Will I get used to "big" ones?
I met a fantastic guy--one I can easily see having a relationship with.
The only "problem" is he got a big (thick and long) cock.
I'm pretty new to bottoming (but not against giving it the old college go), but when we tried last weekend, it felt, well, really uncomfortable. He was so sweet and gentle, but I think he's used to more experienced bottoms who love large cocks.
I'm sure part of the problem was my anxiety from the second I saw it. I had no idea he was hiding that in there.
If I keep trying, will something suddenly click and I'll start to enjoy it?
I enjoyed every other part of sex with him and I'm so willing to do this for him if he needs it.
| by Anonymous | reply 16 | January 14, 2020 7:03 PM
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Nice humblebrag, OP.
My suggestion is to sit on an enormous dildo.
| by Anonymous | reply 1 | January 14, 2020 4:36 PM
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No one under 60 would say "willing it to give it the 'old college try' "..... I'm just sayin' ….
| by Anonymous | reply 2 | January 14, 2020 4:40 PM
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You sound great OP, and GGG. Keep at it, and let us know. I've often wondered if some of my partners have been sore afterwards... (I'm considered way above average too.) only one has admitted that, though I'm not rough, or too fast. After reading several DL threads, I've begun to wonder how common it is for bottoms to have lingering pain or discomfort.
| by Anonymous | reply 3 | January 14, 2020 4:44 PM
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For me, and I may not be typical, it was difficult when I first started to bottom. Even if the guy was average sized. It took some time, and more men, before I could really enjoy it. Maybe because I became more relaxed? I recently was with a guy who must have been at least 8" and had no problem, in fact it felt great. Looking back, perhaps I should have invested in a dildo. Guess that would be my advice.
| by Anonymous | reply 4 | January 14, 2020 4:51 PM
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GGG is slang from Savage Love, not DL.
| by Anonymous | reply 5 | January 14, 2020 4:51 PM
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[quote] The only "problem" is he got a big (thick and long) cock.
Uh, no, the only problem is your inability to speak the English language properly.
| by Anonymous | reply 6 | January 14, 2020 4:52 PM
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No, Rose. Sadly, there has never been a homo who was able to get used to huge cocks. Riding horse cock is a talent you're born with. Give it up. Break up with him now so you don't waste each other's time.
| by Anonymous | reply 7 | January 14, 2020 4:53 PM
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I"m not sure it's worth getting use to. When he leaves, it's all you'll crave...and huige cocks are pretty rare
| by Anonymous | reply 8 | January 14, 2020 5:06 PM
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Most of the pain and discomfort I've experienced is with smaller/thinner cocks. I hate the ones that jab at me.
Larger ones actually don't cause pain, for whatever reason
| by Anonymous | reply 9 | January 14, 2020 5:07 PM
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This reads like a painfully vanilla BILL TAYLOR.
| by Anonymous | reply 10 | January 14, 2020 5:08 PM
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Thanks for sharing R9. I also was wondering if it would be a deeply internal soreness, or near the outer anus. Never bottomed, so I sincerely appreciate the feedback.
| by Anonymous | reply 12 | January 14, 2020 5:20 PM
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You’ll get used to it, OP. I just smear a tablespoon of rendered bacon fat on my pucker and I’m good to go.
| by Anonymous | reply 13 | January 14, 2020 5:29 PM
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Remember these old queens are so busted open nothing but a telephone pole will suffice. I suggest alcohol, poppers and weed, works for me.
| by Anonymous | reply 14 | January 14, 2020 6:17 PM
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lots and lots of lube and poppers definitely work. So does meth
| by Anonymous | reply 15 | January 14, 2020 6:23 PM
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I’ve always liked the idea of bottoming more than the reality. I don’t have the patience to keep trying.
| by Anonymous | reply 16 | January 14, 2020 7:03 PM
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