry. Ah, the creative potential of the fried brain.

R46. OP again. You are right, he did nothing wrong at all. I am just taken aback by how many guys he has fucked, and maybe I am jealous, although I am not a jealous person. I get tested every 3 months and have never had a problem with any STD and am negative so I am just going to keep what I know to myself. He comes from a very unusual background which may explain the need to be such an exhibitionist.

Ok, in the Hallmark drama of this what actors would play him and you and since she’s desperate for work can we allow Tori Spelling to play your supportive older fag hag friend who mets out all the wisdom you are accumulating from DL?

OP here. Jacob Artist is the closest I can think of for him as they do look similar. For me, any random guy mixed European descent, dark brown hair. Think Mikey Day of SNL, according to a friend, although I am upset with the comparison as I feel a bit more handsome. Can't come up with anyone else. lol.

R40 - I believe I know who you are taking about. I hired a porn actor / escort with that same real-world job when I first came out. (I came out verrry late and I wanted some no pressure experience with a super hot guy.) He was great — patient, understanding and sexy as hell. If he is indeed your ex I’d be regretting it as well.

These types of guys really have a rough time with a one to one relationship, no chance for monogamy, since it would put an end to all they like to do with showing off their bodies for attention and money and sexual satisfaction. Consider yourself a friend with benefits who adds something emotional to the connection. Good luck.

[quote] OP here, I wouldn't link without his ok, and he doesn't know I know, so for now, a hard NO.

So he pre-approves all his subscribers? Do you not know how this whole thing works? He’d make a fortune (at least this month) from DL alone.

Very smart and constructive of you to discuss your feelings with strangers instead of the only person you need to discuss these feelings with, i.e the guy.

Haha. He won't care OP. Get over yourself. R40 Why would the guy apologize to you for doing porn? He deserved better. Totally your loss dummy. Like one of the above posters, all the guys now are online half naked, naked, whatever. They don't care. It is what it is. Just enjoy if you have him in real life.

Porn “stars” will always be cheating whores. Of course you get out. Duh.

You're not interested in monogamy, yet you are disturbed by your bf's OnlyFans site? You're a loon, OP, and I advise the bf to run.

He said he loved you.

Now it is your job to make his life a Paradise on Earth.

Maybe if you let him fuck you he’d drop the OnlyFans page.

I'll pretend this is real for a second.

If you guys are serious, he should have told you about the page. That a guy would hide something like that from me is a giant red flag, communication and trust are key to a serious relationship.

But I am not sure that you guys are actually serious, you say you don't even know if he is your boyfriend. If you guys are just fuckbuddies, he doesn't owe you any explanations.

OP here once again. I saw him yesterday and watched a movie and nice sex. I didn't bring up the subject at all and things are the same. Looking forward to seeing him during the week. He owes me no explanation at all. I am not at concerned about it as I was when I wrote the posting. His life, whatever. He is quite a guy that's all I can say about him.

So no free membership to his Only Fans OP?

Would it have killed you to have at least posted a picture or link OP? Would it? I mean would that have really been that hard? Would it? Why don’t you try to think more of others next time before you post? Can you give us a straight answer? At least be honest for once in your life and tell us why you were so inconsiderate? Would it have killed you to have at least posted a picture or link OP? Would it? I mean would that have really been that hard? Would it? Why don’t you try to think more of others next time before you post? Can you give us a straight answer? At least be honest for once in your life and tell us why you were so inconsiderate? Would it have killed you to have at least posted a picture or link OP? Would it? I mean would that have really been that hard? Would it? Why don’t you try to think more of others next time before you post? Can you give us a straight answer? At least be honest for once in your life and tell us why you were so inconsiderate? Would it have killed you to have at least posted a picture or link OP? Would it? I mean would that have really been that hard? Would it? Why don’t you try to think more of others next time before you post? Can you give us a straight answer? At least be honest for once in your life and tell us why you were so inconsiderate?

I fully understand being taken aback at first, but I wouldn't give it any further thought. If you only see him two or three times a week, you don't have plans to commit or move in together, he is entitled to, and he deserves to keep some parts of his life his own. (and that does mean he needn't share this with you)

It sounds to me as if you are experiencing a bit of a jealous streak, or possessiveness. Perhaps that's an indication your feelings run much deeper than you're willing to admit to yourself. Best wishes to you both.

OP here again. What really has surprised me is that he has completely changed the way I feel about people who put themselves out there on the internet having sex and posting nude pics. I think it builds his confidence, it wouldn't do that for me, but for him I think it does. He is a really sweet guy, with a great laugh, and I enjoy our time together, so I am just going to let it be.

R67 you are so full of shit just like this post.

Oh my fucking god how long is this tawdry tale going to stretched out?

Until the prolapse, R69, until the prolapse...

Until the prolapse, R69, until the prolapse...

Echo, echo

OP here again. I agree with R69. I did not expect this to drag out as far as it did. I was really stunned when I learned about his Only Fans page and needed to vent. 3 days later, I don't really care what he does since it doesn't impact what I have going on with him. Thanks for some funny comments, and once again, I try to be as honest as possible when I post, even though there are always, always doubters out there. I am glad I have a more trusting sensibility because I believe most of the posts I read on DL, except for Joel and the neighbor's dog Mitzi fiction lol and anything to do with Vivian Vance.

[quote]I believe most of the posts I read on DL, except for Joel and the neighbor's dog Mitzi fiction lol and anything to do with Vivian Vance.

Bitch.

I'm even thinking of helping him out with a few scenes for his Fans Only page! What do you think?

Maybe I should start my own "FansOnly" page!

Is OnlyFans sole purpose sex? I’m very curious about it.

One of the dumbest threads here ever. And that’s saying something.

OP here again. I started this thread on the same day I learned about the OnlyFans site my friend with benefits set up. I was quite upset and needed to vent. Thankfully, there were a few constructive comments that came through, but the mostly bitchy and doubting Thomas comments made me laugh. I am seeing him again tomorrow, which will be the second time since I found out and plan to mention nothing. Things are pretty good with him and his dick is primo, big and thick, so I am good with him for the foreseeable future, no need to look for further, at least for me. I share him with many apparently and that is on me to accept, which so far has been fine.

Now you know he's on the "FansOnly" But does he know that you're on the spectrum?

The purpose of Onlyfans is to make money r77.

But yes the business model is you can advertise content that is too "adult" for Instagram. Not everyone has sex, some people only get naked, some people barely even get fully naked.

Of course there are is even price gouging potential in the business model. People pay for your page, but usually the "hotter" content people will disseminate though messages and charge sunscribees even more money for.

Wow, what an anticlimactic thread

R82 I know right! I think some of us were hoping for a crime of passion live streamed on Only Fans.

I hate you OP. I hate your fucking guts. I hope you rot in hell and maggots eat the flesh off your face. Got to hell OP. Fuck you.

Even though he plays for the fuckin Flyers, I'd let Claude Giroux hit it.

[quote]OP here, I wouldn't link without his ok, and he doesn't know I know, so for now, a hard NO.

How ‘bout a flaccid YES?

R40, you dumb cluck.

You HAVE finally figured out that your two ‘friends’ that came over to check on you and your then boyfriend were anything BUT friends, right?

They had his DVD and were jealous and destructive as fuck.