Have you traded sex for anything? What was it?

I was once out of work, and someone suggested I see this guy with a high end stereo firm. I made an appointment, went over, dropped of a resume, and the guy called me in for an interview. Brought me to a conference room, and after a few questions, unzipped my pants and started blowing me. I got pissed off, zipped up my pants, told him that he had made a mistake, and walked out of the place. The guy did look like a fat frog. In retrospect, maybe it wasn't the best thing to do. I kind of get a rush over the thought of being paid for sex or being in porn. Way too old to do it now, but still kind of a nice daydreaming idea.

Darlin~ humans have been trading sex for EVERYTHING since civilization began. Nothing new

Only my sanity. Fortunately, it was a temporary condition.

I AM NOT A PROSTATUTE!

Not directly but I flirted my ass off in my cute youth and never regretted it. And, on the rare occasion I took it a step further, I sure knew what I was doing. Why some of the MeToo cases make me crazy. Once you are in Hollywood for five minutes, you know what will happen when you go to that hotel room. Unless you are brain damaged.

R5-- What has Hollywood got to do with knowing what will happen when you go to hotel rooms? If you are going to someone's hotel room for a business meeting anywhere, you know what is going to happen

Yes,...a cookie

An Arby’s gift card

As a teenager in the local cruise park, I let old gays suck me for money. No regrets - just wish I hadn’t felt guilty about it.

Back when I was in high school, I was a pretty chubby kid. We had one guy in school, whose father I later found out ran a gay bar, who did a lot of escorting. He also started pimping out other guys in school, and I think he had quite a business built up. He once came up to me and told me that he had a couple of guys who liked to fuck fat teens, and would I be interested in making some money. I was extremely self conscious about being fat, and got really pissed off at him. In retrospect, I wish I had gone along with him. As I grew up I got pretty tall and lean, and guys would always want me to fuck them. Nothing wrong with that at all, as I love to fuck, but in the past few years I've been feeling that I've been missing something and want to get more into flipping. Seeing a lot of the nice masculine guys bottoming on port has really worked on my mind, and now, if someone propositions me for sex, I state up front that I would prefer flipping. Interestingly, a lot of them are younger guys who want to get fucked by daddy, but are uncomfortable with fucking an older guy! Back when I was coming out in the early seventies, it was all right to get your dick sucked, or to fuck a guy, or even suck a guy off if nobody was looking, but you never bottomed. It was hard getting away from that mindset, but I'm working on making up for lost time. Fantasize about bottoming for a group at times, but until such time I can find a way to do that safely, I'll hold off on that.

drugs

Money

Yes, My self-respect.

Once for some weed, but that was for me and a friend.

We were asked to fuck each other for someone else to watch in exchange for a couple of joints.

Oh and a few times for vacations or places to stay, but those don't count, right?

I don’t imagine datalounge posters were ever hot enough to get paid a lot for sex.

Fucked for promotions (gay male): female boss and male client. Worked both times.

Never ever ever!

I never actually touched him but I hypnotised a former boss by leading him on sexually, in order to get the necessary promotion to then apply to work at a branch in Vancouver. When he caught on that flirting was all he was going to get, he became very sad and I felt little bad.

Lots of bisexual sluts yet again on Datalounge!!

R16: You fucked men and women for promotions and claim you are "gay"? Narcissistic personality disordered bisexual slut alert!!! Blocked!!!

Fair trade!!

When I worked at the mall I let the janitor suck me off every morning in exchange for Krispicream doughnuts and Coke. I was broke at the time and that was my breakfast for almost a year. No I'm not fat, 6'2 and 155lbs.

No but I have fucked a few people out of boredom and to get them out of my life.

It's as old as civilization

Oh honey I, like some of you, was a Whore of Babylon. I can't remember a regret.

For food and shelter, yes. I have to admit I don't possess a lot of normal human skills that I could monetize, especially in my 20's. I've gotten better about it over the years, but I've been with a man for about 15 years only really because he was kind and offered me a decently cushy life. Don't get me wrong - I do love him, but I've never been truly sexually attracted to him, so our sex sessions felt more like appointments and I'd always pray he'd want to take me from behind so that I wouldn't have to fake my facial expressions. I didn't want to hurt his feelings.

I highly doubt I'm alone in this, but it makes me feel like a sexually frustrated 50's housewife, except I have access to internet porn to keep me semi-satisfied. Still, it beats what I was doing before I met him. Besides about 3 sexual partners who were wonderful, I've never much understood the hype around sex. I'd rather have someone who really loves me and wants to take care of me than someone who just wants to take me to their apartment and fuck me for 20 minutes and call it a night.

You heff to esk?

For $200. Only once. Many years ago. And I really needed the money. I'm glad I had the good sense to get the much needed funds when the opportunity arose.

For money, twice. Now that I’m old I wish I’d traded on my youthful hotness more often.

Another thread brought to you by the local Horny Retiree Brigade, in which being a whore is "smart" and a lack of ambition and a future is rewarded with a few hundred bucks and sour old man jizz.

As long as it’s not THE job and it’s a few extra bucks or a stopgap measure. It’s not a career - it’s an emergency fund.

Yes, I'd trade sex for anything.

I'm a whore, darlin'.

Oh, honey. Women have been doing it for years. You think all those housewives enjoy having sex once a year with their fat husbands?

Do you think there's a different standard for men if they enter a relationship for security like women do all the time? It seems more accepted for women, but men are supposed to be strong and take care of themselves.

When I worked in the ME, I traded jobs for sex. I was responsible for hiring for a small office and at one point all three of the people who worked there, all got their jobs because they presented hole

the ME? The Middle East?

Yes, R36

R35, we want more details.

Colonial Rapist!

What more details do you want R38? I was in a position to hire these people and only contacted candidates (it is custom to submit your picture with your job application there) that I found attractive and only hired the ones that put out. R39-- Among the people that I hired (about 9 during my time there) three were white brits and 1 was a white south african

You mean the middle eastern boys wouldn't present hole? Or you were in the middle east but didn't enjoy the local cuisine? Pity

R41-- If you know whats good for you in these places, you do not mess with locals. You only mess with expats.

Just curious, has anyone ever had a car salesman offer dick or ass to them in order to sell a car? I've noticed quite a few hot car salesman, and just wondering if this might be part of the program. Not in the market for a new car now, but you never know....

I worked as a lifeguard the summer between high school and college. Two guys who rented a house for the summer season asked me if I wanted to earn extra money by cleaning their pool on my off hours. I knew they were gay but played dumb and didn’t let on and let them think I was straight. After a couple visits to clean the pool one of them jokingly told me I should feel free to swim when I was there and that I didn’t need to wear a suit. I laughed and said “that costs extra”. We agreed on $20 more and off came my shorts. A further offer of $20 and he was on his knees sucking me off. I made extra money all summer and let them think they were turning me out. Good times and best summer job I had.

Almost. A meatball. Thank GOD for that cockroach.

R43-- I have done this with a realtor. Hot polish guy in his early 30's. I was introduced to him by a friend of his wife. About the 4th time I saw houses with him, I talked about my "experience" buying a house in a different country and how I bought from this guy who sucked me off as a thankyou. He was shocked by it but a few mins later while showing me the master bathroom he got on his knees...

It could have easily gone wrong and he could have refused to work with me but it was a chance I could afford to take

It was never agreed to up front or anything like that, plus I was a bit naive, but I had a few hot daddy types playing around with me in later HS years and college....and they started to give me "bus fare" which would end up being ridiculously generous.

I guess in those days they were always amazed by me. I liked daddies and could cum almost on cue like a fucking geyser, so I guess they wanted to be as generous as they could. I probably could have made more of it or gotten more money or things out of it, but I was naive and crushing on these guys hard.

Years ago, I needed a new DVD player because mine was on the fritz. I saw someone near me selling his for $20 on Craigslist.

I got to his place and we recognized each other from around town. And then he said, “how come we’ve never gotten together? Free now?”

I was and he fucked me. After we were done, he gave me his used DVD player for free!

Well, R48! There's a difference between being a whore and being a cheap whore. And you have shown us that difference.

Thank you for your educational post.

What a bargain, r48. All it cost you was your dignity.